What’s Your Sexual Intelligence?
by Find out how to measure and improve your sexual intelligence and become sex savvy.
In our culture, some of the most rancid topics related to sex is that “men think with their penis” and that “women do not enjoy sex” and that “men who have sex are dirty” and that “women with an active and satisfying sex life is a taboo.” Here are some examples of well-known cliches that logically could create great confusion in many concerning their sexuality.
Because of the cultural baggage with the vast majority, a fundamental aspect in sexual intelligence is the ability to identify messages that are received and produce conflict. If the conflict persists, these ideas remain valid in the minds of each and it is necessary to identify them. Thus, it is easier to observe their irrationality. Remember that quite a message repeated in our culture is that sex is wrong and dirty. Sexual intelligence helps to understand that many of such messages are meaningless and unhappy to make the person who accepts, consciously or unconsciously.
Other important aspects of intelligence and sex are closely related are the creativity and the ability to enjoy. It is clear that for that creativity can be expressed also in the sex has to be present at daily life. A creative person is flexible, positive and able to innovate. Its flexibility allows you to explore new opportunities and move closer to other positions. Also it provides empathy with your partner and puts you in place. Your ability to negotiate is about power.
The ability to enjoy its most exalted has a strong emotional component. Intelligence promotes sexual maturity in the emotional-erotic exchanges. The person is in touch with his emotions and eroticism. His emotional capacity is healthy and mature, allowing you to live a more fully their sexuality. Also, his attitude helps couples relax their usual barriers and also showing a healthy erotic-emotional behavior.
A special feature of intelligence is that transforms into a privileged communication for the couple. Obviously, we have chosen only a few points that may be related to sexual intelligence. However, by definition, everyone can create their own version and has cultivated the sexual characteristics of intelligence that need.
What do others believe to be erotic? Think you can develop sexual intelligence? What do you feel is your intelligence in sex? What you need to improve on?
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