Who Enjoys Sex More? Men or Women?

When it comes to sex, if you’ve read any of my previous pieces, you know by now that, to me anyway, I don’t consider it to be an activity that is reserved only for two people who “love” each other or something that only belongs within the confines of marriage.  In fact, I’m not sure why they term it as the “institution of marriage,” but having been married for twelve years and later getting divorced, I can tell you that anyone who enters into a marriage should be institutionalized.

To anyone out there who might believe that sex is just not that important, then watch some of the commercials on TV.  Prolonging erections, penis enhancement, and products to enhance a woman’s sexual experience must all be figments of the marketing agency’s imagination and they haven’t conducted any surveys to see if there’s a market for their products…right?  Wrong.  Let’s not forget the condom commercials.  In those commercials they should use the same tagline as the alcohol commercials where at the end they say, “Please drink responsibly,” Trojan, Viagra, Extenze, and KY should also add, “Please have sex responsibly.”

The question then becomes, “Which gender places more emphasis on sex?”

The answer lies behind the doors of your local adult novelty store.

In case you might be thinking that such establishments are just for men, which may have been the case decades ago or maybe back then as a woman you had to be hush hush about your interest in it, in today’s contemporary society I believe the interest in products to enhance sexual pleasure is split right down the middle. 

When you walk through the doors of any given adult store, the first thing that grabs your attention are the walls filled with battery-operated sex accessories for women.  From the very small that you can attach to your keychain to the very large that resemble a Louisville Slugger.  In fact, my observation has been about 3 to 1 compared to what’s available for men.  One of the more unique products is a mold kit where you can create a women’s ”helper” from your own penis.