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Why Do Men Always Think About Sex?

People say that a man thinks about sex every 53 seconds; there are even theories that state that there are only three single seconds between each erotic fantasy of a man. A more realistic theory states that there are roughly 80 times per day where a man thinks about sex. What do YOU think?

People say that a man thinks about sex every 53 seconds; there are even theories that state that there are only 3 single seconds between each erotic fantasy of a man. A more realistic theory states that there are roughly 80 times per day where a man thinks about sex.

Of course this differs from man to man; the fact is that we deal with an extensive phenomenon. The phenomenon of men that think too much about sex and having erotic fantasies, we can’t deny that.

When a man meets a pretty girl and has a little chat with her, he is already thinking how to get her in bed, or trying to imagine how she would be in bed. He sees an advertisement about brassieres and he starts to fantasize about sex. He got introduced to a new, beautiful female colleague, he is turning his computer on, and… he thinks about sex! This is going on all day, day after days, it seems a little bit exhausting to us you would say.

Experts, sexologists, anthropologists, psychologists and sociologists have confirmed that the urge of having sexual fantasies, is partly caused by the genetic inheritance of a man.  Because this phenomenon is rather long-winded, they have done a lot of research on this topic. So what can they conclude? Well, they discovered that the theme of ‘Men, fantasy and sex’ is instigated by several causes. These people who have put a lot of time into researching, have established numerous theories, some of them come to an agreement, some not and some are even too bizarre for words. But still, it is interesting.


Genetic Inherited

Having sexual fantasies constantly is a characteristic which is genetic inherited in the DNA of a man but not so much in a woman’s DNA. A person that has these genes cannot resist the urge of fantasizing.

Social, Cultural and Religious Factors

It is not true that men think more often about sex than woman. Social, cultural and religious factors are usually the factors that give men more freedom than women. Furthermore, it is rather easy to talk about sex for males than females while the amount of having erotic fantasies in women should be the same as men. 

Reproduction

It all deals with the fact of reproduction. The man is following his instincts, in order to survive in this world, you need to reproduce, as it is stated by Darwin. So to be efficient, the man will fantasize about sex when he meets a potential woman. (Of course there is a limit to the definition of potential partner)

Sensitive for Stimuli

The male psyche is very sensitive for certain visual stimuli and when they deceive these stimuli, they will act instinctively. Some stimuli include the breasts of a woman, the beautiful legs, attractive eyes etc. Since we live in a world with many beautiful females, the males are constantly stimulated by these stimuli and therefore fantasizing about sex.

Outlet

Erotic fantasies function as an outlet for males because their rate of sexual drive would be too high if there wasn’t an outlet. The main function of this outlet is to allow these males to participate in a correct, social and civil way in our society without causing too much troubles for females.

And so there are many more theories about why men think about sex constantly. It is just what you want to believe, just like that women shop as much as men think about sex. And most of us tend to believe that.

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  1. You are a misandrist

    On March 24, 2009 at 9:24 pm


    Learn to speak English, research what you are saying and then think about how ridiculous it is to say that an act that requires two parties is thought about by one more than another.

  2. Halonaloka Hi'ikamakani

    On March 30, 2009 at 12:06 am


    Sex drive is like a complex wave having many contributing factors, e.g. age, health, application of focus…etc. And depending on the external & internal stimulae the constant battle for attention with other waves it is indisputably the constant victor amongst men, set by nature, and if I may, by God, to promulgate the species as “drives” of procreation are inherent to the organic class. Henceforth it may be agreed that it cannot be victorious in asexual men due to a quirk in chemistry. Nor can it be in a brain surgeon whilst performing delicate & intricate surgery. Nor champion athletes in the heights of competition. Etc. Yet, this wave is latent powerful and can cause havoc if not given proper tender. However, fortunately for the likes of the majority of heterosexual and homosexual males the phallus rules supreme and inundates us. It is apparent and very evident amongst all cultures, there are no exceptions. So go forth and multiply as the Force “is” with you…

  3. Halonaloka Hi'ikamakani, (revised)

    On March 30, 2009 at 12:32 am


    Sex drive is like a complex wave having many contributing factors, e.g. age, health, application of focus…etc. And depending on the external & internal stimulae the constant battle for attention with other waves it is indisputably the constant victor amongst men, set by nature, and if I may, by God, to promulgate the species as “drives” of procreation that are inherent to the organic class. Henceforth it may be agreed that it cannot be most victorious in asexual men due to a quirk in chemistry. Nor can it be in a brain surgeon whilst performing delicate & intricate surgery. Nor champion athletes in the heights of competition. Nor also a manic depressive in his final moments of a self-inflicted mortal wound known as “suicide”. Etc. Yet, this wave is latent powerful and can cause havoc if not given proper tender as seen in prisons where no female contact is allowed. Here often the dividing line of hetero-vs-homo has been at times obscured when the sex “wave” finds no female partner to release it’s energies. It is surprising how many “straight” incarcerated men have transgressed this great divide of whom some permanently so. However, provided there are no aberrations to the situation, fortunately for the likes of the majority of heterosexual and homosexual males, the phallus rules supreme and inundates us. It is apparent and very evidently so amongst all cultures, there are no exceptions here on Earth. So go forth and multiply as the Force “is” with you…

  4. Abhichoco

    On April 4, 2009 at 11:41 pm


    hey!!!!where do u get all those HOT pics!?!?!…
    anyways a well written article…
    please read and comment on my article too…
    thanks…

  5. LOVELYHONEY

    On June 13, 2009 at 11:39 pm


    The man’s penis,
    Is always external,
    And on the hoist.
    Whether a man has sex or not,
    Testosterone is constantly being produced,
    So it needs to be evacuated,
    Regularly,
    Either manually or sexually.

    Man has much less to contribute,
    Except his sperm,
    Without which,
    Man cannot take evolution further.

    Girls must understand,
    That sex is on mans’ mind,
    ALL the time.

    Be it in sleep,
    Or when he is alive,
    A moment before death,
    Would still love to,
    In a woman’s inside dive.

    He is so engineered,
    That by no means is weird.

  6. amy

    On April 27, 2012 at 3:28 pm


    I’ve been married 45 years and my husband could care less about sex,love,me. We only had sex once in all those years and
    to this day enjoys his life. As for my life he could care less, because in his mind I don’t exist.

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