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Why Women Fake Orgasms

Women fake orgasms. There is no doubt about it. There are many reasons for this; she is tired, she is not in the mood, she doesn’t want to miss her favorite TV show. No matter the reason, women fake orgasms and they are good in it. And if you think that there is no way for you not to know about this happening in your bedroom, just remember Sally (Meg Ryan), from the 1989 movie “When Harry Met Sally”, who fakes an orgasm at a diner, to show Harry (Billy Cristal) that it can be done. Quite impressive, isn’t it?

Men usually don’t know when a woman is faking it. On the other hand, some researches show that over 70 percent of all the women have faked it at least once in their life. So, why do they do it?

  • Because of you. Women usually see a fake orgasm as a present for their partner. „If he can’t tell the difference and it sure makes him happy, why I shouldn’t be doing it?“ This is the common answer. Well, it’s common as long as they care for their partner. So this kind of justifies it.
  • She’s not turned on. And why should we have sex in a first place if both of us are not going to enjoy it? She’s not turned on enough by you; you don’t realize it and she’s going to fake orgasm. Why? She’s not enjoying it and once you hear her scream, you know it’s your turn. Once you finish it, you are happy because you think you did things right and she is happy because she can back to whatever she was doing before you even started it.
  • She’s stressed out. So is there a way to support her? Once you start asking these kinds of questions, you are one step closer to disaster. Off course that there is a way to support her, but once she tells you that she is feeling better don’t think that she wants to have sex. So it’s like this; you tried to help her out, you failed. But on the other hand she told you that you did help her out, and now she must show you just how much she appreciates it. So she’ll say “Yes” to sex. And yes, she’ll fake orgasm, just to show you how great you are.
  • She’s tired. Men don’t like to have sex when they are tired. Women don’t like to have sex when they are tired. It’s not so hard to remember.
  • Not knowing her body very well. It’s still kind of a taboo talking about it, but there are many women who don’t know what orgasm feels like. They’ll fake it just because it’s much easier than to change their perception of sexuality.  
  • Communication. Communication means to make common, to share. You are not communicating only through words but through postures, eye contact, and gestures as well. So once you are having sex she wants to make sure that you two have the same idea in mind and the same understanding of it. The easiest way for her to do it is to fake orgasm, i.e. unless you are so good every time that she has no need for faking (which is not likely).

And if you still can’t believe that women can fake orgasm at anytime, anywhere, take a look at this video;

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  1. PhoenixRox

    On July 15, 2009 at 6:46 am


    Good one Brandon! I hope you always keep this in mind. I love this scene in ‘When Harry met Sally’..LOL.

  2. HelloSiti

    On July 15, 2009 at 6:58 am


    Video, huh?

  3. Isha

    On July 15, 2009 at 7:35 am


    As a woman, I rather not fake it. But, the reason you give is justifiable. We do feel this way- but honesty is always best- Okay that sounds dump! Fake it girls!Lol

  4. LOVELYHONEY

    On July 15, 2009 at 11:28 am


    ONLY disinterest and lack of interest
    love,
    with ur experiences
    and journalistic aptitude
    none can beat u
    at this sexy work
    too good
    men can openly ejaculate

    so they cannot fake

    and that does women orgsm fake
    when they quickly ejaculate

    so FOREPLAY TILL ORGASM IS AT PLAY

    AND then u know what it does to do

    to help women not it
    orgasm FAKE

    ur sex do not

    just for ur own ejaculate
    stake

  5. Ruby Hawk

    On July 15, 2009 at 5:28 pm


    My friend, you are mostly right, she could be any of the things you say or maybe the man just doesn’t know how to please. Faking is self defeating but sometimes it’s easier.

  6. FAQ

    On July 16, 2009 at 6:00 am


    If she feel better that way than telling truth she is welcome.
    I don’t care if she is faking.

  7. lisa

    On July 23, 2009 at 3:48 pm


    Because of you. Women usually see a fake orgasm as a present for their partner. „If he can’t tell the difference and it sure makes him happy, why I shouldn’t be doing it – mainly this is reason

  8. alvinwriter

    On December 28, 2010 at 8:31 am


    It really shouldn’t be an issue. Good article.

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