Would You Do It?

     If you wish to apply your teeth, it should be done with great care. The clitoris is extremely sensitive, especially upon arousal. Clitoral stimulation is frequently the primary focus of cunnilingus, but with some patience, effective stimulation of the labia and the vagina itself can bring a great deal of arousal as well. These areas are not as sensitive as the clitoris but can prove to be exceptional sources of pleasure.

     Technique for anallingus is much like the technique used for cunnilingis. Use of a dental dam or some other non-porus film to block the accidental transmission of bacteria between the anus and the mouth is quite important. It is important that with any form of anal stimulation to make sure that your partner is relaxed and receptive. Do not force any form of anal penetration, even if it is with something as fleshy as your tongue, because this can cause great discomfort if not intense pain. Of all the forms of oral sex, analingus requires the most patience.

Oral Sex and Your Relationship

     Having more than one form of sexual intimacy available to you means there is actually less pressure on you to ‘perform’ and make each time you are sexually intimate with your partner better then the last. It allows for you both to choose what you desire according to your moods and how much effort you wish to expend. Oral sex is a relatively easy and low effort sexual activity that can be well suited to when the amount of sexual desire is higher in one partner then in the other.

     Oral sex can also be a remarkable way of expressing tenderness and affection in an extremely intimate way with your lover. Engaging in sexual activity with another person is an expression of a great deal of trust in them as well. With oral sex, this is a very intense expression of this trust because of the high degree of vulnerability that accompanies this particular form of sexual activity.

     All relationships can deepen and become more fulfilling with healthy expressions of intimacy and trust. Generously offering to pleasure your partner in a relatively effortless fashion also can help to build a sense of being valued by you. Making sure that your sexual activity is always conducted in a respectful and loving fashion, sex is simply another way for you to bond and take delight in each other. Oral sex happens to be one of the easiest methods because it requires little in the way of physical exertion and is incredibly simple to do.