Communication

   Stop assuming someone is saying something between the lines; if you think they are ask them point blank and be specific with your question when confronting them. Many people mistakenly believe others are saying something totally different or off of the wall because they are assuming things between the lines that aren’t being said. Those people are literally putting words into people’s mouths that were never spoken. Also listen carefully when those people speak because that usually is what they do quite often; because they do it they assume everyone else does it too.

   There is a right approach and a wrong approach to dealing with people. If you come off sarcastic; a know it all; unbending, unyielding and as someone who is never wrong don’t be surprised if you have very little interaction with others. You don’t know everything and no one is always correct in everything in life or in this world. Even as I write these guidelines I realize there are variances in personalities. These variances are choices every individual must decide upon for themselves as to what they will and will not allow in their personal lives.

   That is the beauty of living in America and the FREEDOM of living in America. We have the right of choice and it is wrong for anyone to take that freedom away for any reason from anyone here in America. I can now love and communicate that love to all mankind and respect their choices without having to be a part of their choice only because I am secure in myself and my choices in life now.

   A quick note about body language; more often then not the wrong signals are being sent out through your body language. If you approach your partner for a kiss or a hug and that person shies away what are you suppose to think? If you go to kiss or hug your partner and he/she looks at you with anger; hate; disgust or any other number of discouraging looks, what are you thinking?

   Your partner may well have other things on their mind but the body language says “leave me the hell alone” in a very hurtful way. While body language does speak louder then words, if you confront your partner verbally about it and they either say nothing; ignore you or blow it off with some off handed remark or mumble their answer so you don’t understand it I would seriously reconsider the relationship and be watchful; chances are your partner is already restless and looking for other relationship interests. Many of these types of individuals never bother to discuss their problems or thoughts and more often then not you may wake up one morning or come home from work one day and find them gone. They will have taken only what they want and or can carry with them leaving you a big mess to clean up in the end.

   Be wary of these types of people. They are quite secretive about everything and for little to no reason except you may find out in the end they lied about a lot of things they’d told you. You could easily loose your heart to these people and end up with emotional hurt in the end. Rest assured they will lie to others about you and the relationship between you to obtain money, a new conquest, make people do things for them out of pity or sorrow and play on others good will and emotions; often times leaving you in emotional turmoil and distress. If you find out their plans they will make promises to you they never intend to keep and accuse you of a great deal of things designed to deliberately hurt you once they are gone which only serves to add anger to the deep hurt they already caused you.

   These kinds of people never view anything as their fault. As far as these people are concerned everyone else is to blame and are the lyres, when in reality these people really don’t have a clue as to what they really do want; they blindly keep searching because they are never satisfied for long periods of time. I would not want their Karma.