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Answers that seem obvious to us appear that way because of our perspective – everything we know about the subject and everything we have experienced. When we communicate our ideas, though, we need to consider not just what makes sense to us but what would make sense if we looked at the situation with a completely different background.

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Answers that seem obvious to us appear that way because of our perspective—everything we know about the subject and everything we have experienced. When we communicate our ideas, though, we need to consider not just what makes sense to us but what would make sense if we looked at the situation with a completely different background.

A presentation is the best expression of your ideas, not to an audience consisting of you, but to an audience that has never seen the world through your eyes.

Rettew Associates, an engineering firm in New York and Pennsylvania, surveys and plans parks, roadways, and developments.

In little more than a decade it has grown from a four-person operation to a company generating ten million dollars a year out of five separate divisions.

Founder George Rettew credits much of its success to bringing together different services under one roof. “If we can be the only firm a client has to deal with on a project, it makes life a little easier on them.”

Combining services is not without difficulty, though, since, as George notes, “geologists and engineers speak a different language and think differently.” To overcome those problems, both for the sake of his clients and to keep his different divisions functioning well, George puts great emphasis on communication. “We need to step back and listen to each other because there is a lot we can teach each other if we do this right.”

A study of consultants showed that 82 percent found studying an organization’s founding and long-term culture critical to improving their ability to successfully communicate innovations.

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  2. Collette Edwards

    On August 26, 2009 at 12:43 am


    Good artical. very informative, :)

  3. CA Johnson

    On August 26, 2009 at 8:29 pm


    Very interesting article, Rex! I agree that we should all take the time to listen to one another because we can learn much more that way. Communication is a give and take thing. We should share things and be willing to listen to others too.

  4. Leonardo da Vinci E.

    On August 27, 2009 at 3:13 pm


    Communication is changing the world.

  5. helen cater

    On August 28, 2009 at 4:44 am


    Love your work look forward to more.

  6. fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa

    On August 29, 2009 at 12:18 am


    Sometimes I find talking to myself, out loud ( in private) helps me to answer or find solutions to my situations.
    Great article none the less.
    Awedsom

  7. ducroisjosef

    On August 29, 2009 at 4:48 pm


    Great article. Relating and understanding perspective in communication is invaluable in business relationships. The real trick is translating that into intimate relationships.

  8. Shamanz

    On September 1, 2009 at 5:07 am


    I like how you took different angles to present this information in your article. Very well done!

    Thank you for sharing.

  9. David Roy

    On September 1, 2009 at 10:36 am


    Very good article! Worth reading.

  10. gangu786

    On September 6, 2009 at 11:32 am


    really worth reading. thanks for share. communication is the key of any aspect of this world

  11. SharifaMcFarlane

    On January 2, 2010 at 8:04 am


    The title caught me. It’s true. There are so many different angles from which a problem may be viewed and we can develop better solutions by listening to others.

  12. T. S. Lewis

    On January 2, 2010 at 11:04 am


    Nice job. Communication plays a big role in our success

  13. 8Shei8

    On January 3, 2010 at 1:31 pm


    I agree with T.S. Lewis. Communication is the main key ingredient. Good write.

  14. James DeVere

    On January 7, 2010 at 11:35 pm


    The introduction was repeated in the first paragraph concluding with a by-line for a company . The subject leads you in and reminiscent of Anais Nin’s famous adage, “We see the world as we see it,” you sure convinced me of your point using that company as the ideal example.

    That’s why I didn’t mind the repetiton and the plug .

    Thank-you . j

  15. qasimdharamsy

    On January 9, 2010 at 1:40 am


    Great Article…nice work….

  16. parsi

    On April 7, 2010 at 9:21 am


    nice work.

  17. C LEBLANC

    On November 16, 2010 at 1:57 am


    Great article. It was interesting and well written.

  18. Suppee XX

    On December 16, 2010 at 7:48 pm


    Opens up many areas of debate and comminucation. Only if we did use different perspectives. Stepping out of the situation sometimes does help to fix a chnage in whatever behaviours will enhance the whole communication thing. … Real achievemnt for commerce to work in this way- and well written about. I touched on the personal in http://socyberty.com/lifestyle-choices/look-at-it-from-my-point-of-viewand-mine-and-mine/

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