Comments on: Adult Bullies and Social Boundaries

By: LaughsToHeal.com

LaughsToHeal.com — Sat, 03 Sep 2011 12:39:24 +0000

This is a very modern issue that we as a society really need to address. We have seen too many lives hurt because of bullying and I’m glad to see that we are working at ways of eliminating the menacing factor from our lives. Thank you for writing about this crucial topic! Well done!

By: New World Order

New World Order — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 21:01:17 +0000

It is individuals that can make the difference to the way people currently act or treat people. I loved what you said about the natural pecking order because i too see that when people are together they will say and act in a way that they would admit in public. Just look how people are treated if they dare suggest that the news is wrong or that the Government carries out atrocities, people are programed to not listen, but some people see past it and you are one of those people.

By: ladybaby

ladybaby — Sun, 10 May 2009 15:55:21 +0000

I was a very skinny child who was always bullied in school also. It hurt my feelings and I went home crying many times. I would try to eat all I could to put on weight, but no matter what I ate, I stayed skinny. Then when I turned 42 years old, suddenly without understanding why;, I started to gain weight. and it was not because I was eating more. I went up to 150 and all my friends
started to say “Dam Sam, You sure got fat” You can’t win for trying. There will always be INSENSITIVE people who have to make negative remarks to hurt others feelings. I consider it IMMATURITY.

By: Jo Oliver

Jo Oliver — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 20:54:08 +0000

Again, I agree 100%. I am average sized 160lbs and over 5′10″, but I do make a point to not make fun of those thin or heavy.

Of course, I would try and help those that are obviously very under or over weight, but that should never involve hurting someones’ feelings.

By: PR Mace

PR Mace — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 22:07:53 +0000

Good article. It is sad when adults have to be bullies.

By: Resounding Glass

Resounding Glass — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 18:39:41 +0000

Another great thought provoking article.

Thanks,

-Resounding Glass

By: Darla Smith

Darla Smith — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 15:47:01 +0000

I know what it like to be told that I need to put meat on my bones. I get that a lot because I’m real skinny too. It does get annoying after a while. I’ve always been on the skinny side, but people just can’t seem to understand that I can’t gain a lot of weight no matter how much I eat.

By: Dee Gold

Dee Gold — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 15:41:26 +0000

The last part should serve as a reminder.
Maybe if we want our kids not to bully others, we as adults should learn not to be bullies.

By: nobert soloria bermosa

nobert soloria bermosa — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:12:38 +0000

kids learn from what they see and hear,so adults must be role models,thanks