This is not directed to females directly but men are known to do this as well, checking the spouses cell when your asleep shame on you, as well as the man who is getting those calls that he says he has no idea who is calling him so he is not answering the phone. This is an on going problem with relationships all over the world. But never the less we all have seen this we also have seen when your in a relationship your girl will not let you touch her cell phone, she looks at you like your Jesus rising from the dead when you say hey my phone is dead can I use yours. She gets a wicked look on her face and hands you her cell phone. This is not cool at all seems like its time to start looking at the front of the door. Make plans to get ready to move on, people are as good as there options when you hear a story you only hear one side that’s the person you know or someone you just happen to start speaking with on the street or at a bus stop.

This can be a very bad situation but you have to look at this like a learning experience, if your really considering dealing with someone who does not trust you, this can become a big problem. I am experienced with dealing with  females with issues and where I am from I would say 50% of the females here are cell phone checkers. Like the FBI looking and screening your phone makes you wonder whats in her backyard, or as Capital One says whats in your wallet. This is a headache to deal with makes a man no even want a cell phone. If you are ahead of the game you might want to have a open discussion about this matter and bring it to the table and just tell her upfront if she really loves you of really cares for you she will stick around. Its better then her finding out by someone else. How can person deal with someone like this if someone does not think when your going to work that they have to call you constantly and have to know your every move, this is a problem and we all know someone who is dealing with someone like this or someone you know knows a female or male that is going through this matter.

For the most part if you are going to do anything must tell them your not feeling to good about this matter and you want a break, sounds like a bad idea but its not it gives you time to clear your head and not worry about this deamon seed who has a negative outlook on life. Its better for you and if there are kids in the house. Aruging in front of kids and saying nasty things in front of the children this is not cool. When someone can not take the time to pull you aside and say lets talk about this out side or in the basement, there is a time for everything and somethings are not to get interviewed in front of the children this is a big problem with relationships. People do not know how to shut up and wait for the right time to talk, its a control feature they have they want attention and you never know what someone will do to get attention they are as dangerous as a Iraqi with those book bag bombs the reason I say this because they might go to extreme measures to get there point across.

You think you know whats on someones mind but you are not a mind reader, the best thing is to move on with your life, if you can not say what someone will and won’t do before you or you have to wonder what they are doing and you have no faith to what extreme they will go to your in a situation you need to rethink and there is nothing wrong with making a mistake like this it happens to all of us no one is beyond making a mistake. God did not make us perfect nor did our mothers and fathers we are just like everyone else. I see the news and I see stars getting arrested, I see O.J. Simpson a few years ago he was running through the airport and now he is getting sentenced to jail. Why ask yourself this because he was dealing with people he should have left alone and got caught in the thick of the mind set of thinking he was never going to be caught up, this attitude and frame of thinking that we are always getting away with what we are doing it comes back to haunt you in one way or another, now back to the main subject of the article cell phone checkers are not secure at all they are thinkers, and they want to know your every move this will not make someone love you more this will make them despise your actions and they will rebel against you.

Anyone with a situation like this I am not saying all of you are in some serious danger but you need to really think hard about what type person your dealing with get your life together and do not make someone run your life. Be yourself do not change and become someones puppet. This is a headache and a disaster waiting to happen its advice take it or just read this and do not pay much attention, I am writing for a reason, there are a lot of people dealing with a matter such as this one, some of them are in harms way and do not think so and some are really on the chopping block because they are not the type of person to really take time to think things over, these are life challenges that we all go through. If you are looking for more information have a talk with the person your having the problem with its the way to deal with this matter, because no one else needs to see your life as a open book.