Four Control Dramas

So many angles and aspects we need to cover. Yet when we observe them closely. It all boils down to one fundamental thing, ourselves. If we are aware of where we are being led to, we can veer away from them. Here are some basic tips (open to arguments) how to deal with them:

Intimidators

It’s so hard not to get affected by these types of people. But if we come in with a better understanding of how and why they became what they are, we will realize that just as we are cowed and scared right this very moment, in their own different world, there is something out there that’s scaring the hell out of them as well. If we can remain calm and unperturbed during their 1st onslaught, chances are we can come out psychologically unharmed and intact.

Interrogator

The 1st thing we have to put in mind is that “We can never please everyone.” In everything we do, there will always be unpleasant things we are going to hear. If we allow every single one of them to get-into-our-system, we are simply going to make our life one miserable mess. Just be yourself, go out and do your best in everything. Live with the notion that you’ve already given 100%, then simply “Let-go and let-God”. You’ll be amazed how things will be just fine.

Aloof

As long as we are doing the right thing, there’s really nothing to fear about these types of people. Let’s just mind our business and don’t be too conscious of others. If they are the naturally quiet types, then no-problem, but if they are using this approach to lure you into their den, then simply distance yourself from them and just mind your own business. Leave them be if need be.

Poor Me

The word here is “We need not justify/explain things all the time.” If we are being blessed in some ways and they started using that their “poor-me” approach, then acknowledge it with a wholehearted “Thank you”. Unless you have something to do with what and where he is right now you need not feel guilty at all. Chances are he is either screwing his own life or he is simply a person who never-cease-to-be-contented, or maybe he just needs a sympathetic ear. For all we know, he might be doing better off than us. It’s just that he is unmindful of his already full-of-blessing life. If you can walk away without feeling guilty about his/her state then you’ve already won half of the psyche war. Remember one important thing: You are not responsible for all that’s happening to everyone’s life.

So when we get to encounter these guys which for sure we will continue to do so and in some ways they sapped us out…What do we do? In the book, they have only one advise: Replenish your lost energy from the “Greatest of them all”. Others call it the “UNIVERSE”, there are still other terms, “The Source”, “The Supreme Being”, “Higher Intelligence” and many other names. But in one 3-letter word I’ll share them with you, GOD. When you’re down, sapped out and depleted you can simply recharge from God by praying. Believe me, answers can be really, really simple if we only have faith.