Haters, Biters, Hypees, Bullies, Posers, and More

You know, I just think its annoying to have somebody hating on everything you do or following you everywhere you go.  Don’t you?  Like, theres that one person you know that wants something to do with you, whether it be positive or negative.  Having somebody hating or copying everything you do is annoying and I’m going to help you deal with these kinds of people. 

Haters – The Jealous Ones

At my school, for some reason, I have a lot of haters.  I didn’t know why, ’cause I didn’t do anything to provoke them or anything.  So it feels kind of odd to have people hating on you for a reason you don’t know why.  Then one of my friends told me that he was jealous, but didn’t exactly want to show it.  I could understand why he wouldn’t want to show it.  Jealousy is an ugly thing.  But showing it in a form of aggression is an even uglier thing.  So I don’t understand why people choose to show it like that instead of just getting over it.  Its what I would do, but maybe I don’t know what I’m talking about.  But I do have haters and this is kind of what they act like.  You walk by and they have to say something bad to you.  And its always in front of friends.  So I guess its a show-offy kind of thing to.  My advice on how to deal with them is take everything they say to you as a complement, and eventually they will stop bothering you.  Its worked for me and other people I know.  So give it a shot.

Biters – The Insecure Ones

Okay this time, I actually know what I’m talking about.  For I used to be a biter myself.  Never knew what people were talking about, what they were doing, I just followed along and acted like I knew what I was doing.  Biters are very insecure about what they keep inside, away from the light.  They don’t know what to do, so they go to someone who they think is “cooler” than them, and copy what they have.  Its a common thing on Myspace.  It turns that person into something totally not them, and it gives the world another copy of a person.  Have to follow you to wherever, have to do whatever you do, and etcetera and etcetera.  You get the point.  What I’ve done with a biter is just ignore them for awhile, and eventually, they leave you alone.  Works?  Yes.  Unbelievable?  Probably.