Instigated Demands

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We control a percentage of what is required of us, daily tasks and the associated rigmarole of just getting by, doing what is necessary to survive this relentless  world. From people we work with family & friends and companies that provide to us we have instigated most of these demands on ourselves some we just pick up along the way which surprises us when we least expect these demands come in many different forms, and our responsibilities and attitudes differ accordingly on the presented tasks in hand; but do we actually sit back and realise what demands we put on others, or do we just ride the wave so to speak “it’s a thought” and one that requires a respectable amount of attention from ourselves. Creating burdens on others can affect people in many ways, sadness is one that I really want to point out because it is one of those feelings that hurts, complicates for an emotional rollercoaster’s that can do a hell of a lot of damage and even turn out very problematical for the individuals concerned and then from this “like branches on a tree” stems into a greater uncontrollable issue’s. This is why we should be very careful for what demands we instigate and burden others; with the repercussions of ignoring this fact is most certainly losing those that are close to us and even getting into serious trouble of which I ‘m sure no one really wants nor have it on their conscience to live with. We are human and yes we make many mistakes but just for that moment of thought and then acting I think it is most certainly worth the effort to consider the consequences of our actions. To ignore the fact can be fatal, but lightening the subject sometimes it can go the other way and if planned or not you can have some very amusing times…

Demands are made on us and we make them on others around us, but we do forget just a few points that are important, were not perfect and we have bad days how do we know what is going on in someone else’s life, the truth is we don’t unless we are told and even then we only know a little, so when you pick up the phone and shout all almighty hell “thinking that you will get your point across” how about just before you call think what sort of day that person is having at the other end, nine times out of ten that person has not done you wrong it might have been someone else, but it does not stop their either “people that we meet” its impressions that count and these impressions state demands, this is why we have to consider others, how do you know what you say to them won’t have an adverse effect how do you know that to them that meeting or that call and our instigated demands could be the last straw for them..

They could have lost someone close to them had the worst week of their lives home repossessed or a huge burden of issues others have created that just instil a depression and very sour mind state. We should work on our approach to any situation presented to us and analyse it properly for we may avoid others being hurt or creating adverse affects.