Loving a Hindu Woman From a Village

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Sex is a word that is part of the Hindu religion. The theory of tantra advocates a path to God through sex and yet the fact remains that a majority of Hindu women are not that aggressive in sex or in bed. This dichotomy is hard to explain with many temples abounding with lovely statues of Gods and Goddesses in a lovers embrace. The temples  at khujaraho are a case in point. Out of the original 84 temples about 22 are restored and available for the tourist and they have excellent carvings of the God Shiva and his consort Shakti in the ultimate embrace of regeneration.

However a Hindu girl especially in the rural areas is brought up in a strict code of conduct that insures that 90% of these girls are virgins. Thus when you love a Hindu girl you must keep in mind that this would be her first occasion for sex and as such in all probability she would be a virgin and that will add  to the weight of the man, who must win her over.

Keep in mind that the ancient art of wooing must come to the fore. Talk and talk and listen to her till the ice is broken. Talk to her about  the scriptures and the stories of Rama and his love Sita and the loves of Lord krishna.  These tales are sure to thaw the girl. follow up with soft words of endearment and make it a point not to rush into anything. Let the act flow like the Ganga, slow and steady. Think of the Gods and tell her that  what is to happen is sanctified by religion.

Before this it is best to let some incense sticks burn in the room and I will recommend playing a tape or CD of the sacred hymns. These can have an elevating effect and can set the mood for the next step. The rule of the game is to be slow and take the girl along with you. In case you have played your cards in the right manner there is every chance that the occasion will be memorable for you and also the Hindu girl.