The Gestures and Body Language

Making a good first impression

The face
It s the most expressive part of the body, after his eyes. To prove that you are happy in a match, it sends a positive message with a smile. Be careful not to offer an exaggerated smile that can be perceived as forced: better keep your mouth shut.

Eyes
It provides a frank and direct eye contact. If it is too long and persistent, can be interpreted as a threat or a need to impose their superiority. Receding or going to the ground, is perceived as a sign of submission, or concealment of weakness.

The handshake
A delicate exercise that will run watching the other person’s eyes. Better if dynamic, strong and quick, to show sincerity, character and effectiveness.
On the other hand, avoid shaking hands soft denoting for 66% of a lack of character. As for wet hands betray anxiety and nervousness!

When you want to show gratitude or compassion, extends the contact.
The ideal position
Sitting up straight in his chair, without crossing either the arms or legs (no sign of closure and rejection) and in front of your partner. If you sit sideways, indicating that you feel uncomfortable. You can put your hands on your knees, but without showing the palms, a gesture that betrays submission or impotence, and you do not have fists, because they transmit aggression.
The territory of the interlocutor is to be respected, avoid getting too close to him or to get their hands or forearms on his desk. A distance of 60 cm is the right distance to be respected.

The language of seduction
Once again, the gestures may put longer than many fine statements.

The mirror effect
more people there are close to or want to be, most will echo in our movements. If you are surprised to cross your legs, rubbing his knee or touching your hair when we do that, bingo! It s a good sign.
On the other hand, if the chair moves back, it shows unfortunately that is not affected.

A parade of love
specialists have noted that as animals, men and women are some gestures that invite you to know better …
During a conversation with a male person, a woman does not necessarily make account to bring the arms and torso leaning forward to emphasize her cleavage, or to settle the shirt to show her breasts. For its part, the man will send signals opening sitting with his legs apart, his thumbs in his pockets and outstretched hands!

The movements of the head
to encourage a conversation and to demonstrate their attention, you should not hesitate to nod up and regularly. A slight incline on the side is enough to indicate that you understand the speech of your audience and it interests you.

The lie
Exposing a cheater, you can! Caution: These instructions are to be taken as a whole. A gesture is not enough to unmask a liar. On the other hand, if you accumulate.

Contact
unless you are facing a liar by profession, and without shame, the author of “crime” seldom has a clear conscience. Will tend, at the time to tell the facts, to touch your face more than usual. He put his hand to his mouth, as if to prevent the escape of words of mouth, touch your nose (to prevent stretch?) and could pass his hand through his hair and stroked his chin nervously.

Does not stand still for a moment
Hopping on one leg and the other, mess with their feet, continues to cross your legs, the foot that beat the ground … So, wants only one thing: go, and as soon as possible!

Sleight of hand, play villain!
The person lying, hides behind his back, put them in your pocket or deals with playing the keys with a pen … According to Gordon R. Wainwright, communication specialist, the fact that expose the palms of the hands is a gesture quite often the case with liars. Unlike its primary meaning is that impotence, this gesture is to draw the sympathy of the interlocutor.

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