Women are More Than the Sun of Their Body Parts

There cannot be a real connection with out conversation.  By sharing of our selves we allow the other person to get to know and develop sympathies towards our strangeness.  The more sharing the more love.

People of course ruin it because they do not know what happens after you have sex with a person.  Like the top of the mountain in a relationship is sex.  A long-term relationship where both people are growing closer and where they love and care for each other more every day is the top of the mountain.

Of course you will not convince modern man of these jewels of life.  As long as the society moves towards the direction of nudity and sex less and less men will respect women.

What is the woman to do in this over sexualized culture?  You notice that it is still men wanting to see women with no close on?  Even though everyone is more sexual liberated and women are just are scummy as men the industry is till people selling the promise of sex with women to men.

Well men can only do what women allow them to do.  The problem is that even in today’s culture the message that it is wrong for women to stand up for themselves is given to the women of the world.  However, why should women have to put up with leering and groping men?

They do not.  The need to have emotional intimacy should not lead to compromising one’s values.  In the world there are many people who developed a bad personal psychology and do not have the skills to make a positive contribution to a relationship.

When a well-adjusted and decent woman encounters one of these men she betrays her self just to have this person in her life.  She allows the man to treat her however he wants.  She lowers her expectations of him.  She even takes on the job of fulfilling the major responsibilities of the relationship.

However, if we all valued our selves and stood up for our standards then people, not worthy of us, could not use and abuse us.  Men and women are at the same risk of ending up in a relationship with a person who is not a complete person and has a lot of personal problems.

Now, before, people start preaching about how you stand by the person you love let me say why doesn’t that apply for them?  It is easy to ask the person who is always giving to keep giving.  However, if a relationship is about two people helping each other when does the “taker” begin to give?

The world is over sexualized.  People watch news shows to see which attractive woman is moderating the news.  Every beautiful actress is expected to do nude scenes. Regular people are even posting nudes pictures of them selves on their social web site.

However, real decent people with more to offer then their body parts do not have to be part of the mayhem.  Why is the world screwed up? It is because of us who compromise our standards.  The more people who stand up for them selves the less people there are taking advantage of them.

The world is not going to become a great place.  Every day it will get worse.  Eventually most women will be expected to walk around naked in public just for man’s pleasure. 

Women are people with ideas, emotions, and sensations.  They should be respected as people.