Big question of the day, everyday:
“Can I use Law of Attraction to change or influence another person???”

Answer:
Yes, and No – and it’s mostly no.

Very specifically, law of attraction influences only your personal experiences.  Additionally, law of attraction makes you one hundred percent responsible for your experiences.

That said, if I am vibrating at a level that brings happy, cheerful, loving, supportive people into my life, that will in fact somewhat effect others.  Grumpy, angry, careless, frustrated people will have a very difficult time standing up to the vibration.  All though you may not be able to repel them entirely, they won’t hang out for long!

There was a scene in the original “Secret” movie where a fighting couple seemed doomed for failure, when the woman decides to employ the Law of Attraction to her benefit by making lists of positive aspects about her husband.  As Abraham says, when you can intently focus only on what you want to experience, others will start zigging when your zagging if they are not a match to the vibration you are offering.  I love a little list of positive aspects.  I actually keep a little black book on my desk and I have a list of positive aspects for most of the people in my life, my husband, my business partner, my sons, most of my close friends.  I keep it near me as a quick reference, just in case I start observing things I don’t like as much. 
I believe you really can set the tone for any relationship, romantic or otherwise by chosing a very intional and specific focus for yourself.

That said, however, and this is a big however, you cannot control another person and sometimes relationships end.  That has happened to me.  I was in a relationship for two years where I finally got intentional and disiplined about my focus.  Shortly after I chose the experience I wanted to have in my romantic life and began holding that vision with a vengence, the relationship ended.  I zigged and he zagged right out of my life – thank goodness!

I will discuss all of this in greater detail next week, specifically a list of positive aspects.  However, for now, set the bar high for your personal vibration or mood and just take note of what kind of experiences you attract into your sphere of experience.

Have a Super Fabulous New Year!