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Do You Want to Know About Lying, Cheating and Stealing?

Is this a trend of what will be in the future? Things that are not repaired, decay further.

If you say no to that question, just be aware you are part of the problem. Yes, apathy is rampant among a large percentage of Americans.

The high school students that were polled by a Los Angeles based institute suggest that almost half of the students polled admitted they were guilty of any or all of the offences in the title of this write. The findings also extended an inquiry after those results were found. Now this is, by far, more alarming to me. Those people thought they were better than average and were not accessing their unethical or illegal behavior as unsavory. That tells me they probably will lie, cheat on a test or steal again and think they are better than others. They were told beforehand that anonymity was offered and each accepted that outright. Right here, don’t say they did not know what they were doing was wrong.

I suggest the students have a very poor role model to mold themselves after. It might not be a parent, but could be a friend or someone they know well. The young adult might have learned these practices from and look up to that person as well. That mentor might have avoided reprimand or criminal charges, proving they are above the law. ”If he or she can do it, why can’t I” mentality could possibly have become a goal for the young, impressionable, learning person. Behaviors are learned and acquired as they are accepted.

Where is this basis acquired? I suggest the parents allow mild behavior, since the founder of the institute stated these students actually admitted stealing from a relative more than once. At times, I must admit that I am not aware of exactly how much money I have in my pocketbook at a given time. This might be the case for some guardians and parents. I do know that if I saw my child with an item, no matter what the cost of that thing would be, I would investigate. I would do the necessary detective work until I was convinced of where that item manifested itself. If, after finding out with true solid searching, that the item was acquired through illegal means, my wrath would surface. No, I don’t think I would turn in my own child, but I would make their life so miserable, they would probably wish I had put them somewhere else. There are things worse than beatings. The punishment should fit the crime. Beatings were never an idea. My children also would be watched like a hawk in future actions.

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  1. Bren Parks

    On January 11, 2009 at 2:45 am


    Good insight friend.

  2. Jasin

    On January 11, 2009 at 2:45 am


    Well it is up to us to lead our children, some take it forgranted.
    Nice work.

  3. Inna Tysoe

    On January 11, 2009 at 2:54 am


    Well, part of the problem is that there is no (or very little) “publicly shameful” activities. When I was growing up, if you lied and got caught it was shameful–publicly so. I wonder if that’s still true?

    Inna

  4. CHAN LEE PENG

    On January 11, 2009 at 3:35 am


    You’re driving me with good insight here, thanks!

  5. Betty Carew

    On January 11, 2009 at 8:25 am


    You are so right! a long time ago my brother stole a can of milk( he loved milk of any kind) my mother took him, the can of milk and went back to the women he stole it from. He was made give back the milk and apoligize in front of the whole family. In my recollection he never stole anything again! Your right some lessons can be learned without physical punishment. Great article!

  6. Lisa Clayton Williams

    On January 11, 2009 at 9:16 am


    Right on! Teaching our children right from wrong is our responsibility…not something that should be taken lightly…it’s very unfair to the child if we let them get away with cheating, etc. Thanks for a very thought provoking article!

  7. Darla Smith

    On January 11, 2009 at 10:19 am


    Great article! I really enjoyed reading it.

  8. RJ Thomas

    On January 11, 2009 at 11:31 am


    How true! When I was 13 I climbed on top of a grocery store with a friend (you know, ’cause it was an awesome idea…) and peered over the parking lot at the customers.

    The manager ran outside, we bounced off the building and took off! Got away scott free, until we told my mother. Oh dear.

    I ended up washing the windows of the Piggly Wiggly as restitution!

    Very nice article, hope to see more :-)

    R.J.

  9. valli

    On January 11, 2009 at 11:33 am


    Great article.

  10. Ziggy C

    On January 11, 2009 at 11:39 am


    Nice article. Great topic. I liked reading it.

  11. Denise Kawaii

    On January 11, 2009 at 2:26 pm


    There is a much more lax attitude when parents try to correct bad behavior in their kids these days. I do believe though that part of the trend is the fear of a parent that, “If I am too harsh, someone will call child services on me.” The fact is, that sometimes sending a kid to their room for a couple of hours to think about what they’ve done isn’t enough. A very thought provoking topic.

  12. goodselfme

    On January 11, 2009 at 3:13 pm


    Thank you all for bringing your thoughts to this write. I am honored to have you post your comments. From those comments, we either know of someone or have been in this situation and realize the depth of the value.

  13. keyboardologist

    On January 11, 2009 at 4:14 pm


    Spare the rod, spoil the child. A good old fashioned butt whippin’ goes a long way.

  14. Tusaani

    On January 11, 2009 at 5:20 pm


    I may be 14, but I have not cheated on a test/assignment since fourth grade which was five years ago. I think that the problem is that the parents tend to think that cheating is a way of life and actually needed. Furthermore, there are very few consequences. When the school catches a student cheating, they should get a zero on that course- however, the idea instead is that the person gets a zero only for that test/quiz which is nothing if the test is only worth 3%.

    Good and insightful article.

    https://www.triond.com/users/Tusaani

  15. Sophia Nelson

    On January 11, 2009 at 6:21 pm


    Very smart

  16. Eric Mendoza

    On January 11, 2009 at 6:44 pm


    You are so right. I think someone should spearhead a campaign, similar to the TRUTH campaign, but about how wrong stealing is. You know what they say, ‘a liar is worse than a thief!’ The campaign should outline why we shouldn’t do those things, and should also give parents and guardians different punishments examples such as the mentioned in comment #5 by yaffel.

  17. Kim Buck

    On January 11, 2009 at 8:42 pm


    Spare the rod, spoil the child. I truly support this little morsel even though I am childless.

  18. mimis

    On January 12, 2009 at 1:17 am


    exactly hits the nail on the head :-)

  19. eddiego65

    On January 15, 2009 at 9:39 am


    You are so right. I see these problems also in our country, with politicians sadly setting the examples.

  20. goodselfme

    On January 15, 2009 at 5:07 pm


    thank you again for your interest and comments. I value your input.

  21. Jenny Heart

    On January 20, 2009 at 8:50 pm


    Good and responsible advice! Great writing!

  22. Ruby Hawk

    On February 4, 2009 at 6:20 pm


    Kids need discipline, how else will they learn respect? We need a lot more of it.

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