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What Do Women Want?

Most men may think that women are very difficult to deal with as they think that the woman heart is like a needle underneath the seabed. Men find themselves hardly able to understand what women think and what women want from them. Maybe this is a tough lesson that men have to learn in their lifetime.

In fact, women are not as complex subjects as men may think they are. They only need very simple things. They just want men to praise them, to support their mentality, spiritual and basic needs. Regardless of a man’s financial and social status, women just hope to receive more attention, love and care from the men. Here are some clues for men to understand more about women:

  1. He does not have to spend great deal of money on buying presents for his girlfriend or wife. When he wants to give her a present, he should show her his sincerity. In view of most women, the best present would be a very simple, creative and meaningful one.
  2. Most women care what men think of their appearance and beauty. Therefore, they attempt to beautify themselves and hope that they will be praised and received more attention from the men. In this case, he can say, “Your hairstyle looks nice,” “You look nice with a red dress,” “You look beautiful today.” These words should come naturally from his heart to show his sincerity, and he will find these words powerful enough to make her feel happy and motivated. This in turn will maintain a close relationship between both parties.
  3. Women also give priority to their careers. At the same time, they hope their husbands or boyfriends pay attention to their jobs too. Whenever his wife is talking about the affairs that happened in her workplace, he should listen attentively and patiently. He should not show boredom or keep on grumbling at her. Once he has a very good communication with his wife, his love and relationship with his wife will be maintained.
  4. Men are usually more interested in logical, argumentative, and debatable topics. Therefore, they tend to interrupt their wives’ or girlfriends’ conversation, hoping that women will understand their signals. Nevertheless, women usually expect men to listen to them, but not always to give out ideas or opinions. A smart husband should let the wife finish her story, as this is very important to maintain the marriage life.
  5. When selecting men, women consider many criteria. Though they may fall in love with the men, they will always keep on asking, “Are they reliable?” Therefore, men should care for their personal appearance such as their hair, clothes, and etiquette. Women always expect their guys to be generous, good-hearted, reliable, and caring, but not timid, stingy or selfish.
  6. Women hope that men may become their best companions in life. So, men should share ideas, opinions, and feelings with them. Men make big mistakes when they try to cheat women. Do not try to cheat your wife or girlfriend, as you will never gain confidence from them.
  7. Women expect their husbands or boyfriends to respect their pride, opinions and choices that they have made. He should be generous to accept her shortcomings, and at the same time give appropriate praises to her strong points.
  8. He should not feel shy to say “I love you” to his wife or girlfriend. No matter how many times she asks, “Do you love me?” He should keep on repeating “I love you” to her to show that he cares about her. “I love you” is a very powerful lubricant to nourish the love between them.
  9. He should always remember her birthday or anniversary, and give her a present. In this way, she will think that her existence is highly appreciated.
  10. He should not ignore her by watching television or playing video games. She will get bored and believe that her existence is not appreciated.
  11. He should not stare closely at other women when talking to her. Also, he should not compliment other women’ strong points to her. Women always expect their partner to concentrate on their presence, appearance and feelings.
  12. When she is on her menstrual period, she will lose her temper easily. He should help her feelings with an uplifting word. He should not show a sour face in front of her.
  13. He should console her when she is facing problems. He should not say nasty words that will hurt her feelings.
  14. He should go hand in hand with his partner to face life. He should not reject her due to her sickness, bad appearance and handicap. He should secure his love to her till the end of his life.

To make it simple, a woman needs a good companion, a caring lover and an understanding marriage partner.

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  1. Judy Sheldon-Walker

    On December 16, 2007 at 3:50 pm


    Chan, very good tips. You must be taking up marriage counseling too, as your advice would solve many marital disputes. Thank you.

  2. CHAN LEE PENG

    On December 16, 2007 at 6:23 pm


    Thank you, Judy.

  3. Anne Lyken-Garner

    On December 17, 2007 at 6:49 am


    Great tips, although can I please add that men and women should not wait for their partner to ask, ‘do you love me?’ they should just say it.

    I like the bit about showing attention in the presence of other people. One of the first things I noticed about my husband when we met (and were just friends) was that he always only ever had eyes for me, even when I was noticing scantilly clad women all around us, he seemed not to notice them. I think that this makes someone feel very special and should be practised by both genders.

  4. ross lipsky

    On May 17, 2008 at 9:48 pm


    what a crock of crap . just sounds like another way to pussify your man into submission. all those attributes must be observed and practiced by both people to work not just one.

  5. Tie Ginn

    On June 1, 2008 at 9:28 pm


    Despite the last comment, I am empowered to being a better son, brother, and even father to my growing daughter who needs proper demonstration of a gentleman, not a jerk. Thank you for your insight and God Bless.

  6. Garry

    On June 7, 2008 at 6:39 am


    I REALLY LIKE IT, BECAUSE I REALLY BELIEVE THAT IS WHEN US MEN BECOME TRUE MEN!!! BUT WHAT DO I DO WHEN A WOMAN REALLY HAVE STRONG LOVING FEELINGS FOR ME, BUT I DON’T HAVE STRONG FEELINGS FOR HER AT THIS TIME??

  7. DJ

    On June 7, 2008 at 4:13 pm


    Be honest with your feelings, sharing them with upmost respect, admiration, and concern for her. Affirm positive things about her and what things you like about her, but be honest to share the differences between you and her that will not lead to a successful marriage.

    Remember, maintain a friendship through and after it all.

  8. Flamin Harry

    On July 17, 2008 at 11:09 pm


    God, I could barely read them much less follow them. No wonder guys even leave rich/hot girls. Imagine doing all that for some WT BBW.

  9. Jodelax

    On August 8, 2008 at 2:32 am


    Nice writing. Though I’m as much struck by ross lipsky. Indeed, we men need these out of our partners (not everything though), to carry on with marriage.

    Nice thoughts you two.

  10. Drewpy

    On August 9, 2008 at 9:11 pm


    very good points and well written.Ross theres hope for you because chics dig jerks too :)

  11. hope

    On August 9, 2008 at 11:12 pm


    I think that it is good to know what women want. but it would be nice for women to find out a little bit about us men.

  12. carter

    On October 10, 2008 at 11:00 pm


    Thanks for saving my relationship

  13. Matt

    On October 21, 2008 at 4:44 am


    Now I am completely confused… According to this list, the only thing that I need to work on is, not being timid (and I am only slightly timid). So, WTF??? Part of me totally agrees with this list, and the other part thinks it is utter crap! Oh well, one of these days, I guess…

  14. Jack

    On November 23, 2008 at 9:43 pm


    All of what is posted about what women want only works in moderation. You can’t make a woman feel like she’s the only thing in the world b/c then theres nothing else for her to want, and thats what keeps them interested in a relationship. If she has eveything she wants then shes not satisfied b/c theres nothing left to look for thus keep suspense and their attention. your welcome.

  15. Tehzorblade

    On February 3, 2009 at 11:20 am


    I think for you to be able to sincerly do all of these things you have to feel like doing them and feel she’s worthy, otherwise your just gaming her. Which usually leads to deception and betrayal. Men should’nt do this with every woman he dates/meets, not all woman deserve this kind of treatment. When you find yourself naturally doing these things, then your with the right person. I do believe you have to handle them with care or they can turn into a nightmare.

  16. ken

    On February 25, 2009 at 9:46 am


    my new girlfriend is an Handicap.. She told me last nite that there is only one thing i need to do to make her know that i really love her.. Who can tell me what that really is>?

  17. ed

    On March 1, 2009 at 2:07 am


    disagree, it all boils down to being a puppet with money. all you women -get a better paying job and a dog. evert women i lived with or met , all they need or want is more money for free. what about what men want orneed?

  18. David

    On March 28, 2009 at 11:37 pm


    A man that is willing to do all these things will have some very painfull lessons to learn about spoiled women. Same as for a women that spoils a man this way.
    But hey, for the first five years of marriage; go for it!

  19. Phoenix Montoya

    On January 16, 2012 at 9:35 am


    You must be a marriage councilor Chan. Most of these facts are true.

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