Complainers Always Get Pleasure Out of It

Over years dealing with people, friends and /or family, I discovered that if you pay too much attention to complainers and respond with sympathy to their complains, the complainer will always have something to complain to you about. Complainers benefit from someone being there to listen.
Show empathy to complainers and not sympathy and make them understand that, there are other people in worse situation than them. Complains can be channeled into something positive if the complainer ask him/her self:
· Why am I complaining?
· What am I complaining about?
· Can I get ride of what I always complain about?
· If I get ride of what I complain about, will I complain again?
Complains waste a lot of time that leads to problems not being solved in time.
Peace call be jol