You do really dig her, though, and you want to impress her, and give her something really cool, something that might even make her squeal with delight, because hey, it is Valentine’s Day and romance can be pretty damned cool, and she’s cute when she squeals with delight. So what can you do that’s the right amount of “You’re pretty wonderful” and “It’s not a ring, stop visualizing bridesmaid dresses” , you’re wondering?

Now, you could, if you have a chance, sneak around in her home dressed all in black like a ninja, doing things such as, say, checking out perfume bottles, sizes of lingerie and shoes, jotting down the names from the sides of saved shopping bags out of the closet and so forth… but, these things take time, not to mention they are very risky activities that one cannot partake in during the fragile beginnings of a relationship, lest one be branded a dangerous stalker. And once you are branded a Dangerous Stalker, well, it makes it harder to get reservations for that Valentine’s Night dinner. Something about “Two for Dangerous Stalker” is off-putting to most fine dining establishments, though no one quite knows why.

So to save you this trauma, I am here to help. Let’s begin, shall we?

♥Buy her costume jewelry. Something cute and sweet. But be sure to include some chocolates. For balance. Cause that way it will take her mind off the fact that she didn’t just get a diamond.

♥You don’t know her sizes, but you want to get her lingerie. Is she tall, petite? Slender, curvy? Stacked, not so stacked? Tell the salesperson. If her breasts can fit in the palm of your hand, she’s probably an A cup. If she overflows just a bit, probably a B. If she’s a good handful, she’s a C. And if you have to spread your fingers to hang on and you still don’t have full coverage, that’s a D. (If anyone can explain this in a more efficient way, feel free to write in and correct me. I figured that you’d enjoy visualizing this more than fruit, however.) I have to say, though, as with most other things on the list, the path of least resistance is the ever popular gift card. Get her one from Amazon and she can choose from tons of different lingerie retailers. But make sure you mark down that the gift card is for lingerie, lest it be spent on 

♥With stockings, generally petite through 5′9″ is one size. 5′10″ and up is Tall.  5′7″ or so and 190lbs or more is Queen (or roundabouts there I think, I’m taking a guess, I know it’s a lot larger and goes up higher, that number is a low point).

♥Perfume: A few perfumes that you cannot go wrong with – Most women will adore the smell of Issey Miyake’s L’eau D’Issey Eau D’Parfum. It has a nice blend of florals along with an undertone of light woods. It is beautiful and smells very elegant and luxurious. She will feel like a princess. Issey Miyake makes a Florale one also that is wonderful. Either of these will make your gal feel incredibly special. If she is in her early twenties or so, Juicy Couture’s original fragrance is a great choice as well. Another favorite of the young set is Davidoff’s Cool Water for women. And if you really want to be romantic, you can get her Creed’s Love in Black, which was originally developed exclusively for Jackie Onassis. (But you have to be sure to tell her the tale – and why not get her a Chanel suit and pillbox hat while you’re at it?

♥Shoes: Never try to guess a lady’s shoe size. Shoes run so differently, and an ill-fitting shoe can cause serious foot problems down the road. Better: Give your gal a beautiful box of handmade chocolates (check Etsy for some amazing sellers – some may be able to overnight their wares!) or in a pinch some Godiva or Ghiradelli from the mall, and tuck a gift card to DSW in the box. She can pick out her own shoes, and try them on first to make sure they are a perfect fit. And you know the old saying, “Give a woman shoes, and you have a friend for life.” Wait, that’s not an old saying? Well, it certainly should be.

♥Other gifts of luxury: Consider things like spa days, day cruises, mani-pedi gift certificates, his & hers massage dates, hair salon gift cards (careful with that one – don’t give her just a hair cut or “get your roots done” card, or your gift may backfire on your and you’ll have a mighty offended girl on your hands – and the amount of offense increases exponentially with the amount of candy that the holiday is associated with, so yep, that’s a lot of offense. Walk softly and carry a well-stocked gift card. Again, tucked inside a gift box of (her favorite kind) of chocolates would be really good. (Does she like milk chocolate? Have you heard her wax rhapsodic about white chocolate? When she gets it for herself, what does she get? Assuming you’ve seen her do this. Just a simple thing like knowing what kind of chocolate is her favorite can score major “This guy is incredible and deserves (fill in the naughty blank)” points. Though of course that’s not why you’re giving gifts. But you wouldn’t cry, would you?

Hopefully this has given you some ideas you wouldn’t have had otherwise, and you’ve got enough love ammo to cook up an idyllic day of gift-giving that will enhance your budding relationship with that special female with whom Cupid has graced you.

Happy Valentine’s Day! ♥

First off, everyone has to steel themselves and realize that everything that happens, happens for a reason. I am well aware that many people think it’s just a stupid thing thought up by older folks, but being 16 and realizing this fact has helped me a lot personally. So my first advice would be : Don’t beat yourself up for it. Don’t start blaming yourself OR even the other person for it. Most people rush to the conclusion that it was their fault and start a depressed and unhealthy life. Other people blame the ex about the break up and start making their lives miserable when they don’t even know the reason behind the break up.

Secondly, do not lose your cool. I’m aware it’s easier said than done, but you have to have inner strength if you want to live a happy life again. Keep yourself calm and try to find out the reason behind the break up without getting over stressed about it. At this point, your emotions might overcome you but as I stated before, you must have inner strength. The moment you lose to your emotions that’s the moment you step into the path of destruction.

I’d like to add that if you want to get back with him/her, that depends on whether there was the “spark” between you both. If not, MOVE ON!

Thirdly, do not be a drama queen. Quit whining about it all the time, nobody likes a whiner! Keep your mind focused on your life.The longer you keep whining about it the harder it’s going to be for you to get over it. Try living life like a normal person and get interested in your hobbies or whatever you prefer.

Fourth and final for this release, stop reminiscing about the past. If you’re not confident that you can fix things with him/her, FORGET ABOUT HIM/HER! Stop daydreaming about him/her all the time and think about other things, be it useless or productive.

If your case is extremely serious and you can’t get over her, get a dog or a cat! OR try to fix it!

Hope this helps all the poor souls. Leave a comment on how you feel about these advices!

Good luck!

Adamantite

If I see that you are having trouble in your romantic relationship, and approach you without invitation and tell you that you would be better off single, I am acting as the manipulator.  In such a case, I must have some reason why I want you to be single, whether that be a specific reason or me just wanting to affirm some kind of worldview.  Otherwise, I would not seek to give you advice in the first place.

However, when one asks for advice, it is different.  In this case, someone sees a weakness in themself and seeks the experience of another to assist in their decision.  It is the taking of confidence in another who is known to be more knowledgable on a subject.  This is a much more respectable act than that of giving unwanted advice.  Where one is manipulative and parasitic, the other is simply a means to an end, and cannot be judged so harshly.

Now, an alternative to the first example:    Suppose you are having trouble in your romantic relationship, and want to do something to fix it.  But, say you lack experience in this area.  If you know for a fact that I do not lack this experience, you might come to me for advice.  In this case I am not acting as the manipulator, but simply as a friend.  Unless I am truly malicious and seek to mislead you, but that is beside the point.

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If you’ve been assaulted, best up an STI, or accidentally gotten abundant (or gotten anyone abroad pregnant), you’ve got some above decisions to make. Should you go to the badge about accepting confused or just try to put it abaft you? Do you acquaint your parents or your accomplished animal ally about accepting an STI? Do you accept an aborticide or accumulate the baby?

If you’re in one of these situations, you’re apparently activity appealing afraid and appealing alone. But you’re not alone. There are lots of humans who’ve been distinctively accomplished to advice you with your botheration – humans who won’t adjudicator you and will advice you array through your options. These humans can abutment you with the accoutrement and advice you charge to accomplish these boxy decisions. If you’re not abiding whom to contact, your doctor or local/regional animal clinics can aswell advice absolute you to the humans who are there to help.

No amount what, don’t put off accepting help. If you get advice early, you’re traveling to accept added options. If advised early, abounding STIs could cause no abiding damage; if you delay too continued into a pregnancy, an aborticide will no best be an option; and if you see a doctor appropriate abroad afterwards you’ve been raped, they can accord you emergency contraception to accomplish abiding you don’t become pregnant. The affairs that the being who assaulted you will be punished is aswell college if you address it to badge appropriate away.

Final Destination 5 releases on DVD today alongside such future classics as Apollo 18 and A Good Old Fashioned Orgy, and if you have nothing better to do on a Friday night do yourself a favor and check it out. It’s dark and grisly, there’s some humor, and you might even like it if you’re drunk enough. Sorry, no boobies in this one.

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Most girls have experiencing heartbreak, especially when a girl found out that her knight in shining armour had loved someone else or already got married. This girl’s dream and hope has been shattered. She felt no purpose why she always do the things that she usually do. She felt miserable why all her friends got married while she is left alone and still single. The reality of this, what her feeling is normal because she is absolutely 100% straight woman. Second, dealing with a wave of grief, anger, confusion, depression, low self-confidence, and jealousy would take time if she allowed herself to heal and if she decides to be happy for the man she loved and to be contented of the blessings and purpose given to her by God. 

I may not be an expert on this, but I am one of the millions of girls who had experienced a heartbreak with different kinds of situation. I also know how to feel heavy, empty, and sad when I see the man that I loved is already taken. It is like that my little dreamland had been shattered where I put all my hopes that I could be happily settled down with that man I loved. But, the truth is, God is not answering all the prayers because He has a purpose for everyone. But, I know that God has a purpose why He is not answering my prayers. First, my working relationship with my father must be improved. Second, I am starting to adjust to the life of adulthood. Third, I have to be financially independent. Fourth, my relationship with God must keep going too. 

Some people who are experiencing a heartbreak would resort to drugs, sex, and alcohol. But, I would resort myself to counseling, prayers, devotion, and reflection. 

Who is M. K. T.?

M. K. T. or also known as MARK is a volleyball varsitarian of Philippine Cultural High School(PCHS)- Main. After he went to Chiang Kai Shek College, he and his friends put up a small merchandising business. A friend of mine named G. L. U. said that he is a former bully of PCHS-Main. But, for me, he is friendly, nice, and sometimes naughty. M. K. T. and I already had a dispute online while we have flaring on Facebook thread. But, it took time for me to forgive him. And, I am still hoping that he is the ONE who can sweeps off my feet. I maybe unrealistic but he is the only one who can make me happy everytime when we talked on the phone at night before I go to sleep. I maybe cheap because I am chasing this poor guy but it is who I am and I consider that my feelings are normal. 

When we were in college, he used to tease me when I put make-up on my face. Maybe that Chinese school is not used to have students who always wear make-up. But, putting make-up on my face is fun. I am a girl. It is fun to celebrate womanhood. Then, I stopped putting make-up on my face, and my self-esteem got lowered. 

Now, with my counseling from my psychologist, I started to put make-up on my face and I gained back my confidence. I listened to psychiatrist who said that M. K. T.’s own opinion on my make-up doesn’t matter. So, it is my initiation to move on and forget the pasts as I took actions to gain back on my self-confidence.

First, I thought it is VERY EASY to forget him. I thought myself an Iron Lady. But, I am wrong. When I looked at the picture, my heart was shattered into pieces. But, when I am looking at the pictures of my Imaginary Babies, I still gained back my confidence because I cherished the memories when I met those kids who I considered as my Imaginary Babies. 

Now, I followed my dad’s advice. I have to go out to work for myself and for him. I have to face the reality that WE REALLY ARE NOT MEANT FOR EACH OTHER. And, GOD IS STILL GOOD BECAUSE HE HAS A PLAN FOR ME. I must not lose hope. I must continue dreaming to have a family of my own. I must continue to dream to have a sincere, kind, respectful, and loving man who can sweep off my feet and accept me for what I am. I must continue to live purposeful and fruitful and to have a respect for myself because I am a woman of dignity. 

I have five (5) classic kundimans that are dedicated to M. K. T., who is better known as MARK, and these are:

• Saan Ka Man Naroroon
• Sa Dulo Ng Walang Hanggan
• Ngayon at Kailanman
• Ikaw Ang Lahat Sa Akin
• Ikaw lang Ang Mamahalin

These are beautiful Filipino love songs (kundimans). I have a CD of these songs which I usually played it at home when I wanted to unwind or to relax. For me, it is not bad to express oneself as long as you did not hurt anyone’s feelings or dignity. And for me, this would be the last reflection or article blog about remembering the lad from my pasts.

Here are the selected lyrics of the Filipino love songs that I dedicated to him: 

The lyrics of Hangang Sa Dulo Ng Walang Hanggan by Basil Valdez:

Hanggang sa dulo ng walang hanggan
Hanggang matapos ang kailan pa man
Ikaw ang siyang mamahalin at lagi nang sasambahin
Manalig kang di ka na luluha giliw

At kung sadyang siya lang ang iyong mahal
Asahan mong ako’y di hahadlang
Habang ikaw ay maligaya ako’y maghihintay
Maging hanggang sa dulo ng walang hanggan

Giliw kung sadyang siya lang ang iyong mahal
Asahan mong ako’y di hahadlang
Habang ikaw ay maligaya ako’y maghihintay
Maging hanggang sa dulo ng walang hanggan

The lyrics of Ngayon at Kailanman by Basil Valdez:

Ngayon at kailanman
Sumpa ko’y iibigin ka
Ngayon at kailanman
Hindi ka na mag-iisa
Ngayon at kailanman
Sa hirap ko ginhawa ka
Asahan may kasama ka sinta
Naroroon ako t’wina
Maaasahan mo t’wina
Ngayon at kailanman…

REFRAIN:
Sa bawat araw ang pag-ibig ko sa ‘yo liyag
Lalong tumatamis, tumitingkad
Bawat kahapon ay daig nitong bawat ngayon
Na daig ng bawat bukas

The lyrics of Ikaw Ang Lahat Sa Akin by Martin Nievera:

Ikaw ang lahat sa akin,
kahit ika’y wala sa aking piling
isang magandang alaala
isang kahapon, lagi kong kasama
ikaw ang lahat sa akin
kahit ika’y di ko dapat ibigin
dapat ba kitang limutin
pano mapipigil ang isang damdamin
kung ang sinisigaw
ikaw ang lahat sa akin

at kung hindi ngayon
ang panahon, upang ikaw ay mahalin
bukas na walang hanggan
ako’y maghihintay pa rin

Conclusion: Now, I consider myself free from my past hurts. I am a free woman since the beginning. I am free to do what I am thinking to do. I am free to love myself. I am free to beautify myself. I am free to evolve myself. I am free to forgive others who hurt me in the pasts. I am free to forget all the unnecessary things. I am free to prioritize the things that are important. I am free create beautiful things out of my deep emotions. I am free to show to the world that I AM A STRONG WOMAN. A STRONG WOMAN never denies HER EMOTIONS. A STRONG WOMAN also cries when she has an emotional breakdown. A STRONG WOMAN learned to fix her own issues. I am a strong woman – a woman of faith and dignity. 

ALPHA MALE

• Fake it till you make it.
  • Consider yourself above others
  • Success by association

No one is going to sleep with anyone who looks like a tramp. Be the story everyone tells their friends for the right reasons not the mistake they try to forget. If we view ourselves from a woman’s point of view are you their perfect man? Let us ask ourselves this question without ego or pretence. This is always the first and simplest question you should ask yourself. What is the socially excepted ideal man?

Successful, charming, charismatic unrealistically nice, funny! Basically, a full English. Now let us take these characteristics from the Hollywood dream machine and put them in any local and you get a guy who doesn’t get laid.

Human nature is to survive and replicate. To survive you look for safety and security. The nice guy’s problem is you don’t feel safe down a dark alley because chances are the nice guys to nice to have been in a fight. Nice guy’s a sheep not a leader. We all strive to duplicate the alpha male. Human nature is to evolve. This is why one looks for certain traits in others.

            Tip:

The alpha male should project these traits. The key isn’t necessarily to hit the gym everyday, take fighting lessons, or wear £1000 suits (though it helps). The key is to project these images using certain traits: straight back, strut, smile, cockiness.

“A man should look as if he had bought his clothes with intelligence, put them on with care and the forgotten all about them”

                                                -Hardy Amies

OPENERS:

            Always maintain the first 3 steps

                                    Smile

                                    Eye Contact

                                    Confidence i.e. Tone of voice/Body Language

            No one likes a sulky bastard. There isn’t anything wrong with being the mysterious guy in the corner. But if you’re clutching your pint glass and not making any effort you’ll quickly find yourself clutching your cock alone at home. Smiling shows you’re up for a laugh, it gives a happy vibe. Smiling is infectious (happy by association).

            The point of an opener is to build a rapport on a non-threatening level. There are two ways to do an opener.

1.      Question

2.      Statement

Example:

Question:

“I’m not from around here. Is this as good as the night life gets”?

Statement:

“Come on love smile. It’s not that bad” (then walk away)

Why questions work? It forces the person to invest in the conversation. This in turn gives you a chance to read the person for their strengths and weaknesses. Which in turn will allow you to adapt the conversation with the person you’re speaking to? The problem with the question is it allows them time to freeze you out i.e. one answer or no answer (the obvious point of an opener is to put yourself on top. If she freezes you out she is now in control). You can get control back by breaking the conversation with a statement and walking away.

Why statements work? You need to pre-judge if the person is a freeze out or a giver of conversation. If the person is a taker of conversation you need to go in with a statement and walk away. In order so they will be thinking about you. A taker of conversation using control as a weapon, by having the last word you will disarm them and they’ll feel compelled to seek you out in order to re-arm themselves.

   What if tomorrow you wake up paralyzed from the neck down? Who would visit you, who would call? Do you think people would bend over backwards for you? Or would it be that die hard Christian friend that you continued to lie too? Or would it be that man/woman that asked you for $0.25, and you acted as if you didn’t hear him/her? Or would it be someone you had a grudge with for years and now you have to face the fact that they are one of the ones that care the most?

   Well, what if you had the chance to help someone but for whatever the reason you didn’t help that person. And the tables turned, and they ended up having to save you?

   Well remember, you should always treat people how you want to be treated, or it will come back and haunt you. Stabbing people in the back, not caring about how you talk to people, not sharing or lending a hand. People never forget the things you do for them out the kindness of your heart, and one day it will make or break your day how you treat people. And I guarantee not everyone you think will show up by your bed side, will be there.

   Also when friends, and family have an event or party, show up and support that person your presents is respected! When your friends and family is sick, show up and support that person your presents is respected! When you are invited to anything representing your friends or family, like basketball games, graduations, church gatherings anything in this nature, show up and support that person your presents is respected! You don’t have to stay but showing up is important!

   So in closing, what if you was paralyzed tomorrow, who do you think would come see you! Who would call? Are you hurting the person that would go all out for you but loving the one that is out to get you? This is very important to know, don’t wait until you are in a situation such as this one to find out your time has been in the wrong place, and have ran off the people that did love you! Scrutinize yourself, and make some real changes, that’s very prolific, now! Before it’s to late! Cause if you are messing up, you will be alone when you need real friends and real family! And my best advice to you is to start with Jesus! Then, go scan flesh and blood!