The Need for Friendship Before Courtship
Friendship is a time of study. You study your friend to know him/her the more. You study character, behaviours, likes, dislikes, etc. It gives you opportunity to assess the person and find out the kind of character, feelings, emotions and temperament he/she has. It affords you the opportunity to know how he/she reacts to issues. This will enable you to vouch for that person. As you study and asses the person who is a friend, you like your findings to what you want to become in life. Good time of friendship will lead you into choosing your life-partner. The choice you will make matters so much and therefore, know that you are choosing your destiny. You are choosing your own happiness or misery. You are choosing whether the rest of your life is to be lived in the heaven of ‘perpetual love’ or, may be, in the hell of disharmony and perpetual friction. Other people are not choosing for you.
How to Ask Without Being Refused?
Good things do not happen only to those who can wait, but to the ones who know how to ask, too!
The Hipster’s Survival Guide: Chapter Five
Practical Advice for Impractical Lifestyles.




