Fear is natural, and although I have had no natural fears for my entire life, not that I have a wife and kids, I feel some semblance of fear about losing them or not being able to save them if they need me to.

Fear is an ally, it is what makes you faster, stronger, mind sharper, and react more precisely.  Fear is not to shut out, it is to be embraced.  Fear is definite when you don’t understand the uncertain.  Death is a certainty, yet everyone fears it, but everyone dies.  It isn’t the act that gives everyone fear, it is the not knowing what will happen after death.

There is no reason to be fearful of death, it is just the next step on the evolutionary life cycle before we enter a new life and a new plane of existence.

Fear is also inevitable, able to be controlled, unlike death.  It is this control that saparates us from the rest of nature, instinctively.

Fear is good, and it is bad.  Without control, we cannot live, we cannot live without being in control.

The weird thing is to have the curiosity of knowing how we will die? What will you do if you know the date, place and exact details of how you will die? Of course, many of us will do everything just to avoid or prevent that event by doing some changes in our lives. Some might consider it as a gift by knowing things beforehand. They might even use it as an advantage to weigh their priorities given the fact that they have a deadline. Unfortunately life and death doesn’t work that way. Death is every persons very own mystery to solve. We can live comfortably by not thinking about it or keep on worrying about it in our entire existence. Many of us doesn’t know where we will go or what will going to happen to us after we died. Some said they knew but let us set aside our beliefs to that matter. The important question is are you ready to die? Death might find us sooner than we think so isn’t it wise to be prepared for it so that if ever it occurs whether sooner or later we won’t regret or wish we could have done something before we finally face it. A well prepared person can live conveniently and confidently that even if he dies today, he will have no regrets.

When we heard that someone died too early or unexpectedly, aren’t you asking that of all the people in the world why it happened to him or her? We get sad or even mad when someone dear to us passed away. What would you feel when you heard that someone you knew committed suicide? Or a friend or family member died in a freak accident? Or they were killed by a random criminal? Or they drowned or burned in a fire or hit by a bus? Accidents happen all the time so we’ll never really know.

Let’s find out some of the most intriguing question about our death. How do you want to be remembered? What do you think people will say and feel when they heard the news about your demise? Why do you want to be remembered? What will be the impact of your absence in their lives? Is it a positive impact or a negative one?

I also have important question to those who were left behind. Have you been nice the person who passed away? Can you proudly say that you made them happy or worthy when they still exist? Or did you made their lives miserable or gave them problems or caused them troubles? Do you wish you could have done something if you only knew that they will leave sooner? What kind of role did you portray in their whole existence? Is it a protagonist or antagonist?

What marks the line between life and death is the challenge to make both ways worthwhile. It really matters how you live and even how you die.

How Spirit Adapter or Possession Can Make an Impact – Accomplished Lives, Afterlife & Transvestites

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a body of the adverse gender (or one of the aforementioned gender

with a same-sex orientation), who has larboard its concrete body

upon death, attaches to the being and influences that person,

sometimes from a actual adolescent age. Added on this accountable can

be begin in The Unquiet Dead by Edith Fiore. The author

lists adapter affection and provides a simple Software in

the aback of the book to advice abolish exceptionable attachments.

Whether or not you can about-face your admiration to cross-dress

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the could could cause of your desire. Once you become added acquainted of

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Since animal acclimatization is accompanying to the subject, we’d like

to point out that a bi or gay acclimatization is usually clearly

reflected in a person’s absolute astrometry and

numerology charts. Thus, based on our research, sexual

orientation is something you’re built-in with. Your soul, not

your personality, chooses it, forth with abounding added partsof your life, afore birth.

We all know about it, whether it exists or not. We know of ghosts and reincarnated entities, and we all have some knowledge of the idea that we might experience afterlife upon death.
Philosophers and priests have thought about it for as long as thinking man has existed. Alternatively, scientists have tried their best to sweep it under a thread-bare carpet. So what is the reality of afterlife?

POLITICS AND MORALITY
The first thing to realize about afterlife is that it has been quite useful in the life we class as ‘living.’ Medieval Christendom split Afterlife into Heaven and Hell, and applied transgressing The Ten Commandments to eternal redemption.

This was a means of social and moral control, using superstition to scare people into obedience. A similar concept exists in the east, where karma is a moral imperative towards good so as not to be reincarnated in a lower status next time.
Christianity went so far as to debar mere mortals from experiencing evidence of afterlife in life. To do so was to be Christ-like, and only Jesus was such. Hence, those who claimed communion with entities in life were classed as ‘evil’, dealing with the Devil. In this way, Christianity attempted to banish paganism and the occult.

INDIVIDUAL PROBLEMS
In the above, we can see that Afterlife is a useful system of control, guaranteeing its survival as a concept within religious society. But today, science and individuality has banished the idea and classed it as nonsense.

Individuality has to ignore Afterlife, for it implies something above the individual. But individuals continue to form societies and cultures. Our place in a society is defined by cultural interpretation. Hence, there is something above the individual.
In light of this, could we argue that culture, or even our species, could be a continuing communal entity in its own right? If we are prepared to accept such a thing – and history itself shows a form of continuance above the individual – then we begin the philosophical step towards the idea of continuance after life.

WHAT WE KNOW SURVIVES
We do actually know that much of ‘us’ does survive death. For instance, there are memories of us in other people’s minds. If naturally buried, our organic body decays and released nutrients for renewal of nature.

If we go even deeper into the ‘construction’ of life we are fundamentally an electrical vibration of the subatomic field – an astral body, as it were. Here, the particles that make up the ‘vibration’ are identical to similar particles throughout the universe. And guess what – they survive our death.
There are ideas in fringe physics that this field forms an ‘information universe’. In other words, the information available to the universe is within its construction, which would logically include its history. Does this constitute a form of ‘survival’?

WHERE IS CONSCIOUSNESS?
One of the great metaphysical debates revolves around the location of consciousness. It is said to reside in the brain, but if information is in the subatomic field, could what we class as the mind be simply an individual segment of this universal consciousness?

A materialist would class this as ridiculous. We can track certain brain functions, and are aware of their existence in the brain. To which I would ask: could the brain be simply analogous to a computer? If so, we haven’t yet found the software.
Many believe the Near Death Experience shows evidence of our personal consciousness going to the universal – in this case, down a dark tunnel where a light is met, and a decision taken whether you shall live or die.

DEATH AND REBIRTH
I’m not sure whether this is evidence of survival, but certainly a strange phenomenon occurs within the experience. Indeed, research has shown that even a deep faint can include imagery of what is culturally accepted as Afterlife.

This is particularly interesting as early tribal ritual revolved around hysterical ceremony, leading to the deep faint of a shaman-like individual. In the faint he is said to visit the Afterlife and return with knowledge thereof.
The shaman can be seen to have believed the faint involved a ‘death’, followed by rebirth upon awakening. This process actually formed the central proof of Afterlife within mythology. Yet realistically we can argue this is a symbolic, psychologically induced Afterlife rather than the real thing.

EVIDENCE OF SURVIVAL
In the above we can see the possibility of a ‘symbolic’ Afterlife, sculpted by impressions of a particular culture, which we went on to believe was ‘real.’ But nonetheless, it could have formed the basic proofs that led to religion and spirituality.

Other ‘proofs’ of Afterlife are said to include sightings of ghosts, mediumistic talents and evidence of reincarnation. However, again, we can argue that all this evidence can be found in the known psychological anomalies of the human mind.
Indeed cryptomnesia (the ability to remember obscure facts), multiple personality, hallucination and other mechanisms can adequately explain evidence of such survival. For further information on these mechanisms, posts can be found by clicking Paranormal UFO Occult at the bottom of this post.

TOWARDS UNDERSTANDING
This said, there are problems with our understanding of life and the universe that are not adequately addressed by science. For instance, it is known that the body exists as a co-ordinated lifeform, but it also exists as a congregation of cells, etc; and at its fundamental level, as an electrical vibration, as already mentioned.

Science accepts this, but is hazy when it comes to the relationship between each of these levels. But surely, if one leads to another, then interaction between the three levels must take place.
This logical assumption tells us that, if the information universe is a reality, then somehow it must connect to the conscious life form – i.e. us. Hence, if consciousness is in the information universe, we must ask: does it die upon death of the body? Or does it continue as some form of existence?

FUTURE SCIENCE
We are not at the stage of knowledge where we can answer. This is mainly because we are not asking the right questions, which should be: Do we live in an information universe or not? Is our ‘electrical vibration’ related to us or not?

A negative answer to either of these questions leaves us disconnected from the rest of existence, which is ridiculous. A positive answer leaves room for the tantalizing existence of an Afterlife of some kind.
And seeing that it would imply a connection between ‘us’ and the universe, then knowledge of this survival would be in the information universe. So therefore, somewhere, we would be aware of this.
So who knows, maybe SOME of those ghosts, communications and possessions are from somewhere else after all. Once we have discounted the fraudulent, spurious and delusional, of course

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When I was ten I my grandfather died. I didn’t really know the man, but his face, with his red nose and rheumy eyes, is still clear in my memory. I remember the awakening in my young brain at the thought of death. What does it really mean? Not only to the dead, but the living as well? Where did my grandfather go after his physical body was no longer there?

I helped my father spread his ashes on his rural Saskatchewan property. That was my first caress with death. That is when the questions began.

Flash forward sixteen years.  The next time death knocked on my door was unexpected.  My husband had been killed in a freak motor-vehicle accident.  He was 33 years old, and left me shattered and weak, with two little girls to support. After the shock, the utter disbelief and denial, I once again found myself thinking of that darkness we all are heading towards. Where was my husbands spirit and fire that he had displayed so richly in life?  It was torturous to think that he was no more, that he could just stop existing. 

I chose to believe instead that the energy which made him who he was, some people may call it his soul, did not die. That none of our souls die as our physical bodies do.  A coping mechanism? Perhaps it is, but that is the question: do we believe so stoutly in the afterlife because as living beings with a living consciousness, it would be unacceptable, in fact, unimaginable to think of death as our true ending? An ending to thought, to energy, to life itself?  Are we so desperate to imagine that our ending is only the beginning? 

The undisputed fact is we can never truly know what happens to us as we leave these vessels for our next journey. There are 21 grams that leave our bodies when we die. Maybe that is the weight of the human soul escaping to a better realm where we look down on our loved ones with omnipotent love and satisfaction… It seems we will all have to wait and see.

Sally Morgan, her website tells you, is a very successful psychic, having written three books and into a third TV series called Psychic sally on the Road, but is it all a bit of a confidence trick at heart?

It was reported that, during a live show at the Grand Canal Theatre in Dublin, on Sunday September 11th, an audience member had been impressed by the accuracy of readings made by Sally during the first half of the show.

That changed when, from her seat at the very back of the theatre, on the fourth level, she heard, through a nearby small window, the voice of a man relating things that the on-stage psychic was repeating only moments later.

Obviously, this unwitting witness reasoned, the man in question must have been was feeding Sally information, because the comments the so-called medium were coming it had a very familiar ring. Within minutes, an embarrassed theatre staff member – realizing that the man was being overheard – closed the window, blocking out that voice.

Had, the question must be asked, the information being imparted been gathered from conversations with audience members before the show? Psychic on-artists are known to do this, and the voice of this witness was not the only one raised.

Theatre general manager, Stephen Faloon said that was heard were two staff members talking, and of course Sally Morgan Enterprises also denied information feeding ever takes place during shows.

These so-called mediums had their heyday in Victorian times, frauds being exposed doing little to lessen popularity, many self-professed psychics sincerely believing that they have powers.

Frauds use cold reading, convincing strangers that the psychics have knowledge, when all they have done is to employ clever language, acute observation and intelligent guesswork.

These, coupled with the ability to make statements that can be interpreted as more specific than they really were, allow the skilled practitioner to produce impressive results. The moral issues are simple enough, in that the deception of vulnerable people, however committed, is shameful, even if some apparent comfort is given to those people through this medium

It may well be the case that Sally Morgan is not deliberately conning her audience with fraudulent techniques at all, and is genuine in the comfort that she brings to people, but at the end of the day, it is all a matter of clever manipulation. Tickets for her sell-out Dublin show each cost 40 euros, and both books and DVDs sold well, by all accounts, so she certainly makes a good living.

The person who complained may well never bother with such nonsense again, but they will, I am very much afraid, be in the minority, for however much of a confidence trick such events might be, there are enough gullible and rapturous believers to keep the Sally Morgans of this world employed for years to come, mores the pity.

A short explanation of Science;

Science isn’t just gathering evidence of something and calling it true. For something to be science, all the facts of a situation must be gathered, put into place, and reproduced. This usually involves several tests to ensure the outcome is the same everytime. Since it isn’t possible(at this time) to travel back to the beginning of time and simply verify God’s existence, we can’t prove or disprove the validity of God or religion itself. As I’ve just said, we would have to be able to recreate that scenerio probably several times for it to be considered science at all, and it would have to end in the same or a very similar manner for it to be called scientifically proven.

A short explanation of Reason;

Reason is typically when we take the evidence presented to us by something, or the general clues we have so far and make purely logical decision to believe it or not.

If you know there are 50 marbles, and someone takes 20, reason will tell you there are 30 left because of the evidence you’ve seen thus far.

Reason Vs Science;

Science and reason are two very different things, and while they have many similarities they shouldn’t be confused with eachother in any way. In the previous example of marbles, reason was what you used to come to that conclusion. However, that doesn’t make it science. For that to be called science the situation would have to be replicated to prove the outcome is the same. Reason can be used to form a hypothesis which you may then test and prove.

Example of Reason being confused for Science;

Let’s take evolution for example, we’ll go with the evolution of humans. This is commonly called ’science’ though it shouldn’t bear that name. Until we can find a way to test this theory without contamination of any outside influence we as humans didn’t have, this can’t be called science. Reasoning might tell you that we found these fossils from different time periods, cave paintings, whatever it might be. But that lays in the hands of reason, and is nothing more than an assumption for the time being. I’m not arguing whether or not evolution valid, but rather, whether it is science.

Science and Religion touching hands;

While there are many inconsistancies between the events depicted in various tellings of many different religions, and their less free spirited cousin named Science, that doesn’t make the two mortal enemies as so many people think. It’s true, we can pick something out of The Bible for example and call it out by things we now know, let’s take the great flood for example.

Did every species of animal live within walking distance of Noah’s house? Reason says no, science says let’s find out.

Is it possible to build a ship large enough to carry all the species of animals on, out of wood? Both reason and science seem to agree that this would most certainly fail.

Would Earth be survivable if its entire surface were flooded? Reason says this amount of water would cause you to drown by breathing alone, as the level of water vapor in the air would be massive. But until this is replicated it can not be disproved under the name of science. (Let’s not go too far on this one, scientists. Please don’t test it. I enjoy breathing.)

Conclusion;

While reason may say religion is unlikely to some, the reason of others would say different as with nearly all things. We can’t recreate all the events mentioned by most religions and so it wouldn’t be proper to scientifically question their validity. Many things in religion have indeed been proven wrong, but one can say that’s because in these religions long life spans man has altered their stories. But even that is reason, and out of the bounds of science. There’s no need for this argument as both can get along, and neither fully disagrees with the other. Allow them to stay as distant cousins, who don’t need to be involved with eachother until Reason invites them over for a drink.

Thanks for reading.

Still in life there are disturbed moments.Life is not what follows always a linear upward curve.It may be up and down,rotating and spiralling type.It may sometimes confuse you,sometimes flatter you, and may sometimes bring you down.

People are living their lives in their own way,whether they like it or not.They accept things as they  come. They become satisfied with as they have nothing else to choose from. It is better that way,than to suffer all through the life.When something is not in your controls, what else you could do,perhaps this thing and that thing or nothing at all.

Life is whirlwind kind of situation. It keeps you moving,rotating round and round and may even through you out of the rim,off the track.You may get lost.Your consciousness may be gone partly or even completely.But you still want to live,and survive ,anchoring and grabbing something,whatever that is.Because you want to live,you want to survive,you want to accomplish,you want to relish,you want to enjoy,you want to give and take.You want to do many many things, just in your life.In this life only.As you do not know if there is anything afterwards!

10. Machu Picchu, Peru

      This Incan City in Peru was built on top of a mountain and requires a step mile climb to get too but once you get to it. You get a fabulous view of the mountain range and you get to be a part of history metaphorically as the Incan empire was once one of the greatest empires in the known world. The downside though is if you don’t live in South America, it can be a hassle and costly for family plus tourists may be bugging your mojo up there from time to time.

9. The Grand Canyan, Colorado 

    Again, tourists may disturb the natural tranquility of this beautiful resting place, but who could resist being able to be flung over the side of the railing and down into the canyan fall below to rest in one of America’s oldest natural creations. Biology nerds may love this location, but environmental and legal regulations may prevent human remains from being flung into a natural area. So do your research.

8. Mount Everest, Nepal

    Everyone loves the tallest mountain peak in the world and for all of us who love the movie The Bucket List where it ends with Morgan Freeman and Jack Nickelson being placed in 2 coffee cans and put on mount everest. It would be beautiful if you were stored in a rock enclosure like the movie and winds would not blow you away unless you want that. Being able to soar through the Himalyas and over the world essentially would make for a great afterlife. Only problem are harsh environmental conditions, expensive costs, and a lot of effort on your family.

7. The Universe: The Moon, Atmosphere, or Beyond

    The idea of a space buriel seems to be becoming ever more popular as the allure of stars has always dazzled mankind.  But heres the short story, only about 3% of you is shot into space and many times it doesn’t even make it and you end up paying somewhere between 1000 to 12000 for a tiny portion of you to be launched. If you want your whole body launched, it costs about 45000 dollars. So unless you abolutely live for the stars and you have a lot of money, this is not the way to go.

6. Niagara Falls, Canada

    Who doesn’t love waterfalls and one of the greatest sights in the world. Being able to have your ashes blend in perfectly with the water and air as your sprinkled over the side would be a beautiful site. Unfortunately, legal and environmental regulations may prevent this as well. So do your research or just make sure no one sees you. Plus its distance could be a strain on family if they outside of Canada.

5.  The Canals of Venice, Italy

     Again could be a bit of a finanical burden on families, but another beautiful to be absorbed by the water and air that is Venice, easily one of the most fascinating, beautiful, and fun cities in the world.

4. Easter Island

    Definately a major burden, but if your one of those people that other people find you to be a complete mystery and no one quite gets you then maybe you belong with the Moai Statues on Easter Island for all eternity.

3. The Beaches of Hawaii

    Hawaii, largely regarded as one of the most beautiful places on earth would make for a great location to be sprinkled across the beach or along the rocks or in the water as the islands fascinating science and geology may intrigue many science nerds.

2. Cheasapeake Bay, Virginia

    A place uncommon to many people, but very common to my own family and easily a spectacularly beautiful place if you just give it the chance. A place known for warm weather, beautiful sunsets, wildlife, and amazing views all from an easily accessible location making it one of the best places to spend eternity. I suggest doing it at sunset for added effect.

1. Decision of family and friends

  Ultimately, the decision of where your going to sprinkled or thrown will instantly cause your family and friends to make sacrifaces to achieve any goals and desires on your behalf. Plus, family and friends often know you better than yourself so let them decide what is best and everything will fall into place.  After all, family and friends know best.