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		<title>Political Activity Through Community Transformation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 May 2012 02:38:24 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>In general, politics is to keep the affairs of the people (As siyasa hiya ri&#8217;&acirc;yatu UNIL Syu `ummah). While political Islam means to maintain and manage public affairs with Islamic laws and resolved in accordance with Islamic Shari&#8217;a. Sirah Rasul saw and many verses of the Quran shows that the missionary activity which he is a political activity. He always take into consideration in all activities and maintain the affairs of society to conform to the laws of Allah revealed Personality. Among the political activities that he and his companions to do is:</p>
<p>A. Educating people with tsaqofah Islam so they can blend with Islam, so they are free from the broken faith, the wrong thinking, and of the misconceptions and the influence of ideas and views of Kufr. Every encounter with another person, the Prophet of Islam has always offered to them. He saw sent his companions to teach the Koran to people new to Islam. He sent Khabab bin Al-Art to teach the Koran to Zainab ibn Sa&#8217;id al-Khathab and her husband. Similarly, he set the house of Al Arqam bin Abi&#8217;l Arqam as a base propaganda. Her foster them. Each friend also continue to propagate and nurture those who embraced Islam. Thus the ongoing development activities of the Prophet.</p>
<p>2. Upheaval of thought that appeared in opposition to thought and Kufr system, thought wrong, broken faith, and a misguided understanding by explaining the damage, showing and explaining his mistake in the matter of Islamic law. In addition to the verses that have been described above, there are also verses that attack their idolatry, as God Almighty:</p>
<p>وجعلوا لله شركاء الجن وخلقهم وخرقوا له بنين وبنات بغير علم سبحانه وتعالى عما يصفون</p>
<p>&#8220;They (the idolaters) jin makes it as an ally to Allah while Allah, the jinn were created. They lie, by saying that God has a boys and girls, without basing it on science. Glory to God and Sovereign of the properties that they nisbatkan. (Surat al-An `am [6]: 100).</p>
<p>In the social field, God Almighty. among other things said:</p>
<p>ولا تكرهوا فتياتكم على البغاء إن أردن تحصنا لتبتغوا عرض الحياة الدنيا</p>
<p>&#8220;Do not force your slave women to prostitution, while they themselves want purity in order to achieve worldly gains. (Surat an-Nur [24]: 33).</p>
<p>Meanwhile, in relation to economic matters, Allah Ta&#8217;ala. among other things said:</p>
<p>وما ءاتيتم من ربا ليربو في أموال الناس فلا يربو عند الله</p>
<p>&#8220;What do you give the form of usury for the purpose of adding property-human wealth does not add anything in the hand of God&#8221;. (Surat ar-Rum [30]: 39).</p>
<p>3. Opposition to the rulers who implement kufr law and dismantle their plots. Allah revealed this conspiracy to the Prophet. in his words:</p>
<p>إنه فكر وقدر% قتل كيف قدر% ثم قتل كيف قدر% ثم نظر% ثم عبس وبسر% ثم أدبر واستكبر% فقال إن هذا إلا سحر يؤثر% إن هذا إلا قول البشر% سأصليه سقر</p>
<p>&#8220;Indeed he was thought of and set. Woe to him, how he set? Woe to him, how does he set? Then he thought, then he frowned and scowled. He then turned away (from truth) and bragging. Then he said, &#8220;(Al-Quran) is nothing but magic is learned (from the ancients). This is nothing but the word of man. &#8220;I&#8217;ll put it in hell Saqar. (Surat al-Mudatstsir [74]: 18-26).</p>
<p>The leaders of Quraysh was also one by one stripped of their identity by Al Quran (see Mahmud Ahmad, Islamic Propagation, p 119-120). About Abu Lahab, Allah says:</p>
<p>تبت يدا أبي لهب وتب</p>
<p>&#8220;Perish the hands of Abu Lahab &#8230;&#8221; (Surah al-Lahab [111]: 1).</p>
<p>About ruler Makhzum Bani Walid bin Al Mughirah, Allah says:</p>
<p>ذرني ومن خلقت وحيدا% وجعلت له مالا ممدودا</p>
<p>&#8220;Leave Me alone, for whom I have created alone. And I made him a lot of property. &#8221; (Surah Al Muddattsir [74]: 11-12).</p>
<p>Against Abu Jahl, Allah says:</p>
<p>كلا لئن لم ينته لنسفعن بالناصية% ناصية كاذبة خاطئة</p>
<p>&#8220;You know, really if he does not stop We will drag top of his head, the crown of the deniers again lawlessness&#8221; (Surat al-&#8217;Alaq [96]: 15-16).</p>
<p>Based on this, in the present context, the political activities undertaken in an attempt application of Islamic law is a struggle and interact in the political field to dismantle the evil plans of the countries that have influence and domination in Muslim countries to liberate people from the shackles of colonialism and domination and pull out its roots both in the realm of thought, culture, politics, and military, as well as repeal their laws from Muslim countries. Also, make corrections to the authorities to reveal their treachery against the people and their conspiracy with the heathen nations, to criticize and control them. Hizb ut-Tahrir seeks to do its activities in accordance with the example of the Prophet. Therefore, the call is made to be thinking, political and non-violent.</p></p>
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		<title>Worldly Things (Wealth and Children)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 10:16:34 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><strong>&#8220;The love of desires has been made beautiful to people such as women, sons, piled up mounds of gold and silver, branded horses, cattle and farm land. Those are the provisions of this life and with Allah is the best place of return.&#8221; <br /> [Qur'an Al 'Imran: 14]</strong></p>
<p>Allah created in us a love for the worldly things mentioned in the verse. The love for them and the pleasure we experience is from Allah and is the nature with which He created us. It is only becoming obsessed with them at the expense of remembrance and obedience of Allah, which is from Shaitaan. Thus, we must balance between these allowed pleasures, staying away from the haraam pleasures and keeping up our obedience to Allah and remembrance of Him in our lives. Allah said:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Say: Who has forbidden the Allah&#8217;s beautiful things, which he has brought forth for His slaves and the wholesome types of sustenance? Say: They are for those who believe in the life of this world, exclusively on the day of Qiyama. In this way, we explain the signs in detail for a people who know.&#8221; <br /> [Al-A'raaf: 32]</strong></p>
<p>Allah created all of these items of pleasure and enjoyment &#8220;for His slaves&#8221;. We know from other verses that the good things of Allah will be had by believers and by non-believers in this life, but Allah&#8217;s statement the he brought these things forth &#8220;for His slaves&#8221; means that they are the ones mainly intended and they are the ones who rightfully enjoy the condition of Allah Most High. Furthermore, they will be the only ones to enjoy them in the hereafter where they will be rewarded with every kind of provision &#8220;of like nature&#8221; to what they enjoyed in this earth but considerably better and perfect in every way. On the other hand, although the disbelievers will partake of these things in this life, they do not do so rightfully and will see none of it in the hereafter.</p>
<p>Even a believer can lose rightful ownership of worldly things in his physical possession through sin and disobedience as in the famous hadith about the traveler about which the Prophet said: <strong>&#8220;&#8230;his food was haraam, his drink was haraam, his mount was haraam&#8230;&rdquo;</strong> Even those things in his ownership at the moment were <i>haraam</i> to him because of his sin and forbidden the communication he was involved in.</p>
<p>Likewise, in the verses about interest, Allah first states the absolute lack of any benefit from the <i>haraam</i> by saying:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Allah obliterates interest and compounds charity and Allah does not love those extreme in disbelief, extreme in sin.&#8221;<br /> [Al-Baqarah: 276]</strong></p>
<p>After ordering us to repent from dealing in interest, cease all involvement in it and forgo any that may be &#8220;owed&#8221; to us under the <i>haraam</i> contracts, Allah informs us that if one fails to repent and do all of this, all of his wealth is no longer rightfully his:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;So, if you fail to do so, then be informed of war from Allah and His Prophet. If you repent, your base capital is yours. You will not oppress nor be oppressed.&#8221; <br /> [Al-Baqarah: 279]</strong></p>
<p>We understand from Allah&#8217;s statement: <strong>{If you repent, your base capital is yours.} </strong>that, absent this repentance, not only is the interest component <i>haraam</i> to you but so is all of your wealth including that not involved in interest transactions &#8211; until you repent and fulfill all of the requirements of repentance.</p>
<p>So, the things of this life are ni&#8217;ma (goodness) from Allah and, by putting in our nature love for them, Allah has granted us this pleasure. But it is important to remember that He also put them there as a test to see which of us can enjoy them but keep love of Allah and remembrance of Him above all and which of us will become obsessed with the worldly things and forgetful of Allah. Allah said:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;We have surely made all that is on the Earth a beatification of it that we may test which of you are best in deeds.&#8221; <br /> [Al-Kahf: 7]</strong></p>
<p>Wealth, sons and all of the things that people compete in and love by nature are the beautification of this life. They will disappear and the only thing which will remain is our deeds. Allah said:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Wealth and sons are the beautification of the life of this world and that which remains, the good deeds are better before Allah in reward and better in hope.&#8221; </strong><strong><br /> </strong><strong>[</strong><strong>Al-Kahf: 46]</strong></p>
<p>Good deeds are the only thing we can take with us and which can help us in the hereafter. Worldly things will disappear and cannot &#8211; in themselves &#8211; help us before Allah. This does not mean that they are &#8220;opposites&#8221; or exclusive of each other. It is a common difference to feel that all things &#8220;worldly&#8221; are opposite and cannot mix with all things &#8220;spiritual&#8221;. The worldly things can be used to worship and obey Allah or they can make one forget Allah and be used to disobey Him. The Prophet said:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Whoever has three daughters and is patient with them, feeds them, give them drink and clothes them in the best manner will find them to be a shield from the fire on the day of Qiyama.&#8221; </strong><i>Narrated by Ahmed and it is sahih.</i></p>
<p>Avoiding the world or all things &#8220;worldly&#8221; or the belief that &#8220;world&#8221; and &#8220;religion&#8221; are opposites and equally exclusive is an innovation (bid&#8217;a) started by the Christians. After mentioning the prophet hood of Isa (Peace be upon Him), Allah said:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;And we placed in the hearts of those who followed him compassion and mercy but asceticism was their innovation. We did not prescribe it for them other than seeking the pleasure of Allah but they did not take care of that as they should have. We gave those believed among them their reward but many of them were corrupt.&#8221; <br /> [Al-Hadeed: 27]</strong></p>
<p>Wealth does not equal disobedience &#8211; it can be used for obedience or used in disobedience. A Muslim should enjoy the halaal which Allah gives him/her and use it in obedience. A Muslim should not even cover it from others. The Prophet said: <strong>&#8220;Whoever has wealth should let its effects be seen.&#8221; </strong>At-Tabarani and it is Sahih.</p>
<p>Wealth and children should be used as vehicles for worshipping Allah Most High &#8211; by raising good Muslim children, having money in order to pay Zakat or for extra spending in the path of Allah or to help others, etc. In this way, worldly things can increase our remembrance of Allah rather than distract us from it. Allah said:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;O you who believe, do not let your wealth or your children distract you from the remembrance of Allah. <br /> As for those who do this, they are indeed the losers.&#8221; <br /> [Al-Munafiqoon: 9]</strong></p>
<p>The love which Allah placed in our hearts for each other &#8211; and especially of a man for his wife necessitates an urge to obey their demands and to please them even if displeasing Allah Most High. In this context, Allah described dependents as enemies saying:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;O you who believe, surely among your wives and your children is an enemy to you, so beware of them. And, if you overlook, forbear and forgive, surely Allah is the Forgiving, the Merciful.&#8221; <br /> [At-Taghaabun: 14]</strong></p>
<p>An &#8220;enemy&#8221; is one who either intends harm or in some way poses a threat to one&#8217;s well being. Wives and children may pose a threat, not because of any intention of harm on their part but because of some desires for things displeasing to Allah Most High and because of the love of the man for them and his desire to please them. The first half of this verse may make a man think that he should be harsh with his wife and children in order to protect himself from this danger. The second half makes it clear that this is not the case and that he should be forgiving, forbearing and compassionate with them and hope for the same from Allah Most High.</p>
<p>This is why Allah established the hierarchy of the Muslim family: the father as <i>amir</i> who although he should consult his wife in many issues, has the final word whenever he chooses to use that option &#8211; as long as it is not disobedience to Allah. The children must obey both of their parents and show them the respect that Allah has ordered them to show. This is not just during childhood, but for their entire life. The Prophet said: <strong>&#8220;You and everything you own belong to your father.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Destruction of this hierarchy is one of the signs of <i>Qiyama</i>, which has been mentioned in various hadith. The Prophet mentioned among the signs that <strong>&#8220;a female slave will give birth to her master&#8221;. </strong>This means that a female slave (of Allah) will give birth to a child do devoid of respect and disobedience for his/her parents that the child will be as the &#8220;master&#8221; of the mother who gave birth to them! The Prophet also mentioned the obedience of a husband to his wife as one of the signs of the end.</p>
<p><strong>O Allah! Show us the truth as the truth and grant us the following of it</strong></p>
<p><strong>And show us falsehood as falsehood and grant us staying distant from it</strong></p></p>
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		<title>According to Islam How to Kiss?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 03:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>From the above discussion we can assess the risk of kissing. That turns out, there are risks that await you in the back of the day.?? In other words, if we kiss campaigning activities,? the same invite to get in trouble in terms of health, aka the campaign to hurt!</p>
<p>That&#8217;s just from the health angle.?? There is another aspect that must be considered.?? In fact, these are to be used as a standard in determining anything.?? What is it? Islamic views on a particular issue, in this case is a kiss. As a Muslim, of course we must be careful in judging an act to be done.?? Because in Islam all activities must be based on rules already established by the Creator, namely Allah SWT.?? So we do not either take a stand.</p>
<p>Islam already have adequate rules about relationships between people of the opposite of men and women.?? If you&#8217;re speeding down the highway on a motorcycle for example, you should pay attention to traffic rules so as not to hurt yourself or others, nor did the police officer got a ticket.?? Similarly, the trip in association with friends own age.?? In the Qur&#8217;an Surah Al A&#8217;raf verse 32 Allah says which means: &#8220;Do not approach adultery &#8230;&#8230;.&#8221;.?? Adultery should not be approached, let alone do it.?? We can catch it from Allah SWT perimngatan.?? In other words, things or activities that could plunge closer to or, or tempt us toward adultery is forbidden is also forbidden alias.?? Well, one thing that has the potential to deliver to the immoral activities had been a kiss.?? No wonder that later Aa Gym BCG commented that the title of the film was the same as my game Zinahi.?? Islam has set up how the men in her social and the women keep. They should lower his gaze to each other, not both-be a pair without a mahram. And of course kissing is prohibited by Islam if not? legally as husband and wife.</p>
<p>But there&#8217;s also a kiss you know that is not forbidden in our religion, of course, if already officially became husband and wife, as to walk to the required level of a process &#8216;keridho-ness&#8217; between the two, in order to receive the advantages and disadvantages of each (including each disease if any).</p>
<p>In addition to the kiss between men and women who are not mahromnya, kiss the family or a kudu mahromnyapun still on guard, watch his health before the kiss, kiss on the forehead is better / forehead to play it safe. Usually we like it? gemes same child, then so want to kiss her, lest we forget kegemesan made to maintain health.</p>
<p>Well, young fellow my friend, It is clear now how the activity of a kiss from a health standpoint as well as the rules of Islam.?? In conclusion, if you want to be healthy and safe world of the hereafter, enter the forbidden kiss.?? Let&#8217;s live a healthy life in accordance with? Shari&#8217;a.</p></p>
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		<title>This is The Islamic View of Valentine&#8217;s Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 19:20:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the context of Islam, the tradition of Valentine's clearly not there, especially if the ground is essentially like the above explanation. And what about the words &#34;to be my valentine&#34;. These words addressed to Nimrod and Lupercus, a Roman god.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p><img src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2012/04/11/imgres_3.jpg" alt="" width="262" height="193" />In the context of Islam, the tradition of Valentine&#8217;s clearly not there, especially if the ground is essentially like the above explanation. And what about the words &#8220;to be my valentine&#8221;. These words addressed to Nimrod and Lupercus, a Roman god. Then we realize it or not, or write Ken Sweiger-if we ask people to be, to be my Valentine, that means double the Lord (as asked to be the Almighty) and turn on the culture of the worship of idols. The symbol of Cupid (meaning: the desire), winged baby with an arrow is the son of Nimrod the hunter god of the Sun. Called the god of Love, because he hunted her shapely so even he committed adultery with her own mother.</p>
<p>Given that this valentine problem is not merely cultural, but also related to the Aqeedah matters for Muslims celebrating religious rituals and other religious holidays HARAM law. And valentine day is one in which it is a day that studded the symbols of idolatry would bring only to roads that are not blessed by Allah SWT. Naudzubillah min forbid &#8230;..</p>
<p>Islam explicitly states that religious matters can not be mixed confused with other religious affairs. Islam is Islam and nothing else. Because the truth of Islam is not just belong to another religion. Let the affairs of other religions, carried out by the person concerned, and we run in accordance with the teaching of our religion, Islam. The line is absolutely necessary for Muslims, in accordance&nbsp;</p>
<p>From the above it is clear what exactly the purpose of Valentine&#8217;s day, is nothing but an attempt to undermine the morality of the people of Islam and the values ​​are fine aqeedah of Muslims. According to KH. Zainuddin MZ There is no other solution except to destroy the Muslims destroy morale-read the generation of Muslims; boy / girl-Islam. For simple logic can be explained that they (the disbelievers) will not damage or the like to the people of Islam are old / old, because for them to lose if it is done because of old age will be exhausted in a short time, but if done on the generation younger then the strength of Islam will slowly destroyed .. wallahu knows best &#8230;</p>
<p>Therefore my brothers and sisters, realize, remember Allah. Satan will never cease to call upon baatil so that you all follow suit.</p>
<p>Actually, in Islam, displays of affection are not necessarily the date of 14 February. Islam strongly emphasizes compassion at all times. The Prophet said: &#8220;you will not go to heaven so that the faithful believe and when to say so much in love. Will you show me something if you do will cause the love of you? Ie scatter greeting among you &#8220;.</p>
<p>Islam in commemorating the affection not only once a year but suggest it, practice it, and spread the love all the time &#8230; the term, just everyday lah.</p>
<p>The question is ..?</p>
<p>Why the expression of Love (In the form Brown / Flowers / All Others) was given to a Friend (boyfriend / Love) You, Would not we love the most there Surrounding Ourselves, father, mother, brother, sister?? Why We Care To Other People More ..? While they WE FORGET ..</p></p>
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		<title>Fostering Harmonious Household</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 00:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>10 HOUSEHOLD TIPS foster harmony</p>
<p>Harmony is a blend of different colors that make up the character of the existence of the power of an object. The combination is what makes the color of whatever could fit into a series of beautiful and harmonious.</p>
<p>Black, for example, if standing alone would create the impression of bleak and cold. Very few people liked the black color independently. But, if combined with white, will provide its own style that can eliminate the impression was bleak and cold. The combination of black and white when laid out nicely, will give the impression of dynamic, passionate, and warm.</p>
<p>Such was the household should be managed. Household is a blend of various colors of characters. There are characters of men, women, children, and even in-laws. And not a single person in this world who can guarantee that all the characters were completely perfect. There must be advantages and disadvantages.</p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s where harmony. Would not form a beautiful rhythm in the absence of harmony between the low and high tones. High-low tone was able to give birth to millions of beautiful songs.</p>
<p>In the household, all the advantages and disadvantages of each chime. Sometimes the husband a low-pitched, sometimes high-pitched wife. This is where a husband and wife are required to create harmony by filling gaps in between them.</p>
<p>Some things to note to create a harmonious household, namely:</p>
<p>A. Do not look back</p>
<p>Do not ever bring up the reasons as early marriage. &#8220;Why would I want to accept that time wrote, huh? Why did not I refuse? &#8220;Throw away this track mind. The move will result in no change. Instead, it will bring disharmony that started from a trivial problem becomes complicated and tangled. If a sense of regret to go on, it is also possible disharmony lead to divorce.</p>
<p>Therefore, face the reality that we face today. This is our problem. Do not run away from problems with melongkok back. Or, na&#8217;udzubillah, imagine another figure outside of our partners. This will open the door to increasingly vicious poison our minds.</p>
<p>2. Thinking objectively</p>
<p>Sometimes, the conflict could drag other things that really are not involved. This occurs because emotional conflicts to be addressed by. Moreover, already involves a third party who knows the internal problem is not the whole household. Try the localization problem in the fence. Be great if the mapping is done with the cooperation issues both parties to the dispute. Of course there will be a core problem that needs to be addressed.</p>
<p>For example, the problem is less income than the husband. Do not drag the issue to be addressed so that the other emotional. For example, a husband who is not seeking money or incompetent husband was accused of being lazy. If this happens, the reverse reaction occurs. Husband will shout that the wife nagging, materialistic, and less understanding. And to be objective, the problem of lack of income can be handled with the cooperation of all parties in the household. There is a possibility, too, earning wives, even self-reliance as well as train the children.</p>
<p>3. See excess pair, do the opposite</p>
<p>To foster a sense of optimism, look at the advantages of our partners. Do not vice versa, to bring up the deficiencies they have. Imagination of an object, depending on how we put the point of view. May be materially and physically, our partners have many shortcomings. It was hard to find the excess. But, this is where the unique marriage. How can a husband and wife who love each other can not have more than one child.</p>
<p>Mean, there are one or two advantages that we hide from our spouses. At the very least, he&#8217;s sincere intentions in assisting us because God has a matchless advantages. Excellent value in the sight of Allah. Well, that&#8217;s where we look. Over time, any shortcomings of our partners that are equipped with the advantages we have. Instead of dropping or weakening the spirit of change.</p>
<p>4. Mutual trust</p>
<p>Without mutual trust between couples, marriage would not be running smoothly. How can it be smooth if the husband or wife is always watching our movements since disbelief that? What emerged was anxiety, suspicion, fear, never at peace, and so forth. In the end, you both just blame each other and accusing. Mutual trust will lead you to feel safe and comfortable. The key, do not waste your husband&#8217;s trust given. No need to suspect the husband&#8217;s wife, and vice versa, is also no need to suspect the husband and wife. Build mutual trust is also a manifestation of a mature love.</p>
<p>5. Sex needs</p>
<p>Marriage without sex can be spelled like vegetables without salt. Bland. Yes, sex is necessary. And although sexual activity is actually intended for procreation, but humans have to also develop a sex to be happy with his life partner. Sexual activity would in total surrender, surrender to each his or her spouse so that the deeper the relationship nurtured. Unequal sexual activity will be a serious problem for the husband and wife. Cranky, bickering, and ahkan seeking an outlet on the outside, the result that usually appears when this one came about.</p>
<p>Principles of good sex is the openness and honesty in expressing your individual needs. In essence, sexual activity is to satisfy each other, but to avoid the appearance of exploiting the pair. Sex is fun activity will have a positive impact for both of you.</p>
<p>6. Avoid third-party</p>
<p>Married life is its own autonomy, which should not be interfered with by others, let alone a third party. The presence of a third party to interfere or affect the authority and into the family, could create a disaster for the household. Many examples of families ruined because a third party come to play in it. Whether the interference-in-law, brother-in-law, beloved mistress, neighbors, and so forth. So, if you want your domestic life of lasting happiness, as best he could avoid third party intervention.</p>
<p>7. Keeping the romance</p>
<p>Sometimes, couples who had been long enough to build Mahligai households no longer care about this one. There&#8217;s no words of praise, dinner together, even the attention of any such expensive items. In fact, keeping the romance required by the couple until whenever, not just when they were dating. Just give her flowers, kissed her cheek, holding hands, praising each other, or a stroll along the romantic places to return to sprinkle love your spouse. Of course, ultimately the couple will feel tighter and tighter and need each other.</p>
<p>8. Hold a communication</p>
<p>Communication is also one of the pillars husband-wife relationship. The loss also lost communication means one of the pillars of the house tanga. How might your relationship with your husband will be smooth if you are reluctant to even say hello. If the household is a car, then communication is the wheels. Without it, it&#8217;s impossible to run the household.</p>
<p>Lots going on, the husband or wife is apathetic to the spouse being too busy working. Husband and wife are working, while children are busy with their own affairs, so just like a boarding house, each personally greeted each other scolds. This is the same as putting a time bomb that could explode at any time. It could, of you and then look for an outlet to make friends outside to vent and feel at home no longer live at home. So, try to always keep the communication with the husband. Take time to sit down or talk together, even just 5 minutes every day. Call or send imil when you both are in your respective offices. Or lunch together. In essence, create the communication, so that each individual feels is needed.</p>
<p>9. Mutual praise and attention</p>
<p>Although trivial, praise or attention of a very large effect on the husband, and vice versa. Pitched speech of praise will further strengthen the bonds of husband and wife. Without praise or attention, it is possible that there are only criticizing and demeaning each other. Mild praise such as &#8220;Mama Day cuisine is amazing, you know!&#8221; Or &#8220;Gee, Dad added cool wearing that tie.&#8221; Trivial utterances like it will give a boost / spirit is incredible. Your partner will feel appreciated. Praised the fees or expenses not need expensive, really. What is needed is sincerity and love of the couple.</p>
<p>10. Include in the household sakralitas</p>
<p>One of the most important foundation of marriage is a willing obedience to sharia because existence of God. In fact, if according to the calculations of matter, marriage was exhausting. That&#8217;s the reward that God has promised value.</p>
<p>When the issue barely see the end of the base, restore it to the owner of the problem, Allah SWT. Pair your good sense would have thought to God. Look at the wisdom behind the problem. Insha Allah, there is the good of all the problems we face.</p>
<p>Do ubudiyah approach. Do not get bored with prayer. It may be that, with God taqarrub, severe problems can be seen light. And automatically, the solution will be visible in plain sight. Insha Allah</p></p>
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		<title>The Wasted Years When One is Deceived is an Opportunity in Disguise</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 15:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most frustrating and devastating phase of Sarah&rsquo; life had been when she was totally in the dark, stubbornly and deeply into a relationship so deep that it&rsquo;s unfathomable to put it here. Her innocent love and deep commitment has made her pay a big price. It was only after years she realized she was totally cheated by Idran.&nbsp; Nevertheless, looking back on those 15 years of investment in love and commitment that was so strong that she had given up her self-interest and, career just to fulfill that deep human bond. But the question arises to one: Is the price she paid in that particular relationship worthy or was it just a package of Wasted Years of her life.</p>
<p>As a firm believer of Allah, her Creator and, being also deeply scientific in nature, &nbsp;she believed there&rsquo;s a law of conservation of energy which clearly states that energy (of any type) can neither be destroyed nor created but can be transformed from one form to another. So, she believed firmly that although she invested almost 15 years to build the relationship through commitment, loyalty and hard work from her side, the experience of those well-developed habits like honesty, commitment, loyalty and hard work was never a waste for her as she did not compromise on her character. It was only Idran on other side who was dishonest, misleading and lacked integrated character which might have led to his downfall later on in his life.</p>
<p>As for the person who worked hard, the same energy could be now transformed to her new life to have a far more fulfilling and enjoyment ahead as the investment was done only through all good well-developed habits. So, obviously the winner of the game is the latter as she was totally honest and the loser was none other than that person who lied and misled all the time.</p>
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		<title>Wake Up From Your Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 11:13:26 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>thinking. Even for people who are just getting out of bed in the morning</p>
<p>There were so many things that can be pushed to think.</p>
<p>Posted a long day in front of someone new</p>
<p>Just getting out of bed in the morning. A day where taste</p>
<p>tired or sleepy seemed to have vanished. He was ready to start the day.</p>
<p>When thinking about this, he remembered a word of God:</p>
<p>&#8220;It was he who made you the night (as) clothing, and sleeping</p>
<p>for the rest, and he made the day for rising. &#8220;(Qur&#8217;an</p>
<p>Al-Furqaan, 25: 47)</p>
<p>After washing face and bath, he was fully awake and</p>
<p>are in full consciousness. Now he is ready for thinking</p>
<p>on issues that are beneficial for him. Many other things</p>
<p>more important to think about than just thinking about what food</p>
<p>the dipunyainya for breakfast or what time he should</p>
<p>depart from the house. And the first time she had to think about it</p>
<p>This is more important.</p>
<p>First of all, how he was able to get up in the morning is a</p>
<p>incredible miracle. Had lost consciousness despite the same</p>
<p>once during sleep, but the next day he returned again to the</p>
<p>consciousness and personality. His heart beat, he can breathe,</p>
<p>speak and see. Yet when he went to bed, no</p>
<p>guarantee that all of these things will be back to normal in the morning</p>
<p>morning. Nor does it have any accident that night. For example,</p>
<p>omission neighbor who lived next door could cause</p>
<p>gas leak that could explode and wake him up that night. A</p>
<p>natural disasters that could have taken his life can only occur in areas</p>
<p>place of residence.</p>
<p>He might be having problems with his physical. As an example,</p>
<p>he may wake up with a tremendous pain in the kidneys</p>
<p>or head. But none of this happened and he wakes up</p>
<p>are safe and healthy. Think of such a push</p>
<p>to thank God for the love and care that</p>
<p>His given.</p>
<p>Start a new day with health significance</p>
<p>God again gives a person an opportunity to</p>
<p>dipergunakannya to get better luck in</p>
<p>Hereafter. Will remember all this, the most appropriate attitude is</p>
<p>spend time on that day in a way that God approves.</p>
<p>Before everything else, one should first</p>
<p>busy planning and thinking about things like this. The starting point in</p>
<p>get the pleasure of Allah is to ask God to</p>
<p>simplicity in this problem. Prayer of Solomon is</p>
<p>A good role model for those who believe: &#8220;My Lord!</p>
<p>give me inspiration to keep gratitude which thou hast thy ni&#8217;mat</p>
<p>bestowed upon me and to my parents, and to</p>
<p>do good works which Thou ridhai, and I key it in</p>
<p>Thy grace to the class of thy servants the righteous &#8220;(Surat an-Naml, 27</p>
<p>: 19)</p>
<p>How can human frailty encourage people to think? Body</p>
<p>humans are so weak when just getting out of bed can be</p>
<p>encourage people to think: every morning he had to wash my face</p>
<p>and brushing teeth. Aware of this, he was ruminating about the</p>
<p>other weaknesses. Necessity to take a shower every day,</p>
<p>appearance which would look terrible if his body is not</p>
<p>covered by the epidermis, and the inability to resist drowsiness,</p>
<p>hunger and thirst, are all evidence of weakness</p>
<p>himself.</p>
<p>&#8220;Allah is He Who created you from a weakened state, then</p>
<p>He makes (you) after the state&#8217;s weak become strong, then</p>
<p>He makes (you) after the strong is weak (again) and gray. He</p>
<p>creates what He wills and He is All-Knowing</p>
<p>again the Almighty. &#8220;(Surat ar-Rum, 30: 54)</p>
<p>For people who have older, her reflection in the</p>
<p>mirror can bring a variety of thoughts in his mind. When</p>
<p>the age of two decades of his life, the signs</p>
<p>aging has been seen in wajahya. At the age of ketigapuluhan,</p>
<p>folds of the skin begins to look beneath the eyelids and in the</p>
<p>around his mouth, his skin is no longer smooth as before,</p>
<p>changes in the physical form seen in most of his body. When</p>
<p>entering the age of the dusk, his hair turned white and his hands</p>
<p>become brittle.</p>
<p>For people who think about it, old age is the event</p>
<p>The most obvious is showing the transitory nature of life and the world</p>
<p>prevent it from love and greed of the world. People who entered the</p>
<p>old age to understand that the moment was close to death.</p>
<p>His body is aging and is in the process of leaving</p>
<p>this world. Her body began to weaken gradually in spite of his soul</p>
<p>does not turn into the old. Most humans are very impressed</p>
<p>by his good looks or feels inferior because of the ugliness of their faces</p>
<p>during his youth.</p>
<p>In general, people who used to be handsome or beautiful</p>
<p>arrogance, which in the past otherwise unattractive faces</p>
<p>feel inferior and unhappy. The aging process is clear evidence</p>
<p>indicating the transient nature of beauty or ugliness</p>
<p>one&#8217;s appearance. So that an acceptable and reasonable if the</p>
<p>assessed and rewarded by God is good and their moral commitment</p>
<p>shown a person to God.</p>
<p>Every time when the face of all human weakness to think</p>
<p>that the only substance of the Most Excellent and Most Great and far</p>
<p>from every imperfection is God, and he glorifies</p>
<p>greatness of God. God created every human weakness with</p>
<p>a purpose or meaning. Included in this goal is to</p>
<p>Human life is too in love to the world, and not be deceived</p>
<p>with everything they have in the life of the world. A person who</p>
<p>able to understand this by thinking that God will crave</p>
<p>creating him in the hereafter free from any flaws.</p>
<p>All human weaknesses will remind one of the interesting things</p>
<p>to ponder: the roses growing from the ground up and the</p>
<p>Black turned out to have such a fragrant smell. In contrast, odor</p>
<p>is no odor comes from people who do not take care of his body.</p>
<p>Especially for those who are arrogant and proud of myself, this is</p>
<p>something they are supposed to think and take lessons from him.</p></p>
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		<title>Good Way to Hate</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 10:45:56 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>You know &#8230; Hate can be good times! Do not hate the vices that are prohibited?</p>
<p>To find out, let&#8217;s look up what has been taught of God and His Messenger &#8230;</p>
<p>Can Hate?</p>
<p>&#8220;The rope of the most powerful faith because God is love and hate for Allah.&#8221; (Narrated by At-Tirmidhi)</p>
<p>&#8220;Whoever loves for Allah, hates for Allah, gives for Allah and do not give because God, it really has perfect faith&#8221; (Narrated by Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi)</p>
<p>From the arguments above it is clear, that is not perfect faith of a Muslim when he was only able to love or be loved. Even hate is not only allowed, it is &#8220;the ability to hate&#8221; is an obligation for those who claim to believe in the teachings of Islam.</p>
<p>Anyone and Until When the May We Hate?</p>
<p>Basically, we are obliged to hate what God hates, continuously and full commitment.</p>
<p>&#8220;God hates the three cases are swearing, gambling and membazirkan money.&#8221; (Hadith Bukhari and Muslim)</p>
<p>There are many other examples, but from a hadith only conclusion we can take:</p>
<p>A. All of the hated Allah and His Messenger shall we hate as well.</p>
<p>2. Who hated the character / action / words.</p>
<p>3. Personally do not hate men. Because we can and must hate only properties / actions, then it must also for us to forgive those who have been innocent of such properties.</p>
<p>&#8220;And let them forgive and overlook. Do you not love that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful&#8221; (Surah An-Nuur: 22)</p>
<p>So while there are people we hate to stop doing something bad, and apologized to us, we who actually need more sorry that, due to the forgiving will open the door of forgiveness from God. While there have been countless more just how much sin we have committed.</p>
<p>4. Hatred against nature is permanent in nature. We are required to forgive those who do wrong, but we must still wrong to hate it. Allah and His Apostle never change the things that must be loved or hated since the creation of the universe until the Day of Judgment. God is always loving gratitude expert, and always hate evil. There is no &#8220;promo period&#8221; in which sinners are allowed. And our duty is also to remain consistent.</p>
<p>Self Introspection</p>
<p>The hated, the most important is that we must ask ourselves: are the properties of the hated within ourselves?</p>
<p>If there were, then we should always feel embarrassed when there are still people who like us let alone God still devote a lot of pleasure to us, because ultimately the properties we have been including mandatory hated.</p>
<p>So by realizing that, in addition to reminding others with a polite manner, we must fix the bad qualities in us because:</p>
<p>&#8220;Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change it themselves&#8221; (Surah Al-Ra&#8217;d 11)</p>
<p>As long as a minute longer want the month of Ramadan. It&#8217;s time to get a ration remarkable forgiveness from Allah. (Although we are still obliged to continually repent, including outside of Ramadan)</p></p>
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		<title>Also Alms Need Exercise</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 16:13:30 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>A child loves his mother because he could meet the needs of affection, love him because he was fulfilling his life a living, a husband and wife love each other because of each other meet their physical and spiritual needs. Similarly, property, loved because she could meet our needs, &#8220;to cite this as a beautiful (view) human love of what is desirable, it is: women, children, many of the kinds of treasures of gold, silver, horse selection , cattle and rice fields. This is the pleasure of living in the world, and in nearness to Allah is the good place (heaven) &#8220;(Ali Imron: 14). The love that arises is why humans have a sense of unwillingness to lose what he loves. As a child, he would not be willing to lose a parent, husband or wife is not willing to lose a partner, so we are not willing to lose the property. That is not a disgrace. Instead, it encourages a sense of this unwillingness to maintain and defend the human family desperately what he loved. However, this feeling turned into a disgrace if you develop excessive. A wife, for example, if he has an excessive love for her husband, but when her husband left her, it would make him lash out destiny and decree of Allah ta&#8217;ala &#8211; na&#8217;udzu billahi min forbid.property was&nbsp;too, that excessive love of wealth led to a miserly or stingy nature nesting on human beings, even the Almighty described the man who has a bad character is in his words, &#8220;Say: If you master the vocabulary if the grace of my Lord-the treasury , He treasures you hold it, for fear of spending &#8220;. and is very stingy man &#8220;(Al-Israa: 100).</p>
<p>If the nature of the miser is lodged in the chest, no matter how much the property will not be able to make people feel &#8220;safe and convenient&#8221; for charity. Fear can not pay school fees, fear of not being able to buy cosmetics for his wife, afraid later if the hospital can not pay medical expenses, fear of the future child, afraid later if the vehicle is damaged do not have the money to the garage, fearing the prices of goods rise time of Eid, fear can not collect enough property for the cost of marriage, fear of trouble later provide for the family after marriage, and a million other fear could be the reason for someone to not share their wealth with others, or if they should try to share a dime, or if you can not have prayer discordant discordant treasure, because it is based on mathematical formulas we learned in kindergarten since if &#8220;two&#8221; minus &#8220;one&#8221; the result must be &#8220;One&#8221;, in other words if &#8220;Budi&#8221; has a Rp.200, -. then a Rp.100, given to &#8220;Annie&#8221; so money &#8220;Budi&#8221; now lives Rp.100, -. So if &#8220;Budi&#8221; wants the money is not reduced then do not give money to others.</p>
<p>Properties file is not a trivial problem, Rosulullah-sholallahu &#8216;alaihi wasalam, had warned his people about the dangers of this disease, he said: &#8220;Stay away from the tyranny you, for surely it would be a dark tyranny of the perpetrator on the Day of Resurrection, and far too stingy nature , because this trait has been the undoing of previous peoples. &#8221; (HR.Muslim)</p>
<p>Imam Nawawi explained that the miserly nature triggered them to kill each other so that tyranny is rampant. In addition, he-sholallahu &#8216;alaihi wasalam, also said: &#8220;There are two properties that will not converge in the person of faith: miserliness and bad character&#8221;. (HR.Tirmidzi)</p>
<p>He-sholallahu &#8216;alaihi wasalam, also said: &#8220;In the body of a slave will never mingled dust of jihad in Allah&#8217;s way with the smoke of hell, and in the heart of a servant of avarice will never mix with faith&#8221;. (Narrated by Tirmidhi, Nasa&#8217;i, and Ibn Majah)</p>
<p>&#8220;Train yourself &#8216;for the philanthropist is very important. Why do I say &#8220;train yourself to generous&#8221; not &#8220;be generous&#8221; &#8230;? Because it is generosity that takes practice. No one can lift 50 kg bag of rice when he was 5 years old, need exercises for years. As it is also a generous nature, to dare give alms&nbsp;entire property in Allah as did Abu Bakr &#8211; rodhiallahu&#8217;anhu &#8211; or half the personal property as did Umar &#8211; rodhiallahu&#8217;anhu &#8211; or share the property with a half brother as did The Ansar to the immigrants, not the easy thing that can happen in a day and night. It takes time and effort to convince ourselves that in the verse, &#8220;whatever ye spend, Allah will replace them and He is giving the best of sustenance&#8221;. (Saba: 39)</p>
<p>Maybe there is truth rule &#8220;little by little long into the hills&#8221;, not only applies in the tube-saving, but in this case &#8211; train yourself to be too generous-applied. It means the liberty to issue a wealth in the way of God in besar1 scale we need to familiarize themselves with alms alms-small scale. Abu Bakr-may-not dare rodhiallahu&#8217;anhu give alms&nbsp;entire estate unless previously he had used his wealth to menyedekahkan partially freed slaves, the poor sympathize, etc.. Courage &#8211; the courage that gathered little charity-almsgiving when issued will bear little courage to issue great charity as well.</p>
<p>A similar law applies to properties file. A person familiar with the miser &#8211; miser little over time will not be awkward anymore to make a greater parsimony. Before the unbelievers judged by Allah Ta&#8217;ala as being stingy to the point that if they have keys of the heavens and the earth they will remain stingy as described in the letter al-israa above, they have to cultivate their hearts with greed, avarice small.</p>
<p>It is true that if we calculate with mathematical formulas, the miserly nature of a profit because then the property is not reduced. Islamic Shari&#8217;a but unfortunately could not weigh it with the glass eye in mathematics. Not all that it means less diminished, and not all that stable means stable. Sholallahu Rosulullah-&#8217;alaihi-wasalam said: &#8220;Alms will not reduce the property&#8221; (Narrated by Muslim)</p></p>
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		<title>Life is a Choice</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 15:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Gays and lesbians to keep their existence with human rights overturned. The adherents of heretical beliefs, too, the Human Rights overturned. Emancipation of women also arise because they felt she had been imprisoned by the patriarchal culture, so they use human rights to achieve freedom freely.</p>
<p>HAM is like a litter box which contains impurities which are mixed and varied. Behind the HAM contains impurities called freedom of gender, sexual freedom, aberration of religion, even the thought of unlimited shelter behind the mask of human rights. HAM was made man free to act without fear of punishment from the norm in society. Humans are taught to be free to do whatever they wish and are free to choose the path of his life.</p>
<p>Life is a choice. Choice for us to determine walks of life who want to go through. Could be, the choice was correct, we may even get lost when searching the streets. Being a cautious man is an option, as well as a human being immoral, it is an option. Humans are given reason to think. Similarly, humans are given the motivation or desire in him to try. Reason and the will of the human stock to determine the life cycle.</p>
<p>Humans are exposed to much deviation path of life. Any decision to decide which path he chooses, he must be prepared to bear the risk. When he was treading a path, he must take responsibility for those choices. Being a knowledgeable human being is a choice, and he must be responsible and ready to accept the risks. Tired of reading and learning is a risk that should he accept. Then it must also be responsible for spreading the knowledge they have gained. Being a fool was an option. Options for him to be a relaxed, lazy, shy away from difficulties, and neglect for their time and treasure. But he must be prepared to risk as a lowly job, not noble in the eyes of man and his God, completely bewildered face problems, and easily swayed by the reality.</p>
<p>Islam has explained in detail about the way human beings should take. Path between truth and vanity&nbsp;clearly explained in the guidance of the Qur&#8217;an and Sunnah. However, Islam does not force the unbelievers to enter into Islam. Why? Because life is a choice, and every person responsible for each choice. Please those who disbelieve follow the path of his life. But they will still be held accountable before Allah Ta&#8217;ala on the future life choices. The world there may be gray between black and white. Hereafter has a separate but clearly, there is only black or white. That there is only heaven or hell. Heaven is only for those who follow the religion of Allah, while the special hell for those dissidents Shari&#8217;a of Allah. Believers of the above choices determine the path of piety. But with the risks of too heavy and responsibilities that are not too light. He should be able to resist the passions and not to be involved in their lush disobedience hole. Similarly, he must seek knowledge in depth so doubtful and ignorance prevented. Likewise, he must be patient in obedience charity. People who make choices on the path of piety,</p>
<p>Life is choices. Options to be any. Either way we pass through freely. However, we must take responsibility for every choice that we have set. And Can we account for it before God someday? Please live the life that be your choice. But do not forget, prepare yourself for to account for it in the Hereafter, because that&#8217;s where we all end of life journey. And the Hereafter there are only two choices road, smiling in heaven or in hell miserable. Make your selection.</p></p>
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