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		<title>Are Y&#8217;ll Interested in an Online MBA?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 06:35:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This program allows you to develop your management skills and expand your network of contacts, prior to the decision of cursarlo, know what the return on your investment.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Economist has recognized the importance and role increasingly  important role they are playing the online MBA , creating a  sub-classification of the best distance MBA . And, whatever they say its  detractors, the possibility of obtaining this board quoted without  leaving your desk, combining vocational training with the family, is  certainly something very attractive.  &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  </p>
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<p> This program, ranked by The Economist as &#8220;excellent&#8221;, is taught for a  decade and is structured as follows: students have three cycles of  two-week classroom course at the beginning, middle and end, and in  between there are two rounds of six months away from each. The program  starts and ends with classes and meetings, and half&nbsp; considered a  two-week stay. Another he describes as &#8220;excellent&#8221; is the online  University of India, located in the second. Then comes the <a href="http://www.university18.edu.in/online_mba_it_courses.html" target="_blank">Online MBA in IT</a> University of&nbsp; Management , although this program has to settle for a &#8220;good&#8221;.  <br /> <a href="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2012/02/15/mbacareerenhancer240x225_1.jpg" target="_blank"><br /></a> <br /> <a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-SGvCxy4BxmM/TztE_O4_HRI/AAAAAAAAAPk/7FxcrJ5qqOk/s1600/mba-essays-ad-crop.jpg" target="_blank"><br /></a> <a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-SGvCxy4BxmM/TztE_O4_HRI/AAAAAAAAAPk/7FxcrJ5qqOk/s1600/mba-essays-ad-crop.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2012/02/15/mbaessaysadcrop_1.jpg" alt="" width="320" height="215" border="0" /></a><a href="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2012/02/15/mbacareerenhancer240x225_1.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2012/02/15/mbacareerenhancer240x225_1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a> <br /> The methodology used by the Economist operates as follows. The school  highest score in each category, in this case IE Business School,  receiving a score of 100% and the other schools are evaluated based on  this rating. Those that manage more than 95% are rated as excellent,  programs that achieve between 75% and 95% are classified as &#8220;good&#8221;,  those between 50% and 74% are &#8220;average&#8221; and those that remain below 50%  are considered deficient. The study by The Economist classifies programs  according to three categories are given equal weighting.   <br /> The first concerns the content of the program and measures such things  as the relationship between the number of teachers and the number of  students, the percentage of teachers with doctoral students assessment  of faculty do and they do the program. The second category is related to  the quality of peers and measures the percentage of students completing  the program, work experience and appreciation of the cultural level.  Finally, the study considers aspects that are directly related to <a href="http://www.university18.edu.in/online_postgraduate_courses.html" target="_blank">Distance learning MBA</a>, which takes into account the sense of connection to school and value for money as the students.</p>
<p><strong>Programs in business administration</strong> are valued in executive positions because through them the person improves <strong>an organization&#8217;s strategic vision</strong> and managerial skills in different areas of the company, explains the director of the <strong>MBA program</strong> at the Online Education.  <br /> For more information about this study please click here <a href="http://www.university18.edu.in/" target="_blank">MBA</a> .</p>
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		<title>Gratitudе &#8211; The Importance оf Everyday Appreciation</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 13:48:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whеn everything іs going smoothly іn yоur life, gratitudе comes easily. However, whеn fate throws yоu а curve wіth thе recession, thе war іn Iraq, and unemployment, yоu react differently and hаvе а difficult time оf showing deep appreciation. Do nоt take yоur gifts оr blessings fоr granted. Gratitudе іs аn attitudе оf thanks. Discover thе joy and fulfillment thаt comes wіth daily gratitude.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What gifts оr blessings do yоu take fоr granted each day? Perhaps its yоur health? Or maybe it&#8217;s yоur job? How аbоut thе vеry ability tо wake up and go аbоut yоur daily processes without evеn thinking аbоut it? Think hоw richly blessed yоu are. It&#8217;s а mindset thаt trains yоur mind tо bе mоrе grateful. Perhaps yоur health isn&#8217;t perfect, but thеn again yоu аrеn&#8217;t іn а wheelchair оr іn thе hospital. Perhaps yоur job isn&#8217;t ideal, but yоu hаvе а job. Perhaps yоur home isn&#8217;t а castle, but it&#8217;s yоur castle.</p>
<p>Take time оut each day tо give thanks fоr just five blessings іn yоur life. Take five minutes tо honor and identify yоur blessings. A daily practice оf gratitudе cаn change yоur life. Keep а gratitudе journal especially fоr thаt purpose. Opеn yоur heart and soul tо experience yоur blessings by fully embracing gratitudе and making іt а way оf life. Extend random acts оf kindness tо each person yоu meet today, evеn if it&#8217;s simply holding а door opеn fоr someone. Give sincere thanks tо everyone and everything. Write thank yоu notes tо yоur paperboy, yоur cleaning woman, thе boss, etc. Maintain thіs positive force and energy іn yоur life. Always remember thе bad tо appreciate thе good.</p>
<p>Here аrе sоmе оf thе following benefits оf gratitude:</p>
<p>1. Gratitudе strengthens thе immune system, improves sleep patterns, and reduces stress.<br />2. An attitudе оf gratitudе makes yоu а mоrе effective leader and manager іn thе workplace and results іn job satisfaction.<br />3. In relationships and friendships аn attitudе оf gratitudе helps build trust and increases generosity.<br />4. An attitudе оf gratitudе helps yоur spirit and character development.</p>
<p>A daily gratitudе practice cаn improve yоur sleep, overall energy, and emotional well being. Transform yоur life today by choosing and starting each day wіth а new attitudе and plenty оf gratitude. Think fоr one second аbоut thе impact thаt yоur gratitudе wіll hаvе оn yоu and аll thе people thаt yоu wіll touch by simply being thankful.</p>
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		<title>Are You at Risk of Becoming Unstable?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 02:24:01 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Procrastination for more&nbsp;contemplation is not something that can be used as an excuse anymore if you are serious about taking control of your destiny!; yet contemplation while in action&nbsp;is not procrastination, it is pausing to contemplate before taking Action and then once again after the fact,&nbsp;deducing the Action plan for mistakes.&nbsp;Our plan is to develop Your Contemplation Action Plan for the Future; there is no other way to&nbsp;move forward and limited uses Looking Back.</p>
<p>Are you at risk of becoming unstable? YES, It is true that life can bring&nbsp;anyone down, even if you are strong willed, have High resilience , are emotionally&nbsp;nourished&nbsp;and economically&nbsp;comfortable. There are always risks when interacting with your life, which we must do to be eligible to have one;&nbsp;Rough Tides become Stronger. Rips and Crosscurrents intertwine and before you even realise it, your struggling&nbsp;, you are weak and life in an instant has spiralled to this point without even seeing it.</p>
<p>Amazingly you are not a different person, you are&nbsp;still the person you always were- just emotionally scared or even damaged; worn out, fed up, disillusioned, bitter, frustrated- what ever you would like to call it! So the common assumption we grow up with is we must just never let ourselves &nbsp;become a loser- like those people- those who are&nbsp;caught in the Downward Spiraling Whirlpool of life. Yet all of these people were once just like you, avoiding the cracks in the Facade as to avoid becoming broken.</p>
<p>Its time to accept and&nbsp;acknowledge that Anyone can end up this way, in fact many of us will feel the beginnings of a Spiral downwards but have the ability&nbsp;to self correct, others have the ability to repress. There are times in life you find yourself&nbsp;thinking or doing things you never imagined you would do;&nbsp;but&nbsp;yet you are still the same&nbsp;person as you have always been on the inside, your life just encountered themes or&nbsp;situations that altered the way you viewed the world; changing direction to avoid the failure spiral. These real life situations never entered your dreams and plans&nbsp;for the Future, therefore unprepared and unable to cope.</p>
<p>I&nbsp;once felt I&nbsp;had&nbsp;found absolute true happiness! Over night it disappeared with no warning; life events just crushed me.&nbsp;&nbsp;It was overwhelming as I had really worked so hard to make it through working, study, a young mother at 14, always having a baby&nbsp;to care for while looking for career options; Just&nbsp;once I felt like Id achieved what was expected;&nbsp;I felt I had earned the right to happiness as I had made something of myself&nbsp;in life; completed more of my goals than I ever knew I had in the beginning; I stayed true to what I said I would be, I came clean on all the mistakes I had made in life. I blamed no one for my mistakes or paths I chose and I tried to keep my life separate from my parents and siblings as to not shame them. Stubborn in my own right, I had always been determined to do things my way, ready to accept the family&nbsp;motto &#8216;you made your bed you lie in IT! and this is exactly the choice I made therefore that meant no Return. No matter what laying in that bed in tails; you made it, you own it, you deserve it.</p>
<p>A&nbsp;trash mouth conversation&nbsp;from a friend was all it took, it all come tumbling down. Almost 7 years this Christmas. I now have learnt so much about the world never evidently mentioned in my psychological studies alone.</p>
<p>A holistic psychoanalyst is the career path I chose;&nbsp;encompassing every aspect of the&nbsp;person, what&nbsp;the causes and the cures; there is not just one true answer and definitely not one true cause. An Individual approach to analysis and treatment is essential, but also the in-depth training of reality of failure and imperfect decisions through out the years it takes to find total self actualization.&nbsp;&nbsp;I have suffered many horrific events in my life time, eventually the repression and attempts to remove them from my existence resulted in eventual break down; along with the breakdown came abandonment and loneliness. From the Ultimate high that we had reached where we had been trekking for so many long long years, to have it taken from beneath you in one day, never to come back exactly that way again.</p>
<p>Many more negative events occurred after the original whirlpool bringing&nbsp;to light the total&nbsp;ignorance I had for my own life although I was an expect at fixing everyone elses. &nbsp;It is&nbsp;the pain of having been blind to the obvious, to not see what was in front of me, believing that peoples views toward would change. Instead they welcomed back the legend of the Street drawn daughter they once lost to the leer of the streets. They disowned me but still tried to control me and when I succeeded in my own right, they refused to see me; they were waiting for the day that were right and I become nothing because I had left.</p>
<p>The painful lessons I learned are evident in who I am now; seeing the real world from the shadows of loneliness guarantees you a more realistic view of the majority of people we consider normal Joe Blows..For these people I rose above all odds to make them proud; but it never ended. I was forever under their rule; fix their own mistakes by telling me to live life a different way; yet the advice was not wisdom but frustration; the need to control how events in others lives should be handled is a more selfish behaviour; not allowing someone to live the life they choose to live due to not concern but self-actualization through someone else&#8217;s life</p>
<p>I held out my hand to try and catch my family when they were falling; and held out my hand to loved ones for support. Instead I got rejected from both sides to find myself alone. If I chose to take the path people had laid for me with my children I had all the support I needed; if I did things my way It was the Highway for both me and the kids.</p>
<p>Seven years on and I have regrouped my stance on life; Bitterness and anger come and went often, sadness would occasionally slip itself in between; then other times I just wish I could give up. Instead Now i ponder the next phase of my life; remember the years just past; deduct my stance in the environment Ive created for myself and&nbsp; determine areas in which may need attention or changing; then teach this lesson of mistakes&nbsp;to all who will listen.&nbsp;&nbsp;Document all apparent failures that you feel have no good direction in their course in life; at the time you just felt like you were being drowned by the most evil of spirits; bringing you down blow after blow with no compassion or remorse; life changes dramatically and your paths have been removed and replaced with different ones; in a place much darker and dangerous. You can see no absolute good or reason in life that this experience could be helpful. Yet years from now pondering life at a higher level; open-mindedness find the positive effects it has had in the future; the direction leading to somewhere better than before. A wrong turn actually leading to the right one?</p>
<p>I do recommend just to briefly consider finding something good out of something that hurt you so bad; sometimes there is just not enough good to come&nbsp;from the horrific pain they suffered, to try and make this occur despite their pain it will destroy&nbsp;the emotions beyond return. This is an individual analysis as it will be the&nbsp;persons coping mechanisms and approach to healing that will determine the true course in which to head in understanding bad luck and devastation within a time of happiness. It is important that coping mechanisms are strong and monitored by yourself regularly. There are never any answers to why but there are patterns in behaviours that gives you some idea of the suffering that one person can cause if not treated for their problem. Awareness will help avoid and cope with these situations.</p>
<p>Basically it is time we teach people to become aware of their dangers and how to get in touch with their intuition and instincts. Teach the weak how to be strong, teach that the weak can be strong, as well as teach that the what sometimes may seem weak and quiet, can also be a seriously dangerous&nbsp;underneath . All is not always as it seems.</p>
<p>&nbsp;The Contemplation Action Plan is the first ebook to guide you through some contemplation scenarios and then Action Plan to add a fresh pathway to make life more fulfilling. Understanding people and behaviours will arm you to be equipped with the necessary tools to assess a theme or situation accurately and then contemplate the best course of action based on your individual personality, coping mechanisms, emotional stability and environment. Being you are the only one that knows exactly what you can and can&#8217;t cope with; you can guide yourself through the channels and&nbsp; work out your pathway as you go, twists and turns highly recommended and almost 100% guaranteed.</p>
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		<title>Is It Flattery or a Compliment?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 04:59:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Flattery and compliments both offer praise to someone else, but what's the difference?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Joan Whetzel</p>
<p>We&rsquo;ve all received compliments and flattery. But do we always recognize which is which when we see them? Both can be used to praise others, but when we&rsquo;re on the receiving end the praise isn&rsquo;t always welcomed. For one thing, compliments are seen as positive and make us feel good about ourselves while where flattery is seen as negative and make us feel uncomfortable. The difference between them is the objective of the person extolling the honor and whether the person expects to benefit in some way.</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><strong>What Are Flattery and Compliments?</strong></p>
<p>A look in any dictionary will provide a good definition of these two words. To compliment someone means to admire and respect them, to offer sincere praise for some accomplishment or good deed, to let the person know that you appreciate them and why. To flatter another person, on the other hand, means giving them praise that they haven&rsquo;t earned and that you don&rsquo;t mean, or heaping praise on them that is in-proportionate to their abilities, accomplishments, or deeds.&nbsp; The insincerity of flattery is what makes us feel uncomfortable.</p>
<p><strong>Flattery&nbsp; and Its Synonyms</strong></p>
<p>The synonyms of flattery illustrate the negative undercurrents to the word.&nbsp; Words like adulation (admiring gone overboard), fawning (using praise to ingratiate yourself on someone&rsquo;s good graces),&nbsp; and blarney (using charm or magnetism to beguile someone) all demonstrate the negative uses for flattery. Flattery is used to persuade the other person to do something or to obtain something from that person. The flatterer doesn&rsquo;t mean the words being offered to the other person, they are only offering the praise to get something they want.</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><strong>The Compliment and Its Synonyms</strong></p>
<p>Similar words to compliment carry a more positive tone. To offer acclaim (gives the other person approval, gives backing to their efforts), to exalt (honors and respects the persons reputation), to salute (welcomes the other person and proffers kindness and support) all have positive associations. To commend, commemorate or congratulate the other person, rewards them for their accomplishments and deeds.</p>
<p><strong>The Difference Between Flattery and Complements </strong></p>
<p>Flattery is the equivalent of ego stroking. It takes a person&rsquo;s natural need to be praised and uses it to sway others into doing something they might not ordinarily do. Flattery points to someone&rsquo;s anger or jealousy or greed, and tells that person how that makes them a great person. Anger becomes a sing of strength, jealousy becomes a sign of protectiveness, and greed becomes a sign of someone who knows what they want. By telling others what they want to hear, the person using flattery manipulates the other person into doing what the flatterer wants.</p>
<p>Compliments use kind words to build deep, meaningful relationships. The praise comes from the heart and is used to point out positive traights in the other person. Compliments, in turn, make the giver feel good about themselves because they made the other person aware of some postive aspect in themselves and because they know that their words, actions and accomplishments are appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Where There is Classical Literature, There is Psychology</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 03:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>I took my first composition course my sophomore year in college. I loved that course. I aced that course. The entire semester my professor begged me to major in English rather than psychology. I told him that literature is boring and that I would prefer to study the human mind. The next semester in composition 2, he tried convincing me again to major in English and again I said no. Today, after having completed a BS in psychology, I have realized that teaching English is in fact what I want to do for the rest of my life. I want to show everyone how important good writing is, and how funny misplaced modifiers can be (although, I&#8217;m sure I have a million in this article because I&#8217;m so excited and don&#8217;t plan on spell checking this article at all). Anyhow, I suppose I realized this in my last seminar in research methods course. I was required to write a 20 page paper on whether or not students comprehended information better when presented by a man than they do when presented by a woman. I realized then how much I love grammar and spelling and word arranging. I decided to get a second BS in English with a post-secondary certification in teaching, however with an English degree comes literature&#8230;. Tons of literature. I just stepped out of my first literature class, renaissance literature, and I was shocked beyond belief. After only 50 minutes in my FIRST literature class, I have realized that there is way more psychology and human-mind studying in this than I could have ever imagined! Internal turmoil, dual vision, Holbein, Petrarch?!?! Why have I not ever noticed this? Was it because I first needed an entire 4 years of studying psychological issues before I could notice them in literary works, even movies?! Or would I have been able to notice them without prior knowledge? To many, this may be completely irrelevant but I truly am in awe of the circumstances, and &nbsp;I am sure that I will be in more awe as I dive further into this new, unknown haven I have discovered. What I loved most about my first literature course this morning was how we had to analyze a painting by Holbein and excerpts from renaissance authors telling stories of how they were lost and then found God again. This type of stuff is beautiful to me. I am so excited to spend this time reading about internal conflicts in literary works that are beautifully written and edited. I must end this article now because it&#8217;s time for my American literature course!!!!!</p></p>
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		<title>Eight Ways to Love Your Boyfriend</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 06:23:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No relationship is the same but there are some universal charms that work every time and are sure to set your boyfriends soul glowing. What sets a woman apart and gives men the impression that she could very well be &#34;the one&#34; relies on the affection and affection manifested into each portrayal of love. Here are some ways to cosset your boyfriend.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Every man adores a good woman who can cater to his every need and fill the cracks in his soul. The foundation of a relationship is cemented on the basis of effort, understanding, and concern and nurtured through love and adaptability. Men, although seemingly tough on the outside, reveal a brittle and tender heart under their fa&ccedil;ade and breaking this barrier can be a hard skill.</p>
<p>As the saying goes, &ldquo;The best way to a man&rsquo;s heart is through his stomach&rdquo;.&nbsp; Cooking for your boyfriend is one of the greatest expressions of love. Rather than the desire to obtain culinary perfection, it is the love and effort put into the preparation of the meal that makes a big impact. The cherished memories of home cooked meals are sure to surpass the recollections of dinner dates at fancy restaurants. Whether its coming home after a long day at work or whatever the occasion might be, your boyfriend is bound to appreciate a warm, home cooked meal sure to content his soul.</p>
<p>Men sure do love women who can coddle their ego.&nbsp; The two &ldquo;A&rsquo;s&rdquo;, assurance and appreciation can make your boyfriend head over heels for you. Whether it was that 20 minute skype conversation he managed to squeeze in while overseas on a business trip or the weekend he spent talking care of you while your were sick, tell him through a letter, email, or simply a text message how much you appreciate everything in specific that he has done for you and your nurturing relationship. Constant assurance is a great warrior against those doubts, insecurities and inferiorities that can often creep up on us and your boyfriend is sure to find contentment in the appreciation you express through the little but heartwarming things he&rsquo;s done for you.</p>
<p>Get involved in his life. Men often look for the whole package in a woman and that means going beyond the superficial aspect of a relationship and delving into all sectors of his life. Set time aside everyday to ask about work, his family and anything new that&rsquo;s going on in his life even if its just a 10 minute phone call before bed. Men put up a tough exterior even when they&rsquo;re crumbling inside and chances are, your boyfriend might be going through some rough times that he&rsquo;s been wanting to confide in someone or would just appreciate your effort to get involved in his life.</p>
<p>&nbsp;Pamper him. There&rsquo;s nothing like a session of adoration to keep the spark in your relationship going. Whether it&rsquo;s a nice hot oil massage, bubble bath with candles and romantic music, surprising him at work with lunch or letting him sit around in his boxers all day playing video games while you serve him, let his know that you&rsquo;re dedicating a day to his devotion.</p>
<p>Endless love. Take every moment to show your boyfriend how blessed you feel to have him in your life. Whether its that random kiss on the cheek or coming home to a big smile and warm embrace, grab up every opportunity to cuddle, hold hands and kiss. There&rsquo;s nothing better to start off your day than waking up to find your lover in your arms or vice versa.</p>
<p>Plan activities. This doesn&rsquo;t mean that you have to burn a hole in your wallet. It can be as simple as indulging in the ambience of the sunset together or sitting at the beach watching the waves crash against the shore. There&rsquo;s also those weekend getaways or the sheer moral obligation wanting to do something meaningful together like helping out at the animal or homeless shelter that can strengthen a relationship.</p>
<p>Love him tender. Intimacy is almost like a soul tie that binds two people together. Plan a special night for your boyfriend whereby the both of have no other obligations but endless loving. Throw on his favorite lingerie and set the mood with candle light mazes through your home or rose petals guiding the way to the bedroom where he finds you. For a tryst you&rsquo;ll never forget, turn on the video camera and make a copy of your night for him to keep.</p>
<p>Scrapbook your special moments and gift it to your boyfriend. It&rsquo;s always nice to reminisce about the past and look back on the precious moments that you have shared together.&nbsp; Your boyfriend will be sure to develop a smile looking through it.</p>
<p>As the saying goes, it&rsquo;s not the number of breaths you take but the moments that take your breath away. It&rsquo;s never easy to love someone and give them all of yourself considering the visceral distaste for men and relationships influencing our lives. The comfort however lies in the fact that the fate of our relationship lies in our own hands and it is possible to create an eternal bond.</p></p>
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		<title>How to Make Your Husband Happy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 10:20:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you, begin with a good greeting.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>1- Beautiful Reception</strong> <br />After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you, begin with a good greeting. &nbsp; * Meet him with a cheerful face.<br />* Beautify and perfume yourself.<br />* Start with good news and delay any bad news until he has rested.<br />* Receive him with loving and yearning sentences.<br /> * Make hard efforts for excellence of the food &amp; having it ready on time. &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>2- Beautify and Soften the Voice</strong> &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>3- Smelling Good and Physical Beautification</strong> <br />* Taking good care of your body and fitness.<br />* Put on nice and attractive clothes and perfumes.<br />* Bath regularly and, after the monthly period, remove any blood traces or bad smells.</p>
<p>* Avoid that your husband observes you in dirty clothes or rough shape.<br />* Avoid prohibited types of ornamentation, e.g. tattoo.<br />* Use the types of perfumes, colors, and clothes that the husband likes.  &nbsp;* Change hair style, perfumes, etc. from time to time.<br />* However with these things you should avoid excessiveness</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>4- Intercourse</strong> <br />* Hasten for intercourse when your husband feels compulsion for it.<br />* Keep your body clean and smelling good as possible including cleaning yourself after intercourse.<br /> * Exchange loving phrases with your husband. * Leave your husband to fully satisfy his desire.<br />* Choose suitable times and good occasions for exciting your husband, <br />and encouraging him to do intercourse, e.g. after returning from a travel, weekends, etc.  &nbsp; &nbsp; <br /> <strong>5- Satisfaction With What God Has Allotted</strong> <br />* You shouldnt be depressed because your husband is poor or works in a simple job.&nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>6- Indifference to Worldly Things</strong></p>
<p><strong> <br /></strong>* You should not consider this world as your hope and interest.<br />* You should not ask your husband for many unnecessary things.<br /> * Encourage your husband to reduce expenses and save some money in order to give charity and feed poor and needy people.</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>7- Appreciation</strong> &nbsp; <br />*  By the saying of the prophet, the majority of people in hell were women  because they were ungrateful and deny the good done to them.<br />* The result of being grateful is that your husband will love you more and will do his best to please you in more ways.<br />*  The result of being ungrateful is that your husband will be  disappointed and will start asking himself: Why should I do good to her,  if she never appreciates? &nbsp; &nbsp;<strong><br />8- Devotion and Loyalty</strong> <strong> <br /></strong></p>
<p>* In particular in times of calamities in your husband&#8217;s body or business, e.g. an accident or a bankruptcy<br />* Supporting him through your own work, money, and properties if needed.</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<br /> <strong>9- Compliance to Him</strong> <br />* In all what he commands you, unless it is prohibited <br />* Husband is the leader of the family, and the wife is his support and consultant.  <br />&nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>10-Pleasing Him If He Is Angry</strong> &nbsp; <br />* First off, try to avoid what will guarantee his anger.<br />* But if it happens that you can&#8217;t, then try to appease him as follows:  <br />1- If you are mistaken, then apologize. <br />2- If he is mistaken then:<br /># Keep still instead of arguing or<br /># Yield your right or<br /># Wait until he is no longer angry and discuss the matter peacefully with him.  <br />3- If he was angry because of external reasons then:<br /># Keep silent until his anger goes<br /># Find excuses for him, e.g. tired, problems at work, someone insulted him<br /> # Do not ask many questions and insist on knowing what happened,<br />e.g.  1) You should tell me what happened?  2) I must know what made you so angry.  3) You are hiding something, and I have the right to know. &nbsp; <br /> &nbsp; <strong>11-Guardianship While He is Absent</strong> <br />* Protect yourself from any prohibited relationships.<br />* Keep the secrets of the family, particularly&nbsp;bedroom talks&nbsp;and things that the husband doesn&#8217;t like other people to know.<br /> * Take care of the house and children. * Take care of his money and properties.<br />* Do not go out of your house without his permission .<br />* Refuse people whom he does not like to come over.<br /> * Be good to his parents and relatives in his absence. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>12- Showing Respect for his Family and Friends</strong> &nbsp; <br />* You should welcome his guests and try to please them, especially his parents.<br />* You should avoid problems as much as you can with his relatives.<br /> * You should avoid putting him is a position where he had to choose between his mother and his wife. *  Show good hospitality for his guests by arranging a nice place for them  to sit in, perfection of food, welcoming their wives, etc.<br />* Encourage him to visit his relatives and invite them to your home.<br />* Phone his parents and sisters, send letters to them, buy gifts for them, support them in calamities, etc..  &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>13- Admirable Jealousy</strong> <br />*  Jealousy is a sign for wife&#8217;s love for her husband but it should be  kept within the limits e.g. not insulting or backbiting  others, disrespecting them, etc..<br />* You should not follow or create unfounded doubts. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>14-Patience and Emotional Support</strong> &nbsp; <br />* Be patient when you face poverty and strained circumstances.<br />*  When you face calamities and disasters that may happen to you, your  husband, your children, relatives or properties, e.g. diseases,  accidents, death, etc.<br />* When he mistreats you, counteract his ill-treatment by good treatment &nbsp; <br />&nbsp; <strong>15- Support in Obedience to God<br /></strong> <br />* Cooperate with your husband and remind him of different obligatory and voluntary worships.<br />* Encourage him to pray at night. * Support your husband activities by encouraging him, offering wise opinions, soothing his pains, etc.<br />* Yielding some of your rights and a part of your time with your husband&nbsp;  &nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>16-Good Housekeeping</strong> <br />* Keep it clean, decorated and well arranged.<br />* Change house arrangements from time to time to avoid boredom.<br />* Perfect of food and prepare healthy foods.  * Learn all the necessary skills for managing the house, e.g. sewing.<br />* Learn how to raise children properly <br />&nbsp; &nbsp; <strong>17-Preservation of Finances and the Family</strong></p>
<p>* Do not spend from his money, even for charity without his permission unless you are sure that he agrees on this.<br />* Protect his house, car, etc. while he is absent.<br /> * Keep the children in good shape, clean clothes, etc. Take care of their nutrition, health, education, manners, etc.</p>
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		<title>Father&#8217;s Day Inspiration</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 04:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As we celebrate this Father's Day, let us take a moment to reflect on what our dads mean to us.  Dads, think about what it means to you to be a father.  Heart-felt feelings put into words will mean more to dad than whatever you spent your money on.]]></description>
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<p>Father&rsquo;s Day is almost upon us.&nbsp; To me, Father&rsquo;s Day is not about the gifts. It&rsquo;s more about gratitude and appreciation.&nbsp; I am grateful to be a father.&nbsp; It is my greatest joy in life.&nbsp; When my daughter shows me her appreciation, no amount of money or material possession can equate. &nbsp;Holidays in general, as you will probably agree, have become too commercialized.&nbsp; Instead of focusing on what I will get, I enjoy reflecting on what I can give, and what it means to be a father.&nbsp; A father loves.&nbsp; A father exercises patience.&nbsp; A father sacrifices. A father provides.&nbsp; A father is kind.&nbsp; A father doesn&rsquo;t know everything, but he knows just enough to be his kids&rsquo; hero.&nbsp; A father is a human being with imperfections, but he does his best.&nbsp; He wants to help his children learn, grow and develop into well-adjusted individuals.</p>
<p>I am grateful for my own father, who taught me the value of hard work.&nbsp; When I was a kid, I hated pulling weeds.&nbsp; Somehow, that chore came up more than I would have liked, especially in the summer time.&nbsp; At the same time, I knew my dad expected quality work.&nbsp; I tried hard to make him proud.&nbsp; There were times that I lacked in my performance.&nbsp; There were also times that I could have learned important life lessons had I paid more attention to the things he was trying to teach me.&nbsp; In general, though, he was proud of me, because I was very diligent in school and in studying.&nbsp; Kids don&rsquo;t always understand why things are important, but when they trust their dads and follow through, lasting benefits are achieved.&nbsp; We see in retrospect that even though we can be happy with our own growth and progress, we could have done a little better had we understood more at the time.&nbsp; As I got older, I found the value in listening to my dad&rsquo;s advice.</p>
<p>As we approach this Father&rsquo;s Day, let&rsquo;s not just hand over a gift card and say &ldquo;Happy Father&rsquo;s Day.&rdquo;&nbsp; Let us take the time and some thought to show our appreciation to our dads.&nbsp; Let us search for the words that will truly express our gratitude.&nbsp; I realize that no father is perfect.&nbsp; Still, we can find something nice to say to dad that will truly make his day.&nbsp; Again, being a father is a wonderful blessing. &nbsp;If you are a father, cherish it.&nbsp; If you have a father, let him know that he is important.&nbsp; In the eyes of my daughter, she already makes me feel that way. &nbsp;A great big hug and a kiss from her will blow any tie out of the water.&nbsp; After all, those things are worth more than a million dollars!</p>
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		<title>The Cost of Freedom</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 05:56:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The cost of freedom is paid with the lives of our young men and women. Many of them lay down their lives for the freedoms we take for granted every day. We can never repay our fallen heroes, or the parents, partners and children who are left behind. Let us be mindful today, on Memorial day, of their devotion and sacrifice. And let us never forget the cost of freedom.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today all American remembers our fallen heroes who have sacrificed and died to keep our country free. Abraham Lincoln said at Gettysburg, &#8220;From these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion, that this nation under God shall have a new birth of freedom, and that government of the people, by the people should not perish from this earth.&#8221;&nbsp; We should all be thankful that our young men throughout American history have been willing to fight and die for our freedom to state our opinions without fear of oppression, and the liberty of thinking and speaking according to choice.</p>
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<p>Today we honor more than 5,000 military members who made that sacrifice. Their courage and valor must never be forgotten We can never repay the debt but we can give them our appreciation. Our liberty has been bought at a terrible price by our fallen heroes and their families. A price families will continue to pay with the loss of their loved ones, wives without partners, children without fathers and parents without sons. All given as the price for freedom.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; We are the people of cities, farms and villages. Our boys and girls go willingly to protect our land and it&#8217;s people. Today as we meet in national cemeteries and other places to give honor to our fallen, or sit in our air conditioned homes watching&nbsp; these programs on TV.&nbsp; Let us be thankful and count our blessings, which are all due to those who fight and die for our many privileges. Across the military 22 of Georgia&#8217;s own have died on foreign soil since last memorial day. Each of those lives is worth remembering forever. Each one of them was somebody&#8217;s child, somebody&#8217;s husband, somebody&#8217;s father. That life can never be replaced. Each young life was laid down for us.</p>
<p><a href="http://commons.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Fort_logan_national_cemetery_5.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2011/05/31/fortlogannationalcemetery5_1.jpg" alt="" width="540" height="405" border="0" /></a></p>
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<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; We often say, &#8221; Freedom isn&#8217;t free.&#8221; And it&#8217;s true. The cost is high, paid with the lives of our sons and daughters. Paid by us when we lose them. They choose to defend our freedom whatever the cost and the cost goes way beyond dollars and cents. May we never forget the cost of freedom.</p>
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<p><a href="http://socyberty.com/issues/afghanistan-and-the-military/" target="_blank">http://socyberty.com/issues/afghanistan-and-the-military/</a></p>
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		<title>26 Things That a Perfect Guy Would Do</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 05:15:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just read this list somewhere a few years back and I've rewritten this in my notes. Just want to share it with you...]]></description>
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<li>Know how to make you smile when you are down.</li>
<li>Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.</li>
<li>Sticks up for you, but still respects your independence.</li>
<li>Give you the remote control during the game.</li>
<li>Come up behind you and put his arms around you.</li>
<li>Play with your hair.</li>
<li>His hands always find yours.</li>
<li>Be cute when he really wants something.</li>
<li>Offer you plenty of massages.</li>
<li>Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.</li>
<li>Never run out of love.</li>
<li>Be funny, but know how to be serious.</li>
<li>Be patient when you take forever to get ready.</li>
<li>react so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.</li>
<li>Realizes he&#8217;s being funny when he needs to be serious.</li>
<li>Smile a lot.</li>
<li>Plans romantic dates.</li>
<li>Appreciate you.</li>
<li>Helps others out.</li>
<li>Drives five hours just to see you for two hours.</li>
<li>Always give you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each other&#8217;s company, even when his friends are watching.</li>
<li>Sing, even if he can&#8217;t.</li>
<li>Have a creative sense of humor</li>
<li>Stare at you.</li>
<li>Call you for no reason.</li>
<li>Quit smoking and drinking just because he loves you that much to quit it.&nbsp;</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; I really had fun reading this. Most young girls would love to read this list over and over again. Share this to your friends especially the young ones. <img src='http://socyberty.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><i><strong>Be inspired !</strong></i></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://authspot.com/poetry/theres-someone-perfect-for-you/" target="_blank">There&#8217;s Someone Perfect For You</a></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://socyberty.com/relationships/eight-simple-yet-effective-ways-to-say-i-love-you/" target="_blank">Eight Simple Yet Effective Ways to Say &ldquo;I Love You&rdquo;</a><a href="http://authspot.com/thoughts/words-of-a-woman/" target="_blank">Words of a Woman</a></p>
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