Yahsarah Hebyalifsarpri is 23 years old. She does not  believe in the concept of soulmates. She thinks that love at first sight does not happen. She believes that it is impossible to love someone unconditionally. It takes her a while to show enthusiasm, affection, kindness to someone she is dating. She has had a wide range of love experiences. She believes in love, but she knows it does not come easily. She speaks about “love at first sight” and “soulmates” in a scornfully derisive way.

Zandra Heldefmansan is 22 years old. She needs her space in a relationship. She things that in a relationship it is unhealthy to spend every night together. There are some things she really enjoys about being single. She often feels trapped and oppressed in relationships. She has had only one relationship. She still has a lot to learn, and a lot to try! She does not need to be in love, and sometimes she does not even want love. She says that having her own life is very important for her.

Wanda Wenslanoreasger is 30 years old. She has had at least two boyfriends. She has dated someone for over a year. Unfortunately she has had her heart broken. Also she has broken someone’s heart. It’s hard for her to imagine being with one person at time. She has loved, lost, and loved again. She has had a wide range of love experiences. It is hard for her to stay devoted for too long. All her relationships have been very similar.

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Bad attitude is something that requires times to learn. Once learned bad attitude is hard to get rid off. Today, most of the conditions in society are the direct result of bad attitude.

Give yourself this test. Count how many times since you woke up today, you criticized someone or something with your inside voice. The reason you spoke critical of people or systems is because your society has trained you to have a bad attitude.

Unfortunately, society suffers greatly when a large number of people in its group practice bad attitude. People with bad attitude do not invest in their society. These people also blame everyone else and use this blame to justify not voting.

This political appears more contentious than any other I have observed. I have even stop listening to Laura Ingraham, Rush Limbaugh, and Shaun Hannity. I wrote my explanation as just not wanting to have anything to do with people who do not understand how to make good choices.

In addition, I am at this moment in my life building my social-political ideology. This ideology will incorporate my mental health philosophy, my life philosophy, my political philosophy, and my perspective on faith and religion.

You know being liked by other people is not good, if you have to lower your standards. A few days ago I tried to explain to a person why it is better to let individuals be the innovators and creators instead of government.

This person did not get it. I think he is an idiot. I do not want anything to do with idiots. I fear a society led by arrogant people who have studied nothing, but think they are world class intellectuals.

Currently, Mr. Obama is trying again his “fair economy” initiative. When the Russians told everyone were to work and were to live us free people called it Communism.

There is no fair economy. In life there will be people who manage their lives well and people who do not manage their lives well. My simple formula for personal success is accepting reality, being grateful for what you have, earning enough for the basic needs, and friends and family.

To many people are dreamers. Their life disillusionment comes from not having the life they think they are owed. Great amounts of money are not required to meet my definition of personal success.

Therefore, what are people crying about in relation to government and politics. The economic crisis that begun on October 2007 was a rude awakening to many. However, I believe it was necessary.

We were living without any true concept of life. Materialism and carnal cravings were directing our lives.

Hence, a society of hate, animosity, and rage has been building for close to 15 years. A long time ago I coined the phrase “money sick”. “Money sick” is when a person thoughts of spending money or making money lead to a mental shut down, such as anxiety overload. People believe that if they just make more money everything will be alright. Their lack of confidence in themselves or systems leads to hate, animosity, and rage towards other people.

A society with a large portion of its members hating, with animosity, and rage is a dangerous society. I just went out to take care of some business. I received a smear from two people and a women took a wide right turn in her car almost hitting me. These are the people in our society.

Everyday they recruit more people to be negative, hateful, and violent. However, let me be clear. I do not believe that the majority can be saved from their horrible nature.

I am convinced that a small majority will listen to what I am writing about, recognize their own bad behaviors, and work at having a great life. My articles are for these few individuals.

It is wrong to be hating someone for no reason other than that is what a negative, critical, vulgar, and hateful society has thought us. Everyone of us can contribute to functioning society or dysfunctional society. Our smears, criticism, vulgarity, and rage do influence the problems in our society.

Let us look at Mr. Barack Hussein Obama. How did Mr. Hussein come to his political philosophy? America was built on the idea that the individual would be the one to take risks, work for success, and reap the rewards from his or her hard labor. Mr. Obama appears to believe that something other then hard work and sacrifice lead to personal success.

Freedom and liberty are absolutely essential for the previous recipe to work. No company forces people to buy their services and/or products. Major corporations have money because people willingly bought their stuff. Having the freedom to work means any person can earn wealth.

Now, let us look taxes people and companies pay. Companies pay property taxes, state sales taxes, and income taxes. High income individuals pay property taxes, state sales taxes, and income taxes.

Wealth is money already earned. When it was earned the individual paid federal and state income taxes. As wealth a person only needs to pay taxes on the interest from investments. If it is put in an interest earning savings or checking account, taxes are paid on the interest earned, not the whole amount invested. Yes, I know that not all states have an income tax.

Over regulation of business stifles personal wealth. I was looking at how to get a real estate license in Texas on the internet. I determined that the state requirements are to excessive. The part I did not like is having to work under some one with a real estate license before I would be allowed to work on my own.

Therefore, Obama’s ideas on economic freedom violate the freedom and liberties of individuals. People can criticize Steve Jobs and Bill Gates. However, their inventions have had great impact on the human race. Neither individual previously named was a government worker nor restricted from innovation and creativity.

Now, I am not going to say that all government workers suffer from a lack of innovation and creativity. However, through out human history it has been people free to think and free to create who have created valuable products and services.

These captains of industry do not just profiteer. They pay their taxes. Most successful individuals and companies have charities they support. In addition, they create jobs.

Today’s, current American economy is due to Mr Barack Hussein Obama spending over 5.5 trillion dollars in the last three years. Mr Hussein’s 800 billion stimulus package was a great failure. Hussein’s National Healthcare has created cost to individuals and companies. Business are afraid of Mr Hussein’s political initiatives and will not reinvest in their businesses. In addition, increased regulation is deterring job creating.

Therefore, the one who is creating an unfair economy is Mr. Hussein. He is also contributing to the bad attitude of people who are becoming their own worse enemies. No one else is responsible for our lives, but us. Again, I state that it is our responsibility to find our own personal success. Hating companies and/or rich people is not going to make any of us more successful.

The majority in society may continue to get angrier and more dangerous. However, rational and reasonable people can use their positive perspective and realistic perspective to manage their life.

In addition, just to put things in perspective. While I was writing this article I saw a program that had a teen age boy diagnosed with leukemia.

Some people are also of the view point that respect should not be made a part of war for any one gender. Men and Women should respect each others equally and it should be expressed at every event. Women expect hearing truth from men. They like men who take active part in the life’s struggle. Vinkas suggested four steps of moral ethics in view of today’s age that can be implemented 1) Take initiative in opening the door for any women 2) Keep standing until a woman takes her seat 3) Whenever you go with a woman for outdoor meal pay the bill 4) While traveling in a public transport, give your seat to a woman.

In the modern age, majority of men do not express moral ethics due to the fear of cheating. Ponam Singh of American College Dubai opines that ethics grow with different cultures and their expression can be seen in crises as well. On 14th April 1914, when Titanic was sinking in the sea, why it was decided taking women and children first in a life boat away from the ship. Reality is that even in severe crises nobody forgets expressing morals.

However, the meanings of ethics have changed with the time now. Now, paying other’s bill, opening door for somebody, giving your seat to anybody and helping any injured person also come under ethics. In societies, where men and women both play their roles in the life’ struggle, pay attention to the mutual respect equally in the society, In Asian countries these values are found comparatively more.

Katty Foster has been associated with the public relation’s field for the last 25 years. She met her husband after 20 years of separation. The attitude of her husband didn’t change during these years. Mrs. Foster says that respect and ethics are such codes of conduct that enables a noble person passing a better life.

Good manners and ethics are correlated in many people with their DNA also. They do not think much before doing any good work. They keep true respect for others in their heart. Katty Foster says that in spite of living away for the long time, we both give respect to each other very much in any dinner party or amusement site.

Foster says, “I am unable to understand why people do not follow code of conduct? Why do you not think any good for a person who sweeps roads or safe your shoes from going dirty?”

Mrs. Foster says, “My husband respects me and when he cares me without limits I start thinking myself as a queen. The expression of respect from man for women is actually a way of giving honor to a woman.”

Sticka Maria works as a therapy practitioner. In her opinion the respect and honor emotions mostly relates to men. For some people, it is also a matter of ego and prestige that they would open door for some women or offer them theirs seat.

Some people never feel shy even after committing a fault while some others ask pardon immediately. Such a person learns much from his faults and stands up at the top level of ethics.

By Muhammad Irfan Zafar

Content Writer

Bijendra Singh Parmar and Awadhesh Kishore

Sarvoday Mahavidyalaya, Chaumuhan-281406, Mathura INDIA

Abstract:

Present study was conducted to compare attitude of trained and untrained teachers towards teaching profession and process at secondary level in Agra Region. The sample size was 600 including 300 trained and 300 untrained teachers of secondary classes. A descriptive survey method was implemented to find out scores using Ahluwalia Attitude Inventory. The observations recorded were statistically analyzed using standard techniques. It can be concluded on the basis of findings of the study that attitudes of trained and untrained teachers at secondary level towards teaching profession and process were similar. Training of teaching had no impact on the attitude of teachers of both the types in this regard.

Key words:

Attitude, Education, Secondary Level, Teacher, Teaching Process, Teaching Profession.

Introduction:

Attitude is, in a word, how you express your likes and dislikes towards particular people, things, and occurrences. Thurstone and Chave, (1946) defined an attitude as the degree of positive or negative affect associated with some psychological object. By a psychological object Thurstone and Chave mean any symbol, phrase, slogan, person, institution, ideal, or idea towards which people can differ with respect to positive or negative effect (Edwards, 1957). Education is a foundation to provide platform for all-round development of a mankind and the nation. It is a backbone of development of knowledge, science, craft, skill, industry, technology and culture etc. A school is a place where a pupil develops himself in all-round direction. Teacher is a person who plays most important role in all-round development of a child. In an education system and school environment it is the teacher who is most effective in developing a child. It is important to find out the difference between attitude of trained and untrained teacher at secondary class level.

Objective:

The objectives of present study were to compare attitude of trained and untrained teachers towards teaching profession and process at secondary level in Agra Region.

Hypothesis:

1) There was no significant difference between attitude of trained and untrained teacher towards teaching profession.

2) There was no significant difference between attitude of trained and untrained teacher towards teaching process.

Methodology:

Descriptive survey method was used during the study. All the trained and untrained teachers of Agra region were taken as the universe. A number of 300 of each of trained and untrained teachers from Agra region were randomly sampled for the study. Thus the sample size remained 600. Teacher Attitude Inventory prepared by Ahluwalia, (1978) was used as experimental tool. Observed responses from the respondents were statistically analyzed using appropriate methods to draw valid conclusions (Snedecor and Cochran, 1994).

Experimental findings

Attitude towards teaching profession: Mean scores of attitude towards teaching profession trained and untrained teachers were 41.08 and 40.18 with SD 8.32 and 10.54, respectively. Mean difference was recorded to be 0.90 and critical ratio 1.17. Mean difference in this regards were not significant (p>0.01) Null hypothesis was accepted to make a perception that attitude towards teaching profession in trained and untrained teaches were equal. Table-1: Mean Scores of attitude towards teaching profession Type Sample size Mean Scores SD Mean difference Critical ratio Trained Teachers 300 41.08 8.32 0.90 1.17 untrained teachers 300 40.18 10.54 B. Attitude towards teaching process: Mean scores of attitude towards teaching process of trained and untrained teachers were 39.44 and 39.68 with SD 8.48 and 9.12, respectively. Mean difference was recorded to be 0.24 and critical ratio 0.33. Mean difference in this regards were not significant (p>0.01). Null hypothesis was accepted to make a perception that attitude towards teaching process of trained and untrained teaches were equal. Table-1: Mean Scores of attitude towards teaching process Type Sample size Mean Scores SD Mean difference Critical ratio Trained Teachers 300 39.44 8.48 0.24 0.33 untrained teachers 300 39.68 9.12 Conclusion: It can be concluded on the basis of the study that attitude towards teaching profession and process of trained and untrained teacher were found to be similar. Training of teachers had no impact on the attitude of teachers of both the types in this regard.

Dedication:

The work is dedicated to whom working with the commitment for development of technology for rural advancement.

References:

Ahluwalia, S.P. 1978. Teacher Attitude Inventory. National Psychological Corporation, Agra.

Edwards, A.L. 1957. Techniques to attitude scale construction. Irvington Publishers, New York.

Snedecor, G.W. and Cochran, W.G. 1994. Statistical Methods, 8th Ed., Ames, Iowa State University Press.

Thurstone, L.L. and Chave, E.J. 1946. The measurement of Attitude. Amer. J. Sociol. 52: 39-50.

Here are six attitude that ladies can make men faithful with him, as offered from Become Gorgeous:

1.Do not Preserve Alone In The He raise your

Stop expecting the he can study your thoughts. Quiet or even psychological in the deal with of a issue will not fix the issue and can harm the connection. Your partner would want you to fix the issue these days, not with silence or with aggressiveness. Try to describe the issues due to his conduct. But tell that your lover is bad conduct, do not decrease your fascination with him.

2.Avoid Shares About Ex-

Some men might be inquisitive about your previous, especially about your ex-spouse. However, you should prevent dealing with dreams and previous the former if you do not want to get into battles with your lover.

3.Let Him Invest Time with Associates

If you appreciate getting together with your pals, it would be reasonable to your lover to let him spend time with her friends. Let the man you like is on the switch with his friends because he also has elements that do not can he say to you, and he would want to reveal with his ally.

4.Know When to Getaway

Find out more about the individuality of your sweetheart and ensure you know when to again off to provide him more comfort. Females usually give love and interest more towards the individual they love, but usually neglect their lover’s comfort needs.

5.Give Reward

No need to provide incorrect praise or gratitude for what lover do for your household and you. However, you should enhance once in a while. Think you’re in a scenario and how improving your feelings if someone gives a enhance, even as easy as any. This technique will promote him to execute a identical conduct to please you and get your credit score again.

6.Being a Excellent Listener

Respect is one of the most effective attributes of a extensive run connection. Those who understand how to be an excellent audience will get the romance and gratitude of a wide range of friends and partners. Therefore, you should provide more interest to what your lover says. You can add your recommendations and feedback to generate a shared connection, or you can pay attention to it properly.

The known dream symbols show you the basic meaning of each dream. For example, the baby in dreams indicates a moral mistake. The baby represents a sin related to a love relationship, like betraying your partner with someone else, or having a relationship with someone who is already married.

Only by seeing a baby in a dream you already know that the unconscious mind is warning you that you must be careful and avoid making a serious moral mistake.

However, the dream story is also very important, so that you may understand why the unconscious mind is sending you this message and what you have to do. The dream story will give you explanations, based on the dream symbols.

For example, you had a dream where:

‘You saw a baby at your living room. Then, you were wondering how to feed the baby because you had never done it before.’  

The dream story shows you that there is a moral mistake in an important part of your psyche (the living room). In other words, you are ready to make a sin.

You represent your ego in dreams. Your ego doesn’t know how to feed your moral mistake because you have never betrayed your partner before. However, you are about to make this sin.

In a few words, this dream is showing you that even though this is the first time that you are thinking about betraying your partner or having a relationship with someone who is already married, you are making a moral mistake the same way. It doesn’t matter if you were innocent up to this moment. Right now you are about to make a serious moral mistake that you must avoid.

At the same time, this dream is showing you that instead of avoiding what is bad, you are thinking about how to effectively make a sin (feed the baby).

Now, you have to think about what is happening to you and relate the unconscious messages to the issues you are facing in your daily life.

In this dream, the details of the dream story are represented by the fact that you were wondering how to feed the baby. This means that you don’t understand that you are ready to make a serious moral mistake, which you shouldn’t make.

The dream story is criticizing your attitude. You cannot see how wrong you are for desiring to make a moral mistake. You are thinking about how to effectively make a sin (without leaving clues), while you should think about avoiding it.

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung’s research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to accurately translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.

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It is in the matter-of-course that trust is merited. But I have this feeling that we can approach this with a keener and deeper look. Trust can be given. That is the lesson I learned from my mother. We can offer trust. We can say, “I know you are human, I know you are weak, but i choose to believe in you.” We can also say, “I may not believe what you say, I may not even trust your actions, but I can believe in your humanity. I can believe in your future. I can believe in the faint spark of goodness within you.” And by taking the risk to trust another, that trust can be a matrix that makes the wellsprings of life to flow from the deserts of his world.

I’d rather talk of believing in someone than trusting someone. Trust is something that none of us would rather merit because we are limited, weak and erring. Only God can be absolutely trusted. But we can also trust others after having trusted ourselves. This kind of trust becomes acceptance. It isn’t complacency. It is a way of compassion, a way that offers another being the possibility to grow, creating a space where only that person can occupy with his or her uniqueness. Believing in someone could be the only transforming power that could effect the miracle of change in that person’s life. You could not imagine how many lives are shattered because someone said, “I do not trust you. I do not believe in you anymore.” And the feeling of being useless could be a great enemy of humanity. It has given birth to betrayals and untold sufferings. Many serial killers and criminals justify the hardness of their hearts to the fact that they weren’t trusted at all, often pushed to the wall and walked on.

Trust is an attitude of mind that looks at life with hope. Trust could be a way of creating space for someone and of loving unconditionally. That could be the hard part of it. You should trust life enough to trust anybody else. You should trust yourself enough to allow someone else in your own world. The love you carry within you has its force. It has its course. It begins a journey. Love is always a journey that walks us towards maturity and the realization of our humanity. Trusting in this love is trusting that it could bring the best in others. I will end this note by stating something I already said before: If you can’t trust yourself, you’ll never trust anyone else. If your trust is betrayed, you lose little; you’ll definitely understand being human in a deeper way.

It’s probably not a great surprise to anyone that the workplace is not the logical spot to be giving people attitude.  Those snarky, self-absorbed, sarcastic attitudes may be fine at home or at your favorite bar, but try those moves at work and you could be looking for a new job.

That’s the conclusion of researchers who say exhibiting arrogance at work usually means someone is trying to hide their inadequacies.  What’s more an ongoing dose of attitude will surely lead to your career going off-track.  They say it amounts to a behavior that attempts to tarnish other people and their work in an effort to make one’s own inadequacies seem pale by comparison. 

Four-Year Study of Arrogance

The researchers from the University of Akron (Ohio, U.S.) interviewed hundreds of people over a four-year span.  They found that, as the old saying goes, “nobody is irreplaceable” and those who irritate or otherwise put others down may find themselves being the first to be shown the door.  Certainly their career prospects are not going to be very bright.

To test their theory the researchers created an “arrogance scale” which included 26 different performance measures. Among the elements of the scale were such antics as a worker believing he or she is superior to other workers, or making decisions affecting others without first gathering and listening to their opinions.  After reviewing their findings, the researchers concluded that workers who display arrogance are often trying to conceal their own shortcomings, such as incompetence or low self-esteem.

The researchers define a typical arrogant worker as someone who is worried about their own job performance and, in order to deflect attention from themselves, starts putting other people down in order to make themselves look better in comparison – a tactic that rarely works for long.

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Everything in life is connected. It is connected because we are all made of energy, animate, and inanimate objects. Therefore, we have the ability to change the things around us. When we think of something, in simpler terms, you are wishing to the Universe (God). And when you put that wish out, the Universe will change itself to fulfill your wish. If you put that wish out many, many times, and focus on it passionately, you’ll receive what you want even faster! Well you could argue with, “wellll….. one time, I was sitting there hoping that my mom wouldn’t serve spinach, and she did!”  Well there’s two things you could have overlooked. One, the Universe doesn’t respond to “don’t” the Universe only knows action. You may think, “well what, is it stupid?” No. All it is, is obeying your wish, and your focusing on spinach, so you ultimately get… spinach! The other thing is, you can think about something you want, like an iPhone, but the energy is created from the feeling, not so much the thought of that iPhone. Feeling it would be pretending you had it, or feeling the feelings you would feel if you were to have that iPhone handed to you. That would be right. But thinking about it would be holding a picture in your mind that you saw off of Google Images. That would be wrong. It’s generating energy, and yes you are focusing on it, but it’s not enough energy to tell the Universe it’s that that you want.

One thing you want to avoid is negativity. EVERYONE once in a while has a problem with being upset, or irritated, but that’s only human nature. But always being mad and grouchy is terribly terrible. Even though your not focusing on any one thing, you’re feeling the feeling of anger or sadness. Like mentioned earlier, the feeling is what counts in order to send out your wish, and if your angry, and you wish that out, the Universe will send more anger back at you. If your in a terribly bad mood, the Universe is not going to reply with a suggestion saying “Are you sure you want to wish for: more anger?” and have two buttons label “Yes or No” The Universe is going to obey you. Just like a king. You can wish for anything you want, and your servant will not question you. Avoid wishing for more negativity (unless you have some sort of illness you can’t control were you have the urge to think of murdering the human race and starting a government with bananas and toothpicks) Try relaxing and thinking relaxing thoughts. Sleep, eat, walk, run, exercise, computer-ise, anything that makes you truly happy, by all means do that thing! It will put you in a good mood, and you’ll be putting out that wish for more things to elevate your mood!

One thing people mistakenly do when trying to think positive is say, “I’m going to get that phone soon” THIS IS WRONG! Refrain from keep your wishes in future tense, because if you do, it will always stay in the future and you’ll never have it! If you say “I have that phone.” or “That phone is mines.” “The phone belongs to me.” Things like that. Say it in present tense. Pretend that when you walk down the street, you feel your pocket vibrate and pull out your snazzy, new Motorola DynaTac. But you can also wish for things that are not physical. You can wish that your fever goes away. Just feel as if you were perfectly healthy. Instead of staying in bed all day feeling like a piece of crap, you can walk around the house. Not necessarily aimlessly, but you can jump around, etc. Just feel healthy.

I love to help, and a lot of other people also. But sometimes when people try to help, the only thing they do is hurt. They may not be aware of the fact that they’re focusing on the problem, which is pointless. All your doing is creating more of the problem. Focus on the solution. Focus on the output of the problem. This will solve the problem that’s going on and all of the focus will be off the problem, so there’s no energy for the problem to exist. That is were people mess up a lot. That’s why people say, “I tried to help but things just got worse!” Well now you know why! And know you know what to do instead. Martin Luther King Jr. knew that. He never bought large pieces of paper and colorful markers and made signs saying “End Segregation!” He preached about everybody acting as one (which we should do.) That was smart. And look at the impact he had on the world and the how he changed how segregation was viewed. He was just an ordinary person. He was no God or anything. All he was was a person with knowledge. He understood how the game was played. And I hope this article has taught you, how to play the game.