Then something changed in the US.  Sociologist will claim that a large number of women entering the work force during the war led to economic freedom for women.  Many believe that this freedom led to the change in traditional American values.

This may be true.  However, what is the value to American society to destroy everything that is good and decent in America?

I believe that many do not understand how destructive their bad attitude is to society.  I hear bad attitude everywhere.  When these Mexican visitors get to my work area, they start cursing the bleepity bleep Americans for keeping them waiting over three hours.

They are not the only ones.  The liberal democrat’s opinion that Republicans are just for the rich is bad attitude.  So are other democrat attacks on conservatives.

I want Obama to show proof that because Mitt Romney is financially successful Mr. Romney would be a bad administrator.  I would say that business success would qualify Mr. Romney for the position of Chief Administrator of the United States.  

Now, some would say that Republican criticism of Obama is nothing more than bad attitude.  Well, we have all seen Mr. Obama’s administrative style in the last three years and a half.

One department was so blatantly corrupt that they videotaped their corruption as they mocked the American tax payers.  Congress wants to hold Eric Holder, Obama’s attorney general, in contempt of congress.           A person in the US department of energy wanted to crucify private businesses with regulation in order to put them out of business.  We know Obama forced the military to cut its budget by 50%. 

What part of the Obama presidency looks like good administration? I am going to say none.  Therefore, criticism of Obama is just pointing out the facts.

However, we the people have lost our moral center. Too many prefer to laugh, ridicule, and malign. I believe this is what has come out of the economic freedom for women.  There is discord in the American family. Children develop and express a bad attitude and they are not corrected by any parent.

Now, I am not saying that economic freedom for women is responsible for societal moral decay.  The failure to adapt to new opportunities by continuing to teach good values to children is the vehicle that has brought us all here.

Here, is a society with too many people with the occupy Wall Street mentality.  Explain to me how you build with destruction. Having an opinion and being able to express it is a gift of freedom. Destroying private property is a poor way to prove a point.

The reality is that one person’s success does not contribute to another person’s failure. Luck, circumstances, and personal skills contribute to a person’s failure or success.

Today, I have to say that Americans are failing.  In all this presidential political wrangling, I have come to certain conclusions.  One is that the people who criticize, ridicule, and malign create the very culture they are opposed to in life.  The second is that all the people who find excuses to get involved are a big part of the problem.

I will write this sentence again.  Politicians are politicians and citizens let them get away with their decadence, immorality, and perversions. 

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As Adults We Have Choice

As a child we often had no choice in events or what people did to us. We were helpless at times to change circumstances As an adult, you may be carrying around left over victim thoughts and habits that are needing to be changed. While then you did not have the power you do now. Here are some victim traps we can fall into and how to change our mind-set to get out of them.

• I know I’m going to lose: This type of mind-set will only guarantee that you will lose. If you decide to believe you can and will win and you deserve to, you won’t tolerate the idea of losing.
• I get upset whenever I have to confront someone: If you expect to be upset you will be. Tell yourself you are not going to be upset and you won’t allow anyone else or yourself to upset you.
• The little guy never has a chance: You are not a ’little guy’ unless you believe you are. This kind of thinking puts you on the losing side of the guy you have made more important than yourself. Go into every situation expecting to attain your goals.
• I’ll show them they can’t dump on me: This sounds tough, but with this attitude you will always lose. Your goal is not to show anything to anybody but to find peace within yourself. You are allowing them to control you with this type of thinking and then can be easily victimized.
• I hope they won’t get mad at me for asking: Your concern about them ‘getting mad’ is again allowing them control over you and your life. Once people know you are intimidated by their anger they often will victimize.
• They’ll probably think I’m stupid if I tell them what I did: Here you have made someone else’s opinion of you more important than your own. Place no one’s opinions above your own, you count, you matter.
• I’m afraid I’ll hurt their feelings if I do what I want: This is another tack that will leave you victimized and unhappy. If others know they can manipulate you with this fear, they will. Realize that the most important thing is that you be happy. They will accept it and move on once they can’t use it against you.
• I can’t handle this alone: I’ll get someone who isn’t afraid to handle if for me: This attitude will get you no where and will hamper you making decisions and choices that can improve your life. Learn to face your fears and fight your own battles. People won’t victimize you when you do.
• They shouldn’t do this, it’s not fair: Here we often judge things the way we would like the world to be, rather than the way it is. People will simply act in unfair ways that is reality. Confront their actions in a kind way, speaking up takes back your power.

Expect the Best and We Often Get It

In life we often become what we expect we will become. You will become a non-victim when you stop expecting to be victimized and treated badly. To do this you must develop an attitude of expecting to be happy, healthy , functional and not abused. The first step to becoming a non-victim is to decide you will no longer be one.

Source: Pulling Your Own Strings, Dr. Wayne W Dyer, Harper and Row

“Love Your Job But Never Fall In Love With Your Company” – a general statement that encourage people to love their work and do not love the company. Why? Because any time you can just get rid of the company at any time. But how to love your job? Here are some interesting tips to love your job.

 
Enthusiastic about the job

If you do not like your job, would not be easy for you to perform the duties of the office. You will feel burdened with the task given that the work was not optimal. Conversely, if someone do something you like of course it would be fun, time was short, and you have the passion to do it. For example, someone who would like to draw enthusiastic when tasked to create a design house, became an architect, or other work.

To that end, act as if you love and enjoy your work. Give full attention to what you are doing. It may seem impossible to love your job now. However, force yourself to do this. Smile or stand up straight can help to be able to be more enthusiastic. The result, you can really feel like work.

 
Do the Best

Do not delay the work or to be indifferent to the results of your work. It can make you feel the stress of work is not completed, the piling up or exposed nagging boss.

Do not do the job poorly, but give more than what was ordered. Set job priority to the important work could be completed first. You also can motivate yourself to give the best. For example, you can record how long you can finish the job or anything else to measure productivity. Then, challenge yourself to perform better in the next task.

 
Doing More

When given the task, do not feel satisfied for doing what was expected. Plus the value of the supervisor and satisfaction can be obtained for more creative when you embellish your work. For example, to add supporting information when it was assigned to process the data. Or if you like the technology but you work in accounting, you can find a breakthrough technology that can help you complete tasks more quickly.

 
See Positive Side

Although you feel the job is saturating, was never completed, a stern boss, or coworker who sucks, but try to see things positive. Compare our situation with others who are less fortunate than us. How do the people who still have not got a job, people who work harder than we are, or how people whose income is not as much as us.

Try to remember how when you try to get this job, for example, how do you then have to ride public transportation, how the first time you are not familiar with other colleagues, when you are still confused with the work to be done. Given this struggle can help you better love the job.

 
Keep Learning

Heavy duty office may be because you are not yet fully understood. A worker who feel heavy when assigned to a job, it could be because he has not fully comprehend the concept of the work. For example, someone assigned to make a report in Excel with pivot table, certainly not common, but can be learned.

Thus, to increase knowledge, you can find out more from the Internet, books, or from others who better understand it. If possible, you can also follow the courses. Another way is to pay attention to existing examples. By knowing more, you’re more likely to do so.

 
Give Awards

If you do not get respect from others when you successfully perform a given task, you can give yourself credit. You can give credit to yourself for the targets are achieved or celebrate your success. Of course, this is not done to excess.

Avoid the attitude to hate your job because it will make you more depressed, feel stressed and the work was not optimal. Try to learn to love your job to the job better. With the good work, the work does not accumulate, you can get satisfaction, praise from superiors, promotion and probably earn a better salary.

Alright, so, for most of us, focusing on our studies is not really the most important thing in the world. There are tons of things that are more important than studying. Yes, it’s true. No matter what anyone says, studies aren’t the most important thing to a student unless he wants it to be. But, grades are important. They’re what we show to our parents to let them know we’re doing what they sent us to school for. When you get good grades, you’re happy, your parents are happy, your teachers are happy, everyone’s happy. But when you get bad grades, your parents get mad, your teachers are disappointed, and you are frustrated with yourself and swear to do better next quarter. The problem is, nobody really likes studying. I mean, come on, who actually enjoys sitting down for a whole afternoon, trying to memorize things you barely understand? Boring.

Most students see studying as boring, and a waste of time. Why study when you can be doing something fun, am I right? That’s what most of us think. We procrastinate studying because we don’t like studying. It’s not fun. It’s not immediately gratifying. It’s uninteresting. It’s not something you can do, then brag about to your friends. Studying? Nah.

Do you know Bear Grylls from Discovery Channel’s “Man Vs. Wild”? He eats anything to survive. Worms, his own urine, feces, etc. Disgusting food with nutritional value. Why? To survive. Now, we struggle past topics we despise, do anything we can, just to try and survive the subject. Again, survival. But what is survival? Survival is cavemen using primitive tools to hunt and catch dinner. Survival is getting a barely passing grade on your card and being happy about it. Well, we have to do more than survive. We have to excel!

How do we achieve excellence? First of all, change your perspective. Cavemen learned to use fire for more than just the cooking of food when they saw it in a different light, and how to use it differently. Look at studying in a different light. Now, your concept of studying is probably this: a few nights away from the quarter exams, staying up late, stuffing as many meaningless tidbits of information into your brain as possible. This is not studying. This is cramming. Studying is understanding what your teachers have passed on and retaining that information. And here’s the best part. Studying can take only twenty minutes a day. It’s true. You spend some time understanding your lessons at home instead of playing computer games, and you’ll be that much more prepared for anything the teacher might throw at you.

Second, be dedicated. Once you’ve decided to improve your study habits, stick to the plan. Like dieting, this can be hard to do, but it can yield very desirable results. It will be very hard to sit down and review your notes for even just twenty minutes straight without being distracted, or willingly distracting yourself, but if you can pull it off, you’ve got a huge advantage over many of your classmates. If you do this everyday, you won’t even have to review for your quarter exams. Less stress.

Thirdly, strive to understand. I can’t stress this enough. Understanding is more than just plain memorization. Understand what you are reading. Imagine it. “Magellan discovered the Philppines in March 16, 1521.” Imagine you were on the boat with Magellan on that day, sailing towards a strange new group of islands no one has ever seen before. Live it.

Now, this is only one style of studying. There are a lot more. Some are more suited to your way of doing things, some are not. Some will yield better results, some will not. But remember, studying takes hard work and dedication. It may be bitter, but its fruits are sweet.

I am sitting here wondering as I write this article about the psychological nature of someone with the rhetoric of Mr. Obama. I am confident that Mr. Obama does not believe what he says. Mr. Obama needs a political rebirth. Therefore, he needs to support a position that most rational people would not believe.

We all know the importance of a free market economy. Individuals and or companies spend money to take an idea to market. People buy the product and or service. The individual and companies make money. They open more stores. Jobs are created. The more commerce practiced the more jobs are created.

When picking a life course some people observe the opportunities in their environment and choose the opportunities that will make then enough to live their life according to their desires. The means people pursue college degrees and or to make money and start a business.

My life thesis is that human behavior is the result of thoughts influencing emotions and emotions influencing behavior. Now, our thoughts can be positive, optimistic, and otherwise healthy or they can be negative, cynical, and otherwise unhealthy.

I wonder how many people struggling in life suffer from a negative, cynical, and other wise unhealthy attitude. The difference between people who achieve personal success and those who do not achieve personal success is attitude. Good attitude leads to success. Bad attitude leads to failure.

Mr. Obama is banking on that people who have failed will blame the successful and vote for him. The reason is that Mr. Obama cannot run on his record. If you want to get to work and cannot it, is because of Mr. Obama’s public policy that has scared away investment and economic growth.

His healthcare reform is going to cost business money. These costs will interfere in new business investments. Obama continues to speak negatively of the free market economy and successful people and successful companies. Mr. Obama wants to increase taxes on the people ,who will with their business pursuits create jobs.

However, Mr. Obama is so desperate for another term he is willing to run on ruining the economic backbone of the US. There is no economic growth without speculators and other types of investors.

Leave the regulation of immoral and unethical behavior of business people to consumers. When I here of a business behaving badly, I will stop buying their goods and services.

In these troubling times we cannot turn our backs on freedom. We were all born free, with all the potential freedom offers. Granted these are complex times. However, we can organize our thoughts, become positive, evaluate our environment, and start using our environmental resources to achieve our personal success.

Again, I will state that the only thing I need from governments is for them to get out of my way. I have stated that I drive a taxi in Stupid El Paso, Texas, USA. Now, I know I am a self-employed person, working in private industry, in the free nation of the United States of America, and with 14 US amendment protection to life, liberty, private property, and equal protection of law. However, this stupid city’s government in its Vehicle for Hire code, limits were I can work and how much I can charge for my services. There is even a ridiculous municipal code of the city of Stupid El Paso, Texas, USA that states taxi drives have to wear socks.

This is what happens when governments listen to their whinny citizens and attempt to over regulate business. I know that in order to win over the customer I have to be reasonable and fair. Any person who does not like my prices and or appearance can look for other transportation services. No one is being forced to make a purchase.

To many, like Obama, think they have the right to order the rest of us around. They want to tell us how to run our business. They want to tell us what god not to believe in today. They want to tell us that we are responsible for the financial burden of the people who have made a mess of their life.

I have compassion. In the 600 plus articles I have posted on the internet is the life philosophy that will help most people achieve personal success in life. I believe Mr. Ronald Reagan said the most terrifying words in the American vocabulary are , “ I am from the government and I am hear to help”.

He is right. I am the only person who knows the passions in my heart. Therefore, I am the only one that knows how to accomplish my goals.

The last 50 years of American history have been an exercise in robbing people from the benefits of a positive attitude and making economic slaves of people. I do not want to be a slave of the Obama Socialist Democratic Party.

I know Mr. Obama is so desperate to win. In trying economic times, Mr. Obama tells people that it is the rich who are the problem. The rich did not spend 7 trillion dollars. Obama spent America into oblivion.

If Mr. Obama tries to run on his record he will loose. I believe he knows he is going to loose. Mr. Obama is just trying to go out, looking like a warrior.

The real American warriors are going to have to vote in the next American presidential election. Romney may be conservative ugly. However, do we really want the tyrant Obama in office for another 4 years?

I answer no. America can survive and thrive. We have to help her. We are the most fortunate people on the planet. No matter how arrogant politicians get, Americans can put them in place by voting them out of office and remain free.

Do not worry about Mr. Mitt Romney. I am richer than Mr. Romney because every day is a festival in my life. Please, American conservatives vote Mr. Obama out of office, get back to business of succeeding in America, and live so every day in your life will be a festival.

YOU WANT HOPE AND CHANGE. CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

Practising Tantra – Hindu-based disciplines specifically created for enhancing sexuality and spirituality – will inevitably lead to the wish to experiment with Tantric sex. This practice is widely discussed, instructors adamant  that their educational approach can help both couples and single people to will learn that getting in touch with inner feelings can indeed help to heighten awareness and expand sexual pleasure.

Courses offered to students include diverse topics such as human anatomy, various techniques of meditation and concentration on Hatha yoga postures, which come in several forms. This philosophy maintains that both sexes can learn to redirect their orgasms to various body parts, helping women can said increase potential for multiple orgasms.

Apparently, with practice, orgasmic heart flutters or mind blowing brain activity resulting from sex is just a matter of focusing and breathing in the right way, to achieve this every time. Many might question the need to redirect the orgasm, but both yoga and Tantra instructors claim this can be better for both partners.

When women do exercises to strengthen vaginal muscles, they can, during orgasm, relocate the sensation to the chest, making the feelings far more emotional, and men benefit from Tantra by learning how to redirect seminal fluids in the body. Normally, upon ejaculation men tend to flag slightly,  but by adopting certain Tantric breathing techniques, and re-directing the orgasmic experience, they can make lover for much longer than normal.  

Tantra does in reality have a spiritual element, in that, through sex, you are said to remain healthier, with heightened levels of consciousness intimacy. It is believed by Tantrists that the act of love-making can be vitally important in health and sickness, and even life and death themselves. An Ohio State University study saw two rabbit groups fed high cholesterol diets.

Amazingly, the one group, which had been cosseted by the researchers – though fed exactly the same as the other group, which was left strictly alone – accumulated 90% less fat in their blood vessels. In human bodies, arousal sends messages racing to sensory nerves at the base of the spine, while orgasm itself has brain structures being overwhelmed by such messages, causing the release of hormones like endorphins oxytocin, dopamine, and testosterone. making us feel great

Hormones are hugely influential in development of all our feelings, but each one is very different, medically speaking, and anyone sleeping with someone just for sex takes a risk, as oxytocin and vasopressin levels climb dramatically, these two, powerful chemicals producing perhaps unwanted feelings of attachment.

Dopamine is mostly associated with romantic love, often resulting in obsessive feelings about a sexual partner, long-term attachments favouring increased production of oxytocin.  Sex is said by many to be an instant cure for mild depression and insomnia. Also worth noting is that women produce double the amount of estrogen during sex, leading to shinier hair shiny and smoother skin.

Sex also burns up the stress hormone adrenaline, and boosts the immune system, some claiming claimed that so-called Sexercise is very good for the well being of all participants. Also good exercise, both for the mind and body are both Tantra and Hatha yoga techniques.

Sensual massage is without doubt a powerful erotic tool, and the practiced Tantric lover – with the mental ability to withhold ejaculation – can obviously prolong the love making, serving to heighten the experience even more for both parties. It seems certain that practising yoga could give couples a whole new perspective.

Not only, however, on better ways of approaching the opposite sex, but also on improving both states of health and their sex lives. The mind, as any yoga teacher will tell you, is the most powerful weapon in the war against unhealthy lifestyles. Yoga based sexual practice sounds like a lot of fun, so why not give yoga classes some serious thought?

Sex is now, officially, great exercise, if you do it often enough, but anything that you can add to spice it up even more just has to be worth investigating.  Don’t dismiss things out of hand because they seem a little odd.  That could be the best reason you will ever find for giving them a try.  Better health and better sex, and all there for the asking.  What are you waiting for?  

If anything can go wrong it will, right?  Oh man, why do I have to feel so beaten all the time, like such a complete failure, always feeling knocked down, never good enough, trampled on.  Life is so unfair and I’m getting to the point where I am just so tired of it all I don’t even care anymore.  All I ever wanted was to just be happy, have a good life, a family and friends, a good job, enjoy living and just be happy.  Why does life always have to be such a struggle?  Why can’t I find one positive thing in this negative world?  Why can’t I just be happy, really happy and not just do a happy dance for appearance sake?

If you have ever had any of these thoughts, feel this way, you’re not alone.  Depression is alive and well here on planet Earth and it affects every culture, race and people on the planet.  Far too many of us are always seeing the negative side of a situation even before it happens, never seeing the positive side, any good that may come out of a trying situation or making any effort to turn a negative into a positive. Looking for and finding fault with everything and everyone seems to be a chronic world epidemic and it is no new thing.

It is a negative world we live in.  We are force fed “negative” and are only on very rare occasion given a spoonful of honey to help us swallow all the negative; sweeten it up with just a smidgen of positive so we don’t all go over the edge.  Pick up most any newspaper, listen to news broadcast, talk shows, the gossip mongers, music, yes, even music, listen to the negative messages, all that pain, sorrow, grief and anger; there aren’t a whole lot of upbeat songs out there; even a lot of our churches use the negative approach instead of spreading the “Good News” and don’t forget gossip…we dwell on it, if not consciously then subconsciously.  And let’s not leave out advertising, those advertisements that leave us feeling less than what we really are so we will go right out and buy that product so we can become positively perfect and well and famous, gain financial security and have all our dreams come true and be accepted because that product or program or whatever is exactly what we need to have a happy lifestyle and if we can’t get it right now or we find out the hard way it was just a scam, we feel life is unfair and we are a failure.  It niggles at our mind until we become just as negative as the world we are living in.

So how can we live a happy and positive life in such a negative world?  I mean really, not everything and everybody is negative, or totally so.  What is it they have that so many others don’t, that something that gives them that constant positive, upbeat, don’t worry, be happy attitude and it seems like they have always been that way.  Some people just seem to have a naturally positive attitude and happy disposition even in these oft times trying and desperate days of our life.  When there is so much negativity all around us, how do some folks manage to stay so happy?

To be happy, to keep a positive outlook on life depends almost entirely on how we focus, where our mindset is.  When we focus on the positive things in life instead of on all of the negative, the negatives becomes easier to deal with and overwhelm us less.  When bad things happen and they do and will, we will find them easier to manage when we use a little common sense, discernment regarding the situation we are facing and remember the sun is still shining behind those clouds that are darkening our day and our spirit. 

We all have our day to day issues to deal with; relationships, our jobs, the economy, social issues like poverty, inequalities, racism, discrimination, prejudices, politics and crime; our health, ageing, death, divorce, the environment, the weather, things as simple as a disappointment because some planned event we had been looking forward to was suddenly cancelled; physical and emotional trauma, world events that alarm us and shake us out of our comfort zone and it seems like negative is bombarding us from all directions.  It is, but you don’t have to let it pull the rug out from under you and leave you flat on your back looking into tomorrow with visions of more gloom and doom. 

All the negativity around us can and will slowly but surely erode positive thinking and behavior if we allow it to by dwelling on the negative aspects of our life. People who dwell on the negative aspects of life are very unhappy people and all that negativity will eventually swallow you up until you can find no good reason to even be living.  Too many of us are worrying and fretting our self right into the grave.  Don’t let that happen to you.

To live a positive or negative life truly is a matter of choice.  We all are accountable and responsible for our own attitude, our actions and how we react to any given situation; and the way we choose to live our life.  Just because someone else has allowed their world to toss them into a negative pit of despair does not mean you have to follow and then wallow with them.  Remember that for every negative there is a positive and it is the positive we need to latch onto.

We have to work at being positive.  Positive, happy people strive to do and keep those things in their life that make them happy: 

Staying healthy, doing those things like eating right, getting enough fresh air, exercise and rest;

Surround yourself with positive friends instead of the gloom and doom crowd.  

Avoiding gossip and guard our own tongue.  Listen to how we talk and share with others.  If we can’t say something nice, something positive, don’t say anything at all.  Be respectful of yourself and of others.

Shelter your mind and emotions from negative influences, the news (You don’t have to listen to every news broadcast and bulletin unless it is directly effecting your immediate environment, just scan the headlines and listen to your local news broadcast but don’t submerge yourself in all that media sensationalism.) 

Be aware of what is going on around you but be discerning about how much of it you saturate your brain with.  Be choosy what TV shows you watch, music you listen to, books you read, games you play and the Internet content that comes sailing through cyberspace to your in-box that you open.  Don’t believe everything you read and only half of what you think you see.

Learn to exercise patience with yourself and with others.  We all grow and develop at different rates and see things from a different point of view.   Don’t be rude or critical of others in a negative manner.  No bullying.  Treat others the way you want them to treat you.

Don’t dwell on yesterday or keep bringing up something that happened that was upsetting or hurtful ages ago.  Yesterday cannot be undone.  It is gone, history.  Put it behind you and move on.  Learn from it and try not to repeat the same mistakes; but don’t dwell on it.

Don’t fret and worry about what might happen tomorrow, most of what you imagine isn’t going to happen   won’t happen anyhow and none of us know if we will even see tomorrow; we only can hope we will.

Live today, now.  Get out of bed and put a smile on your face, even if it hurts and is difficult to do at first.  You will eventually get used to it and that smile will become genuine and a positive asset.  It is like getting a flu shot.  It only hurts for a minute but can prevent a lot of suffering later.

Be thankful and appreciative of the good things you do have in your life and more will come.  Today you are alive, so live.  If you have food to eat, a roof over your head, clothes on your back, a job, even if it is only part-time, you are a whole lot better off than a lot of other people.  If you have shoes on your feet, no matter how scuffed and worn they may be, you are better off than the man who has no feet.  I think you see what I mean.

Accept those things you have no control over, cannot change and change those things you can, namely you and be discerning enough to know the difference.  The only real thing you have control over is you.  You may set forth some very convincing arguments, (like I am trying to do here) but you have no control over another person’s thoughts or beliefs.

Believe in yourself and trust yourself to use good common sense; think before you act or speak.  Consider the consequences.  We all make wrong choices sometimes but don’t beat yourself up over it.  Learn from it and don’t repeat it.

Above all, keep faith.  Trust in God and follow and believe.  I don’t care what religion you happen to be.  That is your choice but there is only one God and that God loves you very much and that love is the key to the positive side of negative.

Yahsarah Hebyalifsarpri is 23 years old. She does not  believe in the concept of soulmates. She thinks that love at first sight does not happen. She believes that it is impossible to love someone unconditionally. It takes her a while to show enthusiasm, affection, kindness to someone she is dating. She has had a wide range of love experiences. She believes in love, but she knows it does not come easily. She speaks about “love at first sight” and “soulmates” in a scornfully derisive way.

Zandra Heldefmansan is 22 years old. She needs her space in a relationship. She things that in a relationship it is unhealthy to spend every night together. There are some things she really enjoys about being single. She often feels trapped and oppressed in relationships. She has had only one relationship. She still has a lot to learn, and a lot to try! She does not need to be in love, and sometimes she does not even want love. She says that having her own life is very important for her.

Wanda Wenslanoreasger is 30 years old. She has had at least two boyfriends. She has dated someone for over a year. Unfortunately she has had her heart broken. Also she has broken someone’s heart. It’s hard for her to imagine being with one person at time. She has loved, lost, and loved again. She has had a wide range of love experiences. It is hard for her to stay devoted for too long. All her relationships have been very similar.

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Bad attitude is something that requires times to learn. Once learned bad attitude is hard to get rid off. Today, most of the conditions in society are the direct result of bad attitude.

Give yourself this test. Count how many times since you woke up today, you criticized someone or something with your inside voice. The reason you spoke critical of people or systems is because your society has trained you to have a bad attitude.

Unfortunately, society suffers greatly when a large number of people in its group practice bad attitude. People with bad attitude do not invest in their society. These people also blame everyone else and use this blame to justify not voting.

This political appears more contentious than any other I have observed. I have even stop listening to Laura Ingraham, Rush Limbaugh, and Shaun Hannity. I wrote my explanation as just not wanting to have anything to do with people who do not understand how to make good choices.

In addition, I am at this moment in my life building my social-political ideology. This ideology will incorporate my mental health philosophy, my life philosophy, my political philosophy, and my perspective on faith and religion.

You know being liked by other people is not good, if you have to lower your standards. A few days ago I tried to explain to a person why it is better to let individuals be the innovators and creators instead of government.

This person did not get it. I think he is an idiot. I do not want anything to do with idiots. I fear a society led by arrogant people who have studied nothing, but think they are world class intellectuals.

Currently, Mr. Obama is trying again his “fair economy” initiative. When the Russians told everyone were to work and were to live us free people called it Communism.

There is no fair economy. In life there will be people who manage their lives well and people who do not manage their lives well. My simple formula for personal success is accepting reality, being grateful for what you have, earning enough for the basic needs, and friends and family.

To many people are dreamers. Their life disillusionment comes from not having the life they think they are owed. Great amounts of money are not required to meet my definition of personal success.

Therefore, what are people crying about in relation to government and politics. The economic crisis that begun on October 2007 was a rude awakening to many. However, I believe it was necessary.

We were living without any true concept of life. Materialism and carnal cravings were directing our lives.

Hence, a society of hate, animosity, and rage has been building for close to 15 years. A long time ago I coined the phrase “money sick”. “Money sick” is when a person thoughts of spending money or making money lead to a mental shut down, such as anxiety overload. People believe that if they just make more money everything will be alright. Their lack of confidence in themselves or systems leads to hate, animosity, and rage towards other people.

A society with a large portion of its members hating, with animosity, and rage is a dangerous society. I just went out to take care of some business. I received a smear from two people and a women took a wide right turn in her car almost hitting me. These are the people in our society.

Everyday they recruit more people to be negative, hateful, and violent. However, let me be clear. I do not believe that the majority can be saved from their horrible nature.

I am convinced that a small majority will listen to what I am writing about, recognize their own bad behaviors, and work at having a great life. My articles are for these few individuals.

It is wrong to be hating someone for no reason other than that is what a negative, critical, vulgar, and hateful society has thought us. Everyone of us can contribute to functioning society or dysfunctional society. Our smears, criticism, vulgarity, and rage do influence the problems in our society.

Let us look at Mr. Barack Hussein Obama. How did Mr. Hussein come to his political philosophy? America was built on the idea that the individual would be the one to take risks, work for success, and reap the rewards from his or her hard labor. Mr. Obama appears to believe that something other then hard work and sacrifice lead to personal success.

Freedom and liberty are absolutely essential for the previous recipe to work. No company forces people to buy their services and/or products. Major corporations have money because people willingly bought their stuff. Having the freedom to work means any person can earn wealth.

Now, let us look taxes people and companies pay. Companies pay property taxes, state sales taxes, and income taxes. High income individuals pay property taxes, state sales taxes, and income taxes.

Wealth is money already earned. When it was earned the individual paid federal and state income taxes. As wealth a person only needs to pay taxes on the interest from investments. If it is put in an interest earning savings or checking account, taxes are paid on the interest earned, not the whole amount invested. Yes, I know that not all states have an income tax.

Over regulation of business stifles personal wealth. I was looking at how to get a real estate license in Texas on the internet. I determined that the state requirements are to excessive. The part I did not like is having to work under some one with a real estate license before I would be allowed to work on my own.

Therefore, Obama’s ideas on economic freedom violate the freedom and liberties of individuals. People can criticize Steve Jobs and Bill Gates. However, their inventions have had great impact on the human race. Neither individual previously named was a government worker nor restricted from innovation and creativity.

Now, I am not going to say that all government workers suffer from a lack of innovation and creativity. However, through out human history it has been people free to think and free to create who have created valuable products and services.

These captains of industry do not just profiteer. They pay their taxes. Most successful individuals and companies have charities they support. In addition, they create jobs.

Today’s, current American economy is due to Mr Barack Hussein Obama spending over 5.5 trillion dollars in the last three years. Mr Hussein’s 800 billion stimulus package was a great failure. Hussein’s National Healthcare has created cost to individuals and companies. Business are afraid of Mr Hussein’s political initiatives and will not reinvest in their businesses. In addition, increased regulation is deterring job creating.

Therefore, the one who is creating an unfair economy is Mr. Hussein. He is also contributing to the bad attitude of people who are becoming their own worse enemies. No one else is responsible for our lives, but us. Again, I state that it is our responsibility to find our own personal success. Hating companies and/or rich people is not going to make any of us more successful.

The majority in society may continue to get angrier and more dangerous. However, rational and reasonable people can use their positive perspective and realistic perspective to manage their life.

In addition, just to put things in perspective. While I was writing this article I saw a program that had a teen age boy diagnosed with leukemia.