Ebony Ebodarbla is 21 years old. For her, it is not love without an unusual, exciting, and daring experience. She would not mind if her sweetie needed to be completely sure before falling for her. It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is amusing and enjoyable. Her seduction method expresses strong emotions. Her ideal date is an exciting and romantic evening together.

Favel  Freflagolhai is 26 years old. She thinks that it is not love without starting out as friends first. She would not mind if her sweetie expected complete loyalty from her. It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is beautiful, smart, and elegant. Her seduction method is amusingly unconventional, and never exactly the same. Her ideal date is a a long walk to an isolated, particular place to have a picnic.

Bahjibaji Bahjoy is 24 years old. For her, it is not love without flirting. She would not mind if her sweetie always had to get the last word in.  It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is philosophical and independent. Her seduction method is a superb ability to be able to change readily to meet new circumstances. Her ideal date is an intense exchange of thoughts, opinions, and feelings in a small restaurant, eating light meals. 

Calca Calaussta is 23 years old. For her, it is not love without romance. She would not mind if her sweetie needed to be the center of attention. It is rather difficult  for her to resist someone who is friendly, pleasant, affable, and  fashionably elegant. Her seduction method is to be able to ask the right questions. Her ideal date is a long walk in a wonderful mountain landscape.

LESSON 9: -

Balancing the Inner Self and the Outer Self

If you really follow the Law of Attraction, you have to work at striking the right balance between
your inner and outer selves. One of the most significant applications of the Law of Attraction is to
balance our inner and outer selves. Our inner self is our consciousness. It is the way we think and
behave. This is where the Law of Attraction begins to take effect. The Law of Attraction starts
manifesting itself when we think, and that begins in our inner self. Our outer self is characterized by
our action. The way we act and implement our thought processes is how our outer self functions.

If we have to make the best utilization of the Law of Attraction into our life, then it is essential that
we learn how to create the balance between our inner and outer selves. It is vital that we put into
action what we think. What begins as a thought manifestation must get converted into action.
If you were to just think and sit about getting a new house, it is not going to happen. Yes, if your
thoughts are strong, if your belief is strong, the universe will begin aligning itself toward making
things happen. But now, it is you who has to act. If you don’t even lift a finger things are not going to
happen. Now, you have to put your outer self into action. This is when the positive energies that
have been created start taking shape and things begin happening.

The problem with most of us is that we use our inner self to think and believe. We say so often that
we want to do a particular thing but only a few of us actually put our outer selves into action mode.
The Law of Attraction will make things happen. But it will restrict itself to aligning things in a
particular way. The rest is your call. It will make you confident about doing certain things, and that
is what will influence the people around you and things will happen positively for you, but the main
thing for that to happen is that you have to take the initiative and act.

So why doesn’t everyone that uses the Law of Attraction Become Rich?

A lot of people might think about the Law of Attraction. But only a few of them actually begin
climbing the steps of success and really become rich. If you have been following through so far, you
will have realized two things:-
1 The Law of Attraction is a definite reality; everyone puts it to use.
2 However, a lot of people don’t really put it to use the right way.

There is no refuting the strength of the Law of Attraction in channelizing the energies of the universe
in such a way that things can begin to happen favourably. But the problem is that, the Law of
Attraction will only channelize these things. If we do not make use of the energies to achieve what we are hankering after, it’s all going to be a lost cause.

For example, if you only think about becoming rich but do not do anything actively in that regard,
then there is no way that you will become rich. In fact, even if you win through a lottery, you have to
make the effort of buying the lottery and tracking the winnings.
The bottom line is clear – the Law of Attraction works but only if you put it to use. These are the
things that you must do sequentially so learn your ABC.

A) You must strongly believe that a particular thing will happen. Your belief should be strong
and unwavering, so unshakable that nothing must twist your belief in any way.
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B) Then you have to visualize this thing, as though it has actually happened with you and that
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C) The next step will be to begin acting upon your inner voice. You will hear your inner voice a
lot when you strongly believe in something. Acting upon this is what will bring you closer to
realizing your ambitions.

We hope you gain benefit from putting the law of attraction into practice in your life, and remember
it is not just money that you can attract. The laws work for love too. So if you have been wanting to
bring someone special into your life then follow the same steps.

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It is a fact that most people believe that women are always first to utter the words I love you in the course of relationships, but in fact it is the other way round, and the strange thing is that, where sex is concerned, those interested in flings like to say those words after the act, whilst more committed lovers prefer to say it beforehand.

In lots of relationships, the single moment that decides whether or not the relationship has any future comes at point where one or the other of the parties involved comes out with those three otherwise insignificant words, in a simple sentence loaded with mysterious and romantic meanings.

A new study, recently commissioned, now hints that both evolution and science and evolution can help offer explanations about who, in reality is more likely to declare love first, and how hearing those words affects the recipient, some results being anything but stereotypical.

Researchers needed, they felt, to invoke in test subjects times when the sexual might lead to pregnancy, days in which women tend to be much more cautious and more sceptical of love declarations from male partners. Despite the modern age of birth control, the findings show that, even for singles navigating today’s dating scene, this attitude persists

For some time now, social psychologists have about the male tendency to express love first, in most relationships, and in surveys of 45 people walking by, the survey found 65% of people believed women to be first to say I love you first, whilst 85% were sure that women developed serious feelings first, as a rule.

Two further studies, of people ranging from mid-20s to 60s, showed that men are first to declare love 70% of time, whilst three more surveys conducted – on reaction to hearing those words – threw up some interesting responses, not least of which was men generally were happier to hear the three little words than women were if the couple had not yet had sex.,

Post-sex, women are particularly prone to feeling happiness boosted, tending to support the theory of their tending to prioritize relationships when getting pregnant is a possibility. Those men more interested in committed relationships tended to be happier hearing the words after sex rather than before it.

Men referring short-term flings, on the other hand, are happiest on being told pre-sex that the women they intend to sleep with loves them, all the results suggesting that it might well be evolutionary impulses which drive people to flirt and date a lot, even when internal emotions seem genuine, just playing the mating game by doing what feels right, whether conscious of doing so or not.

The question is not really one of who will be the first to utter those three very powerful little words, but how sincerely they are meant, and how the person hearing them reacts to what they hear. Saying something so emotive should never be done lightly, so think carefully before saying something to get into someone’s bed that you might later bitterly regret.

My body tingles as the vibration radiates throughout my being. Feeling my heart open, expand through the moment of blessings with bliss. Breathe in deep and feel, know you are exactly where you are to be in this now moment. Feel blessed with this knowingness. Love burst out from me as a slight smile grows on my face. I listen to the oneness breathing. Breathing in life and all that is. A new sense of centerness with a deeper awareness that I am beautiful inside and out… as are you. We all deserve the very best in this now moment and now I am realizing the cosmic joke of it all.

The joke is that mirror that we keep looking at… Look deeply at what you are attracting… What is in your experience right now? What isn’t in your experience you long for yet can’t quite get in your hands or out of your head?

Break these mirrors. Stop looking; release the “need” and manifest your true reality. We are keeping ourselves imprison in the dream of unwanted illusions by continuing to look within the mirror. See yourself through the other without attachment to the mirror and see how things shift within your reality. Nothing has meaning… we have all heard this a million times, and probably have said it a few thousand times ourselves. Now live that truth.

A song may have a memory attached to it. Release the emotional “hook” and see what your reaction is to that song. Sure… The Universe may be giving you signs or are you giving yourself a place in your Ego’s comfort zone through that sign? The paradox of the dimension is that.

Be at rest in this moment and breathe in that notion.

Recently I have been feeling mixed emotions due to loss in many areas of my life, yet also knowing and asking myself… what the hell am I feeling this?  My house is not me… It was easy to leave… a bother to clean out… more emotion attachments to remove…done. Even the things I brought with me… even my writing for my books, classes and poetry… all connected to something in my past. I am done with all of that, so what do I do with 11 solid years of writing “with hooks” in them? 

Well, still know there is a value of the process to others with my writing. So it is time to unhook them and see them through the eyes of the witness, not the participant of that story. It is interesting to me that at the end of a relationship, I write a chapter about what I have learned through that experiment. Yes, experiment of experience. It is like I let go of the meaning of that relationship through writing out the process with that person. Unhook it and become that witness. Stopping the meaning to any thing with that person, experience and breaking that mirror. This is my way of detaching to the outcome and resolving the situation to the highest good of all. I am laughing at the creation and knowing how to end the suffering of the situation by rewriting the situation, like Time Line Therapy, which I use in my coaching practice.

Detachment and unhooking is needed and presence in the now moment is all that is. You got the key for the handcuffs you have keeping you right where you are. Use it now. Release the true essence of all you true are, have, be… As above, so below. Namaste. 
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Lake Atitlan, Guatemala has a presence about 1 mile above the highlands of Guatemala, Atitlan (Lago de Atitlan).

On land has three major volcanic holes that are part of the mountain past.

Lake region have Small Mayan village, and is part of the scenery on the lake.

There is also an oak, and pine, as well as 800 species of other plants, this is a very nice scenery.

Some other sights around the lake, such as the City of Panajachel by boat to enjoy the various neighborhoods within this area.

In October, and November 2009 the lake is experiencing a problem, because an increase in blue-green algae in lake surface area. This causes the surface of the lake to be closed.

I found this on Google search and couldn’t resist.  May you have

a rock’n end of “11″.  And, even better “12″.   Please party carefully,

and responsibility,.  Knowing you can set excellent examples for

those around you and the younger generation.  By not drinking

and driving.  In my opinion booze (cocktails) doesn’t always have to

be the main attraction or etc. 

Suggestion:  potluck feast..  by your guests/family,..  Creating festive

punches,.  That can help your body/immune system.   Real fruit juice

with minimal sugar content.  Being also careful of the fat content in your

meat choices.   And, how to cook it as well.  Consider avoiding frying,

or any type of oil base to your meat.   Oven,.  And cutting out the fat if

you see it in your meat.  That can add to your body,. 

If you plan on driving to a ball drop.. consider waiting where you will go

and ways of getting home safely.  And, avoiding boozed up drivers,.

If you can find a hotel close to where you are, go for it.  ALso, never take

a short cut.  It may be dangerous, depending on traffic lights,.  Drive where

there are “lots” traffic lights and the area is still busy,.  And, making sure your

cell phone is charged up ready to use.  And, with lots of minutes,. 

And, you see lots of Law Enforcement on the road,.  If the crowd looks tooo

rowdy. You may want to consider going some where else for the ball drop.

Children in your family should never see a drunk or etc person/’s driving

or etc,.  On the road,.  Protecting them from unexcepted situations is vital,.

Not to mention the rest of your family, friends,. 

Keeping your evening stress free is vital,.  Safe and healthy, etc food, beverages,.

Is importation as well.  And, keeping your family pet safe for unexpected situations

as well. If they come in contact with foods,.  That may harm them or worse kill them,.

Please be as proactive as possible.  You will be glad you did.

Thank you for check’n out my blog. Please share it would other websites you may be on.

And, leave a positive comment on this and other blogs I have.  thanx..

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Unlike those Hollywood romance films, a recent study discovered the possibly inevitable fact of men tending to think themselves more sexually attractive than women actually find them, while girls tend not to think that men are really serious about wanting them.

Obviously, encounters between potential sexual partners are unpredictable at best, though those conducting the study feel that there may be deep-rooted reasons for signals getting crossed when such encounters happen.

All too often women are fed-up with those unwanted advances, while men seem repeatedly confused by reaction to their sexual advances in such situations. Men have always had to had to make the decision about whether an individual is sexually interested in them or not, but it seems that men in olden times were braver, the reason the gene-pool today is so diverse.

Missing mating opportunities is for men a big deal, because these sexual encounters are only rarely successful in terms of reproduction, simply because fertilization of an egg is such a hit and miss affair. The fact that guys have over-inflated opinions of how sexually appealing they are makes many encounters unproductive.

When 200 college students were put into a test speed-dating scenario about first impressions, each interacted with five others of the opposite sex, rating how interesting they seemed to others and how interested in others they seemed to be on a sliding scale.

Misperceptions varied greatly, the study offering clues to why this might be so. Men valuing long-term relationships were less likely to assume that women wanted them much more than they actually did than those, on the prowl for casual sex only.

Equally interesting was the difference in reality and perception of those men who women ranking low on the attractiveness scale. Better looking guys tended to be more realistic about women saw them, because they were more image confident.

Unsurprisingly, most men most often misread signals when with attractive women, probably because prettier women inevitably get the most attention, so they can be choosy. Most women like the male attention, but often get tired of fending off those who read sexual overtones into every encounter.

Research  being done in this area provides insight into potentially harmful misunderstandings about sexual intent, helping cement the idea that since men tend to over-estimate female sexual interest, it might be worth it for the girls to tone down flirtatious tendencies..

On the flip side, men wanting to avoid unexpected rejections the guys could work on being a little more cautious in their approach, as well as learning to properly read direct signs from women before making any move on them. Belief in yourself can lead to a satisfactory sex-life, but over-confidence will more often than not have you falling flat on your face.

video description “Answering the age old question, Young Independent Filmmakers Jesse Budd and Patrick Romero set out to simply prove a point.”

This video is from Utah STate University Library to see what people think on Men and women can be friends.

Mostly said yes, some were confused and some portrayed strange reactions. Mostly men are the one that siad No, maybe because of the fact that man are more into physical relationship. While more women know that boys may like them hiddenly, but they tend to ignore it and continiue believing that they are just friends.. This difference of opinion may be due to the fact that men and women have different body structures and they think a bit differently, which not a bad , but natural thing. Some boys said due to physical attraction its not possible. Well we can safetly say IT is impossible for men and women factto be just friends, while we can see that girls tend to ignore this fact a bit more

kudos to the creator of this videos, they found for all fav question :p

Everything in life is connected. It is connected because we are all made of energy, animate, and inanimate objects. Therefore, we have the ability to change the things around us. When we think of something, in simpler terms, you are wishing to the Universe (God). And when you put that wish out, the Universe will change itself to fulfill your wish. If you put that wish out many, many times, and focus on it passionately, you’ll receive what you want even faster! Well you could argue with, “wellll….. one time, I was sitting there hoping that my mom wouldn’t serve spinach, and she did!”  Well there’s two things you could have overlooked. One, the Universe doesn’t respond to “don’t” the Universe only knows action. You may think, “well what, is it stupid?” No. All it is, is obeying your wish, and your focusing on spinach, so you ultimately get… spinach! The other thing is, you can think about something you want, like an iPhone, but the energy is created from the feeling, not so much the thought of that iPhone. Feeling it would be pretending you had it, or feeling the feelings you would feel if you were to have that iPhone handed to you. That would be right. But thinking about it would be holding a picture in your mind that you saw off of Google Images. That would be wrong. It’s generating energy, and yes you are focusing on it, but it’s not enough energy to tell the Universe it’s that that you want.

One thing you want to avoid is negativity. EVERYONE once in a while has a problem with being upset, or irritated, but that’s only human nature. But always being mad and grouchy is terribly terrible. Even though your not focusing on any one thing, you’re feeling the feeling of anger or sadness. Like mentioned earlier, the feeling is what counts in order to send out your wish, and if your angry, and you wish that out, the Universe will send more anger back at you. If your in a terribly bad mood, the Universe is not going to reply with a suggestion saying “Are you sure you want to wish for: more anger?” and have two buttons label “Yes or No” The Universe is going to obey you. Just like a king. You can wish for anything you want, and your servant will not question you. Avoid wishing for more negativity (unless you have some sort of illness you can’t control were you have the urge to think of murdering the human race and starting a government with bananas and toothpicks) Try relaxing and thinking relaxing thoughts. Sleep, eat, walk, run, exercise, computer-ise, anything that makes you truly happy, by all means do that thing! It will put you in a good mood, and you’ll be putting out that wish for more things to elevate your mood!

One thing people mistakenly do when trying to think positive is say, “I’m going to get that phone soon” THIS IS WRONG! Refrain from keep your wishes in future tense, because if you do, it will always stay in the future and you’ll never have it! If you say “I have that phone.” or “That phone is mines.” “The phone belongs to me.” Things like that. Say it in present tense. Pretend that when you walk down the street, you feel your pocket vibrate and pull out your snazzy, new Motorola DynaTac. But you can also wish for things that are not physical. You can wish that your fever goes away. Just feel as if you were perfectly healthy. Instead of staying in bed all day feeling like a piece of crap, you can walk around the house. Not necessarily aimlessly, but you can jump around, etc. Just feel healthy.

I love to help, and a lot of other people also. But sometimes when people try to help, the only thing they do is hurt. They may not be aware of the fact that they’re focusing on the problem, which is pointless. All your doing is creating more of the problem. Focus on the solution. Focus on the output of the problem. This will solve the problem that’s going on and all of the focus will be off the problem, so there’s no energy for the problem to exist. That is were people mess up a lot. That’s why people say, “I tried to help but things just got worse!” Well now you know why! And know you know what to do instead. Martin Luther King Jr. knew that. He never bought large pieces of paper and colorful markers and made signs saying “End Segregation!” He preached about everybody acting as one (which we should do.) That was smart. And look at the impact he had on the world and the how he changed how segregation was viewed. He was just an ordinary person. He was no God or anything. All he was was a person with knowledge. He understood how the game was played. And I hope this article has taught you, how to play the game.