One-sided relationship is just like a charitable act, where one partner is always desirous of giving for the sake of giving and not expecting anything in return. Though this is a virtuous act and the giver reap its reward in the shape of peace of mind and will also reap rewards in the life hereafter, but in terms of worldly or materialistic gains he receives nothing, whereas the receiver of the benefits proves to be a parasite or detrimental for the other partner. This type of relationship lasts till the giver keeps on giving and the recipient keep on receiving and ends up as soon as the giver stops giving.

Conversely, in a relationship based on mutual basis, both the partners offer service to one another and share their experience. This benefits both on equal basis. There is a difference in serving and having served, and receiving and having received. In a mutual sharing partnership both the parties earns benefits emotionally and psychologically equally.

Both the partners must cooperate with each other in the processes of crafting, putting into practice and evaluating their experiences. They should also be sharing equal authorities so as to implant, safeguard and assess their requirements pertaining to their relationships. In mutual relationship not only focus is laid down equally on both sides for seeing who is benefiting but powers are also shared on mutual basis for implying that focus and determining that both are equally benefiting.

In mutually shared relationship, it is crucial to understand that both parties are providing valuable services to one another on equal basis. There are three important aspects involved in strengthening a mutual relationship.

Firstly, crafting a relationship, this involves mutual sharing of powers and authorities that is required to fulfill one another’s needs and requirements. It is obvious that either side is missing some benefits that must be met by either side. Therefore, crafting a relationship is a process that supports and fulfills the need and requirement of both the parties, simultaneously sharing authorities on equal basis for the purpose of strengthening the relationship.

Secondly they must play the role of giver and taker. Since, both giver and taker shares different benefits from practically involving directly in learning and fulfilling one another’s needs, they are more likely to involve in the process of long lasting relationship. This creates a sense of satisfaction and fulfillment from either side, which serves the purpose of creating strong bondage between two.

Thirdly, is the equal ability of assessing their experiences during the process? This assessment is not based on assessing only from one aspect but reflecting on various aspects of their personalities. It involves questioning and answering honestly to different aspect of a relationship such as “How do think, you contributed in strengthening the relationship process?”, “What do you think is required for improving the relationship?”, “What expectations you think are not fulfilled by your partner?”, “What are your differences?”, “What are your compatibilities?” and “What’s the solution?” etc. These and such issues must be communicated by both the partners for a long lasting relationship.

To sum up, both the partners must enjoy equal levels of authority, cooperate in crafting and making up relationship design, practically play the roles of giver and taker and communicate regularly for meeting the challenges in the relationship if any.

There is no doubt that in actual life it is not always easy to fulfill the requirements of an exemplary mutual sharing relationship, since people are different in abilities, individualities, preferences, mental levels, habits, likes and dislikes, education, childhood environment and many such factors. The authorities are not always estimated equally. In the presence of all such differences why do these unplanned relationships survive, it is only due to the presence of good wishes, mutual love and respect between two parties. In the presence of such attributes, the need of mutual sharing relationship sets aside, but these relationships remains in limits and can be broken anytime due to huge difference in their personalities, whereas mutual sharing relationship can be difficult to understand initially, but it guarantees benefits to both sides and lasts long, since it gives a broader and well-planned perspective of a healthy relationship.

By Muhammad Irfan Zafar

Content Writer

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“To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of “definiteness”, of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive, is actually of a very specific rather than a general nature; its source lies in the specialized knowledge systems that most INTJs start building at an early age. When it comes to their own areas of expertise — and INTJs can have several — they will be able to tell you almost immediately whether or not they can help you, and if so, how. INTJs know what they know, and perhaps still more importantly, they know what they don’t know.”

Well, it has been said that Junior comes off as just a wee bit arrogant. (Personally, I don’t notice it much because my self-confidence is nearly as high as his anyway. But others have complained.) I would say Junior’s area of expertise is school. He’s good at everything, and wants to do everything, but for now he mostly focuses on all areas of academics, leaning a little more towards science than grammar. He knows he’s smart- as does the rest of the world- but he also has the sense to know that others could be better. Though not many. I think he’s aware of the fact that he can’t sing, but he may beg to differ.

“INTJs are perfectionists, with a seemingly endless capacity for improving upon anything that takes their interest. What prevents them from becoming chronically bogged down in this pursuit of perfection is the pragmatism so characteristic of the type: INTJs apply (often ruthlessly) the criterion “Does it work?” to everything from their own research efforts to the prevailing social norms. This in turn produces an unusual independence of mind, freeing the INTJ from the constraints of authority, convention, or sentiment for its own sake.”

Um, yes. I believe the fact that he’s constantly telling me that I’m “trying too hard” or not hard enough with the quotes I put in the quote book, the fact that he corrects teachers that give him imperfect grades, and the fact that he is a beast at the french horn reveal his perfectionism. But when it comes to keeping his hair from sticking up or keeping his food from getting on everything, he could care less. If any “prevailing social norm” doesn’t make sense to him, he will tell everyone he knows why it doesn’t make sense, and convince them all that it is even more ridiculous than they thought it was. It works backwards too- if he’s convinced that he’s right about something, he can convince anyone else that’ll listen.

He will fight teachers that are wrong, and ignore advice from people he doesn’t trust, even if they are in authority over him. That doesn’t really matter if he’s smarter and they’re wrong. He’s very good at being his own person because he’s aware that most everyone else is wrong.

(to be continued)

The rioting and looting in August 2011, sent shockwaves of horror and fear throughout the country. The chaos was televised and broadcast to countries all over the world.  The effect of this anarchy has been devastating for so many people, with the loss of property, possessions, homes, and even the loss of lives.

Just like an earthquake, the devastation has caused aftershocks to ripple throughout the country.

Shock! The entire world gasped, disbelieving such mayhem could happen in England; civilised, first-world England.

Shock! Looters and rioters, were surprised to see their photos in the newspapers or on the news. Some, on seeing their images publicised so widely, even gave themselves in to the police.  A few parents knowing their children were involved and so sickened by the crime waves, handed their children over to the authorities for questioning and/or punishment.

Shock! Judges astounded at the age of some of the perpetrators. Children as young as 11,  one case featured a NINE year old child! Judges were just as surprised to find very few parents had accompanied their children to the court hearings, and had literally abandoned the minors to face the consequences of their actions, alone. One judge famously asked: “Where are the parents?”

Shock! The government is sending waves of terror throughout the country with their ‘get tough’ tactics by saying they will evict convicted looters and rioters from their council homes, stop any benefits they may be receiving and in bowing to ‘public pressure’, give long jail sentences to all involved in the destruction. This method of ‘one-sentence-fits-all’ is for everybody regardless of the circumstances or situation.   This includes the rioters; organised gangs of looters; opportunistic looters; arsonists and those who tried to incite others to riot. Even a girl who stole a bottle of Lucozade from an already ransacked Poundstretchers had been told by a judge to ‘expect a lengthy jail sentence’.  There was also the case of a woman who was jailed because she had accepted a looted pair of shorts!  This woman has since been freed.

Could this  irrational behaviour being displayed by the government be just one of the reasons for the civil unrest? The law is the law and we should all live by it. However, if someone chooses to break the law, there are specific set penalties in place to correct, punish and rehabilitate the offender.  Circumstances or situation are usually taken into consideration.

However, there have been reports of judges, who in responding to ‘public pressure’, are being encouraged to disregard usual sentencing guidelines and jail everybody involved in the riots.

Isn’t this unlawful behaviour too? Or at the very least shifting the goalposts and using a double-standard?  Which in effect prevents the law from being applied and followed effectively and fairly for all?

And hold on!  What about the scandal regarding MP’s expenses? Wasn’t there instances of MP’s buying houses, paying their bills, even buying their furniture from  ‘expense accounts’, even down to one Government official whose husband hired a film using her expense account?! Wasn’t that also stealing? Weren’t these people looting, and robbing their own country and hard-working tax-payers, but in a more subtle way? Wasn’t there a huge public outry and demand for justice to be served then? Indeed, there was.

So, following the public outcry, did all those MP’s go to jail regardless of circumstances? Did the government ‘respond to public pressure’ then? Was every single MP warned that they will serve a ‘lengthy jail sentence’ because they were in positions of leadership and great responsibility? No, they were not.

As a mother, I know that two of the worst things I can do whilst disciplining my children, is to get them to live by rules that I am not living by myself, or  change the rules that we live by; just because I am angry or emotional. These irrational behaviours make children and young people feel insecure, confused, cheated and unsure of what’s expected of them. Worse, still,  it leaves them frustrated and with a sense of injustice. It is this frustration and sense of injustice that they will eventually rebel against.

In order for our children to be disciplined, have self-respect and a healthy respect for authority, all authority figures must be consistent, act with fairness and justice, and be an example of what they want the children and young people to be.  The old African proverb: “If the children aren’t initiated into the village, they will burn it down just to feel it’s warmth”, is a very appropriate reminder of how we need to take the time to nurture, guide and set a good example for our children and young people, in order for them grow up and become responsible, productive citizens that we can be proud of.

One of the things that annoys me about modern society and the noisy and illiberal “liberals” who weild far more influence than the number of people they represent entitles them too is the way that when a government scam, a scientific fraud of a rip off by bankers and financiers is being talked about, these people, these lovers of democracy and free speech as they like to style themselves, will try to suppress  intelligent debate by yelling “Conspiracy Theory” in the way that ignorant, superstitious medieval peasants would yell “witch” at anybody whose behaviour made them fearful. These gullible people belive that the government is their friend, scientists are so clever we dare not question them. Such sheep like behaviour, such emotional neediness that can only be assuaged by the secure, warm feeling of being one of the great anonymous mass has been misrepresented as “The wisdom of the crowd.”

Why do you think the west has made the enormous error of making our businesses and government functions dependent on one software package (Don’t call Windows an operating system, it isn’t) that has always been, in commercial terms “Not fit for purpose”? And why have we used that package as a platform to build a communications network that is likewise “not fit for purpose”, that provides no security for our personal and financial data. “What about ‘https’ sockets? you might well ask. Hogwash, the data was never insecure at that point. Enough however, this is not a technology article. The reason we have made these mistakes is The Wisdom Of Crowds or the Sheeple Factor as freethinkers know it.

When I was making my reputation as a consultant who could provide solutions that worked, on time and under budget a management maxim often encountered in the Information Technology was “Nobody was ever sacked for buying from IBM.” I and most of my colleagues in our small but very successful consultancy firm would reply, “No but a lot of people should have been.” The IBM solution was seldom the best in terms of value for money or technical efficiency but it was safe. And far more people than you imagine will always choose the illusion of safety over the thrill of the adventurous course. The wisdom of crowds? The comfort of the flock or herd?

Modern manifestations of the behaviour patters <A HREF=”http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200203/the-man-who-shocked-the-world”>Milgram’s experiments</A> identified make his work seem scarier now than it must have to people reading of it 50 years ago.  Selected participants were invited were invited to a laboratory at Yale University supposedly to be part of a study looking at the effects of punishment on memory. Those who were required to assume the role of the “teacher” were then told they would have to administer an electric shock to a “learner” every time that person made a mistake. The shocks started at 15 volts but increased in 15-volt increments every time an error was made, going right up to 450 volts – enough to kill someone according to the documentation. Actually it’s amps that kill not volts but Milgram was a social scientist.

In reality the experiment was a hoax, the learner was an actor, and the electric shocks weren’t real. What Milgram had really intended to investigate was how willing ordinary people were to follow instructions. Would they stop at 150 volts, the point at which the learner started to show signs of distress and demanded to be let out because his heart was starting to bother him. Would they go to 300 volts the point they had been told serious injury would occur and at which where the learner let out an agonised scream and then stopped answering? Would they go all the way to the Max and administer a shock they believed was strong enough to kill. How far would they go?

Members of Milgram’s team  suggested people would go no further than about 100 volts – certainly not far enough to cause real harm, the (fake) distress their victim showed would cause instincts like compassion to kick in. The collective opinion was that only a 1% would go push it all the way up to 450 volts. Surely they reasoned, only a sadist or  psychopath, somebody who gained as visceral pleasure from hurting others or one totally detatched from the feelings of fellow creatures would go far enough to kill. Every student who has studied psychology to  A-level or Baccalaureate standard knows, two-thirds of Milgram’s participants continued administering shocks up to the potentially fatal level.

And you thought it was only Nazi concentration camp guards who would rely on “I vass only followink orders” as an excuse? How charmingly naive.

Milgram’s experiment proved that even normal, “decent” people can put aside moral values to engage in acts of extreme cruelty when instructed to do so by others who they believe to be in authority.  This idea is entirely consistent with Hannah Arendt’s theory of the “banality of evil”, developed from her observations of the trial of Nazi war criminal Adolf Eichmann which concluded in the same month as Milgram’s experiment. Arendt perceived Eichmann as a bland office worker, a bureaucrat rather than a monster, someone more concerned with the importance of following bureaucratic procedures than questioning the end end result of following a process to the letter.

The empirical contribution of the Milgram experiment is as relevant today as it was so much closer in time to the horrors of Nazi Germany. The conclusion that ordinary, decent people will willingly participate in evil acts has recently been challenged by historians and psychologists. Their attempts to unravel the thread of reasoning leading to the conclusion that evil is banal lead us to even more disturbing insights into the dark abyss hidden in the depths of the human psyche. Research shows these proverbial decent people, in reality just ordinary people like you and me, will participate in horrific acts not because they are passive, mindless functionaries who never question what they are doing or consider the possible consequences, but rather because they come to believe – typically under the influence of those in authority – that what they are doing is right.

David Cesarani’s 2004 biography of <A HREF=”http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1738872.Eichmann”>Eichmann</A>, for example, reveals he was not just a pen-pusher, but an enthusiastic National Socialist keen to play his part in delivering “the final solution” to “the Jewish problem”. There were however many small, anonymous cogs in the wheel of Hitler’s authoritarian central government machine, from the concentration camp guards who stood up at their Nuremberg and actually did say, “I was following orders” to those referred to in <A HREF=”http://www.history.ucsb.edu/faculty/marcuse/niem.htm”>Pastor Martin Niemoller’s</A> poem who simply “did not speak out.” The true horror is not that they were blind to the evil they were perpetrating, but they knew full well what they were doing, and believed it to be right.

In these terms the results of Milgram’s experiments are still relevant, not because they provide a perspective on to the “banality of evil”, but because they provide insights into the conditions under which not just evil but control freakery and manipulative management of information can appear banal. Consider the power weilded by the mighty advertising industry today. Consider how, in spite of the fact that we are all aware of the security problems of the internet, so many are persuaded to move their business and much of their social activities to an online environment. 

The biggest question they throw up however is why participants in Milgram’s original exercise and in more recent studies are willing to throw in their lot with authority when surely nobody can be unaware that the track record of government, corporate management, the security services and the mainstream churches in dealing with the general population is so very bad. Why are people so eager to believe the government is their friend or Apple Corp really have their best interests at heart when selling very ordinary but vastly hyped gadgets for far more than equivalent devices from competitors. I mention Apple not because they are any worse than others but because of the cultish nature of their following, a situation it must be said that is not of Apple’s making. Why are people willing to follow a Hitler or a David Koresh down the destructive path he points the way along.

And what happened in the USA during the 2008 Presidential election campaign when one candidate, Barack Obama, a professional community organiser with a very dubious record in lower levels of politics, a vacuous portfilio of policies and a secretive attitude about his family and educational backgrounds that would have disqualified him from a job as a graduate entrant to civil service job was, thanks to a massively expensive and grossly manipulative media campaign accorded quasi-divine status and swept to power on a wave of hysteria. To those who viewd him objectively the failure of Obama’s Presidency is no surprise, the people who supported him so fanatically they were even in the habit of accusing anybody who questioned Obama’s ability of being motivated by racism are now trying to blame those who did question and oppose him for his failure..

The same questions as we ask about outbreaks of genocidal war in Africa, the wilder parts of South East Asia and the middle east are germain to outbreaks of mass hysteria we see around us in the developed nations. The rioting witnessed in London during August 2011, the abuse of detainees in Abu Ghraib, genocide in Darfur or Rwanda the persecurion of Christians in the quasi – autonomous Indonesian island of Timor, or even the mob like behaviour of climate science supporters when challenged by people sceptical of their transparently fraudulent statistics are cases in point. In all these episodes, people have chosen a cause to support and proved willing to put aside normal restraints and courtesy in pursuit of efforts to impose their view on people who do not share it, not because they were blindly obeying orders but because they were working creatively towards the goals of a leadership with which they identified. They were sheeple, they feared being seen as standing out from the crowd. Such people would willingly believe in The Emperor’s New Clothes of the fairytale than trust their own judgement and common sense, so great is their desperation to conform.

In all these cases there is a failure to recognise the nature of the thought processes and instincts at work. They involve not just the passive obedience of the person who is “only following orders” but also a dynamic will to unquestioningly follow a leader, to be part of a movement, to belong and to say, “Look at me, I’m one of you, I accept that the mindless stupidity of the mob a.k.a. the widom of crowds is always superior to the intelligence of the individual.

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I know this may jar with some people, but I really do long for a return to the attitudes of my youth, when political correctness was an unknown concept and discipline was integral to every house in the country where children were being raised. In my day, the local beat bobby was a god, feared and never disrespected,  a  genuine figure of real authority, often seen simply strolling and keeping his eyes open for wrong-doing.

I remember quite clearly the long leather belt, thick and threatening, that was hung on the kitchen door as a stark warning to me and my five siblings that bad behaviour could result in physical disciplinary action by my father. He almost never, to be honest, resorted to using that fearsome belt for administering such punishment, but the threat was enough.

I simply fail to understand where this truly ridiculous ban on physical punishment by parents, teachers and the police came from, because in many ways this stupid shift in attitude contributed a great deal to recent riots in the UK. These days, teachers are powerless, unable to impose any form of meaningful punishment on errant pupils, and the kids know it, so we have a whole generation of young people for whom respect for authority is non-existent.

It is only thirty years ago that the world in which we grow up was a very different place, because, just like parents throughout the animal kingdom, human  mothers and fathers had the right to discipline their kids as they saw fit, and just like the puppy who gets his ear nipped painfully for bad behavior, so walking round with a sore backside from a deserved beating was an educational experience, in that you took pains to avoid a repeat performance.

In my secondary school days, teachers too, had carte blanche to impose discipline in their pupols as they saw fit, and no-one relished the idea of being hauled up before the head=master for a caning, which was the ultimate school sanction. Of course there wre those who regarded these punishments as badges of honor, the bad element that never were going to behave, but they were in the minority, even back then.

The vast majority of us lived, not in fear of these figures of authority that played such huge parts in our lives, but rather respecting that there were lines you crossed at your peril, and that keeping within the prescribed boundaries was the best option for a peaceful existence. We grew up with a respect that has been getting eroded in young people for more than a generation, thanks to so-called political correctness.

Discipline in the formative years can only be truly instilled in the young by making them appreciate that the wrong behavior has potentially deadly consequences, something best achieved by inflicting mild pain, to reinforce the lesson. This goes in in nature all the time, perfectly understandably, yet the human animal has stopped following this natural behavioral course because it is deemed cruel to the young.

I contend that the opposite is true, and that the complete lack of authoritative, physical discipline in their childhoods has bred a generation of parents without genuine respect for society, who are unwittingly rearing their children with the same mindset. The recent riots in the UK were symptomatic of this terrible malaise that is afflicting western society, and without some serious reconsideration of attitudes, such terrible scenes are likely to become a regular feature of an increasingly anarchic society.

The only way in which this can be addressed is to go back to basics and think again about the way we approach the whole issue of child-rearing, education and parenting. My generation were all subject to the supposed torture and horror of physical punishment for misdemeanors, yet we turned out, mostly anyway, to be the law-abiding citizens so outraged at the antics of the young today. There is a very simple solution to the problem, which can only be solved now over time. Bring back the Birch.

To be a amazing boss in that case, we’ve got to help to make cognizant selections to set the right good examples – to guide throughout guidance we wish individuals to observe.

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In the end when humans are more insightful, difficult and smart, our own actions, sadly, typically mimics that of the processionary caterpillar.

Most people comply with all of our frontrunners as well as habits without knowing it properly, with no pondering in the event that our own course can get us when we should visit. If we are primary we sometimes rely an excessive amount in impulse and addiction.  Maybe even worse, if all of us aren’testosterone levels a assigned chief add’capital t believe in the least, accepting individuals who are primary do that very well.  Most likely they’re.  Or maybe you are in concert coating your personal teacup.

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Many in the past My spouse and i worked in a business using extremely tough financial aspects.  Clearly there was time to generate a substantial sale to a new Buyer who seem to happened to be positioned in The hawaiian.  Began this morning this settlement just for this long-term way to obtain product or service, they wished to encounter each of our Gm. 

Our General Manager travelled from San Francisco first just one morning hours, and with the good thing about plenty of time areas and specific zones, could talk to the consumer for hours on end.  He then returned towards flight terminal in addition to travelled household within the red-colored observation.

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The actual illustration this individual established crafted a distinction for all those they led.  As a result of his very simple respond, people today re-focused upon methods to enhance the company and not spend as much.  Charlie evidently brought about through instance.

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A person’s activity although will be to acquire that which you already know just, that people keep to the steps of frontrunners but not its phrases, and use it to your great advantage.

Halt right now to review the route you might be planning for a innovator.  Review the choices so that you can and produce the very best one particular, structured not on relaxation as well as behavior, like the caterpillars, yet based on the upcoming result you wish. 

Produce your decision plus phase boldly ahead in that course.  The mixture connected with striking decision and actions aligned along with your words and phrases is going to be powerful, all of which will permit you to proceed people today, and therefore ohio state university physicians, inside correct route.

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It’s a sad thing that I can sit down and have a civilized conversation about major issues with those in the 15-25 age range…something that can’t be done with most adults. With age, certain people become judgmental…they think they know best and don’t care what the future generation thinks. It should be the other way around – after all, these are the kids that will be running this country someday…maybe we should be treating them with respect and asking their opinions. I’ve done that – numerous times, let me assure you of something…they are extremely knowledgeable in many different areas (especially politics). This country needs to find a way to reform in so many different areas and I suggest we start with the rights afforded to minors. We teach them all kinds of stuff throughout their school years, but don’t allow them to put that knowledge to good use. Then…they turn 18 and we shove them out into the world…it’s not the world we taught them about in school.

I’m telling you this because I always just took things as they were – never really questioned things much. With the drastic decline of this country, I started questioning everything I know. I realized that my kids have some very valid ideas…and they prove their points…backing them up with facts. Personally, if we’re going to teach them all about politics and they’re old enough to get jobs and pay taxes…let them vote. We might be shocked with what they come up with…it could improve our current situations. So, I’m just throwing this little thought out there – not expecting much from it, since most people will just laugh at the idea. I just think we need to do something to show these kids that their voices make a difference – that just because they’re not adults yet, they do still have a say over things. Maybe if we start treating them with a little bit of respect and appreciating the knowledge they possess…they’ll see that we do care about them. It will save a lot of headaches that come from them being thrown out into the evil world when we say they’re old enough to be a part of it…start young…prepare them…talk to them…teach them…listen to them…

I don’t know about everyone else’s kids…but ALL of mine have some pretty good heads on their shoulders and I take their perceptions on life seriously…you should try it.

There are many historical accounts which suggest that the IRA came into being as a result of a harsh feudal background. It emerged as seeds to become a peasant protection group at first. However, there exists no strict pattern of its evolution, which it might have followed like other similar rebellion groups. But from its early years, the IRA emerged as a secret society group attaining attention from media as well as the government, when it began to be viewed as a serious terrorist organization. Even though there has been written much literature both in the US and the UK which make a consistent reference to ‘international terrorist networks’ and ‘weapons of mass destruction’ (US Dept of Justice, 2002), they carry a certain kind of political weight used for advantage to further governmental agendas.

According to a study, they have become a victim of politicization of terrorism and organized crime as well as to law enforcement agencies who have attributed such designations for their own resourceful purposes. Just like any organized crime group or a terrorist group, the IRA has a method of operating in hierarchical manner with exclusive membership and explicit rules. (Mahan and O’Neil 1998, p.6) Although, IRA does not consider itself to be an organized criminal group in any way, neither as a mafia of any sort, but when analyzed closely, it does appear to have a historical background of being involved in criminal activities and terrorism.

But they have evolved from merely a rural peasant protection group to a secret society which constantly challenged against the status quo. The kind of secret society that the IRA is that it places primary importance upon clandestine method of operation, which is very rigid about its membership and is hierarchical in structure. (Mackenzie 1967) According to Mackenzie, there are different agendas which secret societies have ranging from spiritual, moralistic, patriotic, and political to criminal activities. The IRA has experienced a similar process of evolution over the years and operated in corresponding manner in each of the cases as per circumstances. Furthermore, Mackenzie (1967) believes that the IRA shares organizational characteristics which befit only criminal business groups like Triads and Mafias, with much focus diverted towards their political goals. It has become a paramilitary terrorist group.

For the purposes of analyzing the IRA and its methodology, ethnographical research method is deemed to be most appropriate, as many journalists and researchers have conducted their primary research using it, because it grants those insights which are not easily concluded through historical accounts alone. Therefore, according to a research into the IRA through the critical secondary analysis and available literature review, the connections between events and its activities have become clear. (Toolis, 1995)

According to Hobsbawm’s observation (1969), in any oppressed society there is always to be found a minority group which is willing to devote itself to rebelling against the status quo. In that, some people will choose positive methods and some will be inclined towards illegal means to achieve the same end. One feature that stands out in the IRA is that it was basically formed to raise a solemn voice against oppressing conditions of the peasants in Ireland and the high degree of feudal practices to suppress the masses. (Bloke, 1972) (Barend, 1998) (Kelly, 1988)

In the case of Ireland, the Irish peasant protection groups can be seen since the 12th century when there were Gaelic defenders against the brutalities of Henry II. The reduction and removal of land and civil rights of the Catholic Gael community, which continued for about four hundred years, forced them to form such peasant protection groups. There easy formation came as a result of the isolation which Ireland had due to its geographical location. The 1700 penal laws which followed from the victory of King William of Orange at Boyne completely took away any property rights from the Irish Catholics. There was massive unrest especially after the forceful 1800 Act of Union passed by Westminster to create United Kingdom, which ended up binding Ireland under its rule.

This is a significant curve at the point of which the peasant protection group was compelled to take political action. (Toolis, 1995) As there increased the number of peasants willing to fight for the political cause they all believed in, the need for more organized formation arose and hence, the IRA was formed. (Posner 1988) ‘The Whiteboys’ and ‘the Oakboys’ along with ‘phoenix’ were a precursor in Ireland for forming such hierarchical groups for cohesion and organization with enhanced sophistication. It became a sub-culture within a sub-culture. (Cloward and Ohlin, 1960)

The political dimension in the whole case of the IRA has been the political uncertainty in the country with wars, invasions, and other socio-economic oppressions. Many other secret societies were formed in Ireland as a result of the English incursions resulting in suppressing the Irish Catholic population. The power vacuum which occurred as an outcome gave way to banditry, corruption and lack of trust in a formal authority. Hence, the alternative sense of rights given by these secret societies was well taken by the population, especially when the ‘Catholic Association’ fought to gain back the Catholic civil rights.

Something that gives them authority is their ability to monopolize violence in their respective communities. Traditionally, Ireland is known for its familial unit and camaraderie, hence the rise of the IRA has its roots in such a background. Those who were out of any secure means for livelihood sought shelter in such organizations for mutual protection. (Lim 2000, p.2) Hence, the Irish Catholic secret societies functioned around tribal and territorial kinship.

The modus operandi of the IRA depends on the kinship and friendship networks that it has developed through practicing its hold on its community. If there is kept no check from the government’s side on their activities, they spread their values and ideologies very easily. (Blok 1972, p.212) Even there had been such fortunate historical events in favor of the IRA where their sub-culture has proliferated with changing patterns in migration of people. This made their members to spread themselves and their political views. Due to the potato famine of 1845, thousands died as the English settlers were given favor, but those who survived emigrated to America in hope. This laid the seeds of Irish secret societies in America. In 1919 Michael Collins founded The Irish Republican Army which comprised of members of various secret societies. The trans-Atlantic link that was formed as a result proved to be valuable to legitimize both the Irish and American Catholic communities.

Ever since the creation of the IRA, there has been interest in its structure and organization from both the political and media side. It started with the ‘Army Council’ taking charge of all the IRA operations. (O’Brian, 1995) To operate within a designated area, the method adopted was to form separate ‘volunteers’ and ‘battalions’ for each area, which would be headed by the ‘Brigade Commander’ of that specific area. (Toolis 1995) In the IRA, there were particular departments and units which were responsible for arms smuggling, money laundering, transportation and bomb making. (Council of Foreign Relations 2002)

But this method of operation was proven ineffective when the law enforcement agencies broke them down and penetrated in them through increasing number of informants. For this reason, the IRA had to change its method in 1976. (Toolis 1995) Another major change in its structure was a little role played by the Army Council and more power being given to a mini-Army Council; especially to oversee every single operation in the North. (Toolis 1995, p.318) This new ‘mini-council’ had fragments of tiny individual units called ‘cells’ which had 30 to 60 men each. The Army Council supplied its resources, intelligence and links with Sinn Fein and the US fund raising wing known as ‘NORAID’ (Northern Irish Aid).

The IRA has their consistent political motivation to drive them with their set ideology, which holds no regard for any formal authority and hence does not fear it. If the IRA were to evolve in any other way aside from their political derivations, then it might be inclined to have profit-seeking goal from its various splinter groups. However, the flow of power is always haphazard and does not have any set pattern. It can go back and forth, horizontal and vertical, anywhere but in one specific direction.

The IRA carried out much guerrilla warfare against the British government and its agencies, just like its Gaelic ancestors. The basic method of success in such warfare is that of the classic saying by Mao Tse-tung: “The former must live and operate among the latter and their support, or at least their acquiescence, is essential for the guerrillas’ survival and success.” (Murray 1984, p.35) The IRA has not changed its method of operations since 1919 with bombings, assassinations, beatings, intimidation and arms smuggling. These methods have all been used by the IRA successfully for its advantage over the years. (Toolis 1995) But a major event that marks its method of operation prominently was the Ulster riots of 1969, which are commonly known as the ‘Troubles’. (Kelly 1988) In 1970, the split between the official IRA and the provisional IRA began a long campaign against the British government and its occupation of Northern Ireland.

There have been many devastating events since then, such as the IRA attacks in Northern Ireland and England in 1972 with the July bombings in the centre of Belfast, known as ‘Bloodly Friday’ resulted in the death of 9 people and left 130 injured. (Council of Foreign Relations, 2002) In 1979, the Queen Elizabeth II’s Uncle, Lord Mountbatten was assassinated and in 1984 there was a bombing when Margaret Thatcher’s cabinet was in a meeting in Brighton. This latter incident left 9 people dead and many other wounded. (Toolis 1995) Since the ceasefire followed after the ‘Good Friday’ agreement, there has been some slowness shown in the IRA’s strong commitment to its political cause. But the negative impact of this approach from the IRA has resulted in the formation of many splinter groups which continue to demand a United Ireland.

There are indications that the IRA splinter groups, the ‘Real IRA’ as well as the ‘Irish National Liberation Army’ have both put into use their trans-Atlantic connections with arms smugglers and drug traffickers. There have been many trials in Columbia on their attempt to traffic Cocaine. (Taylor 2003) To evolve, the successful method that was employed by the IRA was to get mixed with the legitimate authorities. (Knox 2002) The advantage that the IRA had was that the communities supported them and accepted their informal control of the administration and its justice. (Knox, 2002, p.173)

The analysis of such a behavior says that there exists a pragmatic need to control criminal behavior and those which are a threat to the de facto authority. (Silke 1998) But there seems to be a balance in this presumed legitimacy that the IRA receives from the people, because they on the other hand feel secure. (Moxon-Brown 1986) But according to another analysis of their method, there has been a shift in the balance with the increase in the Irish paramilitaries taking more criminalizing activities like racketeering and illicit drug markets. (Knox 2000) Even though this has led to some degree of political stability in Ireland with a change for democratic resolutions increasing, but it has put in jeopardy the IRA’s informal legitimacy. (Kiley 1999) Now, there method has become to invest in big businesses and they use paramilitary to hide behind it. (Knox 2002, p.177)

The IRA’s activities have been affected by the governmental legislation as well as policies over the years, which have been afflicted their communities. In fact, the evolution of the IRA has been a direct result of the oppression of legislative rights over hundreds of years. For example, the statutes of Kilkenny (1366), the Penal laws of 1700 and the Act of Union (1800) deprived the Irish Catholic communities from any civil or land rights. This has given fire to the Irish Catholic secret societies and their bitterness and lack of confidence in the formal government increased and its formation in 1919 is a testament for a need of an alternative authority by the people.

In 1971, the Special Powers Act of 1922 was invoked by Stormont to bar down some suspected terrorists without trial (Carlton 1981), as a result of which the IRA performed violent acts with an average death toll from 8 to 114 covering almost four months. (Carlton 1981) These activities forced the government to consider some sort of alternative legal procedures. Hence, in 1972 the Special Powers Act was abolished and the recommended changed were put into the Northern Ireland (Emergency Provisions) Act of 1973. The ‘Diplock’ courts for the trial of political cases was formed where there were no juries but only a single high or county court judge. Even though this was some kind of an improvement, but still the Irish Catholic communities held the opinion that they are another oppressive legislative move. (Carlton 1981) This whole step by the government was made worse by the decision of treating all paramilitary prisoners as criminals, those who were charged after 1976 in the United Kingdom. Again this led to the dirty protests by the IRA prisoners in Long Kesh which felt like political prisoners, and they murdered 17 people by the end of 1979. (Carlton 1981) This made them strong in their resolve to take direct action.

In their nature itself the IRA has been a severe difficulty for the government and presented many challenges to the law enforcement agencies. Because of their clandestine nature, the gathering of information and proofs become rather impossible task. To make matters worse, the law enforcement agencies face the same issues and pressures as do the legislative issues. But with the passage of time the sophistication has taken place not alone in the criminal means and methods but in the technologies utilized by the law enforcement agencies along with the government. There has risen the need to cooperate more through multi-agency at both national and international levels but the IRA gets an advantage when there is hesitancy from any agency to share information. (Beare and Naylor 1999) The permeable borders are one factor along with globalization that demands the multi-agency cooperation with the increase in the threat of global terrorism. (Reuter and Petrie 1999)

The difficulty face by the law enforcement agencies to overcome the differences in national laws present itself as an impediment and such a thing can well be exploited by the IRA, which is a ‘Criminogenic Asymmetry”. (Passas 1998, p.2) Hence, the requirement for coordination at all the levels is dominant, because the IRA takes its full advantage of criminal activity from the very macro level. (Hobbs 1998, p.408) One of the most effective tools for IRA is to get the action from the political and social demands of the people. If the government controls things at the local level then there is no danger from any alien conspiracy taking place and hence the IRA will not find grounds to grow roots into.

It is due to the mutual relations between the IRA and the corrupt legitimate authority which has led strength for the IRA. It was the link between the government and the Irish leader that made 80,000 Irish people from a secret society to join the British Army in the World War I in 1914. But since this gesture was not taken positively by the government with no expected response given, the people who opposed this whole idea since the beginning formed the IRA. (Kelley 1988) But is solely the corruption in the government that has let the IRA survive successfully for so long even after harsh law enforcement. The basic instigation from the IRA to influence some people in the authority has always won them their cases. (Bequai 1979) The moving of the IRA officials into political positions have made them sought legitimacy and then get strengthened.