There are actually three methods by which a teacher can be able to maintain discipline and put effective teaching:

1. Eye contact:

                        A teacher can show the students that they are all involved in the lesson.

                       He/she can assure that students understand what they are supposed to do and what is going on.

                       He/she can indicate the student (often with a nod of head) who is to speak.

                       A teacher can encourage the contributions.

                       A teacher can hold the attention of the students who are not being addressed.

                       He/she can maintain the discipline.

                       A teacher can signal students to stop, start or get a move on.

                       A teacher can indicate that something is correct or incorrect.

                       A teacher can check everybody is contributing.

2. Gestures:

                  Good use of gestures can be helpful as follows:

                  Convey the meaning of the language.

                  To re-in force instructions (manage the class).

                  To add visual interest.

                  To increase the pace of the lesson.

                  To reduce the need for verbal explanation.

    There are certain ways to use gestures. Some  important forms are:

Gestures for listening, repeat in chorus, get into pairs, stop, good, not right, nearly right, unusual idea, identifying a student.

However, gestures can only be used if they are clear in meaning or the meaning has already been established with the students.

3. The Voice:

                     Voice must have clarity, quality, pitch, range, variety or projection to communicate the ideas or the transfer of knowledge in an understandable way to all the class members.

Voice should be changed according to the situation. The quality and projection of voice is different for younger students and, for a large class and elder students it should be different. This would show that the teacher has the idea about the psyche and personalities and he/she can control and lead the class according to his will. A lesson can be livened up or quietened down by voice alteration. The greater the variation of the voice the greater is the control of the teacher on the students.

In my own experience, all the above mentioned characteristics are helpful in effective teaching, communicating and controlling the class on individual or collective basis. e. g  I am senior lecturer in Pharmacology in a medical college. I will have to deal with a class of about 100 students. The problem which I often face is the noise from the student’s side. At that time, I first turn completely to the students (from OHP slides), put my hands on the dice and have a round of the class with my eyes showing that I am trying to locate the student, and, while doing so, I just stop at a student randomly and ask him about the topic or about the previous lecture. The other useful technique is to move round between the rows of students and at that time every student feels that I am observing him. Moreover, the ups and downs of voice help me while making them understand about the different aspects of medicines; where automatically, my voice goes up when I am stressing on important points. Even, sometimes, while I am writing and the students start making noise, just stop writing without turning to them, make them stop as if they might guess that something is going to be happened at that time.           

TO UNDERSTAND THE BODY LANGUAGE

You might think that the only things you say are the words that come our of your mouth,

but your body secretly sends messages all the time, too, with little signs and movements.

This is called body language. You may sometimes be aware of what your body is saying,

but most of the time, your body sends the messages without you knowing it. What’s more,

when other people pick up your body’s

messages, they’re not always aware of it either.

A. Secure

Interest: Tilting head

Anticipation: Rubbing Hands 

Boredom: Sitting with legs crossed and foot kicking slightly

Trying to make a decision: Stroking chin

Confidence, superiority: Sitting with hands clasped behind head

Impatience: Tapping or drumming fingers

Authoritative: Steepling 

Relaxation: Sitting cross-legged

Contemplating: Hand to cheek

B. Insecure

Readiness,Aggression: Standing with hands on hips

Insecurity,Nervousness: Biting nails

Rejection,Doubt,Lying: Touching and slightly rubbing nose

Doubt,Disbelief: Rubbing eye

Dejection: Walking with hands in pockets and with hunched shoulders

Lack of self-confidence: Patting or playing with hair

Indecision: Pulling or tugging at ear

Negative evaluation: Piching bridge of nose with eyes closed

Disbelief: Looking down with face t

urned away

Defensive: Arms crossed on chest

Apprehension: Locked ankles

C. Lying

Staring

Smiling but only with mouth, not eyes

Slight delay in speech-body alignment

Adjusting clothing

Sending conflicting signals

Dilated pupils

Holding body rigid

Sitting behind barries, such as books or crossed arms

Avoiding eye contact

Blinking more often

Rubbing eyes more often

Shrugging and grimacing

If suspicious of their speech that indicates the message is confusing, then it’s time to look for other signs. The most obvious sign is the language of your partner’s body.

Richard Newman, a researcher of body language, shared tips on how to detect lies.

After research in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), he trained more than 6,500 people from 29 countries that successfully use body language and how to read these markers in daily life.

“The best way to uncover whether someone is lying or not is to notice the awkwardness and unfamiliarity,” said Newman.

“In addition to tools that can detect lies, which must be considered is the existence of signs of stress, anxiety, and depressed.”

He suggests you should set a good voice before starting the investigation. “Make sure it fits the facts,” says Newman. “Do not just talk about that are accused, those who want to make you feel comfortable ask first.”

Newman believes it will help identify significant changes in their appearance.

Once you make them comfortable and quiet, then there are signs that you should look for:

Blink. Eye movements that could mean as many signs that can be trusted to know a lie. The average person blinks once every 10 seconds, so if he blinks too often, there are many possibilities that he was thinking (maybe lie) quickly.

The touch of the hand in the face. The higher level of hand gestures around the face, the higher the level of anxiety. “We are naturally designed to prove the truth,” said Newman. So, any way that made her hands to her face, shows the person is trying to cover up lies.

Suddenly quiet or tense. The opposite of his eyes are staring, blank stare response shows also dishonest. It was common for a liar who made a special effort to not move their eyes much to make it look convincing.

You may be suspicious if someone looked very nervous and think that they are lying, but it is a common attitude. Something unusual is to talk to someone who looks like a statue.

Do not approach someone when they are busy, too easy for them to hide their reactions and body language to cover when they’re busy doing the work.

These clues are not going to turn you into a lie detector. But by reading the body language of someone, at least you can get some certainty as being suspicious.

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2. PITCH-Concerns how high or low a voice may be

3. RANGE-The distance measured in notes between the lowest pitch and the highest pitch of a comfortable, effective speaking voice.

4. VOLUME-Force or loudness of tone

5. INTENSITY-A quality in speaking that arises from strong feeling. Never confuse it with mere loudness of tone

6. RATE-The speed of speaking

7. INFLECTION-The rise and flow of the voice as it slides from one pitch to another in the formation of a syllable, word, or group of words.

FLEXIBILITY- the ability of a voice to modulate or vary within a pleasant range of tone

8. EMPHASIS-Stressed placed upon any syllable, word, group of words, or portion of a speech

9. PAUSE-A brief suspension of the voice, or hesitation, while speaking

10. ENUNCIATION-the clearness with which a speaker forms his/her words

11. PRONUNCIATION-The correct utterance of words so that the vowels and consonants are given their proper sounds and the syllables their proper accents

12. POISE-All the ways in which you as a speaker show self-control

13. POSTURE-The manner in which the body is carried

14. GESTURE-Any bodily movement expressing or emphasizing an idea

15. AUDIENCE CONTACT-The establishment of a speaking situation in which the speaker sends out a message (communicates) and the audience receives that message (listens)

16. DELIVERY-The sum total of how a speech is given with a combination of gestures, posture, rate, volume, inflection, pitch, pause, emphasis and poise.

17. RELAXATION PROCESS-Relaxation refers to the relative degrees of sustained or partial contraction in the muscles. It is the partial or complete absence of tension.

USING YOUR BODY TO COMMUNICATE

Nonverbal communicate includes tone of voice, physical expression.eye contact body posture,gestures,body movement,physical appearance including dress, and the use of space.

The use of your body helps create clarity and convey your meaning.But as the saying goes.” Actions speaks louder than words.”

ROLES OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION

1. Nonverbal cues or behavior reveal the emotions of the speakers.

These are seen in facial expression,physical action like walking,moving your head,arms,shoulders,and hands.When an Arab is embarrassed.he lowers his head and slightly sticks his tongue out.A Filipino When embarrassed may lower his head or blush.

2. The messages of the words are enriched or elaborated by the speaker’s nonverbal cues.

3. Nonverbal messages create a reciprocal interaction sent from  Speaker to listener and from listener sent to speaker.

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION or BODY LANGUAGE

1.) Proxemics- refers to the use of spaces by human beings. It has 2 components

a.) Physical arrangement- it pertains to the layout of the room in which you are speaking, absence or presence of a podium, the setting plan, the location of chalkboards and similar aids, and any physical barriers between you and the audience

b.) Distance- it is the extent of your separation between you and your audience.

2.) MOVEMENT AND STANCE-Movement pertains to shifts you make from one spot t another during delivery.

Stance refers to postures standing in a relaxed or rigid manner with head and shoulders erect or slumping

Changes in posture can also communicate tone shifts:

· Leaning forward may indicate intensity and importance

· Moving  back to a more relaxed stance will signal an emotional transition in a subject

IMPACT:  you can more effectively regulate the audience’s perception of your message

MOVEMENT THAT CAN WORK AGAINST YOU

· Aimless facing back and forth is distracting

· Nervous bouncing or swaying makes the audience tense and uneasy

· Standing too stiff and erect may also cause you to lose rapport with the audience

3.) FACIAL EXPRESSIONS

Your facial expressions tell the audience about yourself and your feeling.

The facial details are the listeners’ cues into specific interpretations of the content of your message

WAYS OF CUTTING VISUAL BONDING

· Speaker looks down on the floor

· Speaker who reads excessively from notes on a manuscript

· Speaker who delivers a speech to the back wall

 **make sure your words are compatible with your face. A mismatch between facial expressions and facial messages will confuse the audience and they will doubt your sincerity.

4. GESTURES-These are the purposeful movements of the heads, shoulders, arms, hands, or other areas of the body

PURPOSE: to support and illustrate the ideas you are expressing.

To condense the ideas you are expressing through shorthand movements

NON-PURPOSEFUL MOVEMENT

· Fidgeting with your clothes

· Bringing a pencil to the lectern

· Clutching the sides of the lectern

EFFECTIVE GESTURES

CHARACTERISTICS OF EFFECTIVE GESTURES

1. RELAXATION

·   Make conscious effort to relax your muscles before you start to speak

·   Take  a few unobtrusive stops

·   Rearrange your notes

·   Breathe deeply

2. VIGOR AND DEFINITIVENESS-Make gesture lively, vigorous and definite

Purpose: to communicate dynamism

· Put enough force into gestures to illustrate your conviction and enthusiasm

· Can help support a comment that you are a credible, sincere speaker

·         Match gestures to the importance of the ideas and use them purposefully

3. TIMING

· Employ a gesture when the idea is spoken such as a shake of a fist, or movement of a finger or of the head

4. APPROPRIATENESS

· The gestures must fit the occasion

**IMPLICATIONS: check intercultural communication resources to determine what maybe appropriate or taboo for different members of the audience

Learn to orchestrate your voice and movements.

STRATEGIES IN CHOOSING NONVERBAL BEHAVIOR

1. KNOW YOURSELF

· Discover the kind of person you are.

· Find out the styles and actions that you are normally most comfortable

· Use delivery/speaking technique that are natural to your self-image

2. Adapt the size of your gestures, the amount of your movement, and the volume of your voice to the size of the audience

3. Look at the audience from side to side and front to back, looking at specific individuals in the eye.

·   Be aware and let listeners know you are aware of the entire group that is in front of you

Interestingly, 38% is based on the emphasis of their voice. 55% of the acceptation comes from the body emphasis of the being that is speaking. This aphorism comes from analysis that was published in the backward 1960’s. Some now anticipate that the percentages from this research ability be hardly different. Nevertheless, the basal band is still the same. If you don’t apperceive the basics of physique language, you are missing a admired apparatus for learning how to acquaint better. We allege body language on a brainy level, without actually acumen that we are communicating through physique talk.

1. Face

The a lot of alive allotment of your physique is your face. If you access a allowance if you feel nervous, your announcement ability accomplish you look aloof or unfriendly. Smiling at the allowance is a cinch way to remove anyone’s doubts about your approachability. Smiling makes us attending warm, open and confident.

2. Eyes

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. They absolutely accord humans clues about what we are feeling. A absolute boring arise anyone can show interest- absolute staring on the added duke can mean an acute dislike. Actual little eye contact can appearance that you are shy.

3. Hands

Have you anytime watched someone’s hand gestures if they are talking? Open hand gestures tend to accomplish a being arise open and honest. Bringing easily calm to a point can emphasis the point you are making. Wringing your easily or badly moving your fingers and easily will accord away nervousness. It can even accomplish anyone look dishonest- are they aggravating to adumbrate something?

4. Posture

If you angular arise anyone you are showing an absorption in that person. If we are activity low in confidence, we tend to slouch our shoulders and attending down. Men and women use altered physique language. For instance, women will angle abutting to each other, authority eye acquaintance with the being they are talking to and use gestures.

Men accomplish little accomplishment to advance eye contact and don’t await on the use of gestures to communicate. Men and women can apprentice how to acquaint bigger by celebratory the differences in their use of physique language.

A few months old baby is not yet able to speak, so that one of its communication only through cries and body language. But parents can learn the baby’s body language to know her wishes.

Babies do have a unique way of communicating with the parents or the people around him. Excerpted from Parenting, Friday (09/07/2010) parents can learn the language of the tiny body, namely:

Kicking his legs

This condition means the baby is fascinated or interested in something, like when he saw something amazing or mecipratkan water in the tub.

Body language can also mean babies reveal the word ‘Wow’. Or it could be your baby wants something more, for example, ask him to play or he wants to move but a narrow place.

The way to respond is to share a passion with him or her lap to play with. Because the kicking leg also helps develop the muscles needed when crawling.

Turned away

This condition can mean the baby needs a little time to find out what happens, especially something that is seen. Or it could be your baby needs time to his personal space.

The way to respond is to just let it check around, even if to see the shadow dicerminnya or it could also give him time to relax. But if the baby is too long away, try to attract attention again.

Rubbed or closing his eyes

This condition could mean he was trying to play ‘peekaboo’ or other games to attract others. Another thing is the baby ready for bed when she felt tired.

The way to respond is by way of responding to his interest to play with, for example by way of throwing light blanket so that he would try to pull the blanket. But if he is sleepy, Hold it as sung or read the short story as she rocked back and forth.

Twisting her hair

This condition could mean he was trying to make himself feel better. In addition repetitive motion can also mean to cover her nervousness, such as any new nanny or a new environment is too noisy for him.

The way to respond is to let it do so, because it’s not a matter that should be prevented. Can also ask to speak with a soothing tone of voice or ask him to play to get over his nervousness.

Baby arching her back

This condition could mean he is angry, cranky, upset with a thing or an illness that can not be expressed.

The way to respond is to try to calm him down, it usually takes more time because the baby is arching her back is the accumulation of discomfort.

If accompanied by other symptoms such as vomiting or fever, then consult a physician in order to avoid misdiagnosis and baby feel comfortable again.

Stretch your arm or hand

This condition means that the baby in a good mood, relaxed and ready to look around, but you should still pay attention to facial expressions.

It also can mean the baby is learning to sit up where he needed something to keep his balance.

The way to respond is if the baby shows the face cheerful, optimistic atmosphere then utilized to provide a positive stimulus. But if he is learning to sit give help when he needs, if it does not need any help let him build his stomach muscles to help him sit upright.

Tugging at her ears

This condition means that he has difficulty in doing something, such as a sign of milk is too hot, stomach bloating or she needs to burp. Other meaning is that he feels uncomfortable due to illness such as ear infections, sore throat or a disturbance in the nose.

The way to respond is to try to calm him down for example by making him burp, if not I also try to close the curtains, move to another room or turn off the television.

In addition, check for other signs that make him uncomfortable, such as checking the ears, nose and throat.

Lets look at the eyes having six positions

We can not just say a person is telling a lie because of these positions first we need to understand the persons eye patterns. the image above is for a right handed person so for a left handed person these will be reversed.

In business it is very important to understand your client therefore in the initial introduction you need to understand his behavior in relation to gestures and his eye patterns. This is something relatively easy to do.

When two people meet for the first time in business they normally offer each other their business card, The receiver 99% of the time receives the business card with there regular hand ( so a right handed person will receive with their right hand and a left handed person their left hand. After this we should just get to know the person a little bit and not just get right down to business. Asking friendly questions in away to make them feel relaxed is always a good way to see their body language and at the same time to visualize their eye patterns.

At some stage you will have been accused of lying to someone   just because you refused to make eye contact with then? Well it’s where you’re looking that gives you away.

we will now look at these give away Glances

To the right- When a persons eyes look to the right, they are constructing an auditory thought. (your left)

Example  1: Tell someone to think of the noise of a train and watch their eyes. They will move to the right as they attempt to listen to the noise of a train in their mind.

Example  2: think of the sound of a jet taking off

Up and to the left- This indicates a visually remembered image. (your right)

Example 1: Ask someone to remember the color of their first car, and watch as their eyes quickly move up and to the left. In their mind, they are visually remembering the color of their first car.

Example  2: What did you wear Last Sunday?

·     Up and to the right- This eye movement indicates a visually constructed image. (your left)

Example  1:  If you ask someone to picture a ship floating on the ocean, this will be the direction their eyes will move.

Example 2: Picture a giant Ant eating an ice cream 

·     To the left- Looking to the left is an indication of an auditory memory. (your right)

Example 1: Ask someone to listen to their favorite actor in their mind, and they will look in this direction.

Example 2: Remember the sound of your mother’s voice.

·     Down and to the right- Typically this is an indication of someone creating a feeling or sensory impression. Their eyes will move this way when they are trying to recall a taste, smell, or feeling. (your right)

Example  1: For example, ask someone to remember their last drink, and watch as their eyes move down and to the left.

Example  2: How does it feel when you walk barefoot on Glass?

·     Down and to the left- This is the direction someone’s eyes will move while they “talk to themselves” (your left)

“I don’t get it!…”

“I’ve a awesome car. I’m achieved. My A-List CV create the next guy look trendy. I even use the newest Armani! Why doesn’t she switch for me? Why am I always alone??”

STOP!

How many periods did you lb the dash of your Corvettes bewailing this chronic question?

The road to Romantic endeavors is full of with roadkill minds and hearts and unrequited really like.If you think you’re exclusive in your solitude, think again. There is enough dash beating out there to begin a international band of serious stress.

But don’t lose heart. Before you management, set up the safety bags quick. These ideal techniques should vacation you returning on track:

1) Outfit to Destroy – all the time: No I don’t plan that you use $5000 matches to the grocery store or the Rolex timepiece basically to move the dog. What I want you to do is is for slightly everytime you hit the roads. Dab on some perfume. Be nicely shaven. Guys, females are everywhere. If you dress with display only at the bar or the celebration, you’re losing out on 95% of qualified females. Some of the best connections were made during opportunity activities at the bus quit.

2) Bed room Sight – When checking out new connections with that eye-catching unfamiliar person, increase the eye get in touch with. Secure deeply into her individuals. Let the community fade away even as a group of models troop by. You will normally excitement her with the interest as she encounters the tendrils of increasing fascination. Ethnologists have a phrase for it, the copulatory look. Get you even hotter by enlargening your pupils; Dr. Hess determined that dilated individuals are far far more eye-catching to females. How does one get the individuals popping? Simply look at the most eye-catching components of a ladies experience and complete your thoughts with nurturing thoughtful ideas. Your individuals normally develop, endowing you with amazing eyes.

3) Visible Caress – Get you to do some experience visiting as you discussion. Stay a bit on the nasal area, traipse across those eyelash and relax upon the lip area. Consume in her experience functions as though you were appreciating the Mona Lisa. She will pleasure in the attention!

4) Easter time Egg – Confused at having nothing to say? Pay attention properly for easter eggs as you discuss. These are uncommon terms or terms that she utters. Ask her to expound on it. Say “What’s the tale behind that?” or “How do you experience about that?”. Women really like to be probed for their views and their ideas.Gently carry out her feelings with delicate open-ended concerns.

5) Keep it Excitement Energized – Men discuss facts: inventory results, expenses expenses, and tedious website specifications. Women are different. They pleasure in FEELINGS TALK: how the new dress requires them to 7th paradise, how that unique food got them all giddy with euphoria, how their purchasing trip pipes their inner issues away. Power this by guiding away from information discuss. Choose out mentally incurred topics and ask her how she especially concerns them. You’ll be her new confidant!

I know what you’re considering. It’s all typical sense! That’s real, but ask yourself this: how many of you actually exercise this? Be sincere.

Get out there and be the man females likes. Use your typical sense!

For women, use a fragrance suitable, especially if you have identified the weaknesses body odor, use a little ‘humor to challenge the other person and a little’ game with the body language of women. If the objective is to you, slowly move away, then we would certainly look interested.

Wide and contains a symbol of virility and strength showed a man who can make his heart beat. This is why you spend your training time. If necessary, follow a fitness program and consult with a coach, how to measure the ideal form.

Erotic value increases when you appear in a lovely, charming, lively, intelligent, educated, and have a good communication style, meaning able to make contacts, as well as generous and always “updated” and the current issues and gossip on the movie , news, business and technology. Spend a little ‘time on the web site before entering the “Arena” a party that you are “ammunition” a meeting with colleagues to open easily.

Body language can show and attraction to the opposite sex. Success skills you physical attraction transmission signals and their recognition. Women recognize more such signals and higher speed compared with men.Women use more ways to attract the opposite sex. Some ways of expressing the hottest desires are unconscious, innate.

Here are some of your partner’s body language secrets.

1. Try to Offering a romantic atmosphere

A man lights candles and choose the right soundtrack can be the most attentive partner sex. Because we understand your needs and priorities, will provide sensual moments in the bedroom. But if you prefer attraction animal, you have to take control.

2. Gently kissing

Partner gently kissing and making you blow carefully and try to conquer the gentle, so it’s possible to already be emotionally attached to you. Delicacy is how you try to prove you’re not just a one night stand.

3. Maintain eye contact

If you maintain eye contact during sex, even for a few seconds is not only interested in the physical part of your relationship. If you feel the same attraction for him, you could have a happy relationship.

4. Prefer the missionary position

Men who prefer this position are stable and consistent. Generally, you will not disappoint and you will be faithful.

5. Prefers doggy style

If your partner prefers those sexual positions that he stands behind you, is a strong and confident man, but who does not want to become emotionally vulnerable in front of you.

6. You rather be on top

When the man is excited about where you stand above positions can be a partner attentive and affectionate, always contemplating the pleasure and your needs.

7. Put back after sex

When you partner sit back (without you over it) requires a distance, both physical and emotional. It is possible to stop this act in time.