Maybe no one wants to break a heart or maybe that’s only what we want to think. Maybe you can’t judge everyone for just that one person that shred your heart to pieces, but then again you can. 

Before you break a heart ask yourself if that person really deserves a broken heart because no one deserves it, and yet here I am telling how to do it. 

After you’re sure that you want to break a heart you must start with the simplest thing, where everything starts; tell that person that you’ve never felt anything for him/her. Of course this will only lead to the oldest talk in history: It’s not you It’s me. After that you only have to sit and watch as the pieces of the heart fall apart like you wanted; enjoy the show.

Thinking it over there are always those stubborn hearts that wont break so easily and you have to really push them to the edge. In this case, ignore them. Ignoring them will be have the task. Ignoring them will just bring their attention and after you have his/her attention make it look like if you have some one else, doesn’t matter with who even if it’s your cousin; after all you’re just pretending.

If you still aren’t satisfied with all this I don’t know what kind of person you are, but I’ll continued. The next thing you have to do is step over the broken pieces, and the way to do this is to daily ask this person how he/she is feeling, and I’m sure you’ll enjoy all the excuses they’ll make up for their sorrow.

Now here is the part where you’ll humiliate him/her to the edge, after you’ve enjoyed your looking at how his/her heart crumbled and broke into 1000 pieces, come one day and tell him/her that you really care for him/her and that you really want to be with him/her.

Now I hope that you’re proud, you may have just lost some one that really cared for you and that you may not get back ever again.

Instead of giving your ex the satisfaction of feeling relieved, here are some helpful tips to help heal your bruised and broken heart.  First of all, ask the other person why. No matter how devastated you are, let them see  how hurt or confused you feel. It may show weakness, but in the end your heart will thank you for it.  You will come out victorious.

1. First,  pray that  all feelings of love, shame, or guilt be severed.
2. Take time out for self reflection and relearn to love yourself. 
3. The old friends you ditch your love for, if they let you try to reconnect with them.
4. Keep yourself busy by taking up a hobby, or pursue a new goal.
5. Put yourself in social networking  web sites,  and surround yourself around positive people.
6. Reconnect yourself with physical activity.( walking, gym, swimming)
7. Before you know it your heart will heal and you will  move on and go venture back into the dating scene with a clean slate and no inner demons  or unresolved issues…

Good Luck you can do it!!!!

The pain is deep; almost physical. It’s heartbreak.

You’re heartbroken and the first thing you probably want to do is be with the one that hurt you, say how you feel and try to get things back on track.

Or you just don’t want to talk about it. You’d rather lock yourself away and just mourn.

No matter how terrible you feel, take the time to read this.

Reflect, but Let Go

People pass through our lives for different reasons. Some come into our lives to take away, while others come to give. Appreciate what you have gained from the relationship, count your blessings but let go of what you have already lost.

Regret, but Don’t Hate

It’s all right to have a couple of regrets over a relationship. There are probably things you did, and you wish you hadn’t done, or otherwise.

Forgive yourself and the other person. Leave no room for hatred. DECIDE not to hate that person no matter how guilty you think they are. Pray about it if you have to.

According to a quote by Hazrat Inayat Khan,

“The best thing is not to hate anyone, only to love. That is the only way out of it. As soon as you have forgiven those whom you hate, you have gotten rid of them. Then you have no reason to hate them; you just forget.”

Move on, You Deserve it

This is not easy, it takes time, but it’s worth it.

Do this by looking for distractions. Watch a movie, read a book, take a trip, or do something you haven’t done in a long time. Anything that won’t fan the hurt you feel.

It’s hard to see, but seasons come and go. A time will come when you will feel no more pain. The relationship has ended because it wasn’t meant to be. Keep the lessons but let go of the person.

Remember that finding true love is just like forging a diamond. There’s a lot of heat and pressure needed to forge a diamond but it comes out shinier and brighter than ever.

Choose to Be the Diamond that Was Lost

And maybe when you find someone more suited to you, you’ll believe that you were saved by a broken heart.

Many of us become afraid to love because we’re tired of being hurt. Some of us don’t ever want to experience being hurt again. Why? It takes too much time to get over it.

We may be afraid to love again, but we won’t dismiss the possibility. We can’t control when we fall in love because love just happens. Love will sneak up on you when you least expect it. Love is innocent and does not hurt. It only hurts when the one you love takes their love away. This is what makes us afraid to love.

Bottom line is that none of us want to be hurt which is what will cause us to just give up on love all together. We will keep those barriers up and stray away from anyone that tries to get close enough to us to get over those barriers.

Eventually, we have to get over being afraid. There’s not one person that wants to wake up and find that you’re all alone. That’s the risk that we take when we choose to love. I guess you can say that life is a risk.

Most times in a marriage or other relationship your heart have been hurt so much that it becomes hardened toward your partner. Whether the cause came from being physically abused, mentally abused, cheated on, lied to or some other reason, the love has been lost. Knowing that you don’t love that person anymore now becomes an issue because you have to find a way to let them know. Everybody wants to know the reason that someone is leaving them or divorcing them. Now you have to be honest with them and tell the truth.

Love does not just leave overnight either. Love takes time to go away. The longer you stay in that unhealthy marriage the easier it will be to leave because all the love will be gone. It’s hard to divorce someone when your love for them is just as strong as it was in the beginning. Everyone deserves to be loved by someone and leaving the relationship that has no more love will allow you to start the healing process sooner than later. Don’t dare start to think that there is something wrong with you just because you no longer have any love for your spouse. It’s nothing wrong with that. We’re all human beings with the capability of loving. That’s all part of life. You gain some and you lose some and that’s the end of that.