For some, an act of infidelity is irresistible, they are constantly tempted and are always looking for a bait to empty. In their couples, all is fine, but soon, they will look elsewhere. Why the attitude? We do not know? What are they looking elsewhere, we do not know … Is it the fact that sex has become commonplace (sex shop, porn image ..)? Is it easy to meet with the arrival of new technologies like Internet “A click is we went to a meeting, set a small glass or a small exit for many cases ends with a little leg in the air” . Is it the fact to say that we no longer wants to have sex with one person? Or it’s genetic …

In any case, the Senegalese rap group K’nibal addressed the issue in his latest album “The Who Senegal Exile” gave us some tips for finding a man or a woman who deceives the other.

Writing gewbi fell to the charm of this song very special hip hop group K’nibal.

So we decided to get a transcript of the text. Now you recognize when your boyfriend or your girlfriend cheating on you.

How to recognize your girlfriend cheating on you?

If your girlfriend to new friends that you know?

If it turns physical with more control in their clothing?

If she gets a new cell phone and hide the number?

If her neighbors say she goes to bed late?

If it is constantly changing wardrobe with clothes too expensive unless you’re the one who gave the money?

If it goes around your friends telling you that you do the more weight?

If you call 6 times and it sounds in space?

If you can talk to him more time on the phone?

If she decides to change his way when it comes to you?

If it leaks when you go near her?

If you can nab more to Saturday night?

If you loop the ziara during holidays?

If she speaks a new language you understand?

Get ready to surprise her in the act because it is spirit to deceive you …

How to recognize your man cheating on you?

If you are sure he has money and he will not give you?

If you do sign him at night and he apologized because he took a drug?

If you see him with gold when it’s not for you?

If tape on the door and announce an argument?

If he starts every Saturday in suit and tie?

If blame you at all times not to wash?

If enthusiasm is all the time to sleep it is hot or cold?

If he comes to meet every time his phone rings?

If it exceeds more than one round?

If he does come home from work late at night?

If he comes home with his bag, whistling?

If a dispute with the children are sulking dinner?

If he asks not to wait to eat because he seminar?

Not seek too much, it is spirit to deceive you and well managed cost ….

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How many times did you cheat and especially with how many people?

Question Reply:

Person 1 Reply: I’m too loyal, I prefer to leave them before!

Person 2 Reply: I’m never do to cheat my partner.

Person 3 Reply: 0 times so with anyone.
But it did not interfere so far to meet someone else (so she certainly had also previously kiss …), but other than that, these are the guys who are all bastards eh

Person 4 Reply: I cheat once but I did also and I was a little lost!

Person 5 Reply: once, I did it because I find my boyfriend that he is dating with other women. To revenge I date to a other guy. I did what he did.

Person 6 Reply: Should all men cheat, they do not deserve to sacrifice themselves for them!

Person 7 Reply: if you really love the person why you did deceive.

Person 8 Reply: I never never cheated.

Then, Schuyler met two housewives in the neighbor who share the same sentiment. Taylor and Tabitha are also childless housewives in New York with a busy husband. Together, the three established a secret organization of housewives in New York. At first, they wanna call it Bored Housewives but because of its negative connotation, they changed it to Busy Housewives of New York.

Unbeknownst to their husbands, the members of the group busied themselves secretly stalking their husbands to prove that they are not cheating. For three months already, the group has helped Schuyler, Taylor and Tabitha meet new friends in New York. So far, all the husbands they investigated were not cheating.

One day, Henrigo said he will go to China for a week meeting with clients. Schuyler was glad she can freely stalk more husbands even until late at night. Then she received a call from Taylor and Tabitha asking her to go to this place called HoleSome as soon as possible without explaining why.

Schuyler complied thinking that maybe, Taylor and Tabitha spotted the very first cheating husband of one of their members. She was shocked that HoleSome is a gay bar. When Taylor and Tabitha seemed hesitant to let her in, Schuyler started to suspect that something is fishy.

Next thing you know, Schuyler saw two men passionately kissing in one corner of that gay bar. The two men were her husband’s new employee, Keenan, and her husband himself, Henrigo, the very first cheating husband they ever caught.  

Cheating can be a revenge issue because something that you have done to your partner. Cheating can also result in boredom of the mate and just wanting to try out a new personality. From my experience a good cheater will be the best at playing the issue off like it has never happen. If this person really wants to stay in the relationship with you, they will really perfect the fibbing game. They will be able to manipulate you to make you believe that there is nothing going on if you seem to ask them.

Step 1 For a start you should check through your boyfriend or girlfriends text messages. This is something that people will usually forget.

Step  you have the same cell phone plan,  you can easily go back through the records to check to see the numbers who is calling your mate. Also, make sure that both of your names are on the cell phone bill which will enable you to track down the calls of your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend. Another tactic that my girlfriend used on me is checking my voice messages through her cell phone. This is something you should look up, this is fantastic.

Step 3 I consider going to the electronic store to find some voice recorders and cameras to install. Turn them on when they are in the shower or ready to leave. Install a voice recorder in the bedroom and in the living room couch. Find someone to install cameras in different rooms of your home or vehicle. Also, install the voice recorders under the seats of the vehicles, some voice recorders last up to 6 hours

Step 4 Use the internet to check through their internet activity. Use this Web Watcher Program to monitor every single activity from the palm of your cell phone. Check their facebook and myspace, and social networking activity.

Step 5One of the best tactics that I have ever used

Step 6If you think that these tactics are too hard to catch a cheating spouse, then I would hire a private investigator or  a private detective to get every move your cheating girlfriend or cheating boyfriend makes.

Step 7Ifyou are really interested in catching your boyfriend or girlfriend cheating, you should plan to go out of town for a couple of days and make your spouse think that you are going on a little vacation. This will usually set up a plan for the time when you are gone. When this happened to me my girlfriend was in the house with another guy. Also, call them to let you know that you left town and you love them.

Step 8 If this does not work, just wait in a rental car and follow your spouse from far distances to see in what area they are going and the exact location. Right here at this moment is where you can catch them both on the seen.

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Men are innately promiscuous. I should know. I’m a psychologist.

I counsel various people such as traumatic victims of accidents and schizophrenic patients.

Some people are criticized for being weird. It’s fulfilling to be their confidante. I didn’t graduate from the Ivy League but  I’m grateful that I have the knack to help people recuperate from psychological ordeals.

Obviously, I’m not an ideal woman adorned with flamboyant and trendy garments. I’m just a plain Jane. (Coincidentally, that’s my name.) So I was so flattered when a very gorgeous patient named Gregory Bezel liked me.

Gregory happens to be the only son of a controversial politician. The Bezels championed the promotion of laws against government anomalies. Being an influential aristocrat, Gregory was a piece of work. His family had a hard time convincing him to seek professional help. Seven years ago, Gregory’s girlfriend died of a contagious disease that made her throw up uncontrollably. Gregory was so depressed that he couldn’t distinguish what was reality from imagination.

I came up with an experiment that helped him cope with his depression. His dramatic change was stunning. Next thing you know, Gregory became my husband.

After our five years of marriage, Gregory began to change. He had many mistresses. At first, I thought I was just being paranoid but eventually, blatant evidences began to show up.  My family advised me to talk to my husband instead of asking for legal settlement. I only want one thing- divorce. I was culpable for some mistakes, too, but those mistakes are not as severe as his infidelity. I want to sue him and have him incarcerated. I actually want him to be convicted and be sentenced to lifetime imprisonment but that will be overrated.

I have many friends to testify.  However, I know that Gregory can bribe the most credible lawyers to defend him. He can pay astronomical bail. If we divorce, he will win the custody of our child for sure.

“Just do what you think is right.” This is what my fellow psychologists advised me.

           Your husband may leave signs for a detective to catch him and gather evidences. Spy equipments are very expensive in detecting your cheating husband. This is the most mistakes that wives can commit. But, as an original wife of your husband, you should be very aware on the signs of a cheating husband. These include his behavior and habits. Be patient always if you plan to catch your husband, 3 to 4 weeks is enough to spy him.

            Use you 5 senses so that you cannot miss to see that your husband is cheating and always give attention to small details. All the date and time of your clues especially their descriptions should be kept on a log book to make sure that you track the progress of your spying missions. Always make a copy of your clues if you found them.

            Before accusing him of an affair, you should have a complete and detailed proof of cheating. You can use your proofs to pursue a divorce in the court of law. Your husband will call you crazy and they can lie and make stories if you do not have any proof in accusing him.

            You should be prepared and armed with proofs and evidences before confronting your husband of cheating. Make sure that your children are in a protected and safe place before doing any legal action. It only causes more problems if you revenge in the form of cheating.

Trap him

When you are out of town it is the opportunity of your husband to do his cheating activities. Watch, wait and listen when you are telling to your husband that you are leaving out of town. Put a spy camera near the phone or bedroom. This is a very effective way to get a concrete evidence of his cheating activities. Follow his car or wait until someone will come to your house, make sure that you disguise. Use a hat and sunglasses to avoid your husband from noticing you. Always bring with you your cell phone, camera and binoculars. While you are gone, your cheating husband usually does his cheating activities outside for dinner. Make many opportunities for your husband to be trapped and commit mistake.

Cheating signs will be unknowingly left by your cheating husband. While you are investigating his cheating activities, makes sure that you are out of the house and doesn’t know that you are spying him. Place a tape recording device to record the sound of his cheating activities, especially conversations. This will strengthen your proof that he is cheating at you. If you have children or a dog in the house, this way will not work.

Spy his cell phone

A cheating husband is very protective with his cell phone activities. He usually protects it with a password. Try to ask to borrow his cell phone immediately to make an important call and this is a part of your strategy of spying him. Make sure that you will do it unexpectedly because he might change his number, delete the number of his mistress or make a story to stop you from borrowing his cell phone. Note any strange calls by pressing buttons of his call log and make sure that it is a face call.

Remember the times, dates and lengths of suspicious calls.

Spy by using a voice recording device

            Every morning, place a voice recording device under the car seat of your cheating husband and listen to all recorded voice and conversations when you are alone. Check the laws in your area about the legality of recording voice of someone in your car. Also check the legality of using GPS tracking device in spying the location of your husband. GPS devices are as small as chewing gum and can easily hide.

Observe how your husband use the computer        

            Does your husband use the computer for long hours? Cheating husbands usually use msn, Hotmail, Yahoo, hush mail, Gmail, etc as his email service. Check for evidences in the browser history of your computer. You can also install a key logging software that will capture all the keystrokes from the keyboard especially his passwords.

Make online bait

            You can make online bait for your husband by creating a fake profile in online dating sites. Make it attractive and seductive to attract him and start flirting online.

Be careful of your husband’s close friends

            His friends may cover his cheating activities because of loyalty feelings. They can provide an alibi when you ask them even if they don’t agree on your husband’s cheating activities.

Booby trap

            While you are away from your home, your husband may bring someone in your home as his way of cheating you. Place a crumb on the bedspread. It should not bemoved by domestic pets in your house. When you will get back home, check if the crumb is still in the same place.

Your friends can help you

            First, explain to your friend if what is all about. Set a trap by letting your friend meet your husband in a certain location to see if he is willing. Tape recording device is very helpful in this mission because you can hear their conversation.

Check his habits in driving

            To see if there are extra miles on the car, always check your husband’s car odometer. List the time of his departure and arrival in the house. Using a calendar and noting the times can establish a more comprehensive and evident pattern of his activities. Check your husband’s paycheck stubs to confirm his overtime, so than he has no reason to make alibi. When your husband return at home very late and he reasoned that he drive out of town for a business, then check the mileage on the car. If the mileage indicated that it is less than 10 miles, you have verified that your husband is lying and cheating on you.

Check his papers

            Unexplained credit card charges, ATM withdrawals and receipts are signs that your husband is hiding something from you.

            If you are unsuccessful in catching your husband’s cheating even you have tried the tips above, pretend like you know something and give him time to clean his cheating activities. Do not accuse your husband in cheating if you do not have enough evidences.

• Instinct: First and foremost if your Husband or Boyfriend is cheating on you then you are most likely to get warning bells in your mind. Your gut instincts can rarely go wrong.
• Behavior Changes: Your partner’s behavior is another thing to look for. If there are significant changes in his behavior it is a sure sign that all is not right. If he has suddenly started showering more attention or affection on you or if he is ignoring you both can be warning signs that he is cheating on you. He may even leave before you get up in the morning or comes home after you have gone to bed.
• Communication: If your husband used to share everything with you and suddenly have stopped communicating it is a sure sign that something is wrong.
• Grooming: Is your boyfriend or husband suddenly taking more interest in his appearance you need to be careful. He is suddenly taking special care about his clothes, looks, hygiene and spending money on expensive perfumes. He has suddenly become health conscious and has become member of a gym. His 10 minute showers have changed to half an hour or one hour showers.
• Spending Habits: If there is a change in your partners spending habits and he is hiding from you then something is wrong. His credit card bills and Bank Accounts are having unusual activity. His car fuel expenses also seemed to have gone up.
• Spending time out: He does not have time for you. He spends less time with you and even may avoid mutual friends. Also your friends are more likely to know if he is having an affair and say even act strangely when they meet you by chance. Your partner is spending a lot of time outside or on new passions, with new buddies or giving the excuse that he is working overtime at work suddenly. He comes too late after the Office or gives the excuse of frequent business trips. If he is getting too many phone calls and spends too much time talking on phone or chatting on the internet and suddenly cut it off when he sees you.
• Sex: Your boyfriend has suddenly an increased interest in sex or a decreased interest in sex. He want to try new things or have suddenly started the habit of talking dirty could be a symptom of his involvement elsewhere.
• Lies: He is frequently lying to you and do not make an eye contact most of the times. Sometimes he avoids your questions or sometimes you feel an uneasiness or discomfort in his behavior. If he is caught lying and he reacts defensively instantly when you confront him the chances are that he may be trying to cover something up.
• Abnormal activity on Mobile and Internet:  This is another sign to look for. Whenever you call him you find his phone engaged or he is spending too much time on the internet all of a sudden. He is suddenly getting too many ‘mysterious calls’. When you look at the cell phone he gets angry and tries to take it back from you immediately.
• Other than that some obvious sign like women’s perfume smell on clothes, lipstick smudges or hair on clothes which is neither his nor yours can also indicate that he is having an affair.

If you have begun to suspect that your partner is cheating try to approach it smoothly without being too aggressive. It definitely hurts if you are a Good Girlfriend or an Ideal Wife to your Guy. But do not act in haste as this can ruin your relationship completely by accusing him if he had not been cheating. Give him the benefit of doubt if you see any of the signs mentioned above and look for a solid proof before talking to him. When trying to decide if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you, you should look into the multiple changes in his behavior, routine or personality and accumulate proof before confronting them.

• Tracy Hood-Davis (and friends) – Wisconsisn

Tracy Hood-Davis, decided to take revenge on her cheating husband (Donessa Davis), by using his mistresses as bait.  Once her unsuspecting husband was lured into a bedroom, and blindfolded and tied to a bed, the trap was sprung!  Cutting off his underwear, the scheming women glued his most valuable treasure to his stomach.  Ouch!

• Hayley Shaw – London, UK

Hayley Shaw, exacted her revenge on her DJ husband, Tim Shaw, after he made a spiteful quip on the radio.  Joking that he would willingly leave his wife and children for glamour model Jodie Marsh, he hadn’t anticipated that his wife might actually be listening.  In a fit of rage, his wife put his most prized possession, a Lotus Esprit on eBay for 50p.

• Lorena Bobbitt – Virginia

Lorena Bobbitt, exacted her revenge after years of alleged abuse, by severing her husband’s penis with a kitchen knife.  John Wayne Bobbitt was fast asleep when the incident occurred.  After committing the painful “surgery”, Lorena then drove away with the severed penis, before throwing it out of the window into a field.  After a short while, Lorena must have panicked, as she called 911 to confess what she had done.  Emergency services quickly arrived on the scene, searching for the severed member.  Fortunately it was located, and was packed in ice, before being successfully reattached to John Wayne.

• Lady Sarah Graham Moon – Worcester UK

Lady Sarah Graham Moon, got her revenge on her cheating husband, Sir Peter Graham Moon, by cutting one sleeve off everyone of his Saville Row suits, throwing white paint over his BMW and by leaving bottles of his expensive wine collection on the doorsteps of her neighbours.

• Jill Martin – Paisley

However, on occasions, revenge can go wrong.  Convinced that her husband was having an affair, Jill Martin cooked her husband a curry, containing a very special ingredient… dog excrement!  Whilst her unsuspecting husband, Donald, tucked into the curry, his wife immediately started laughing.  Trying to scare her husband into a confession of adultery, she first told him she had laced the curry with arsenic.  When he didn’t confess, she then admitted that she had added dog faeces into the meal..  Consequently, Donald decided it would be for the best if he filed for divorce.