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The Field of Indian Politics-the Right to Vote-use It Judiciously

Fri, 10 Feb 2012 16:17:19 +0000

THE FIELD OF INDIAN POLITICS

Power does imply strength and control and furthermore we have already witnessed what power can do which is to ‘suppress’ the poor and the commoners.

Don’t we struggle hard each day to earn our hard earned money but ultimately where does all of this go? All of these should go into the government’s treasury but sorry not for developmental purposes but for looting people in a number of ways ranging from increase in price of essential commodities like bread, vegetables, milk which has been increased from Rs3 as instead of an increase of (Rs.5 an increase which was demanded by the KMF authorities) to a hike in water and electrical tariffs which would be gifted to as New Year Gifts in the coming months, increase in tolls and also in our taxes which we pay to the government. We pay our hard earned money as taxes for developmental purposes and not for watching ‘Porn’ films by the Ministers as we have already witnessed that too which is regarded as a high institute as a ‘Public Office’ where serious business is being held.

Don’t we now know how our money is been spent? To watch movies, films, blue films and to party with young pretty girls and to increase their loot for themselves, for their family and for their children. But for us ‘We’ ourselves cannot make our ends meet and therefore we are unable to give our children a good and a secure future, leave out our family in here as we know we all struggle hard including our family to earn a decent living to have a secure future for our family and children.

Don’t you think the government is trying to exploit us in various ways from increasing prices of essential commodities to levying tolls and by increasing taxes wherein the Government goes all out towards the people to inform them to pay their taxes in time!!! Should we even pay them a ‘Pie’ from our hard earned money?

The Congress has been submerged in scams and is still holding out to a straw while we have also seen what the BJP government also could do by been submerged in a lot of incidents ranging from mining to various others including spreading rumours of Congress leaders getting arrested over the issue of black money stacked overseas in order to influence the people and to attract more voters towards their party.

Now it’s left up to you to decide which Party you would like to go in for-for these parties or for a New party or for the JD (S). Just look through the puzzle and who do you feel has been quite active. Though you would surely say the BJP by always been in the news, the JD (S) has been fighting from behind the screen whereas the Congress has not been that active as it was before. Do you want the Old people back in the hot seat over the age of 65 -80 years or do you want to see some youngsters in the age bracket of 20 years and beyond) occupying the hot seat in the future and providing us with a stable government and a secure future for our Motherland India and by freeing us from the political turmoil we have seen almost everyday!!

It’s your choice and your decision but make it count seriously as possible while going to a polling booth as we do have a ‘Right’ given to us and that is indeed the ‘Right to Vote’ which we should use it as ‘Judiciously’ as possible.

Let the KBC show Begin!

Yes, it is also a ‘Kind of Kaun Banega Corepati Show’ indeed!!

Do hope most of you would make the right choices.

Welcoming all of you to cast your Votes in Large numbers during the next election to reach to at least 85 -90%.

Don’t you want to see your city entering into the Guinness Book of World Records!!

Therefore be sure to come and vote in large numbers during the next Elections!!

Ethics is Not &Ldquo;whatever Society” Accepts and It is Not a Law

Tue, 13 Dec 2011 23:10:22 +0000

Ethics refers to the study and development of one’s ethical standards. This means that it is necessary to constantly look at the standards we have set. This helps us to shape along with live up to the standards we view as ethical.

How does a person decide between right and wrong? The base the decision on the foundation that of what is accepted and not accepted

For example obligations that refrain from fraud, rape, and murder.

Virtues honesty and loyalty.

The majority of these examples are taught to you in childhood. But it doesn’t stop there. Throughout life people are faced with learning more ethical behavior.

Think about this… A man kills another man. This is unethical. Look closer. Scenario #1 an intruder kills the owner of a convenience shop. (Ask a person if this is ethical)

Scenario #2 A convenience shop owner is attacked by an intruder and is defense for his own life shoots the man and he dies. (Ask a person if this is ethical)

Both scenarios a man dies but under different circumstances. One ethical one not.

This shows that ethics is not a set law. Ethics is standards that people base actions on either being right or being wrong.

Cultural diversity understands that each individual is unique and recognizing over individual differences.

With a diverse culture people can learn from one another

Differences are cause by: race, gender, social status, age, and religious beliefs.

By understanding each other and moving beyond these differences people can come together.

There are barriers that exist.

Language/ communication

Religion

People’s resistance to change

Benefits of diversity are

Competitiveness

Increased adaptability

A broader service range

A variety of viewpoints.

Shouldn’t We Decide Life Time Decisions Later on?

Tue, 13 Dec 2011 16:53:49 +0000

This article is really towards students who have to make career choices or uni degree choices.

It’s that time of year where you have to make decisions. Lots and lots of decisions. If you want to go to university? If you don’t want to go to university? What course are you going to do? What institution are you going to do at? So many questions to be answered and decisions to be made at the age of 17/18 years. Wouldn’t it be better if we were made to keep all the important subjects till a later age, so we have all the subjects needed to do whatever we want because when choosing your A levels, you may have a specific career in mind, but when it comes to choosing your university degree, then you may realise that the subjects you chose are of no use?

This is just a little thought to think about and dwell on. Do not make rash decisions too soon or you may live to regret it.

Make It a Great Day or Not. The Choice is Yours!

Sat, 10 Dec 2011 19:04:19 +0000

I do the announcements at my high school and people always tell me they are annoyed at the fact that I am reading off a prompt that ends with “Make it a great day… or not. The choice is yours.”

Which it is your choice. Are you going to take the intiative and change the events in your day or change your attitude to make your day better, or, are you going to drag yourself and people around you down.

I often talk about famous people but they cannot change your life. It takes you to change your own life. Help someone you don’t normally talk to. Pick up something someone dropped, thank a vet, appreciate everything your teachers have to offer. It’s the little things that add up. THe little things that people do not normally think about that can make someone else’s day and in turn making your day better.

So remember are you gonna make your day better? Or are you gonna choose to do the opposite.

The choice is yours!

Concerning Anger

Sun, 20 Nov 2011 16:21:54 +0000

Anger is something everyone has, it is normal and natural. Some have a little, while others have an abundance. Since anger is natural, and is not always bad. It’s when we have too much, or don’t know what to do with it, it becomes bad or sinful. Those who know how to control their anger and know what to do with it, it is a part of their everyday life, and is beneficial to them. That little anger gives them motivation to do things, it helps them achieve their goals. Motivation and reaching the goal helps them control their anger, and it helps them use the anger for good, rather than evil. Anger helps these people become better and help out other in need. But if they did not know how to control their anger they could be using it for evil, like harming others, stealing, committing serious crimes. The people who don’t know what to do with anger tend to do these sinful things, like harming others, stealing, committing crimes and other evil and sinful things that help no one. These people are often filled with rage, they can get angry over the smallest of thing. They take out their anger on others, rather then use it for motivation to do something. They go their entire life (or most of it) causing problems for others and themselves as well, because they are using the anger for something other than motivation; In a way they are using it for motivation, but the wrong kind of motivation, for evil and sinful ways rather than good ones. Therefore anger isn’t always sinful, it can be a part of everyday life, that helps us get things done; but it can be sinful when we don’t know what to do with it or we don’t know how to control it.

Just the One Sexual Partner

Mon, 14 Nov 2011 07:49:16 +0000

Many people enjoy making out that they can take sex or leave it, but in reality that is far from true. All the same, no doubt to the utter disbelief of many males, moving between sex partners with Gay abandon may actually not be a natural state at all. The hormones vasopressin and oxytocin, released into the brains of participants during sex affect the human brain, though not as yet in ways that science understands..

Prairie voles are creatures which only ever have one sexual partner in life. Why? Simply because these remarkable animals have smell-based specific, mental maps of partners, so strongly imprinted that they never seek another.

It now seems that both vasopressin and oxytocin could be related to love in humans, after primate studies showed that single partner apes have, in the brain reward centres, more vasopressin, tan those with many sexual partners in their lives.

University College, London research pair Andreas Bartels and Semir Zeki located brain areas that, in humans are activated by romantic love. Their brain activity study found that, compared with brain activity involved in plain friendship. small area only is active in love, the one responsible for gut feelings, and in generating narcotic euphoria.

People supposedly deeply in love have different brains those of people feeling simply emotional, much more akin to those high on drugs, meaning that the same neural networks are in use during these very different activities, making it quite literally possible for humans to become addicted to love, when experiencing it fully.

The vasopressin-receptor gene shows a lot of variation in different humans, and future scientists could conceivably be able to predict the future fidelity, or likely lack of it in people by genotyping. Knowing as we now do, that tinkering with genetic inheritance, done with startling on prairie voles, strengthening partner attachments in these animals.

Recent research that involved scanning lover’s brains to help understand just what human love truly entails. Rutgers University scientist Helen Fisher believes love to be a three-tier process, lust, romantic love and long-term attachment, each tier with a completely unique chemical signal attached to it.

Montreal Concordia University Psychologist Jim Pfaus tells that the moments immediate following lustful sex, mimics in human brains, that induced by opiates intake. The chemical changes include higher levels of hormones serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin and endogenous opioids – the body’s natural equivalent of heroin - all of which help relax the body and encourage bonding and pleasure.

Obsessive or romantic love induces people to home in on particular sexual partners, a state characterised by exhilaration, possibly even sharing neuro-chemical characteristics with manic depression. In truth, romantic love is undoubtedly one of the strongest human drives, more powerful than hunger, and all but impossible to satisfy, though it can become a long-term attachment.

This form of love encourages co-operation in raising children, calmness, secure feelings, and emotional union, even though all that nature intended for humanity was simple reproduction, love never taken into consideration. Love though, is about much more than simple genetics.

Humans learn constantly, from both sexual and social experience, that whilst arousal may come naturally, long-term mating success depends upon this social education, a reason perhaps why some people tend to date similar kinds of partner many times over in search of the right partner for life.

Humans may, some think, actually develop a kind of mental love map with maturity, a kind of blueprint of sorts, containing all the things they find attractive in others. This mental inner scorecard appears to be something people unconsciously employ to rate suitability, so the idea of humans having a hard wired genetic soul mate is actually a highly unlikely one.

In reality, love may be nothing more than a chemical state, genetic roots and environmental influences controlling it, a scenario that should, in theory anyway, make it possible to create more loving people, genetic roots in future answering questions about partner fidelity. Who gets a kick out of who and why is nothing more than a natural, special kind of chemistry, which of course, at heart we all knew already.

Getting Cold Outside, is It Lonely Too?

Sun, 13 Nov 2011 14:09:21 +0000

It’s getting cold outside. The seasons are changing and many single women and men are trying to find someone to huddle close too. Don’t want to be left alone at family dinners and parties. You’ve been alone all summer and even in the spring didn’t bother you at all. As soon as the cold months arrive your heart starts to beat rapidly , wanting , chasing love or some other form of need. Either it’s the big bills that winter brings or it’s the lonely sheets. One way or the other you begin to blame nature for you condition. Let me tell you mother nature doesn’t work like that. There is no mother nature anyway. It’s just you and the lord Jesus. You’d better make the right decision all of the seasons, or you are going to be without him in your coldest nights and loneliest days of the winter. No matter what season it is when you fall wanting, the word of God stays the same. Flee fornication and it’s better to marry than to burn. No trying it before you by it. You are no shoe! All those saying like, why buy the cow if you already milking it or you already got the cream. You know that’s true! Why would I buy something that’s already free anytime you want it. Now some men don’t care they really fall in love. Yea, but have you found later down the road a bit. They have told someone that I didn’t have to do that, I was already doing it. Something in them didn’t respect the move you made even though they married you anyway. Nine out of ten men have said that. You may have brushed it off. In your hearts of hearts that really didn’t endear you to them at all. You felt you lost a portion of their respect. There are those who don’t give a flip. Conscience seared with a hot iron anyway. Judged him as harsh as he judged you, saying even you a whore too. The standards of this world have gone to pot. When it’s cold outside and especially in Autumn when the leaves are changing their colors such a great since of romance is in the air. You begin to pull out your winter clothing and old hand sewn quilts and knitted garments and accessories. You may even be buying yarn and material to keep you busy all winter. The wood for the fireplaces was already cut in September. You are thinking of all the storage you have put up, canned goods , meats and jellies. You have stocked your pantry well with the help of the lords blessing ,you are fully prepared. It some how seemed the loneliest when you go shopping looking at the holiday signs and even on the t.v they are advertising family gatherings and romantic scenes. But it is the truth you are alone. Do you know who you are? Will having a winter fling change that? Is it the lords doing. Oh! you must question that. It mat be Gods timing coming in to view. You’ve been waiting a long time and he or she seems to be perfect for you. Well, if I were you I’d question , is he equally yoked with me? Pray first and give attention to if who he is lines up with who you asked the lord for. Compatibility is a must. Yea, you say opposite attract , but they also give you hard time when they are not willing to bend and compromise. You like to fish, he or she likes the fish store and the only fishing line you will see for the rest of your life is at the store. You pray a lot , he’s or she’s saying it doesn’t take all that and won’t even pray with you . Just make sure you are with somebody that knows what ever makes you happy they are willing to try or let you have your freedom in that thing, as long as it is right. Gambling your husbands or wife’s paycheck away , that ain’t right . being selfish and inconsiderate of their desires and needs. Now that subject can spread a lot of ways. The money, the bed, what you do. marriages and in a relationship there must be quality attention given. Communication is said to be the best thing in the world,you’d better talk and ask questions and pray a whole lot before you say yes to either situation. People lie today just to have someone responsible in their lives. Someone has to be standing on the rock. Yea, but if you not standing on the same rock I am. I ain’t falling into the water with you. Ok!, the rock his name is Jesus! Then make sure you don’t have mixed views on the important things especially sex. Make sure you discuss that subject thoroughly. Wake in the morning he or she liking you as freak and you saying I never or never will. As I walk in this life, I meet up with a lot of men. Mostly I am witnessing to them. Trying to bring them to Christ. So when I am doing this , I realize that this isn’t my moment to receive him as a chance for a relationship. He can’t even think like I think. I am not trying to teach him either. I need someone already baked , out the oven and iced like me. Already in tuned , Holighost filled ,Fire baptised, Blood washed, and on My spiritual level. Anything short of that would cause me to struggle in the relationship. Waiting for him or her to come up and out of all his or her worldly standards. Too much of a fight and the Lord told me in his word not to do that anyway. So I wouldn’t have to go through that situation. Here I am walking along and the devil knows it’s getting cold outside and he sends a fresh looking guy or girl my way. He or she looks like who I am waiting on. Like a book, open the first page or as we say read the introduction or the preface. Most of the time you’d put the book down right then. The choice is to still walk alone with the lord and be awesomely blessed, walking in his love with his loving arms of protection all around you. Coveted in sound and true words, that will never fail you. Precious in his sight are you and loved. He shall never leave you or forsake you. Don’t let the seasons get you strapped into trouble. Seasons change and memories of love, joy and peace or better than memories that hurt.

Blindfolded From The Truth

Sat, 29 Oct 2011 21:55:37 +0000

Sometimes as human beings we are blinded by what we think is real. Sometimes looking only on the outside and seeing what we would make out to be what something is entirely. This is not always as it seems to be. We as a people should look a little closer into something that seems too good to be true and that which too devastating to be bad. In doing so you might honestly be more so suprised to find that some things have more background to them than just what’s obiviously on the outside. In other words; somethings may have more story than a few chapters. Only in being more observant about things can we all make better decisions for our futures and better decisions for the present as well. many don’t tend to look further but instead tend to see only what they all wish to see. This is foolish. As human beings we are not perfect and we’ll make mistakes that are hard to come back from. Sometimes making it imppossible to right what is wrong. The better you observe and use your head the better chance you have of making a better choice. Better choices lead to less mistakes, less mistakes lead to better outcomes, and so on the chain continues. Be mindful of what you do and say. Don’t be blinded and be wise enough to see the truth in front of your own eyes.

Worry Less About The Mountains in Your Path

Wed, 26 Oct 2011 11:15:53 +0000

“Nobody trips over mountains.

It is the small pebble that causes you to stumble.

Pass all the pebbles in your path and

you will find you have crossed the mountain.”

~ Author Unknown

It is how we handle those small steps to any real challenge that makes all the difference.

Think of all the challenges in your life and you can roll back to the beginning of that and see that you either ignored a step, or thought it would all work out ….. just because.

Life has a pattern and when we alter that pattern and try to wing it without participation things go wrong.

A basketball player can’t just make free throws with out practicing for a long period of time to be consistent at their task.

Go back even farther and a small toddler does not keep trying to walk just because he falls a couple times. No he gets back up and puts his legs underneath him and finds their center to balance themselves then comes the first step.

They don’t quit.

They push, and try harder. They keep giving and doing instead of waiting for things to get better.

The basics to a better day.

More rest and sleep.

Breakfast to fuel the body and mind.

Prayer to fuel the spirit and soul.

Gratitude spoke to acknowledge the gifts in your life that are working.

Being that person in the mirror that takes time to do affirmations and smile and acknowledge the greatness in you.

A review of your goals for the day.

A plan – steps and review of those steps to ensure your on the path to success for your daily goal.

Focus on whats working and whats not working and adjust

Taking time to smile, taking time to laugh and taking time to make a difference.

You get to that and your day will improve, it will be better.

You have the power. You have the ability. Take the time to stay out of those pebbles way.

Prepare to get out of their way.

It is not the mountain you have to worry about or think about.

It is indeed the small pebbles that we often stumble over.

Dream big, Smile often and Love always!

A smile sent your way : )

Always smiles sent your way : )

10/26/11

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So What of This Word Virtue?

Fri, 21 Oct 2011 11:37:48 +0000

Just as treasures are uncovered from the earth, so

virtue appears from good deeds, and wisdom appears from

a pure and peaceful mind. To walk safely through the maze of

human life, one needs the light of wisdom and the guidance of virtue.

~Buddha

Maybe we should define this word virtue. From Dictionary.com:

vir·tue [vur-choo] noun

1. moral excellence; goodness; righteousness.

2. conformity of one’s life and conduct to moral and ethical principles; uprightness;

3. chastity; virginity: to lose one’s virtue.

4. a particular moral excellence. Compare cardinal virtues, natural virtue, theological virtue.

5. a good or admirable quality or property: the virtue of knowing one’s weaknesses.

I for this like to look at the first, second and last definition to work with and strive for.

To have in our hearts a virtue of moral goodness, righteousness sounds so high and mighty but if you tone it down a bit moral goodness sounds so direct and front of the line it goes.

We also must understand our values and what we place in order, our love for the soul and spirit. Values should help us stand upright in this world that seems to thrive on putting others down.

Why do you think so many worry about the 1% that have so much?

They feel smothered, overwhelmed and feel less in control.

We need a leader with values and the desire to stand on those values and not be lead by special interest groups or lobby’s.

That leader is not just the President but all of Congress and our Statewide leadership.

Knowing thine weaknesses. Working on them, sharpening the saw but using that skill to improve upon said weakness.

Sharing that smile.

Caring for another.

Even when your light may not be at its brightest.

The uncommon individual the person that strives to care and share their love and kindness.

The value of virtue. Has a great value indeed.

So today….. establish that list of values, and apply them to making a difference in this world.

Sharing laughter

Sharing a kind word

Sharing love

Sharing comfort

Sharing a Smile

Make a difference today and as always Smiles sent your way : o )

10/21/11

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