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		<title>THE Story in THE Song BOB Dylan Hurricane</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How  a song helped prove a man was innocent of murder.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>THE STORY IN THE SONG BOB DYLAN HURRICANE 1975</p>
<p>Dylan&rsquo;s music career was in decline by the mid 1970&rsquo;s. Going electric had lost him much of his folk and acoustic fan base and his overt Gospel influences further alienated many of his fans. Hurricane was a tremendous return to pure anger and protest.</p>
<p>The song was inspired by a true story, based on the sorry fate of US boxer, Rubin Carter, nicknamed Hurricane. Carter was one of two men arrested for killing three people, and severely wounding a fourth&nbsp; (a man was blinded in one eye) during a robbery at an American grill-diner in 1966.&nbsp; Many at the time, felt that Hurricane and alleged accomplice, John Artis, were framed, and that the evidence and eyewitness testimonies against them were flawed, etc.</p>
<p>Hurricane-Carter maintained his innocence and his stance made a profound impression on Dylan, who met with him in prison.</p>
<p>Dylan exaggerates Hurricane&rsquo;s status and chances of attaining the world championship in boxing. Though he had been in the ascendant, many boxing pundits did not see him competing for champion status. Even so, his conviction obviously ruined his sporting career.</p>
<p>No witnesses identified Carter as being at the scene of the shootings, but described two armed black men approaching the bar, and a white getaway car that seemed similar to Carter&rsquo;s own car. A survivor of the attack said Carter didn&rsquo;t look like one of the attackers, and a gun found in Carter&rsquo;s car did not match the calibre of the murder weapon. No fingerprints were taken at the crime scene and other forensic procedures were also neglected and / or botched.</p>
<p>Initially, Carter and Artis were released after a few hours of questioning, only to be re-arrested months later as they had been implicated in the case by the testimony of a man called Alfred Bello, arrested near the New Jersey Diner on the night of the murders for robbery. His presentation of evidence was probably an attempt to reduce his own pending conviction. Bello identified Carter and Artis as the killers, and this evidence led to the first trial and conviction for the men. Carter&rsquo;s life as a boxer was ruined on the basis of it.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Despite much focus on the evidence inconsistencies the suspects were convicted and sentenced to life imprisonment, narrowly avoiding the death sentence.</p>
<p>Protests, and the chief prosecution witnesses, including, Bello, recanting their claims, led to calls for a retrial. Carter drew a great deal of celebrity support and his case became a modest media sensation. Dylan&rsquo;s song was released and heavyweight champion boxer, Mohammed Ali also offered public support for Carter. The 1976 retrial was a bitter one, with Rollo&rsquo;s evidence heavily challenged by the defence, but with several people from the 1967 defence defecting to the prosecution side to claim that Carter had talked them into offering him a false alibi for the night of the murders. The convictions were upheld to considerable public outrage. An appeal was issued for Carter&rsquo;s name to be cleared and in 1985, after serving 18 years (and ten years after Dylan&rsquo;s spirited song was released), Rubin Carter was finally granted his freedom. He now works for prison reform bodies and as an aid to victims of wrongful arrests and convictions.</p>
<p>Dylan&rsquo;s song, a single of eight minutes and thirty-three seconds, identifies the witnesses, and makes Bello in particular into a rather shady character. Carter&rsquo;s arrest is just a routine shake-down of a black driver by a white racist cop &ndash; as Dylan observes, black people go out knowing that the New Jersey police will target them as a matter of routine.</p>
<p>Dylan highlights the one-eyed survivor of the shootings pointing out that Carter was not his attacker. The police had only the assertion that the attackers were black and big men, looking like they ought to be in boxing. Dylan emphasises the police fixing deals with the white men responsible for other crimes in order to get a conviction on Carter (Dylan largely ignores fellow innocent victim, Artis).</p>
<p>The song captures Dylan&rsquo;s genuine anger and passion superbly, and creates a chilling picture of corrupt racist cops rigging a case, and Dylan&rsquo;s view is upheld in hindsight now that Hurricane Carter has finally been granted his freedom and the right to declare himself innocent.</p>
<p>The lyrics <a href="http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/bobdylan/hurricane.html" target="_blank">http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/bobdylan/hurricane.html</a></p>
<p>Arthur Chappell</p>
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		<title>Premier: Chinese Man Convicted for Rape</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 18:12:24 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In China, the first man convicted of the rape of another man. The 42-year-old defendant&#8217;s one year into the cell and 18-year-old victim to be nearly 2,300 euros in damages to pay. The condemned was working as a security guard and committed the offense in the dormitory of the company. The rape was dated May The Chinese were already punished in September, but only now that news became known. According to Chinese law, a person intentionally injure a crime. If the man had raped a woman, he had probably three years should hum. The Code makes no mention of homosexuality, which until 2001 was regarded as a mental illness.</p>
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		<title>Disgraced Former Israeli President Sentenced to Seven Years in Prison</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 10:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Although he initially accepted a plea bargain that would have seen him admit the lesser charges and pay a fine in exchange for prosecutors dropping the rape charges, he later changed his mind, and said he wanted to clear his name in court. This has turned out to be the biggest mistake the 66 year old man ever made.]]></description>
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<p>The Former President of Israel, Moshe Katsav now 66, is a very unhappy man. As a father, grandfather and an eminent citizen, the last thing you want to do is spend your last days behind bars! He was found guilty of commiting&nbsp;an array of sexual offences&nbsp;while in office, ranging from rape, sexual harassment to indecent acts on female staffers working in his office.</p>
<p>The conviction was concluded in&nbsp;2010, but the actual commencement of the sentence was delayed by the many appeals he tried to lodge but all failed to save him. Now the Israeli courts want him to&nbsp;begin his jail term&nbsp;on 7th &nbsp;December 2011 and depending his good behavior, this could see him in prison until 2018.</p>
<p>Mr. Moshe however, continues to plead innocence to the courts of public opinion, saying, the Israeli state was convicting an innocent man and literally burying him alive. But three women seeking justice against the former President&rsquo;s crimes insist he is guilty and sexually assaulted them. It was on account of these accusations that he was forced to resign as president in 2007, handing the office over to Shimon Peres</p>
<p>&nbsp;Sexual crimes happen all the time in high offices. Sometimes political detractors take advantage of these situations to malign their opponents and bring them down. We have seen how these crimes keep catching up with American politicians every election year. Only recently, one of the Republican Presidential aspirants had to resign after he was subjected to a sustained accusation by a number of women who claimed he sexually assaulted them.</p>
<p>Whatever happened,&nbsp;the idea of spending his last days in jail for 7 years&nbsp;remains extremely disgraceful to a man who of such high social stature.</p>
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		<title>To Seal, or Not to Seal Juvenile Records</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 05:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In most states, if someone commits a crime when under 18, that person is termed a juvenile delinquent and is dealt with by the legal system differently from an adult. But in some states, the age limit is 17 or just 16. Juvenile courts usually use different terminology from that used in adult courts.]]></description>
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<p><i>Should juvenile records of teens be sealed? (Wikipedia image)</i></p>
<p><p>A juvenile record can have a significant impact on later life. If a convicted juvenile delinquent applies when an adult for a job, the prospective employer on discovering the applicant&rsquo;s criminal background might well deny the application. Applications to college and for a professional driver&rsquo;s license can also be affected adversely by a juvenile record.</p>
<p>Many people with juvenile records believe that once they reach adulthood these are automatically erased. In some cases, this may be so, but usually a petition must be filed with the juvenile court where the proceedings were conducted in order for the records to be sealed. This is also termed expunging, which means that the records will not be available to the public. Sometimes, the records are destroyed. A petitioner must either be legally defined as an adult or a certain number of years must have passed since his last conviction. Different states have their own laws concerning who is eligible to file such a petition.</p>
<p>When the record of a former juvenile delinquent is sealed or destroyed, this usually leaves the former juvenile offender free to legally answer in the negative when asked whether he has ever been in trouble with the law. This is because the offense is deemed to never have occurred. This is intended to protect youthful offenders from the lingering effects of having a criminal past so they can start life afresh with a clean slate.</p>
<p>But if the juvenile offender was convicted for a serious offense, such as murder, assault, assault with a deadly weapon, arson, and similar offenses, the offender&rsquo;s records may not be sealable. These are offenses that are grave enough for the juvenile offender to be automatically tried as an adult. Often, such information cannot be withheld from the public in future if the state determines that it exposes a tendency in the subject towards such behavior thus serving as a possible indicator of future actions.</p>
<p>Even with sealed records, some information may still be accessible to certain parties, law enforcement for example, conducting background checks.</p>
<p>A former juvenile offender who desires that his criminal record be expunged should consult a competent attorney to ascertain what laws pertain in the petitioner&rsquo;s particular state. In many cases, especially where the offenses committed are relatively minor, this can be accomplished successfully. But even with the more serious offenses, there have reportedly been cases where attorneys were able to have juvenile records sealed.</p></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2011 03:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Value of a person does not drop from sky or comes from any other external source but from within the person himself through his/her mental orientation and self appreciation. Apparent external sources of value of the person merely reflect what the person is from his/her within. The internal value system of a person contains three elements -</p>
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<li>Preservance of Conscience,</li>
<li>Commitment to Convictions, and</li>
<li>Mindset of Contentment.&nbsp;</li>
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<h4><strong>Preservance of Conscience</strong></h4>
<p>Conscience is the most naturally built inner core of a person reflected through his/her moral code of conduct. It is based on the fact that core of every person in its purity is ideally moral and truthful. It is only the circumstantial factors that change a person to sub-human level. With this notion in mind, it becomes the duty of an individual to preserve his/her inner core from getting deformed by external pressures and project it as his/her personality. &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Commitment to Convictions</strong></p>
<p>Everyone has his/her own convictions about things he/she applies his/her mind on. With this, it becomes the pious duty of the person to remain committed to his/her convictions and behave accordingly. But persons, in general, in-spite of having convictions behave in diffrent ways under external pressures or for serving their vested interests. Since such persons have their own inner contradictions for their not being committed to their own convictions, they behave in unantcipated and confused ways. This reduces their value not only in the external world but also in their own mind. &nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Mindset of Contentment</strong></p>
<p>I have very little wealth and lead a simple rural life in loneliness with bare minimum needs and desires. With all what I have, I feel comfortable, healthy and contented. Conversely, my brother has retired from a government job, gets a hefty pension every month, has a lot of wealth. The day he retired from his job, he wept bitterly for his loss of Rs 35,000 a month by retiring. He now runs a hardware shop, works from 6 in the morning to 12 midnight to earn more wealth, and feels highly deprived and has a number of incurable diseases in his body. &nbsp;</p>
<p>I have given this comparative statuses of two of us to underline source, need and effect of contentment in life. As is clear from the exemplification, contentment comes from mindset of a person. Feeling contented has many pluses and adds a great value to one&#8217;s life. &nbsp;</p>
<p>All three attributes of one&#8217;s personality are interrelated and cultivating even one provides benefits of other two also through auto-cultivation.&nbsp;</p></p>
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		<title>Out of The Depths&#8211;a Special Friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 18:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[K. was convicted of murder.  Is he guilty?  Only God knows for sure, but  I don't think he is.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Inside The Bars</p>
<p>We sit in a circle each week</p>
<p>As my teacher mode comes to the fore.</p>
<p>I look at each face&#8230;black, brown or white</p>
<p>Noting each man God created to be.</p>
<p>Juan with his quiet, gentle mien;</p>
<p>Smiling George of weathered face;</p>
<p>James with jokes to cover fears;</p>
<p>tattooed street men;</p>
<p>All bear scars more hidden than seen.</p>
<p>I never ask what brought them here,</p>
<p>These deemed the worst by societal norms.</p>
<p>How dare I brave these bars and fears?</p>
<p>When the call came out to plow this field,</p>
<p>I grabbed for seeds to scatter.</p>
<p>Now my reward is more than gold</p>
<p>When their hands take mine in thanks,</p>
<p>There is soul-shine in their eyes</p>
<p>That wraps my spirit in a blanket of grace.</p>
<p>This poem seems right to introduce you to my friend, K.&nbsp; His story is tied to another of my prison friends.&nbsp; Let me introduce you to him and then tell you about K.</p>
<p>Colin was a beautiful young man.&nbsp; He had a history of trouble, along with others in his family.&nbsp; He had truly turned a corner though, as when he was released, he began working with troubled youth and seemed to be in a godly place.&nbsp; All was well until he was found murdered in a dark alley in Allentown.&nbsp; His funeral was beautiful.&nbsp; One young man wore a t-shirt that he had made announcing, &#8220;Only the good die young.&#8221;&nbsp;</p>
<p>A year or so later, another young man, a drug dealer,&nbsp;was shot to death in Allentown.&nbsp; A week before his death the words, &#8220;R.I.P. Colin were spray painted on his door.</p>
<p>That is when I met K.&nbsp; He came into the county prison accused of murdering the drug dealer.&nbsp; I was immediately impressed with K.&nbsp; He is a tall, good-looking young black man with a smile that lights the whole room when he enters.&nbsp; He has a gentleness and kindness about him that seemed to totally belie the reason for his incarceration.&nbsp; I got to know him pretty well during the near year that he spent before his trial, as he never missed our weekly sessions.&nbsp; When he was found guilty, all of us were truly surprised.&nbsp; K.&nbsp; asked me to testify at his hearing for sentencing.&nbsp; He was faced with life in prison or death.&nbsp;&nbsp; Yet K. remained undisturbed.&nbsp; He told me that if he had to spend the rest of his life in prison, he would spend it for God.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I did go to the hearing and I did testify.&nbsp; Some of the things that were testified to were brought out again in the hearing.&nbsp; Some of them really shocked me that he had been found guilty.&nbsp; One of the eye witnesses had testified that the shooter was a short man, no more than 5&#8242;9&#8243;.&nbsp; K. is very tall.&nbsp; At least 6&#8242;3 or 4.&#8221;&nbsp; Another difference was in the&nbsp;type of gun used&#8230;conflicting information.&nbsp; He was given a life sentence instead of the death sentence.</p>
<p>Before K. was sent up-state, I was allowed to counsel with him on a one-to-one basis as he was put into solitary confinement after the verdict.&nbsp; K. would be&nbsp;ushered into the visitor&#8217;s room in chains, but as soon as we saw each other, that terrific smile would light up the room.&nbsp; He remained much more positive than I could ever be in a similar situation&#8230;or even when life gets to me in the ordinary world.</p>
<p>K. and his lawyer appealed the verdict with the many quirks of the trial.&nbsp; One of them K. discovered himself in the law library.&nbsp; There is a law in Pennsylvania that if a lawyer asks for the jury to be tallied, it needs to happen.&nbsp; It didn&#8217;t.&nbsp; The judge wouldn&#8217;t allow it.&nbsp; There were quite a few anomalies that the appeal was based upon.&nbsp; It has gone before the superior court and is now waiting for a decision, one that seems to be taking forever to hear.</p>
<p>A few months ago K.s mother went to a prayer conference.&nbsp; One of the participants who did not know either her or her sons situation came up to her and told her God said, &#8220;Three years is enough.&#8221;&nbsp; It gave both the mother and K. a lot of hope.</p>
<p>Now, I would like to share his last letter to me.</p>
<p>Hello, Christine,</p>
<p>I just want to start by saying how good it was to hear from you knowing that you are still pushing forward in bringing some kind of peace to the jails.&nbsp; I mean that&#8217;s how&nbsp;I felt every time I came to a service.&nbsp; No matter what was going on that day when I came into that room I was cool.&nbsp; Getting your letter was also weird,&nbsp; But in a good way.&nbsp; Because right before I received your letter I was going to write you.&nbsp; There were just some things that I was thinking about.&nbsp; In regards to God&#8217;s timing, prophecy, and working towards fulfilling that prophecy.&nbsp; There was something prophesied to my mother about me.&nbsp; And the time mentioned in this prophecy is getting close.&nbsp; And I was struggling with the fact of, could I possibly be messing up the prophecy by not having my walk with God where it needs to be?&nbsp; So, looking at what I was &#8220;not&#8221; doing in my walk got me a little scared.&nbsp; I talked to a guy who I attend church with.&nbsp; He reminded me of something my mother said.&nbsp; &#8220;Blessings can be delayed, but never denied.&#8221;&nbsp; Now that I understand that it cannot be taken from me, I have to work on it not being delayed by things that I don&#8217;t do or choose to do.</p>
<p>The young man you talked about really bothered me a little.&nbsp; He&#8217;s filled with a lot of anger &amp; despair.&nbsp; Like you said in your letter, you can understand where it comes from.&nbsp; But the way he is going about expressing his disapproval is totally wrong.&nbsp; Fighting fire with fire only leads to an explosion.&nbsp; He has to learn to articulate his views so that they can be heard in the right way by others.&nbsp; People tend not to listen when you yell or when your words are spoken in anger.&nbsp; He also needs to see that the choices he&#8217;s making in life, coming to jail is only going to hinder him getting into politics and moving forward to make positive changes in his life or community.&nbsp; I know his response to that will be, &#8220;The reason I&#8217;m in jail is because of lack of opportunities.&#8221;&nbsp;&nbsp; But by committing crimes you decrease your opportunities.&nbsp; I wish that I was there in the county to talk to this kid.&nbsp; I have a lot that I think I could say to him that would help.&nbsp; But bottom line, he has to learn to let go of all that anger &amp; allow God to work on his heart.</p>
<p>As far as your volunteer situation goes, I pray that God keeps you guys strong and to be able to stay consistent with the work.&nbsp; Your situation makes me think of Matt: 9: 37.&nbsp; You know, sometimes I dream of what I would do when I leave here.&nbsp; Sometimes I dream about going back to a church my family attended when I was a kid and becoming the pastor.&nbsp; And as bad as I want to leave prison and go back to New Jersey, but I have dreams about either coming back to the state prisons or Le high to minister.&nbsp; I mean I would definitely have a story to tell that these guys would be able to relate to &amp; possibly draw encouragement from.</p>
<p>Glad to hear that Don didn&#8217;t get lost.&nbsp; Is he doing any better?&nbsp; And how are you coping with things?&nbsp; OK Christine, I&#8217;m going to end it off here.</p>
<p>Your friend,</p>
<p>K.</p>
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		<title>Same Sex Marriages</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 16:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nothing is so beautiful in this life than being free. We lived in a democratic country free to choose whatever life &nbsp;we wanted to have. We lived in accordance to our belief and convictions in life. That&#8217;s why when &nbsp;take a look at our surroundings many are coming into open , increasing numbers of gays and lesbians &nbsp;around. They are all free to express and live. But in their being free, &nbsp;online with it , is the responsibility. Are &nbsp;they not abusing their freedom ? &nbsp; Why such question? &nbsp;It&#8217;s because &nbsp;of this same sex marriages. They&#8217;re &nbsp;free! &nbsp;Yes, &nbsp;so free to marry same sex ? Is this what they are driving at? freedom? My , this is too much for me , it&#8217;s no longer freedom, it&#8217;s more on abusing freedom of expression. I believed marriage is for two opposite genders and not same gender. Many same sexes &nbsp;are seeking legal marriages in church. I am strongly not in favor of this , &nbsp;for it is against my conviction. Yes ,these same sex people got all the right to express and live but it should conform to what is normal and moral . Normal and moral means both should be in opposite sex. But this is not the real thing that is happening &nbsp;,because both are same sexes and I considered them as deviants already, sorry for the word but that&#8217;s the best term maybe fitted to them. &nbsp;I said a deviant because marriage should be a tool for production of offspring and that is one way of expressing their love to one another. That is the divine and sacred way. Now , being in same sex, how can they do copulation then? Is their intimacy still that sacred? Is it not more on lust? Like a beast? How come i was able to bravely say this? Take a look at animals around , observe &nbsp;them , have you seen a male dog having sex with male dog also? none right? &nbsp;Even animals show to us what is normal ,so how much more us rational being , we know right from wrong ,why not do and follow things that &nbsp;are in conformity with the norm.</p>
<p>Though how one rationalizes that they&#8217;re in same sex relationship bounded with a strong tied &nbsp;of love still the whole thing got a bad shadow , the whole picture always tells the ugly side. No matter how broad one is , seeing same sex in relationship really implies something , that sometimes we expectators&nbsp; just shut up our mouth but mind is working.</p>
<p>This is not to &nbsp;judge people in same sex because we don&#8217;t really have the right to do so. We are not in their shoe to know what&#8217;s going on their relationship and how it is to be there , mine is just an opinion ,no intention to degrade or humiliate people.</p>
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		<title>The Seven Most Powerful Mind Motivators</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2011 15:49:48 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether you&#8217;re selling, persuading a relative, courting a girl, or  simply convincing a school buddy to give you his lunch, you have to know  and understand what motivates the human mind. The truth is, there are  powerful psychological buttons that you can use for persuasion.</p>
<p>Perhaps  you&#8217;re thinking, &#8220;Well, is this some form of mind control?&#8221; Of course  not, understanding psychological triggers or mind motivators is not for  manipulation (of course, you can use it for that purpose, if you&#8217;re a  bad bad man). Think about it, the next time you want someone to  willingly give you their lollipop candy or piece of gum, you&#8217;ll be able  to do it. Amazing. This is pretty useful.</p>
<p>So here are the seven most powerful motivators of the human mind:</p>
<p>1. <strong>Sex Appeal</strong>.  That&#8217;s the reason why you find sex in advertising. Sex in movies. Sex  in literature. You got it right. Writers, photgraphers, advertisers and  directors know that the most powerful motivator on earth is the need for  &#8220;some&#8221;. And the best thing is, you can appeal to this human motivation  without dressing like a prostitute. In fact, you can ethically use this  even in professional or corporate situations. Studies show that the most  persuasive individuals in various fields are those who are the most  sexually appealing&#8230;either through looks, smell, personality, or choice  of words.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Scarcity</strong>. People are attracted and persuaded  towards things that are of a limited supply. So the next time you want  someone to give you a free burger, just tell them &#8220;You better give me  that burger for free because very few people have the privilege to do  that. Most people out there sell me burgers&#8221;. Try it, and it might work.  Ok, maybe not. But I&#8217;m sure you get the point.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Safety and Security</strong>.  Would you rather go out in an Afghan battlefield with hundreds of Ak47s  pointed at you and ready to shoot? Of course not. So that&#8217;s the  principle behind this mind motivator. if you could show people a way or  solution that will give them safety and security, they&#8217;ll gladly  surrender to your way of thinking. I know I would.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Tell them the &#8220;reason why&#8221; you&#8217;re doing something</strong>.  Human beings are generally nosy and interrogative. If you do a  particular thing, the first thing that they think about is, &#8220;why is he  doing this&#8221;? Asking for the reason why is an automatic response of the  mind. So if you want to persuade people, you better give them a good  reason why you&#8217;re doing something. For example, if you are asking a  friend to loan you money, just say &#8220;I&#8217;m asking you to lend me money  because I&#8217;m broke&#8221;. Ok, I know that&#8217;s kinda desperate but at least it&#8217;s  better than saying, &#8220;Give me money now. I&#8217;ll pay you later&#8221;.</p>
<p>5. <strong>Fear of Pain</strong>.  Why do you think the Hollywood big shot in &#8220;The Godfather&#8221; signed the  contract for Johnny Fontaine? It&#8217;s because the Don gave him an offer he  couldn&#8217;t refuse. If he didn&#8217;t do it, he&#8217;ll experience torture and  possibly death. Fear of pain is a strong motivator. You don&#8217;t need to  terrorize people. Just tell them the bad things that could happen if  they don&#8217;t do the thing you are recommending. For example, you can say,  &#8220;Dude, if you don&#8217;t man up now, you&#8217;ll lose this girl&#8221;.</p>
<p>6. <strong>Consistency and Commitment</strong>.  If you get someone to do just a small part of a task or activity, you  have a better chance of persuading him or her to do an entire thing.  This is called commitment and consistency. This is the reason why good  and well behaved teenagers are persuaded to drink alcohol and smoke pot  by their friends. First they are persuaded to try smoking &#8220;just one  stick&#8221;, or &#8220;just take one glass of this&#8221;. By the end of the night, they  are persuaded to drink an entire bucket of alcohol, or more than that.</p>
<p>7. <strong>Competition.</strong> This is a strong motivator, almost ranking equally with our topnotcher,  sex appeal. The reason for this is that people are naturally  competitive. It&#8217;s part of our natural instinct to want to get ahead of  anyone else. If there&#8217;s a sale going on, we want to be able to buy first  than anyone else. If there&#8217;s a contest, lots of people will join even  if they know they don;t have what it takes to win (just see American  Idol). Guys want to date the chick who is the most popular around  campus, and the same thing goes on for girls when it comes to choosing a  boyfriend. To use this mind motivator in any situation, you can say,  &#8220;You better do this or that, or someone else will&#8221;.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a sample paragraph that shows all the mind motivators at work:</p>
<p><i>&#8220;You might be wondering why I know all this. It&#8217;s <strong>because</strong> I&#8217;m cool, <strong>sexually attractive</strong> and I&#8217;m the best person you can possibly meet online. There are only very few people like me (I&#8217;m <strong>scarce</strong>). So if you want to be <strong>safe</strong>, I&#8217;ll take you into my loving arms (where you&#8217;ll be secure). If you want to <strong>avoid heartbreak and pain</strong> when it comes to reading online articles, just stick with reading all  the things I publish. And you don&#8217;t have to read all my blog posts and  articles, just <strong>read at least one</strong>! Hurry before <strong>somebody else beats you</strong> to it.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>In  that previous paragraph, I used all seven mind motivators. Not sure if  it worked, though. I&#8217;m sure it didn&#8217;t. <img src='http://socyberty.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  But at least you get an idea  of how to use these seven tips. Good luck.</p>
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		<title>Tim Hennis: Murderer or Martyr? Part Two</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 17:55:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 1986 Tim Hennis was found guilty of the deaths of Katie Eastburn and two of her daughters however, the case was not over yet.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Arrest And First Trial</strong></p>
<p>In 1985, Tim Hennis a Sargent based at Fort Bragg North Carolina answered an ad in a local paper about a dog for sale placed by the wife of another serviceman, Gary Eastburn. Days later the woman Katie Eastburn and two of her three small daughters were found dead, stabbed multiple times. A third daughter Janna, was found crying and dehydrated in her crib in home that smelled of death.</p>
<p>Hearing from a televised news cast that the authorities were looking for the person who adopted the Eastburn&#8217;s dog Tim Hennis came forward and was almost immediately charged with these three horrendous murders and the rape of Katie Eastburn. He was convicted a year later and was given the death penalty. He received a new trial in 1989 and was acquitted. Then in 2006 twenty years after his first conviction he was again charged with the murder of Katie Eastburn and her daughters this time by the army. In 2010 he was once again convicted and again has been sentenced to death.</p>
<p>The case itself has more twists and turns than Hollywood movie, and the mistakes made by both the prosecution and his own attorneys through out three trials leave those who have followed the case confused as to whether Tim Hennis is actually a Murderer of three people or a Martyr to a justice system gone awry.</p>
<p><strong>The Arrest</strong></p>
<p>Shortly after the murders became public knowledge a neighbor of the Eastburn&#8217;s named Patrick Cone stepped forward and stated that he had seen a large man leaving the Eastburn&#8217;s drive the night of the murders. He gave the police a description and even was able to help them do a composite drawing of the person he said he saw.</p>
<p>When Tim Hennis and his wife heard that the police were seeking the man who had adopted the Eastburn dog just days before the murders occurred they immediately went to the police station to let the police know that it was Tim who had adopted the dog.</p>
<p>The moment the police saw the tall Fort Bragg soldier they were sure they had their man as he bore an uncanny resemblance to the sketch Patrick Cone helped to compile. Without telling Tim he was a suspect the police asked him to provide hair and blood samples which he readily did. Near the end of the interview it became clear that the Police viewed him as a suspect.</p>
<p>In the wee hours of the following morning without waiting to see if any of Hennis&#8217;s hair or blood matched anything found at the scene Tim Hennis was arrested and charged with the rape and Murder of Katie Eastburn and the murder of her two daughters.</p>
<p><strong>The Trial</strong></p>
<p>During the discovery stage of the trial the defense attorneys Jerry Beaver and Billy Richardson asked for full discovery of any evidence the prosecution had that might be used to raise reasonable doubt for client. (This is a statutory requirement for all prosecutors.) They also spoke to Patrick Cone the eyewitness who stated he saw Hennis at the Eastburn house. Cone admitted to the defense that he now was not sure the man he saw was Hennis.</p>
<p>They also knew that the prosecution was going on the assumption that whoever killed the Eastburn&#8217;s had used Katie Eastburn&#8217;s credit card the night of the murders at 11 p.m. and again the next morning a few minutes before 9. They had witnesses that placed their client elsewhere at both of those times.</p>
<p>During the trial it was revealed that none of the samples taken from Hennis matched any of the fingerprints, blood, or hairs found in the house. In addition, though there were bloody footprints that lead from the Eastburn house to the driveway, no blood was ever found on Hennis&#8217;s shoes, in his car, or in his home. There was nothing to link him directly to the crimes.</p>
<p>The sole evidence against him was the testimony of Patrick Cone who put him at the scene of the crime and was once again &ldquo;sure&rdquo; Tim Hennis was the man he saw. There was also one witness who testified that she used the same ATM machine on the morning that Katie Eastburn&#8217;s card was used for the second time and stated she saw Tim Hennis at the ATM.</p>
<p>However, the ATM witness was questioned several times in the days following the murders and claimed she saw no one. On the stand she claimed to have a sudden recollection 11 months after the time for no apparent reason.</p>
<p>The Judge also allowed the Prosecution to place a 5 foot slide screen up directly behind the defendant and show 36 slides of the bloody bodies of Katie Eastburn and her two children. Because of the location of the scene Tim Hennis face appeared at the bottom of each screen forever linking him to the murders of the young mother and her two small children.</p>
<p>Tim Hennis was found quilty and sentenced to death.&nbsp; His attorney&#8217;s were determined to appeal.</p>
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<p><strong>Resources:</strong> Innocent Victims by Scott Whisnant</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; www.<strong>websleuths.com</strong>/forums/showthread.php?t=65680</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 04:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>That NEED exists :&nbsp;Need is nonexistent in the Universe, is the non-existence of the individual Universe. We really do need something to be happy? Isn&#8217;t happiness a state of mind and nothing else? Happiness at least is a state or the result of some conditions. We need nothing to be ourselves and be what we already are.</p>
<p>That FAILURE exists:&nbsp;The illusion of failure is derived out of NEED. To confirm that you failed, you have to admit that something missed out of your needs. The absence of need, attracts the absence of failure and if you need nothing, you cannot fail. We, as part of the Universe, are not perfect, and if you accept that you are part of the Universe, then you must accept that you are imperfect, you don&#8217;t have to need something, or to fail in something.</p>
<p>That there&#8217;s a LACK OF UNITY	:&nbsp;&nbsp;Lack of Unity implies failure, and failure, as we said, implies the possibility of having needs. The illusion of the lack of unity on Earth, from person to person, is the same thing with accepting the separation of the Universe. The separation can have consequences which conducts to negative results as: jealousy, bad acting, greed, etc. The truth is that we are all part of the same Universe, we have to accept it, and exclude separation of our lives.&nbsp;<br />That there are GAPS: Starting from the idea that we are separated, we started to think that there&#8217;s not enough for all of us above the Sun. Wrong! There&#8217;s always something enough for all, but you cannot say that you have a gap in something if you don&#8217;t really need and want a thing.<br />That there&#8217;s REQUIREMENT: There has to be something everyone can do to have sufficient enough of what they want. This sufficient though, must imply something, they have to ask for something certain.Because if something is not sufficient enough, than something can do it enough. What is that something? The illusion of requirement made the human being to live by rules, laws and procedures, but there is no requirement nowhere except inside us.<br />That there&#8217;s JUDGEMENT: &nbsp;If there&#8217;s requirement, when do we know that someone really did what was required? That&#8217;s why it had to appear a judgement system. We created in our lives the idea that something or someone will have to judge us everywhere we go, because we believe in requirement and we want to receive something that will never be sufficient.<br />That there&#8217;s CONVICTION: Because we created a judgement system, we also had to punish the ones we judge, so we created in our minds the feeling of punishment. In reality, we put our own facts and thoughts through a judgement process, before the others judge them, and that is not normal, because we said we are not perfect, being part of the Universe. Especially the idea of God&#8217;s judgement is wrong, because He is supreme love, and this can&#8217;t convict anything.</h3>
<p><strong>That there&#8217;s CONDITIONING: </strong>You can&#8217;t say that you love if you choose conditions for the things you want. Love is just love. We can&#8217;t set some configurations for the ones we want, to be able to love them..either we love them, either we don&#8217;t.</p>
<p><strong>That there&#8217;s SUPERIORITY: </strong>The ones that put conditions, they start by believing that something is better than something else, in conclusion, that something is superior to something else. &nbsp;Thing which doesn&#8217;t exist, because there&#8217;s no separation between us. How can we be superior one to another if we are all part of the same body: the Universe?</p>
<p><strong>That there&#8217;s IGNORANCE: </strong>Ignorance is an illusion too. Love is freedom, it invites to expression, it invites to opening. Ignorance doesn&#8217;t exist, as far as need is an illusion, separation is an illusion and requirement is also an illusion.</p>
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