Something good is going to give him happiness and if you fully understand the wants and needs in each sex. In order to enjoy the sex that brings feelings of happiness, you can answer this question:

A. What are your wishes?
What would you get from having sex? Is it to achieve a satisfying orgasm or desire to create intimacy also increases feelings of love and affection through sex?

This is the importance of communication with your partner. Talk about what you desire in lovemaking delivered important. At least, you understand within yourself that there are goals you want to accomplish in sex. Not just live it as a “liability” for example, a wife to husband, or a mere routine.

2. Physical or emotional attraction?
What things cause you desire to make love? Whether physical or appearance, makeup, or even the clothes he wore that stimulate the passion? Or the desire to have sex comes as a boost from inside of you to have sex with a partner as an expression of emotion and compassion?

Although the couple had a physical change, but if the emotional connection is maintained as when you first met or got married, sex remains a fun activity and happy, right? You feel happy because of sex within marriage emerged not because of a physical pair, but the feeling of love is preserved.

3. The principle of the Dalai Lama
In his book The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living, Dalai Lama discusses about happiness versus pleasure. His advice, always ask yourself, “What I do is give happiness?”

If you ask this question is always inward, you will get guidance when making decisions.

In sex, activities undertaken not just to make you and him feel better or happy. Sex is supposed to bring happiness and improve the quality of relationships in pairs. If you want to achieve, of course, married couples need joint efforts undertaken so that sexual activity leads to happiness, rather than seek pleasure.

4. Open talk of sex
Enjoy the intimacy and fun with the sexual activity to be the fulfillment of biological needs that arise naturally in everyone. Even so, it does not mean you can not talk about it openly with your partner.

Sexual activity occurs naturally as the fulfillment of biological needs. Even so, you and your partner will also need to talk about sex, especially about the wants and needs of each. With an open talk of sex, you and your partner are able to meet the sexual needs and reduce frustration. Next, you and your partner find the happiness that you deserve it.

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NGO based in India was also reported, the action also marks the 53rd anniversary of the Tibetan uprising against Chinese government. Recently, the action of self-immolation of Tibetans continue to rise and this year has recorded more than 20 people.

The Chinese government also blamed the Tibetan spiritual leader the Dalai Lama, for inciting a series of suicides in that country. However, the exiled Tibetan government in India said, suicide is an act against the Chinese government’s suppression of Tibetan religion and culture.

A 32-year-old Tibetan woman was pronounced dead after burning himself. This re-action self-immolation occurred in the latest action against the Chinese government’s crackdown.

Human rights activist group based in London, Free Tibet, said the mother of four children had committed suicide on Sunday (4/3), in front of a police station in Aba Prefecture, Sichuan Province. After burning herself, the woman shouted slogans calling for the liberation of Tibet and the Dalai Lama return.

It is self-immolation ASKI latest in a series of incidents of self-immolations (or hurting yourself) in inland Sichuan and Qinghai provinces, where Tibetans live. This incident reflects the growing frustration among the Chinese ethnic Tibetans who continue to oppressed by Beijing, the parties limit their religious activities and make them lose their original culture.

 Beijing is scheduled to address the masalahtersebut the National People’s Congress which will begin on Monday. Chinese leaders are expected to discuss increase in patriotic education as a way to maintain social stability ahead of the scheduled replacement of leadership next fall.

 This meeting will also seek to eliminate anger by emphasizing the introduction of economic stimulus measures in the areas inhabited by ethnic Tibetan.

NGO based in India was also reported, the action also marks the 53rd anniversary of the Tibetan uprising against Chinese government. Recently, the action of self-immolation of Tibetans continue to rise and this year has recorded more than 20 people.

The Chinese government also blamed the Tibetan spiritual leader the Dalai Lama, for inciting a series of suicides in that country. However, the exiled Tibetan government in India said, suicide is an act against the Chinese government’s suppression of Tibetan religion and culture.

A 32-year-old Tibetan woman was pronounced dead after burning himself. This re-action self-immolation occurred in the latest action against the Chinese government’s crackdown.

Human rights activist group based in London, Free Tibet, said the mother of four children had committed suicide on Sunday (4/3), in front of a police station in Aba Prefecture, Sichuan Province. After burning herself, the woman shouted slogans calling for the liberation of Tibet and the Dalai Lama return.

It is self-immolation ASKI latest in a series of incidents of self-immolations (or hurting yourself) in inland Sichuan and Qinghai provinces, where Tibetans live. This incident reflects the growing frustration among the Chinese ethnic Tibetans who continue to oppressed by Beijing, the parties limit their religious activities and make them lose their original culture.

 Beijing is scheduled to address the masalahtersebut the National People’s Congress which will begin on Monday. Chinese leaders are expected to discuss increase in patriotic education as a way to maintain social stability ahead of the scheduled replacement of leadership next fall.

 This meeting will also seek to eliminate anger by emphasizing the introduction of economic stimulus measures in the areas inhabited by ethnic Tibetan.

Beijing. In protest against Chinese rule over the Tibetans in southwest China two Tibetan monks set fire to himself. After initial misgivings, they were killed, reported Chinese authorities, the two monks would have survived with minor burns. They were in a “stable state”, the official news agency Xinhua quoted the county government of Aba (Aba) in Sichuan Province. The young monks were part of the Kirti monastery on the outskirts of Aba. Since 2009, in the region, five monks doused with gasoline and set on fire. In March and August, two monks were killed in those protests. In response, the Chinese government has sent to exile Tibetan reports new troops to the Tibetan inhabited areas, tightened security measures and hundreds of monks a “patriotic education campaign” subject.

“The recent series of self-immolation witnessed the desperation of the Tibetan people, which grows from the current dismal situation in which they live”, said the exiled Tibetan government in Dharamsala, India. She identified the monks as the 18-year-old Lobsang Kelsang and the 19-year-old Lobsang Kunchok. In their protest they had “Long live the Dalai Lama” and shouted “We want religious freedom in Tibet,” said the exiled Tibetan Centre for Human Rights and Democracy (TCHRD), Dharamsala.

Under the new incident is the Kirti monastery again under strict control of the security forces, it said. It was only in March, with the monk Lobsang Phuntsok was a relative of Kelsang burned the monastery itself. An uncle and a brother were convicted for alleged involvement in the self-immolation, reported the campaign group Free Tibet in a statement from London

The self-immolation was probably a reaction to the increased pressure on the monastic community and the family, said Stephanie Brigden of Free Tibet. She was concerned about the growing sense of hopelessness among some young Tibetans. “The tragic news this point to the fact that some young Tibetans try desperate measures to raise awareness of the situation in Tibet,” said Brigden.

The chairman of the Tibet Initiative Germany (TID), Wolfgang Grader complained, “continued repression by the Chinese authorities.” “Since the riots of 2008 religious freedom through re-education has been increasingly restricted,” said Grader, according to a release. “This systematic suppression of the monasteries in particular makes for despair.”

Image of the Dalai Lama as a young boy via Wikipedia

It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them.

Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.

If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them.

Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength.

We need a little more compassion, and if we cannot have it then no politician or even a magician can save the planet.

Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.

If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.

I believe all suffering is caused by ignorance.

Because we all share this small planet earth, we have to learn to live in harmony and peace with each other and with nature. That is not just a dream, but a necessity.

Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend — or a meaningful day.

If there are sound reasons or bases for the points you demand, then there is no need for violence. On the other hand, when there is no sound reason that concessions should be made to you but mainly your own desire, then reason cannot work and you have to rely on force. Thus using force is not a sign of strength but rather a sign of weakness.

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.

It is very important to generate a good attitude, a good heart, as much as possible. From this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come.

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.

In the practice of tolerance, one’s enemy is the best teacher.

The roots of all goodness lie in the soil of appreciation for goodness.

Today, more than ever before, life must be characterized by a sense of Universal responsibility, not only nation to nation and human to human, but also human to other forms of life.

Whether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not, there isn’t anyone who doesn’t appreciate kindness and compassion.

Where ignorance is our master, there is no possibility of real peace.

We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.

This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.

We can live without religion and meditation, but we cannot survive without human affection.

My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness.

My true religion is kindness.

Image via Wikipedia

Caveat (Do I really need a caveat? Should be self-explanatory, already.): This post is simply about kindness, and NOT about religion. People like to take everything out of context, don’t they? And Triond’s automated editor placed this post in Relijournal. I certainly did not. Requesting a relocation is a pain since the online editor keeps declining it. The title is a quote by the Dalai Lama, and not mine. That quote touched me on a certain level, thus this post about kindness and not about religion. I’m amazed how easily some commenters can miss the point of a simple post like this. And I don’t get the point about stating ”genuine love” from the ninth commenter. That should be pretty obvious, don’t you think? I’m talking about genuine kindness. This post is about kindness. Plain and simple.

Thank you, dodolbete, for submitting a relocation request. It went through, though they still put it in the religion subcategory of Socyberty. *lol* Appreciate it very much. 

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US President Obama has cut $200 million assistance to Palestine as a punishment. The US Congress has threatened projects such as health care, food aid and support for building a functioning State. The Congressional anger was because of the Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas’ efforts aimed at getting Statehood recognition at the UN. Palestinians are naturally angry at this Congressional move and have expressed their unhappiness. $200 million may be a small amount for a country like India, but for the Palestinians, it is bread and butter for them.

Bangladesh was born because of Indian army

Palestinians are preparing to welcome the prisoners swapped between Hamas and Israel in Gaza City. They have printed posters all over their places. Through this act, they are trying to hide their displeasure at the US move. Many countries have condemned US’ act and expressed sympathies in favour of Palestinians. But I feel that the US’ decision is correct. There is nothing wrong on the part of the Palestinians to aim and fight for getting Statehood. But that should come through negotiations with Israel as long as Israel is strong. Of course, for some reason if Israel becomes weak, then Palestine will get its Statehood automatically and the outside world will recognise it as a separate country. East Pakistan was a part of Pakistan as long as Pakistan was strong. But once Pakistan was weakened by the Indian army which entered into East Pakistan, East Pakistan became a liberated country and became Bangladesh.

Palestine will come only if Israel agrees

Therefore, it is clear that a new born country can happen in two ways. One is through negotiations and another route is through weakening the parent country. Had Indian army not entered into East Pakistan, then Bangladesh would never have been born. It was not due to the weakness of Pakistan that Bangladesh came into being. It was due to the entry of Indian army that made Pakistan to taste defeat in the military warfare and lost East Pakistan. A similar thing is unlikely to happen in the case of Palestine – Israel conflict. Israel is not merely strong, it is very strong. No country dares to pick up a fight with Israel because of its military power. It is also rumoured that Israel possesses nuclear power. Moreover it carries the full military, political and moral support of USA, the only superpower in the world. Under the circumstances, Palestinians can hope to secure Statehood only through a dialogue with Israel.

How can the West support Palestine?

Palestinian President overstepped his authority when he canvassed for Statehood in the UN. Even if he gets the support of all the countries in the world, USA and the Western countries will veto it out. Knowing this fully, Abbas still made his case for a Statehood, probably to attract publicity and to make Israel look like an aggressor. Media carries articles stating that even in Western countries and USA, the Palestinian demand for Statehood is sympathetically looked into. I doubt the veracity of this statement. Media can plant any story as true, but commonsense refuses to accept this. How can the Western countries disown their ally Israel in favour of Palestine? What gain they will have if Palestine comes into being? These questions have no answers.

Palestine issue is not an electoral issue in Western countries

But for argument sake, if we accept that what is written in the media is true, then the question arises as to how the people’s opinion can win Statehood for the Palestinians. It is the Western governments and not the people who decide on such matters. One may say that the Western governments are bound to respect their people’s opinion and act accordingly, in order to win their mandate in the next elections. This would have been true had the matter been a burning domestic problem. But Palestinian issue has never caught the fancy of the Western people in any electoral fight and hence the governments will not bother about their people’s opinion in this matter.

Will Dalai Lama be allowed to create a Statehood in UN?

But setting aside all these things, let us assume that all the nations in the world vote unanimously for a Palestinian Statehood in the UN. Is that going to create a State Palestine? Will Israel agree to it? If it does not agree, what is Palestine to do about it? Will it not be a mockery if the Palestinian representative attends the UN without having an actual State? Will Dalai Lama be allowed to attend UN as the leader of the Tibetan State?

Palestine will support Pakistan in Kashmir dispute

In technical terms, if Palestine manages 130 votes in the UN General Assembly, it will get Statehood. It already has 116 supporters including India. It is trying to canvass and get support of the remaining 14 members to get Statehood. USA and the Western countries are trying to prevent this from happening. Even the 116 countries that support Palestine may not be present in the UN at the time of voting and register their support to Palestine. Will India support Palestine in the UN? What gain it has got by doing so? If a real State Palestine springs up in the Middle East, will it not be another Islamic country? Will Palestine support India in the Kashmir dispute against Pakistan? Never. Will it at least be neutral in the dispute? Very unlikely. It will extend its full support to Pakistan on religious lines. Why should India go out of the way and support Palestine in the UN General Assembly? It is likely that India will absent itself on the day of voting. Many other countries will take similar decisions.

Palestine should be denied Statehood

Among the Muslim countries, Abbas has won respect for his fight to finish the battle to win Statehood. It is not the opinion of the Muslim countries that matters in this matter. What is the opinion of Israel? Israel has not conceded the demand for a Free State of Palestine. Therefore, Palestine will not come and become a reality in the immediate foreseeable future. For India, the existence of Israel is in its best interests. If Israel does not exist, all the Muslim countries will unite and attack India with Pakistan. Saudi Arabia will lend its financial power. China will also join the attack. These countries will capture India and divide it among themselves. India may not be able to resist a combined attack of the Arab countries, Pakistan and China even though it is a nuclear power. Therefore, Israel should exist, flourish and keep the Arab countries in check. Palestine should not be allowed to come up in India’s best interests.

An official at the People’s Hospital in Aba County, confirms that two persons, namely Kalsang and Konchok, are hospitalized on Monday afternoon. However, he refuses to comment on the condition of both. Kalsang is the brother of a priest named Phuntsog, who committed suicide last March for throwing himself on fire on the third anniversary of anti-government riots in the area.

His death sparked protests and the monastery was closed by police. Director of Free Tibet,  Stephanie Brigden, says the latest protest asserts that despair has been growned among the young Tibetans.

It is impossible to confirm what sparks protests. However, it is believed as a response to pressure to monastic community at Kirti monastery and Phuntsog members.

Phone to the monastery is not answered. Meanwhile, government officials and local police say they are unaware of the incident.

A Twitter message, which cannot be immediately verified, says one monk had died. However Xinhua news agency, citing the authority of local officials, says the monks have been saved. The situation in the monastery, as a result of repeated anti-government protests, has deteriorated since the death of Phuntsog, March 16.

Phuntsog is the second monk of the Kirti who deliberately set fire to himself since anti-Chinese riots in Lhasa, in March 2008. It is most bloody riot in Tibet during 20 years.

Xinhua said the monk was aged 16 years old at the time of his death. However, there is report that his actual age is 20 years or 21 years

A month ago, China has jailed three monks aged between 10 and 13 years because they are suspected helping Phuntsog to burn himself to death. That increase criticism from United States and human rights groups of the world. Other monks also committed suicide by self-immolation in the Sichuan Nyitsoin monastery in August. The monk drank gasoline before lighting a fire in his body. Soldiers and police responded with a siege around the monastery.

A spokesman for the International Campaign for Tibet, an organization based in the U.S., Kate Saunders, said the latest protest was an act of desperation fueled by the suffering in the current situation.

Brigden asks the international community to pressure China to accept an invitation to continue negotiation to find a solution to the crisis in Tibet. Many Tibetans in China hate because the increase domination of the majority Han ethnic group in China.

They accuses the government of trying to dilute the dominance of Buddhist culture. China, however, said that the Tibetan standard of living has increased in recent decades. This refers to cost billions of dollars spent on development projects and infrastructure.

The Tibetan government in exile, based in the hill town of Dharamshala, Northern India, say that they are deeply saddened by the events referred to as the desperation of the Tibetans.

According to Confucianism (a Chinese spiritual philosophy of the sage Confucius was born and learned) the ideal government should come from a wise and compassionate leader. However, what Confucius says if the sage is in perfect shape, but physically unable to govern his own kingdom? Like most Americans and Westerners, who literally had no idea how serious the situation was and is. I’ve seen the “Free Tibet” banners and heard about the violence and protests, but I was blind to the truth mysterious white knuckle is a reality for millions of Tibetans every day.

There is a saying in Tibet: “.. If no solution to the problem, then do not waste time worrying that if a solution to the problem, then do not waste time worrying about it” Regarding the current situation and ongoing in Tibet my heart is united with the first of the two, but my mind does not care about my own safety (A sense of freedom that for most of my life I have very course), but the sovereignty and the rich cultural heritage of millions of Tibetans are living in Tibet under Chinese rule and in exile.

In 1950 H. H The XIV Dalai Lama became the spiritual leader of Tibet, and in 1959 fled to Dharamsala, India, to escape the brutal oppression of the Chinese. He has yet to take a step back in the arms of his mother’s homeland since his escape. During that time, and continuing today, the Chinese have destroyed more than 6,000 monasteries and killed over 1,000,000 Tibetans in the name of what is worrying that referred to as the “Cultural Revolution.” In addition, mass sterilization, torture, barbaric and a wave of more than 1,000 daily Chinese immigrants contribute to a constant “cultural genocide” in Tibet. To make matters worse, the Dalai Panchan which is the second most powerful leader after HH is now in captivity by the Chinese and has been missing since 1995. At the age of 5 has been reported missing, bringing the Dalai Panchan the youngest political prisoner in the world. He is an important figure, because it serves as the next leader of Tibet after the death of H. H and help in the search for the reincarnation of the Dalai Lama future. The Dalai Panchan now is missing crucial training time to help prepare for their roles. If not released before the death of His Holiness the 17th Karmapa (Gyalwang Karmapa or 17 th Karmapa is a great enlightened master who is the embodiment of all activities of the Buddhas.) I could take the lead and break thousands years of unbroken lineage and tradition. (The Dalai Lama is known as the “Sun”, the Dalai Panchan as “Luna” and the Karmapa as “Stars”).

The list is endless. Hundreds of people missing and wrongly accused, the destruction of valuable natural resources and the refusal to recognize all the ingredients HH sour that are developing in a large pot of Chinese mystery meat. This is a mystery to the world. In countless letters without reading to the United Nations to collect cobwebs on the shelves, the Chinese continued to feed the world with lies of positive economic development and growth.

After watching documentaries, reading, talking with the Tibetan people and take myself to the culture in Dharamsala, I have come to know and understand better than before I had arrived. During his stay in Dharamsala, India, I was lucky to have had the opportunity to volunteer in LHA and taught photography and computer Tibetan refugees. This was very rewarding, because I had the opportunity to obtain a deeper understanding and appreciate what they have suffered and suffered to get where they are today. Although at first I was shy to open up sensitive issues, I learned through talking a lot more than any museum or a book could offer. Judging by his character, he never imagined that most students risked their lives during 18 days of trekking in the Himalayas, with little food to live a better life in India.

Instead of seeing a desperate sadness darkness, I saw hope, compassion and a level of ambition that I have not encountered in my travels. Learning multiple languages ​​and trades is very common among the younger generation and the unwavering desire to learn about the world is a feature I’m constantly trying to embody and model. However, the daily reminder that they are not allowed to live freely in their own country is always evident. As a student boldly. “Being Tibetan is like being an addict You have your ups and downs.”

I know the world is suffering. Everyone experiences of suffering to a degree. This is the most fundamental truth of Buddhism. To further expand on this theme, the Buddha states that there is suffering, which has a cause, the suspension is possible and may follow a prescribed method. This is known as “The Four Noble Truths.” Without going into a detailed discussion of Buddhist philosophy, the driving theme of the method to end suffering is compassion and love. If you are a Buddhist or not, you have to accept that these are positive qualities that are worth acquiring and incorporating. If we were truly loving and compassionate that there was no conflict in Tibet, and throughout the world.

All spiritual scriptures regard the study as an important activity in the acquisition of more knowledge and awareness of self. Therefore we must educate ourselves as human beings in the reality of Tibet. Modern maps do not even list Tibet as a country so we must first recognize that despite the events in the past 50 years, Tibet has existed as a sovereign nation for thousands of years. Second, we must spread this knowledge throughout the world through the floor of the mouth and the media to create a greater awareness. Thirdly and most importantly, we must put our words into action. No action will never get anything done. The effort itself is the key to change the world we must first change ourselves.