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	<title>Socyberty &#187; deception</title>
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		<title>Being Deceitful Will Weaken One&#8217;s Personality</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 23:38:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is always easy to win someone&#8217;s heart through deceit. This was of deceitfulness increases once the person gets into the habit of lying.  For instance, a person may invent one lie to cover up his fault.  But to defend this one lie, he might have to invent several lies thus eventually, he becomes a genuinely deceitful person who&#8217;s skilled at it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is always easy to win someone&rsquo;s heart through deceit. This was of deceitfulness increases once the person gets into the habit of lying.&nbsp; For instance, a person may invent one lie to cover up his fault.&nbsp; But to defend this one lie, he might have to invent several lies thus eventually, he becomes a genuinely deceitful person who&rsquo;s skilled at it.</p>
<p>As and when time passes, a deceitful person&rsquo;s personality also changes and thus weakens him totally from inside and outside.</p>
<p>So, my dear readers, I know truth could be bitter or extremely difficult to state but in the end it is fruitful and elevates our lives if we honestly acknowledge our mistakes. But being dishonest will only worsen and aggravate the problem for you and, weaken your health and of course, your personality too.</p>
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		<title>A Queer Situation</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 17:25:27 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Politics]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why are some &#34;sins&#34; okay and others are not?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have seen some sins condoned or ignored and others magnified in the current race for the <br />Republican candancy.</p>
<p>I&#8221;ve never followed politics very closely until 2008.  If anythng positive has come out of Barack Obama&#8217;s Presidency, it is it has broght a new interest for me and possibly for many others about the business of governing our Great Nation.</p>
<p>And now as we are narrowing down to logically only two candidates for the Republican ticket, what is transpiring between Mitt Romney and Newt Gingrich strikes me as really queer.</p>
<p>Mr. Romney is a very wealth man, who is unscupulous in how he uses this wealth.  Consider the vicious, falsehoods he has levied at Newt Gingrich.  He impresses me as a desperate man totally out of control with nothing to stand on but to contrive blantant lies about his opponent, Mr. Gingrich.  Numerous sources have brought these accusations to light as being misconceptions and in many cases outright lies.</p>
<p>Why do lies and falshoods attract smart, intelligent people, indeeed patriots who love this Country, into total belief?  Yes, so many have swallowed these lies &#8220;hood-lin-and-sinker&#8221;,  Wake up folks, the bacon is burning!  What a qeer situation this is!</p>
<p>Even queerer, is so many have expressed the fact they believe Mitt Romney is the &#8220;safer&#8221; candidate.  Safer from what?  How can anyone believe the ruthless, viciousness Mr. Romney has displayed is safe?  Even his wife has stated that they were never convervatives.  And Mitt&#8217;s professional records prove this.  Why is it that Newt&#8217;s past marital problems become the BIG moral sin of the century?</p>
<p>I suppose a man who believes homesexuals have a right to participate in the boy scouts constitutes no moral issue?  Neither does a repeated stand for aqbortion.  And of course, bearing false witness against another, as Mit Romney as done repeatedly with Newt Gingrich isn&#8217;t so bad, huh?  No moral sin here?  God&#8217;s Word, the Bible, is clear on all these issues as being sins&#8230;.and any sin is a moral issue.</p>
<p>What really strikes me as totally queer is these points of view, actions, and opinions of Mitt Romney directly relate to his character.  If he is going to flip floop on issues he has supported all his professional career, how do we know he won&#8217;t flip flop back to these liberal beliefs should he become president?   Frankly with the weakness demonstrated by Mitt Romney, as evidenced by him stooping to sinful tactics as falsehoods as the only means he seems to possess for trying to beat Newt Gingrich, I doubt seriously if he can beat Barack Obama.  President Obama has him beat in this department!</p>
<p>The moral issue of Newt Gingrich is a serious matter for most Evangelicals.  But based on testimony from several well respected Evangelical clergy, and  the backing of the American Family Association, it seems clear that Mr. Gingrich has confessed these short comings (sins) and has taken them to the only One who can forgive him.  Why are we allowing someone like Mitt Romney to bash Newt Gingrich over the head, yes, as Sarah Palin said, &#8220;crucify&#8221; him, when Almighty God has forgiven him of these trangressions?  Are we bigger than God?  This attitude, is also queer.</p>
<p>And queer too is condoning Mitt Romney&#8217;s sins by backing him for  a candidate for President of the United States, when the very existence of freedom, liberty. justice &#8211; our entire American way of life &#8211; hangs perilously by a very thin thread.</p>
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		<title>Breaking Loose From Illusions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 02:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes our illusions trump our senses, tragically.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have spoken a lot about dreams&hellip; but do not get mixed up here. I am not talking about dreams when you sleep. They have their place though, in the illusory consolation we seek in life. I will be telling you hear to drop your dreams&hellip; to stop dreaming. If you want to be free, you&rsquo;ve got to let dreams go. I am not talking about the light within you. I am not talking about &ldquo;dreams&rdquo; you walk with. I am talking about those illusions that make you lose who you are. Real dreams wake you to reality&hellip; illusions lull you back to lethargy. There is a very big difference here.</p>
<p>Break loose from your illusions, I dare say. And you are asking me what these are, or how to do this? I love Antony the Mello. I&rsquo;ve never met the simpleton-great-big-buddy of the man he was. But I have read him and I have loved him. But what he asks me to do isn&rsquo;t just easy. And I will share it with you.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Is salvation obtained<br />through action or through<br />meditation?&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Through neither. Salvation<br />comes from seeing.&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Seeing what?&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;That the gold necklace<br />you wish to acquire is<br />hanging round your neck.<br />That the snake you are so<br />frightened of is only a<br />rope on the ground.&rdquo;</p>
<p>I wonder if the point needs any belaboring. We have this tendency of seeing just what is in our minds around us. The mirage distorts our vision so much so that we would prefer to deny what is there than to admit it. What we aren&rsquo;t aware of, what we pretend to be, what we do not know&ndash; that is the only thing that can hurt us. When we are aware of something, it ceases to be a threat to our lives: it becomes a liberating tool. We suffer a lot for our &ldquo;denials&rdquo; than being aware of life. Dropping illusions mean looking at life in the face. It is the only way of knowing what we dream for.</p></p>
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		<title>Invisibility in Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 20:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Star-Trek vision of cloaking devices was shown to be a physically realistic possibility by scientific research, and new researxch points to the possibility of making time invisible as well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Scientists have already managed to make an object invisible in space, but the next big challenge is to make one invisible in time.Cornell University researchers Alexander L. Gaeta and Moti Fridman have been leading a team experimenting with this aim in mind.</p>
<p>Although, truth be told, they only achieved their goal for a pico-second-an unimaginably short time &#8211; their success could eventually lead to genuine cloaking devices, though more likely in the short term to better fibre-optic line security.</p>
<p>So-called ordinary cloaking involves scientists and engineers looking at how to make objects invisible to the eye. Using refraction is one way of doing it, &nbsp;this being the property through which prisms split sunlight into the rainbow colours, though the ordinary transparent prism material used to bend the light waves is replaced by scientists with meta-materials.</p>
<p>Engineered to have properties that not be found in nature, such as a negative index of refraction, making light rays bend totally differently, enabling scientists to use such materials to bend light rays away from objects and make them invisible, to all intents and purposes.</p>
<p>If light waves fail to hit an object, it will not be seen, though the cloaking of time is a different ball game, so rather than bending light waves around an object, the team slowed light down on one side, creating a &ldquo;time lens&rdquo;.</p>
<p>This works by slowing light wave-lengths and causing them to reach their destinations at different times. This effect means that by passing the light through the time lens, before passing it through a dispersal medium, they created a gap in the light.</p>
<p>This represented a moment in time when no wave-length of light was visible. Shorter wavelengths- violet to blue and green would be seen first, a gap, then the yellow to orange and red wavelengths, which are longer. &nbsp;This light is then through another medium reversing dispersal, then back through another time lens, so that the beam appeared unchanged, with no way of knowing that anything had occurred.</p>
<p>A really practical analogy might be the breaking of a line of cars at traffic signals, and the reforming of the line at &nbsp;the next junction, the idea tested by the scientists via the sending of a light pulse through the gap, at a frequency different from the reference one, that pulse almost invisible.</p>
<p>No practical technology yet exists to allow this phenomenon to be taken advantage of on a large scale, though the combination of this technique with the spatial invisibility research methods could make a true cloaking device a more realistic possibility in the future.</p></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Nov 2011 14:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><i>Chapter 8</i></strong></p>
<p>What all need to know regarding just how all people are being killed slowly and silently through drugs, toxins, processed foods, dairy, beef, and many other ways including dementia that leads to Alzheimer&rsquo;s.</p>
<p>From World Controllers comes population evils through many various ways of illness and the multi-billion dollar corrupt Pharmaceutical Industry which also pays doctors many rewards to move their drugs until your broke, dead or both; and today almost half the population in America uses some kind of prescription drug while close to 20 percent are children on medications such as Ritalin as an amphetamine mind and body booster or Prozac which is suppose to be an antidepressant. The whole point of the matter being our society did not used to be as it now concerning families on prescribed drugs which in truth are just part of America&rsquo;s population who have become one huge medical experiment with a thousand drugs involved prior to mass population being exterminated through the chaos during the fall of America as planned by the Illuminati for the new world order. Ezekiel chapter 5 shares a good description of what&rsquo;s approaching that no one understands or believes concerning themselves&#8212;especially this world of religious hypocrites who are unaware of how God sees them all because by their own human spirit in they all refuse to believe and obey God while feeling a false security that can only be broken through faith in every word of God through self examination with only &ldquo;THE WORD&rdquo; as their guide. Have you seen Christ in any of your pagan ways or traditions lately?</p>
<p>This just as all subjects regarding our lives could very easily become never ending if I was to just allow it along with everything we discuss, so let&rsquo;s just see where we go with limits. Also bear in mind that not all doctors are bad just as not all are purposely evil in any profession worldwide, yet most all have become so very deceived through all the lies and corruption spread through the words of man that they just know not what they do. So there are some good doctors with good intent&#8212;but they just do as what everyone else does because it can&rsquo;t be wrong.</p>
<p>But lack of knowledge only destroys lives, so with today&rsquo;s modern technology through the use of computers, all those within the medical profession and any profession regarding human lives need to start doing their own research on drugs or anything whatsoever that could have affects on people along with their causes of many other illnesses that have purposely been created by man. The point is never trust in man or the words of man just as all of the religions of man are totally corrupt along with just everything on earth concerning people and every aspect of their lives when looked at spiritually; and just for any human being to look at this world from God&rsquo;s Spiritual point of view will then see a completely Godless society and world population whose only god is the god of this world. But believers will never believe what God sees even though He tells them all through His words in the Holy Bible that none, no, not one understands. {Psalms 14:2-3 &amp; 53:2-3}</p>
<p>Whenever one discusses big finance in the billions, it&rsquo;s the root of all evil that takes over because those with all of the billions have many millions to spare as investment in further boosting their already massive intake, so this first look is on how the pharmaceutical industry totally corrupts doctors with just this one example and more to follow.</p>
<p>If you produce a product, the only way to become successful is to move that product; and the more it&rsquo;s moved, the wealthier the manufacturer becomes which is no different than a Direct Distributor in Amway moving a few products to a Crown Ambassador {just for a quick note, Amway known by many as a Christian organization was founded by Rich DeVos whom is a 33rd degree Freemason and part of the new world order} which is the highest level moving extreme amounts. So let&rsquo;s just use but only one doctor as an example of but one spider amongst millions caught within a huge worldwide web of either stupidity, or greed and corruption through lies with absolutely no value on the human lives of others including the 2 year old child which Dr. Joseph L. Biederman, who is a professor psychiatry and chief pediatric psychopharmacology at Harvard&rsquo;s Massachusetts General Hospital who made an example out of what we all must become educated through.</p>
<p>Now when we take a man such as this who is very highly respected within the world&rsquo;s medical profession as he sees too the medical needs of children as young as 2 years of age while diagnosing them with bipolar disorder and then treating them with a long island iced tea of very heavy duty drugs; and many were drugs that have never even been approved by the nasty joke called the FDA&#8212; yet those drugs were used for the purpose of helping the child who was barely a toddler; and when you add the fact that the drugs which were approved were not for children under 10 years of age, it&rsquo;s just plain murder; and a greedy premeditated slow murder by doctors who have become very inhumane just as in the majority of this world&rsquo;s population that are so deeply into only themselves.</p>
<p>Also realize there are the uncountable in all positions and professions worldwide who are being led through mind control that comes through the ways of man and from the god of this world as the prince and power of the air who leads billions through his counterfeit spirit as the father of lies which you shall read much more on; and that is because it&rsquo;s a very important subject within this world today that has grown so very bleak and out of control with so many different ways to become diseased, sick and hurting from internal organs going bad to bones becoming weak to muscles with no control along with many mind dysfunctions including an overweight population and a complete line of what&rsquo;s totally wrong and not right concerning human health in every department of mind and the body within our society today; and the reasons why will completely shock you because it is something that has been done to us all as a very slow way of poisoning our systems through processed foods, water, medications, dairy products, filthy meats {like beef that you best cook the shit out of because there is shit in it} and poultry {which becomes what its eats with toxins for feed} with a clean look while creating a multi billion pharmaceuticals industry that never completely cures, but rather creates side effects, drug addictions and very many more severe illnesses that can only lead to more medical needs which have been draining people mentally, physically and financially until they die.</p>
<p>Welcome to the freedom in the United States and other nations that is only a false word soon to be eliminated and changed to the new world order which places human beings on a leash to be controlled; and the saddest fact of the matter is that we all are already on controlled leashes that we just can&rsquo;t see; and we all have been leashed for many decades since the day we were born into a world that had the plans of a world order over a century ago that has been in a long process for its success that has reached it&rsquo;s point of launch on one completely unsuspecting world of clever fools.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Let&rsquo;s get back into the field of medicine, doctors and cures.</strong> Chemotherapy for cancer that is not a cure, but a money sucking slow killer, sterilizer of women and a creator of new kinds of cancer that only takes lives through slow and painful ways with many severe side effects; and if there was free press with freedom of knowledge, people would learn of the natural ways to cure diseases without doctors and their foolish greed mixed with stupidity from the god of this world who loves lies, death and suffering; and the actual full in depth truth is that when the rulership of man comes to its final end&mdash;so will all of the man-made diseases all over this planet because man is the cause of everything evil and wrong. But your money grubbing clever shepherds in all the man made religions worldwide won&rsquo;t tell you what God speaks through His words of Truth.</p>
<p>Big Pharma&rsquo;s Deadly Campaign to Push Pills on Little Kids.</p>
<p>Drug companies spend billions a year to get doctors to prescribe pills to children. Johnson &amp; Johnson even advertises its latest anti-psychotic on Legos, despite evidence that it causes diabetes and weight gain, and sprouts breasts in both boys and girls.</p>
<p>Plastic Legos stamped &ldquo;RISPERDAL&rdquo; are a fixture at pediatricians&rsquo; offices nationwide.</p>
<p>Below posted by <strong>Real News Reporter</strong> on August 10th, 2011 only refreshes what you just read; and I only show it so that you can see just how serious this world&rsquo;s situation is concerning the human race. <em>Every year, pharmaceutical companies spend billions to get doctors to prescribe drugs to children. Johnson &amp; Johnson even distributes tons of Legos that advertise its latest anti-psychotic, which causes diabetes, weight gain, and even breasts in boys and girls who take it.</em></p>
<p>Walter Armstrong &ndash; <a href="http://www.thefix.com/content/jj-sued-illegal-promotion-drugs-kids" target="_blank"><strong>The Fix</strong></a></p>
<p>In the past decade, America&rsquo;s pharmaceutical industry has knowingly marketed dozens of dangerous drugs to millions of children, a group that executives apparently view as a lucrative, untapped market for their products. Most kids have no one to look out for their interests except anxious parents who put their trust in doctors. As it turns out, that trust is often misplaced.</p>
<p><strong>Big Pharma spends massive amounts to entertain physicians,</strong> send them on luxury vacations and ply them with an endless supply of free products. As a result, hundreds of thousands of American kids&mdash;some as young as three years old&mdash;have become dependent on amphetamines like Adderall and a pharmacopeia of other drugs that allegedly treat depression, insomnia, aggression and other mental health disorders.</p>
<p>The fact that none of these powerful mood-altering medications have been approved by the FDA to treat children under 10 has posed no obstacle to the industry&rsquo;s marketing masterminds. They&rsquo;ve waved off objections by some doctors who wonder how these complex drugs will affect the vulnerable brains and bodies of their young patients. Other experts have warned that children exposed to this multi-molecular barrage on their central nervous systems could potentially be at much higher risk of becoming adults who are addicted to chemicals, prescription and otherwise. But thanks to a billion-dollar advertising campaign, millions of kids across the nation are now taking pills to control a long litany of &ldquo;behavioral problems.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Luckily, Johnson and Johnson is not getting off scot-free. Last week, Massachusetts Attorney General Martha Coakely&nbsp;<a href="http://i.bnet.com/blogs/janssenrisperdalcomplaint-final8111.pdf?tag=content;drawer-container" target="_blank">announced</a> that the state was suing&nbsp;the world&rsquo;s biggest pharmaceutical firm, Johnson &amp; Johnson, for illegally promoting&nbsp;Risperdal,&nbsp;an &ldquo;atypical anti-psychotic&rdquo;, for off-label treatment of childhood schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, autism, hyperactivity and attention deficit disorder,&nbsp;depression and anxiety,&nbsp;sleep disorders, anger management, mood enhancement or stabilization. As <a href="http://www.blogger.com/%3Ca%20href=%22http:/activistpost.net/vaccinetruth.html%22%3E%3Cimg%20src=%22https:/lh4.googleusercontent.com/_qLAIskTQXUc/TauQhNdsAHI/AAAAAAAAITA/8GImZuE5gzk/468x60-a.jpg%22%20alt=%22%22%20/%3E%3C/a%3E" target="_blank">BNet&rsquo;s Placebo Effect</a> blog recently reported, the list of maladies is grotesquely long. J&amp;J, which prides itself on its high-minded credo of &ldquo;always putting patients first,&rdquo; began moving its new drug into this new market as soon as Risperdal won approval in adults&mdash;even though the FDA explicitly forbid it from doing so, for the simple reason that the firm had never done a single test of the drug in children who suffered from these or any other conditions.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thefix.com/content/jj-sued-illegal-promotion-drugs-kids" target="_blank"><strong>Read Full Article </strong></a></p>
<p>My words: Before there was ever modern technology, modern medicines and modern surgery along with every other increase in the knowledge of man as written for these end times in Daniel 12:4,9, there was a world of natural healing agents in every form created by God that were used all through history from ancient times upward with many tribes and people still using them today for healing in their own cultures away from modern society where there is no health insurance, doctors, drug stores or greedy liars who love money.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Just one very good example would be a Graviola tree which grows best in the tropics like South America. Of this tree many different parts of it are used for cures such as the roots, leaves, bark, fruit and even the fruit seeds which medicine men have used for centuries in treating liver problems, heart disease, asthma, arthritis, and other ailments. In recent years one company spent much money and resources testing the tree for chances of fighting cancer, and what they learned was that this tree would be a real destroyer of the killer illness created by man. But something good right and true from God&rsquo;s creations that cures is something that no one ever hears because it becomes silenced.</p>
<p>The American Medical Association holds the position as a doorkeeper. In other words they can either allow or disallow what enters into all schools of medicine. Therefore any natural cures such as Homeopathy which is a system of healing people with various illness through the use of wholesome organs, metabolic factors, plants, recombinant materials, minerals and animals for stimulating the bodies own immune system which is a natural system of medicine rather than the world of doctors {crooked quacks} that keep people coming back over and over with dependency on many man made drugs that never cure as the pharmaceutical industry continues to rake in billions through slowly killing hundreds of millions while also bleeding them financially dry, welcome to reality that nobody believes or wants to hear just as God&rsquo;s truth that tells of destruction coming upon a deceived world.</p>
<p><strong>Reduction of Population </strong>through medications, water, processed foods, beef, poultry, miscellaneous products and pollution everywhere that always find its way into our bodies. And even <strong>Dentists are involved in cover-ups</strong> with knowledge of what is bad for health and teeth while doing nothing to stop it&mdash;but instead just going with the flow of corruption because those big $$$ are the root of everything evil.</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>*There is one very heavy subject in these following words that you as the reader really need to take very seriously just as every word in this book, and that is because all spoken has to do with your own private life that has been and currently is being destroyed in many ways you never knew.</p>
<p>There are good doctors and good people who never had any idea of what they have been doing, so now, with pure hearts, they all need to turn away from this world of darkness in the little remaining time while God can still be found for His mercy, or just die with the many through repentance.</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>Sodium fluoride even in small quantities is a very deadly poison which no effective antidote has ever been found, and just as in all issues there is very much to be learned regarding this very important subject on the poisoning of people through their water, toothpaste and many other ways which is a very slow process that is nothing new and has been used in cities worldwide as a progressive way of bringing very many illnesses into a world population of unsuspecting victims. Were you aware that fluoride is actually bad for your teeth by causing yellowing and brittleness to tooth enamel?</p>
<p>Quote&#8212; While sodium fluoride is commonly used as a rat poison, globalists and eugenicists have decided to add it to water supplies with the message to the public being that it is good for teeth, despite warnings from the ADA stating that young children risk a disease called dental fluorosis. <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2005/jun/12/medicineandhealth.genderissues" target="_blank">The Guardian </a>reported that fluoride water can also cause cancer.</p>
<p><strong>*Below is an excellent article by Dr. Mercola</strong></p>
<p>Did you know there&rsquo;s an &ldquo;invisible&rdquo; drug that a majority of Americans consume on a daily basis&mdash;a drug so harmful it&rsquo;s been proven to cause serious health issues, including damage to your bones and teeth, as well as your kidneys, thyroid, pineal gland, and even your brain. This drug is so pervasive that over 40 percent of all American teens between the ages of 12&nbsp;and 15 show visible signs of having been overexposed to&nbsp;it, and, shockingly, recent international studies indicate that even small doses of this drug can lower the&nbsp;IQ in children.</p>
<p>What is this drug?&nbsp; <em><strong>Fluoride</strong></em><strong><i>.</i></strong></p>
<p>You are Being Drugged Without Your Consent&hellip;</p>
<p>Many do not realize that fluoride is indeed a drug. In fact, if you decided that you <em>wanted</em> to take it, you&rsquo;d have to get a prescription for it. Yet it&rsquo;s added to municipal water supplies reaching more than 180 million Americans, including infants and the elderly. This is a significant problem, because once you add it to the water supply, you have no way of gauging how much of the drug any particular person will consume on any given day.</p>
<p>Consider this: It is illegal and unethical for a medical doctor to give you a drug without specifying dosage, and to fail to monitor your health for side effects from the drug. Yet, your water authority is not only allowed, but encouraged to add a toxic drug&mdash;fluoride&mdash;to your drinking water without your consent and without any way of knowing who in your household is drinking it, how much, and the effect it is having.</p>
<p><a target="_blank"><strong>FLUORIDE BONE EFFECTS</strong></a><strong> (<a href="http://www.fluoridation.com/bones.htm" target="_blank">abstracts/summary</a>)</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Hip fracture rates in seniors      are rising in fluoridated areas and are increasing more rapidly than can      be accounted for by an aging population.</li>
<li>Two studies show increased      osteosarcomas in children (a rare, often fatal bone cancer).</li>
<li>New radiographic techniques      show bone abnormalities in children with dental fluorosis (the teeth are a      window to what is happening in the bones).</li>
<li>Bone abnormalities are seen      in aborted fetuses born to mothers with dental fluorosis.</li>
<li>World Health Organization      warns that ingesting 2.0 &mdash; 8.0 mg of fluoride per day (as little as 2      liters of fluoridated water) can lead to the pre-clinical stage      (arthritis-like symptoms) of skeletal fluorosis (a crippling bone      disease).</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;Alas, it may actually be more accurate to describe it as one of the greatest mass poisonings in our history. Sodium fluoride, which is a far <em>simpler</em> toxin than the fluoride compounds used for most water fluoridation, has been used for&nbsp;rat and cockroach poisons, so there is no question that fluoride is highly toxic.</p>
<p>In a sane world, public health policy would be based on sound and conclusive science. Unfortunately, that is not the case when it comes to water fluoridation. In fact, despite overwhelming evidence demonstrating that fluoride is <em>not</em> an effective preventive strategy against tooth decay and may be causing significant health problems in many individuals, the practice of adding fluoride to municipal water supplies continues unabated. A majority, 64 percent, of all drinking water in the United   States still receives this ill-advised treatment.</p>
<p>Why does this practice continue when it flies in the face of all the current research?</p>
<p>The answer to this question is just one of the countless shocking revelations featured in <em><a href="http://products.mercola.com/water-fluoridation-dvd/" target="_blank">Professional Perspectives on Water Fluoridation</a></em>. The film, which features a Nobel Laureate in Medicine, scientists, dentists, medical doctors, and leading researchers in the field, reveals the science behind fluoridation, the effects it has on your health, and why there is <em>no</em> logical or rational reason to continue fluoridating ANY water supply.</p>
<p>Would You Drink Shampoo to Clean Your Hair?</p>
<p>The only science that mildly supports the use of pharmaceutical-grade fluoride as a preventive against dental caries is <em>topical use</em> of fluoride (although even that is debatable, based on more recent findings). There is really no scientific basis at all for <em>ingesting</em> fluoride to protect your teeth! In fact, when fluoride is taken internally, it actually damages your teeth, causing a condition known as dental fluorosis; the pitting and discoloration of teeth. Today, 41 percent of American children between the ages of 12 and 14 have dental fluorosis. But that&rsquo;s not all. When you swallow, fluoride it can also cause:</p>
<p>Weakened bones, and fatal bone cancer (osteosarcoma)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Impaired mental development, lowered IQ, and dementia.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Gastrointestinal problems, Hyperactivity and/or lethargy Arthritic symptoms, Kidney issues, Lowered thyroid function, Chronic fatigue, Disrupted immune system.</p>
<p>This is what the science is telling us about the ramifications of fluoride ingestion. And, yet, rather than taking the precautionary approach and stopping fluoridation until we know more, our policymakers continue to blindly forge ahead; refusing to give the scientific evidence the attention it deserves.</p>
<p>This subject alone I wanted to write much more on&#8212;but once added research begins, many pages of writing become involved which keeps me from only skimming the surface, so I only mention little as possible while leaving each to their own on what subject in particular they want to know more about when in truth all that any should really care about with genuine concerns at all is gaining some understanding of God and knowing Him because that is the only way anyone can be on the right road of life for His mercy during these coming worst nightmares being brought to life; and what actually truly is regarding reality cannot be changed because of what has already happened on earth with the human race to God is history; and I do understand God according to what He has given me thus far; and that is because from being within the same square mile over four years with no money, no life, no activities and no association with the human race has left me with nothing but time for God&rsquo;s training, use and being the director of my paths which are but foolish words to all the religious people of this world other than the few who God is pleased with by their heart and actions. {Hebrews 4:12, Romans 9:14-24, 1 Corinthians 2:9-13, 1 Samuel 2:3}&nbsp;</p>
<p>Another reason that so many people are sick, weak and unhealthy is because of all the processed foods eaten worldwide including what&rsquo;s grown in contaminated soils containing fertilizers and pesticides loaded with poison that grow not only what people eat, but what living creatures eat while growing for the slaughter of what many people eat. So can you see the non-stop circle of everything bad entering the human body with no way to avoid other than those on earth who are vegetarians and grow everything natural? And depending on where they are and what&rsquo;s planted is grown, odds are stacked very high against them because soils worldwide have been contaminated in many extreme ways along with the water plants and people depend on; after all, does not water evaporate from the earth to form clouds of acid or toxic rain?&nbsp; Now just give some thought to the gulf BP oil disaster while knowing of all the very poisonous clouds which are formed for watering crops and people; and today we have a world of people with very closed minds who laugh at any who only want to help them with true wisdom from God while aiming them towards only God with zero man-made religions that will only drop them deep within the miry quicksand of great sufferings and death, but all religious people led by the false teachers within unclear fog can only see themselves as being on top of the world as saved when their Lord speaks His own words directly to all believers worldwide who cannot hear because they are of the none, no, not one that seeks and understands God.</p>
<p><strong>In Dairy products &amp; processed foods</strong> how many people of all ages, especially the younger, enjoy a healthy and refreshing glass of ice cold milk?</p>
<pre>Fifty years ago an average cow produced 2,000 pounds of milk per year. Today the top producers give 50,000 pounds! How was this accomplished? Drugs, antibiotics, hormones, forced feeding plans and specialized breeding; that&rsquo;s how. And because food is not for eating to the billionaires, every animal is fatter and more productive for producing more poison this world consumes.</pre>
<pre>&nbsp;</pre>
<p>How many people love a good tasty bowl of breakfast cereal? Here is another quote for your thought waves to short circuit dwell on;</p>
<p>The extent to which processed foods, such as breakfast cereals, breads, pasta, etc., are contaminated with fungal mycotoxins has been a food industry secret for years. The highly potent carcinogen aflatoxin, produced from Aspergillus moulds on grains, is the only mycotoxin most Government food departments are required to track and limit. Yet the majority of fungal damage to humans has gone unnoticed since fungal diseases are not reportable in the way infectious diseases are.</p>
<p>More and more information is now coming out on the extent to which fungi and yeast are problematic and implicated in both serious and minor illnesses. From toe-nail fungus to cancer, therefore critters have a lot of explaining to do, and we, the public, need to insist our medical practitioners are adequately trained in mycology, which they are not.</p>
<p>Cannot you see the realities we all as human beings are living within? It&rsquo;s as if we are nothing; and that is because that is exactly what we are as in pure nothing to the illuminati for our own extermination; and you, through this book are being filled with truth because you are someone special that needs to see what has always been in the darkness with the corrupt religions of man being no different than the corrupt politicians worldwide because all are being controlled.</p>
<p><strong>About the forgetful mental illness</strong>. <strong>This is another very heavy duty subject that really ought to shock you in major ways.</strong> Have you ever given much thought to the facts that just over each minute someone develops Alzheimer&rsquo;s?&nbsp; So what&rsquo;s your age and have you ever felt forgetful while also noticing the seemingly many cases of Dementia? Here is a brief from author Raymond Francis that hits so deep you just can&rsquo;t miss the meaning because this world&rsquo;s severe symptoms on humans in every department are nothing by chance or accident.</p>
<p>Alzheimer&rsquo;s progressively damages brain cells leading to impaired memory, thinking and behavior; and it&rsquo;s a tragic, costly, and growing disease among our elderly. Now get this as some strong food for thought&#8212;-Alzheimer&rsquo;s is now affecting our younger people in their 30s, 40s and 50s. <strong>{Take notice of those ages}</strong> In the book by Raymond Francis, Never Be Sick Again, the author related how Dr. Morton Walker questioned members of a long lived native population about dementia. These healthy people lived well into their hundreds; yet they didn&rsquo;t know what dementia was. They had never experienced anything like dementia, and did not even have a word in their language to describe it. These people lived almost a half century longer than we do, yet we are told dementia is a disease of the aging and the price we must pay for living so long.</p>
<p>Alzheimer&rsquo;s is no different than other chronic diseases. It&rsquo;s something that <strong><i>we have created</i></strong> with our modern diets and lifestyles. In skipping over all the research data, let&rsquo;s get right to the cause which is sugar; and sugar causes every imaginable disease including Alzheimer&rsquo;s. Researchers believe that regular sugar consumption creates chronically high insulin levels. High insulin uses up to much of the available insulysin capacity, thereby preventing the normal degradation of amyloid peptides and leading to an accumulation of beta-amyloid peptides in the brain causing Alzheimer&rsquo;s. President Reagan was well known for his high consumption of jelly beans. In addition, there is another mechanism at work. The body&rsquo;s reaction to high blood sugar results in low sugar {Hypoglycemia}, and low blood sugar makes the brain much more susceptible to damage from common <strong><i>toxins we are regularly exposed to.</i></strong></p>
<p>Food additives in the form of flavor enhancers such as MSG, artificial sweeteners such as aspartame, artificial colors, and artificial flavors all damage brain cells and contribute to neurodegenerative diseases such as Alzheimer&rsquo;s. These dangerous neurotoxins are found in all manner of processed foods <strong><i>including breakfast cereals,</i></strong> soda and jelly beans.</p>
<p>My own additional research says these words you need to hear just as this world needs to <strong><i>&ldquo;Hear&rdquo;</i></strong> God&#8212;but refuses as they hear man who knows not spiritual truths regarding every life on earth that is coming to its end through many unknown ways over these coming years, and my whole life only consists of wanting to warn every person on earth while showing the only direction there is for safety.</p>
<p>The processed-food industry can be considered a true oligopoly. Together, the three leading food companies, <strong>Nestle</strong>, <strong>Kraft Foods</strong> and <strong>PepsiCo</strong>, achieve a dominant proportion<em> </em>of global processed-food sales. In fact, these three companies are often used as an example of &ldquo;Rule of Three&rdquo; in business schools, since they are a real-life example of a market being dominated by three gigantic actors. Their position as worldwide food providers has made these conglomerates extremely powerful, and they are represented in most elite organizations such as the &ldquo;<strong><i>Council of Foreign Relations&rdquo;.&nbsp; </i></strong>This not only allows them to provide their preferred policies on nutrition and health issues across the globe, but on economic, political and social issues as well.</p>
<p>There just is no end regarding all that can be written regarding true facts of life for this world&rsquo;s population, therefore all that I share equals an endless supply of only bits and pieces as parts of the puzzle for all to assemble in their own minds. Notice above in the last paragraph the bold words while reading this very short description below as two puzzle pieces with a perfect fit.</p>
<p><strong>Quote taken from Urban Dictionary</strong>&#8212;The Illuminati is a secret organization of the most powerful and influential elite in the world. They go back for centuries and maintain the same bloodlines. They set up the <strong><i>council on foreign relations</i></strong>, the Bilderberg group and the tri-lateral commission. Those three groups all meet to plan the fate of the world. They consist of international bankers, top government officials, leaders in the energy cartel and media monopoly owners and have control over the U.N. and United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization; and {UNESCO} their subdivisions reach into everyone&rsquo;s daily life <strong><i>without most people worldwide even being aware of it.</i></strong> They also have ties to the freemasons, skull and bones, and the knight&rsquo;s templar. Their ultimate goal is for a one world government which they will control, also a one world currency, and they want control and ownership of all land, property, resources and people. Also they manipulate political parties, and the legal and illegal drug trade; and federal agencies related to all matters listed above.</p>
<p><strong>***Did you digest, take in, hear and understand anything you just read?</strong>&nbsp; <strong>They control also the religions of man with many big named religious people under their thumb just as Billy Graham was a 33rd degree Freemason, therefore all of the man made religions worldwide are being controlled, but when God tells all believers that this whole world has been deceived, none, no, not one believe the words of who they all say they believe in. And that&rsquo;s love with respect to our creator? </strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>And even the air we breathe has been contaminated through purposed air pollution along with chemical laden process foods, personal hygiene products like toothpaste, shampoo, cosmetics, antiperspirants and consumer products such as cleaners. We also all live within a world of plastic within our homes, our vehicles and everywhere we go which leaks invisible chemical toxins into the foods you store along with that fresh scent from a new shower curtain or even a new car that smells so good is filled with toxins which cause illness; there is also the very popular and greatly used Roundup weed killer that is also a known people destroyer through birth defects along with uncertainty of what else it does to the human body while still on the shelves and sold to consumers; and of these few items I just mentioned with the uncountable not mentioned, some can be the cause of cancer along with many other illnesses.</p>
<p>In other words, the new world order primes us all with illness, then takes much of our money as they slowly experiment on us while living one very difficult life through ill health, tired bones, tired mind, internal organs out of whack, and overweight with financial difficulties added that only bring on the stress for ulcers and even more problems. Welcome to the real world which controls its herds with side blinders called population who are all in the invisible cages of life.</p>
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<p>Something added that I could not pass because it concerns women and their beauty aids;</p>
<p><strong>Quote&#8212;From Natural-Health-Information-Centre.com;</strong></p>
<p> <a href="http://www.natural-health-information-centre.com/propylene-glycol.html" target="_blank">Propylene glycol</a> is a cosmetic form of mineral oil found in automatic brake and hydraulic fluid and industrial antifreeze. In the skin and hair, propylene glycol works as a humescent which causes retention of moisture content of skin or cosmetic products by preventing the escape of moisture or water. The Material Safety Data Sheet warns users to avoid skin contact with propylene glycol as this strong skin irritant can cause liver abnormalities and kidney damage.</p>
<p>What you have been reading is no more than a mere invisible scratch on the surface of the innumerable categories you need to learn the basics of while also realizing that doctors are the cause of 250,000 deaths each year due their ignorant, uncaring and on purpose mistakes supported through greed; and just as in people of all groups, there are those within the medical profession who have good intentions; however, when blindness and deception steps into any mind be it mine or yours, ignorance kills; and for the medical killers it works well because of the high rewards while they just bow away from their crimes as if they did no wrong; and it costs much money for people to die as they pay thieving insurance companies which very handsomely pay your own killers along with their greatest reaping from the billion dollar pharmaceutical corporations; and many there be which go under the knife for surgery they have no need of, but its very profitable for the drug industry and medical profession, so what are millions of lives to interfere with their profits worth?</p>
<p>Absolutely nothing because riches are a pleasure while reducing the population is all part of the plan anyway, and the greed of preachers all throughout this world of man-made religions is no different, so you best think very hard and clearly while crying out to God in sorrow with all of your heart because our lips have no communication with the eternal creator because God only knows the true absolute of who we are by what&rsquo;s written in our heart.</p>
<p>*If you believe in the Devil, Illuminati and the New World Order who will have their way with this world&rsquo;s population, then you will believe just how evil man truly can be. Yet believers can&rsquo;t even believe God by doing as His word directs, so all who believe or don&rsquo;t believe are now being given a chance of choosing which road of life they prefer, either God&rsquo;s way through His written instruction, or the ways of man who know not God. Either way, no matter who you are according to the word, hear only what God speaks.</p>
<p><i>&ldquo;So don&rsquo;t be embarrassed to speak up for our Master or for me, his prisoner. Take your share of suffering for the Message along with the rest of us. We can only keep on going, after all, by the power of God, who first saved us and then called us to this holy work. We had nothing to do with it. It was all his idea, a gift prepared for us in Jesus long before we knew anything about it. But we know it now.&nbsp; Since the appearance of our Savior, nothing could be plainer: death defeated, life vindicated in a steady blaze of light, all through the work of Jesus. {2 Timothy 1:8-10}-{The Message}</i></p>
<p><i>&ldquo;Be not thou therefore ashamed of the testimony of our Lord, nor of me his prisoner: but be thou partaker of the afflictions of the gospel according to the power of God; Who hath saved us, and called us with an holy calling, not according to our works, but according to his own purpose and grace, which was given us in Christ Jesus before the world began, But is now made manifest by the appearing of our Saviour Jesus Christ, who hath abolished death, and hath brought life and immortality to light through the gospel: {KJV}</i></p>
<p>With trust in every word of God while leaving mans interpretations behind as dust in the wind, we all have salvation before the world even began, but the broad way which most all travel will have years of fiery tribulation judgments ahead rather than the narrow way with God to feed you and protect you from the sword and disease which will be far from an easy life because much faith with obedience shall be required, but compared to a deceived world without His mercy, the hard working life through obedience will be as a paradise without torture, bloodshed, rapes, murders and even cannibalism which will become very great worldwide through these coming years as the only way to feed a starving population; and all who say they would never stoop that low will be the first wanting flesh to eat because they never knew what the pain of starvation mentally and physically was like through actual experience just as all of the uncountable atrocities which are coming upon this entire human race worldwide.</p>
<p>All that my entire life involves is gaining understanding of God, reality, and the only road for God&rsquo;s mercy in the coming beginning of sorrows followed by great tribulation that the start of is almost upon us all. Yet what I do twenty four hours of each day seven days a week for all believers in God with non believers included&#8212; my only reward is hate with greed and scorn from a world of brethren while living in such hard times I can&rsquo;t even repay twenty dollar loans, have dental problems more like a mouth of shrapnel, a 0-2 percent free space decade old brain dead computer, no useable printer and just a jailhouse for life with everything wrong and absolutely nothing right with a world of religious hypocrites who are loveless and rootless just as God Almighty tells them all; therefore God will reject them all from His mercy; and even though people hate truth, yet I just tell it like it is because only God can help my wife at 38, under 5ft and 90lbs with a weak heart and our zeroed income where I can&rsquo;t even buy her Ensure to drink or medication for when her hearts beats 80 and above per minute. Now the churinga&rsquo;s will just slice me all to pieces for joy, and all do the same because I am not one of you just as my Lord tells me in John 15:19. So thanks so much for five years of hate with murder.</p>
<p>This book has 290 pages and 23 chapters of reality nobody wants, but mans bull shit within the prideful buildings of greed they all pay for while supporting the devil. I have written what God speaks to all so many times that believers will just not get it&#8212;until they awake when sinking in the swamps of death with no way out.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 12:55:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A brief article on reasons marijuana became illegal.  Reasons why prohibition should be stopped.]]></description>
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<li>When you take a common weed that is used for medical       purposes, and you make it illegal, because you want Mexicans out of the       United States, and then problem goes away&#8230; It&#8217;s about to become legal       again. Then you get some high and mighty drug czar in the DEA who is       losing his budget from the federal government, because drug use is down.       Marijuana was being used freely at that time. That czar bastard convinces       the feds that marijuana is the cause of a deteriorating society, solely       because it&#8217;s the drug of choice in that era. Rather than lose a few bucks       from the feds, they take one of the greatest medications on earth,       supplied by God, and make it public enemy #1. Big pharmaceutical       companies jump on the &#8220;reefer madness&#8221; campaign, again because       of money. Now we have a gift from God that has been removed from society,       simply over the selfishness of one DEA agent, and the greed of that       agent, as well as big pharmaceutical companies, we are stuck with       man-made drugs more dangerous than marijuana could ever be. Greed and       selfishness cost us the use of this miracle drug. If the government would       actually believe in a &#8220;greener way of life&#8221;, they would realize       that marijuana would play a huge part in this new era. Think of the money       that would be saved from including marijuana in the drug war. Think of       how much less pollution there would be if marijuana was the medication of       choice. So much less chemical use, chemical exhaust pollution from the       major industrial pharmaceutical companies. Millions of people would not       have as many problems with their kidneys, liver, and other internal       organs. There aren&#8217;t any legitimate reasons not to re-legalize marijuana.       Prohibition does not work. Wake up America. Wake up big government.       Marijuana isn&#8217;t the cause for the demise of civilization, it&#8217;s the cure       for our current demise. Get a clue. Make marijuana legal once again, like       God intended!!!</li>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 16:44:51 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; There comes a point in our lives when we begin to listen to what  people do, or don&#8217;t do, and not so much to the words they tell us.&nbsp;  Through their actions, or lack of action, we realize what we mean to  individuals.&nbsp; We learn where we fit in and where we belong in their  lives.&nbsp; We learn how important or unimportant we are to them.&nbsp; We learn  what matters the most to ourselves and to others.&nbsp; We begin to answer  the question &#8220;<i>Who am I?</i>&#8220;</p>
<p><strong>Words vs. Actions</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Words can say many things to us or they can provide illusions to what  is being shown.&nbsp; If I tell somebody one thing, but fail to show them,  they will eventually begin to believe what I am showing them over what I  am telling them.&nbsp; The words become the illusion that was masking the  reality.&nbsp; If we think about the statement, &#8220;<i>You can show somebody how you feel, without ever saying a word</i>,&#8221; we may realize that actions, or lack thereof, will eventually become the deciding factor in most of our relationships.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Understanding where we &#8220;<i>fit in,</i>&#8221;  or belong, in anothers&#8217; life, shows us how much value they hold about  us.&nbsp; We can be shown that we are, without a doubt, the most important  person to somebody.&nbsp; But we can also be shown that we do not really mean  as much as we had originally believed we meant to somebody.&nbsp; We might  even find out that we fall somewhere in the middle.&nbsp; Realizing where we  fall helps us to understand &#8220;<i>Who am I?</i>&#8220;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The most predominant example of how actions are greater than the spoken  word can be found in most relationships.&nbsp; One can watch, over time, how  an individual feels about another just by watching what they do.&nbsp;  Dedication and openness tells an individual that they are important to us and  that they are included in everything we do.&nbsp; Openly telling another about our  actions, without them having to ask, lets them know we will not hide  anything from them.&nbsp; Intentionally doing something, even though we know  it will hurt the other, shows that they are not as important as we wanted  them to believe.&nbsp; Hiding interactions with others becomes an act of  deception.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Actions with others</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Our actions are not limited to the specific interaction of the two  individuals who are in the relationship.&nbsp; What we do with others and how  we relate, or hide, this action can directly show somebody their  meaning in our own life.&nbsp; The way we talk to others and how we act  around others can have a direct impact on our own personal  relationships.&nbsp; Having a discussion with somebody that has the potential  of placing inappropriate mental images in their minds, while being in a  relationship with somebody else, has a very negative affect on the  relationship.&nbsp; Having a discussion with another, while involved in a  relationship, that might be taken as an invitation to emotionally or  physically pursue us will also have a negative affect.&nbsp; Realizing how  our communications and actions with others can have a direct impact on  our current relationship will tell us how important our current  relationship is to us.&nbsp; If our desire to place mental images in  anothers&#8217; mind, or our desire to provide for a possible relationship  with somebody else is important to us, then we will be telling our  current partner that our current relationship is not as important.&nbsp; Our actions will answer their question of &#8220;<i>Who am I?</i>&#8221; without us ever having to say a word.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The reverse is also true, however, and can be used to strengthen any  relationship.&nbsp; Openly and freely telling our partner about our  interactions and conversations with others will show them, through  action, that we want them to be an ongoing important part of our lives.&nbsp;  When given an opportunity to communicate with our partner we have the  option of strengthening our relationship.&nbsp; If we are given that  opportunity and decide to shrug it off as being unimportant by using  such an opportunity to talk to another individual, we are providing an  action of unimportance to our current partner.&nbsp; This is especially true  when the communication is conducted with an individual that our current  partner might see as threatening.&nbsp; This threatening feeling is only  increased when the conversation involves an inappropriate visual  stimulant or topic that our current partner could take with a negative  meaning.&nbsp; Strengthening our relationship by showing our partner our  desire to think about their feelings before we act, is an action that  can only have the most positive of affects over our relationship.</p>
<p><strong>Providing the Answer</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  There is nothing wrong with communicating with individuals that our  current partner does not see as a threat to our relationship.&nbsp; Being in a  relationship involves understanding that we, as individuals, need our  friends and family.&nbsp; Any relationship that is built through action will  not create have any problems with the ongoing communications in regard  to our friends.&nbsp; Love is not just a word, but an action that is shown  daily in our lives.&nbsp; The action of building such a love in a  relationship will only open more opportunities for us to become  emotionally free by communicating with those that do not impose a threat  to our current relationship.&nbsp; The act of communicating with others in a  manner that opens opportunities, that will threaten our current  relationship, will not provide us with the loving foundation we need for  a strong and lasting relationship.&nbsp; Providing others with inappropriate  mental images, or &#8220;leaving the door open&#8221; for the opportunity of  providing a future relationship, will eventually destroy and break down  anything that is built in the process.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The bottom line, for any meaningful relationship, is  to be open and to insure that we do not intentionally hide things from  our partners.&nbsp; Use all the means available to us and show the action,  without the need to provide the illusion.&nbsp; Action alone, or lack  thereof, can make or break any relationship.&nbsp; Our own actions with  others will show our partners our own desires regarding what our current  relationship means to us.&nbsp; Actions alone will answer their own personal  question of &#8220;<i>Who am I?</i>,&#8221; or better stated&#8230;&#8221;<i>Who am I <strong>to you</strong>?</i>&#8220;</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 10:09:07 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Intimate relationship is regarded as physically and emotionally rewarding shared by two people who knew each other well. Though we may like it or not, admit it or deny it, such relationship is woven in an exquisitely fine thread of honesty and dishonesty, sincerity and deceit &#8211; a delicate situation that balanced the two opposing nature that is very critical for any relationship&#8217;s survival.</p>
<p>Romantic relationship is never a smooth sail on a calm sea. Everyone has high hopes. Fidelity, intimacy, trust- for better or worse.</p>
<p>And relationship is not just as the way we want it to be, for there were times when inconsistencies are needed, lying and deceiving becomes handy.</p>
<p>Mostly, the tiny lies created are unintentional. The decision to deceive is just a backdrop done with little thinking and planning. Certain situations can bring the hidden liar from within. Everyone has the inclination to lie and deny when a romantic partner asks a lot of pointed question, intimacy issues, or have great expectations.</p>
<p>We lie about how deep was our past relationships, how much we love our ex, our feelings and attractions to others, and at certain degree, our level of commitment with our current partner.</p>
<p>We safeguard our sexual history, one night stands, safe and unsafe sex. Even sexual orientation, if ever, is a well guarded secret and should remain as such.</p>
<p>And who can admit that there were moments we fantasize of doing it with somebody else while making love to our partner.</p>
<p>We are never honest with the way we feel toward our partner&#8217;s family, friends, new haircut, cooking, career choices, and at worst- we pretend to love our partner&#8217;s sense of humor.</p>
<p>We deceive ourselves to liking whatever our partner likes.</p>
<p>And we lie about being jealous.</p>
<p>A reality about intimate relationship is it&#8217;s contradictory in many ways, so rewarding yet constrictive. Admittedly, a romantic relationship has a lot of truth telling as well as certain dishonesty. Oftentimes, deceiving a partner is an efficient way of maintaining the rewards we reap from romance and an effective way on putting balance from the problems and constraints every relationship impose.</p>
<p>Acknowledge it or not.</p>
<p>Try being honest with a romantic partner and tell him that you do not understand his points of view, you do not find any humor on her jokes, he is lousy in bed, her cooking is the worst you&#8217;d ever taste, etc. and see how upsetting the next situation will be.</p>
<p>And so be it. We lie with those we love.</p>
<p>Reality bites.</p>
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		<title>Deception as a Necessary Evil</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 09:12:46 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everybody lies.</p>
<p>Honesty is not always good. Deception is not always bad. But people are taught repeatedly very early on in life that lying is bad and such practice is heavily frowned upon by society. This view is thoroughly enforced in school, at home, and in the work place. Yet ironically, everybody still employ the practice of lying, while telling everybody else not to lie. Why? The answer is: Because unlike common perception, lying is not the problem; it is actually the solution when truth-telling is the problem, at least from the liar&rsquo;s perspective.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; For the purpose of this paper, deception is defined as an act that propagates beliefs that are not true, or not completely true. Imagine the following scenario between two friends who are also roommates: Billy and Joe. Billy asks Joe if he wants to come over to his house for the weekend to celebrate his birthday. Joe does not want to go because he does not want to be around Billy&rsquo;s family. In this case, Joe has five options:</p>
<p>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1. Tell the truth &ndash; that he does not want to go because he dislike Billy&rsquo;s family.</p>
<p>2&nbsp;&nbsp; 2. Suck it up and says he wants to spend the weekend with Billy and his family.</p>
<p>3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3. Says he does not want to, but make up a different reason.</p>
<p>4.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4. Says he wants to, but make up an excuse for why he cannot go.</p>
<p>5.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5. Ignore the question and does not give a response.</p>
<p>In this case, the first option is the only truthful option, but it is also arguably the worst option in terms of anticipated outcome. If Joe pick this option, he will hurt Billy&rsquo;s feelings and put a hamper on their friendship. He is much better off picking one of the remaining four options, all of which involve at least some form of deception. &nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; This scenario is very common in everyday interaction. Under evolutionary terms, it can be categorized as a case of <strong>mutualism</strong>, where both parties benefit from the deception. This is a very universal practice of lying because it conforms to the idea of common courtesy and other social norms. In an ideal world, everyone would have positive opinions about everybody else, then honesty would always be the best policy. It is easy to tell your friend the truth if the truth is: you like their family. Unfortunately, in our world, people harbor both positive and negative opinions about others. If the opinion is a negative one, such as not liking your friend&rsquo;s family, then truth-telling becomes a problem. To solve this problem, you can either a) change your opinion, or b) lie about your opinion. Both are plausible solutions, but one is more feasible than the other. Option A would have required a lot of effort on Joe&rsquo;s part that may or may not produce the desired outcome; while option B offer a quick and easy route to appease both parties.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Of course, there are certainly cases in which only the liar receive advantage from the lie. Let&rsquo;s imagine Billy and Joe in a different scenario. In this case, they are not yet close friends, but classmates who have only been recently acquainted with each other. They ran into one another at the library right after a pop quiz. To make conversation, Billy starts by asking Joe how he did on the quiz. However, Joe actually received a very low score because he have not gone through the reading for that week. In this case, it makes no difference to Billy what the answer is because he only asked it for the purpose of starting conversation, not to actually find out Joe&rsquo;s score. But to Joe, the truthful answer is a problem because it would be embarrassing to admit his failure. In order to save face, Joe lie and said that he did pretty good and move the conversation to a different topic.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; This is a case of <strong>commensalism</strong>, where one party benefits while the other is neither harmed nor helped by the deception. To Billy, the information Joe reveals about his quiz performance has little effect on him, if at all. To Joe, telling the truth would put him at risk of being judged as either stupid or lazy, both of which is damaging to his confidence and self-image. To rectify the problem, Joe choose to lie about his performance &ndash; which would protect him from negative judgment by Billy and allow their conversation to move forward. Once again, we see deception used as a solution when revealing the truth is problematic.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Deception not only serve as a solution to our interpersonal conflicts on an individual level, but it is also institutionalized to protect and promote society&rsquo;s common welfare, interests, and goals. Under the Freedom of Information Act (FOIA), the general public has access only to limited information from the U.S. government. Government agencies hold the right to secrecy if the information meets the criteria for exemption from public release. This can be classified as concealment of the truth. Since some information is very sensitive, revealing them would put national security at risk. As a result, the government must employ deceptive strategies in some cases to protect such information from falling into the wrong hands.</p>
<p>It can argued that government secrecy sometimes do more harm than good. However, that is no longer a question of whether lying is bad or not. Rather, it is a question of whether our government is abusing their right to secrecy or not. For the discussion of deception as a sensible alternative to truth, we must acknowledge that there are cases where truth concealment by government is absolutely necessary &ndash; such as projected troop movements in wartime. The institutionalization of deception demonstrates that it is an effective solution rather than a moral violation that society makes it out to be.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; A more obvious case of deception being institutionalized is the employment of government spies and undercover police. Unlike secrecy, these cases goes beyond truth concealment to being an outright lie. Undercover police explicitly lie about wanting to hire a prostitute or buy drugs to catch people involving in such crimes red-handed. Police go undercover because they need access to information of criminal activities that they otherwise could not obtain. So they deceive potential suspects in order to expose the truth. This is, comically, a great paradox to society&rsquo;s ethical view of lying: truth by deception.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Espionage is an even more extreme case of deception. The government would go above and beyond to equip secret agents with completely new identities in order to infiltrate targeted organizations. Government spies cheat, conceal, exaggerate, mislead, and lie in order to achieve their mission &ndash; which can range anywhere from information gathering to assassination. Truly, spying is the epitome of deception &ndash; and it is approved by the government. If such practice is so well incorporated and embraced by government, then it must be because deception serve as a useful mean to achieving national welfare. Therefore it should be acknowledged as an answer, rather than a problem.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; In institutionalized cases, deception is often times a necessity rather than an alternative. For example, experimenters in many psychological studies have to deceive the participants as a condition of the studies. When participants sign up for a study about the &ldquo;bystander effect&rdquo;, they are never told that they are being tested on their reaction to an alarming situation. Rather, experimenters have to mislead participants into thinking that they are there for an unrelated task such as filling out a survey. If the participant had known that they are being tested on their likelihood at actively responding to an emergency, then that knowledge would heavily skew the data and produce invalid results.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; But if deception is such a helpful technique at every level of social interaction, then why is there a universal taboo against it? The answer is: Because people often fails to distinguish the difference between the mis-use of deception and the deception itself. Deception is a social strategy, much like persuasion and heuristics, that can be used either negatively or positively. Persuasion can lead to group consensus and reduce intra-group conflict; but it can also lead to massive brainwashing of the general population, like demagogy. Heuristics can be used as cognitive shortcuts to help people process information more quickly; but could also lead to stereotyping and prejudice. Deception is the same way. It can serve as a useful tool for maintaining and enhancing interpersonal relationships; or a malicious tool for personal gains at the expense of others. However, the key difference here is the usage of the deception, not the concept of deception itself.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Let&rsquo;s go back to the case of Billy and Joe. Supposed that Billy knows that Joe hates his family and probably would not agree to the invitation. He also knows that Joe is very considerate and would never bring up the fact that he does not like Billy&rsquo;s family; he would make up a different reason instead. Once Joe rejected the invitation, Billy suggests that his family would come to their place instead so that they can all celebrate Billy&rsquo;s birthday. This is Billy&rsquo;s original plan; because he does not want to have to drive all the way home, he prefer to have his family come to his place instead. If he asks Joe this right away, Joe would have refused using another reason. But if Joe already rejected Billy once, he will be less likely to reject Billy again on the same matter. Here, Billy has deliberately mislead Joe into thinking that he will be going home for his birthday. When, in fact, Billy wanted his family to come to their apartment to celebrate it and he was devising a strategy to get Joe to agree to it.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; In this scenario, Billy has made deliberate use of deception to manipulate Joe&rsquo;s response, in a way that satisfies Billy&rsquo;s wish at the expense of Joe&rsquo;s discomfort. Is Billy&rsquo;s intention justified in this case? No. However, deception is defined as an action, not an intention. Billy&rsquo;s deceptive action is that he lead Joe to thinking his birthday will be celebrated at home, the immediate result of such action is simply: Joe thinks Billy is celebrating his birthday at his house and refuse to come with him. This is just like Joe leading Billy to think that he cannot go because of some reason other than he dislikes Billy&rsquo;s family, the immediate result is: Billy thinks Joe cannot make it and will not be mad at him for not coming. However, Billy done Joe wrong by abusing the knowledge of Joe&rsquo;s anticipated behavior, and using it to corner Joe into relenting to having Billy&rsquo;s family over.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; In this scenario, deception is still a useful technique: a solution to a truthful alternative when truth-telling is problematic for achieving the desired result. The unjustifiable aspect of this behavior is not the action, but the intention of results achieved by such action. If skeptics insist on classifying deception as unethical because of its misuse; then by that logic, honesty should also be classified as unethical. There is no doubt that truthful facts could also be used in a harmful manner.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Imagine Billy and Joe again in the earlier stage of their friendship, where Billy was making conversation with Joe by asking about his quiz performance. Suppose that Joe told Billy the truth: that he did very poorly on the pop quiz. Billy, in response, begin to talk about his perfect score on the quiz and criticizes the professor for giving out such an easy quiz in the first place. He kept on chatting about how he finished the quiz in thirty seconds even though they were given five minutes. Billy also voiced his opinions about how he thinks students who did poorly on it must be either lazy or stupid. All of the things Billy say are truthful statements: his performance on the quiz, his opinion of the quiz, and his opinion of those who did poorly on the quiz. But what is the consequences of such statements? Billy is hurting Joe&rsquo;s confidence and self-esteem; and Billy knows it because it was his intention to do so. This behavior is a common practice known as &ldquo;rubbing it in&rdquo;.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Common sense would rule that Billy&rsquo;s act of expressing his opinions and performance is not a moral violation. However, his deliberate mis-use of such information in order to boost his own ego and self-image at the expense of Joe&rsquo;s is unjustified. This is similar to the deceptive case discussed in our birthday celebration scenario: it is not the action, but the intention that is inexcusable. If honesty, used negatively, can harm others just like the negative use of deception, then why should deception be the only strategy that is stigmatized? The answer is: it should not be. Deception and honesty are two sides of a coin that complement each other, both negatively and positively. Therefore deception should be viewed as a useful social tool, rather than a moral violation. The reason why deception is still a universal taboo is because when being misused, it is much easier to confront the deceptive facts than the truthful ones.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; For this demonstration, let&rsquo;s use the controversy of an alternate Iraq war as a hypothetical example. Supposed the general population is unhappy with U.S. occupation in Iraq and that it has produced much more harm than benefits. The President, on the other hand, is very happy because he succeeded in invading Iraq, a country he always hated because of their popular Muslim religion. The reason Congress, a representation of the people, approved troop mobilization is because the president lied and said that Iraq is planning a nuclear attack on America. The only way to prevent this from happening is to invade Iraq and destroy their military bases. Thus, in the name of self-defense, Congress approved military deployment to Iraq. Now if the President&rsquo;s lie is exposed, then the general population can easily admit to the Iraqi war being a big mistake, and blame that catastrophe on the President and his deceit. This response will easily portray deception as a wrongful violation of public trust, thus supporting the association that deception is unethical and negative.</p>
<p>&nbsp;But what if the President did not lie? Instead of lying about Iraq launching a nuclear attack on America, the President used the truth. He informed the public that federal agencies have reasons to believe that Iraq may be producing weapons of mass destruction &ndash; and that is it. This information, though truthful, invoke insecurity and fear-mongering among the general public. The end result is still the same, Congress is persuaded into approving the war; and the war brought more negative consequences than positive ones. Now, it is much more difficult for U.S. citizens to acknowledge the mistake. To do so, they must admit that they were manipulated by fear and insecurity. Because it is so difficult to confront the wrongful decision about the war, less people will do it. The rest of the population will find ways to rationalize such decisions in order to reduce their cognitive dissonance, a psychological mechanism:</p>
<p>a.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Clause 1: I am an intelligent, thoughtful citizen.</p>
<p>b.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Clause 2: I supported U.S. troop deployment to invade Iraq.</p>
<p>c.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Clause 3: The war turns out to be a disaster and a big mistake.</p>
<p>These three clauses contradict with each other, which give rise to cognitive dissonance. The problem can only be resolved one of the following ways:</p>
<p>a.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Admittance: I am not an intelligent, thoughtful citizen.</p>
<p>b.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Behavioral change: I did not support the war.</p>
<p>c.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Attitude change: The war was not a mistake.</p>
<p>In the lying-President condition, citizens have another option of adding a fourth clause: I did it because he lied to me. In the truthful-President condition, citizens have to pick among the three options outlined above. Clearly, Clause 2 cannot be changed, because it already happened. Many are unwilling to submit to Clause 1, because that is harmful to their sense of self. The majority would opt with changing Clause 3, their attitude about the outcome. Thus, even though the outcomes of the two conditions are the same, the honesty-condition receive less disapproval because of people&rsquo;s reduced ability to confront the negative consequences.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Due to differences in cognitive dissonance reduction methods, honesty continues to be justified, even when misused, much more often than deception. Through selective confirmation bias, deception is presented as an unethical violation of social interactions. But in reality, deception truly serves as an alternative solution when the truth is problematic or uncomfortable. While it is true that deceptive strategies can be abused to bring forth wrongful consequences; it is also true that truthful information can be abused, as with many other strategies for social interaction. Therefore, the mis-use of deception cannot serve as a basis to denounce deception&rsquo;s usefulness. Rather, the concept of deception as a social solution needs to be acknowledged and clearly distinguished from the abuse of deception as an inexcusable behavior.</p>
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		<title>Ten Ways People Get Away with Deception..</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:20:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever wonder if others are being completely honest with you? Do you sometimes leave the room feeling as if someone is &#34;blowing you sunshine&#34;? Deceiving others is never a good thing, however, we are all apt to tell a &#34;little white lie&#34; on occasion and sometimes, even get away with it. If any of these phrases are familiar, then chances are, you have been exposed to deception.]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Oh! What a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive!&#8221;&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Sir Walter Scott,<i> </i>Marmion, Canto vi. Stanza 17.<br />Scottish author &amp; novelist (1771 &#8211; 1832)</p>
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<p>Everybody does it on occasion, of course, no one likes it when it happens to them but it is the way with us humans. Although honesty is always the best policy, once in a while it may be appropriate to spare someone�s feelings, or there might be an overwhelming urge to exaggerate an accomplishment, it&#8217;s just being human. Often, once the first bit of a lie comes out, things just get more and more complicated. Almost as if the lie takes on &nbsp;a life of its own.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you feel as if somebody is telling you lies, reading the following may make you even more suspicious. The only way to find out for sure, is to confront the liar and don&#8217;t be surprised if you hear&nbsp; one or two of these little gems.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Deny, deny, deny</strong>, unless there is proof positive the hardcore liars will use denial to get away with lies.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Often liars will <strong>feign ignorance</strong>, pretending that they simply &#8220;didn&#8217;t know&#8221; or &#8220;didn&#8217;t realize&#8221;. This seems to work best if used with first time offences only.</p>
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<p>3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Many will say that they did it for love, in an attempt to make the accuser feel guilty for distrusting the liar. Some use excessive praise and compliments or even tears whenever necessary. &nbsp;</p>
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<p>4.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Liars use <strong>technicalities</strong> whenever possible, they word things in a complex manner in order to confound others, especially at the time of confrontation.</p>
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<p>5.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The excuse of being <strong>half asleep or taking a medication</strong>at the time and didn&#8217;t know what was going on, is another excuse that may come up when confronting a liar.</p>
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<p>6.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Blaming friends</strong>, and using the &#8220;<strong>peer pressure&#8221;</strong> excuse in order to get away with lying. Frequent liars mostly have <i>new</i> friends because once someone realizes that their &#8220;friend&#8221; lies to them constantly, they don&#8217;t often stick around.</p>
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<p>7.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The liar was trying to <strong>protect someone elses feelings</strong>. This heartfelt excuse is almost over used. Perhaps the liar believes that people who say they want the truth, &nbsp;prefer the sugar coated version of it when for most, the opposite is true.</p>
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<p>8.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Expert liars are able to <strong>turn it around on the accuser,</strong> confusing them by attacking back instead of going for self defence. By becoming the accuser instead, the person suspected of fibbing might ask the other person whether <i>he or she</i> is being completely honest.</p>
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<p>9.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Answering a question with a question</strong>, is a sure fire sign that a lie is in progress. Another confusion tactic that can often turn things around on the truth seeker.</p>
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<p>10.&nbsp; <strong>Silent and smiling</strong> is not only irritating to others, but might just be taken as a positive indication of a lie, but technically there is no agreement or denial so&#8230;.</p>
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<p>It can be difficult to trust someone after discovering that you were lied to but try to remember anybody who says they <i>never </i>lie is probably not being honest.</p>
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