As you get older, you never stop to think that nature, in her evolutionary wisdom, has you at your most sexually potent when you are young and vital, but what happens as you get to sixty and beyond? A great deal depends upon the life you have led and the life-style you followed if your younger years, and if you made the wrong choices then, you end up paying for it in spades.

Take myself, for example. I was a dedicated smoker – 50 a day – for 35 years. I always had very physical jobs and considered myself generally pretty fit, but what I failed to realise was that my bad habits and my physically demanding work were taking their invisible and irreversible toll on my potency. In my mid 30s, I was still capable of several times a night at full bore, my prostate working overtime, and the sight of a sexy girl could get me going in no time, but that was to change.

Once I had got to my mid-40s, I noticed that my – as I saw it normal masculine reaction to any sexual stimulus – had begun to let me down. I just was not getting as excited as easily any more, and my potency started to fade as well, so that once a night was the best I could do, if that, and my formerly instantaneous ability to get a rigid erection was also starting to be problematic, especially once I had turned 50. I decided, after talking it over with my beloved wife, that I would consult my doctor, to see what could be done.

 For the next few years I took to giving my flagging libido a boost by taking medications designed to stimulate bllod-flow to the penis by increasing nitrate production in the body, and things went along fairly smoothly, though naturally the act of intercourse gradually tailed off in frequency until at best it happenned twice a week. Now 58, I decided to change my life forever by simply stopping smoking, which- with some difficulty I managed to do – thinking it might improve things sexually, but no.

Within three months of giving up, I was riddled with rheumatoid arthritis, full of pain, and sex had taken such a back seat that once a week was a real achievement. With a wife six years younger than myself, I began to fear that I was perhaps letting her down, sexually, but we talked openly and honestly about things, when she admitted that sex was, in fact, no longer such a big deal for her either, truth be told.

These days, to be perfectly honest, though I am only 62, my wife 56, the physical activity in our relationship is much more about simple intimacy than anything else, because we still enjoy touching one another as much as ever we did. Should actual intercourse take place, this is a bonus we both gratefully take full advantage of, but we do not get upset if it fails to happen, because being physically intimate with one another is what we both want to maintain for as long as we can.

I did worry that my masculinity was deserting me, as my potency began to fade, but that is not the case at all, and I simply have to accept that, had I wanted to be sexually active active for more years then I would had to have led a very different life.  Of course I have regrets about the disappearance of the rampaging sexual desires that fuelled me as a younger man, but I also have the memories of some incredible sexual encounters. I may not be as responsive as once I was anymore, but believe me when I say that there is life in the old dog yet. 

Back to the issue at hand, ‘Cyber Bullying’. That’s something we expect from kids, but not from mature, grownups. Especially when we all willingly joined this website, for pretty much the same exact reasons. Hurting our close friends with harsh behavior, wasn’t a motive that any one came on here for. So, lets get back to business, treating all others the exact same way that we desire for them to treat us. With kindness, respect, courteously, using tender loving care and most of all, thinking a long time, before we flip out those harsh words we can never take back, with our key-board. Let’s not hurt each other, O.K.? I’ve already hurt too many people in my life. It’s time for me to change. How about you?

SEX AND SUCCESS

“Sex plays a vital role in the achievement of success”, which is a fact that can be scientifically explained, but still amazes most scientists. This statement can also be proved by virtue of experience, time tells another tale. In history we see all or most genii/scientist/successful men (the field of success does not matter) had a high sex drive, which they had to satisfy. There’s an old saying “a man’s wife can maketh or breaketh him. The reason is not always understood. The “making” and “breaking” is the result of the wife’s understanding, or lack of understanding of the emotions; love, sex and romance.

According to “Napoleon Hill”, author of “Think and Grow Rich, the mind is stimulated by 10 principles/stimuli. The mind most freely responds to these stimuli:

1.      The desire for sex expression.

2.      Love and romance.

3.      A burning desire for fame, power and/or financial gain MONEY.

4.      Music

5.      Friendship between either those of the same sex or opposite sex

6.      A master mind alliance, based on the harmony of two or more people who ally themselves for spiritual/intellectual or temporal advancement.

7.      Mutual suffering, such as that experienced by people being prosecuted.

8.      Auto-suggestion

9.      Fear

10.  Alcohol and narcotics.

Eight of these stimuli are natural and constructive, while two are destructive, and one notices that the desire for sex comes right at the top of this list. The transformation of sexual-energy (as I prefer to refer to it), is natural instinct and influences will-power, security and strength. It also possesses phenomenal healing power. This sexual-energy cannot and should not be submerged; instead it should be given an outlet which enriches the body, mind and soul of mankind. If we look at nature, you can block and dam-up a river and control its water for a time, but eventually the water will force an outlet. I belief the in same principle as far as sexual emotions are concerned. If it’s not transformed into a creative effort I will seek a less worthy cause.

Let us, for a moment first look at the other two stimuli (negative stimuli).

Fear

Fear itself motivated men to do things he would otherwise be unable to do. Fear is one of the main stimulants of the adrenaline forming glands (Triode glands). I have seen men that would succeed in a venture because of his fear of losing something of great value, like a house, job, or even a car.

There are six basic fears which I will discuss as written by Napoleon Hill in his book “Think and Grow Rich. All humans suffer of a combination these fears at some time or another. Fortunately and lucky are those who do not suffer from the entire six.

1.      Fear of poverty

2.      Fear of criticism

3.      Fear of ill-health

4.      Fear of loss of a love (sex)

5.      Fear of old age

6.      Fear of death

All fears known can be grouped under these six basic fears, but for the purpose of this study I will only discuss the FEAR OF LOSS OF A LOVE (SEX).*** Because of the polygamous nature (habit) of man of stealing his fellow-man’s mate, and his habit of taking liberties with her whenever he could. Now the result of this inherited (habit) instinct leads to jealousy, mistrust and develops into a vicious circle of “do unto others, before they do it unto you. This fear is the most painful, and it plays the more havoc with the body and mind than all the other basic fears. This habit of stealing partners dates back to probably the stone-age. They only changed their techniques, from forceful to persuasion, promises and lies, which proves to be more effective than physical force. Women are more susceptible to this fear than men, and we have learned out of experience that women are not to be trusted in the hands of rivals. There are three distinguishing symptoms by which the existence this fear can be identified.

Jealousy: General suspicion of friends, strangers even without any reasonable evidence or grounds. It can sometimes lead to violence with the slightest cause

Fault finding: the fearful party develops a habit of finding faults with friends, relatives, and loved ones on the slightest provocation and sometimes without any cause.

Gambling: a general belief that love can be bought, leads to a desire to provide money/gifts for a loved-one. This desire is of a negative nature and leads to stealing, cheating, gambling and the taking of hazardous chances and risks just to get the affection of the other being.

Alcohol and narcotics

History is full of examples of men, great and famous, who attained to the status of a genius as a result of the use of artificial mind stimulant such as alcohol and narcotics. Edgar Allen Poe wrote the “RAVEN” while under the influence of alcohol. Being starving drunk he dreamed dreams that no mortal would dare to dream before. James Whitcomb Riley did his best writing while being drunk, when he saw “the ordered intermingling of the realm and the dream, the mill above the river, and the mist above the steam”. Robert Burns wrote his best when starving drunk, “For Auld Lang Syne, my dear, we’ll take a cup of kindness yet, for Auld Lang Syne.” But do take note, that many such men have destroyed themselves in the end. Experience from my own time and have as well shown great mechanics, doctors, engineers and lawyers who would regularly kiss the lady with cork lips. But then again, at a very high price of self destruction.

Nowhere in history ever could men construct, manufacture or fake nature successfully and satisfactory, without Mother Nature interfering and finally equalize or being destroyed. There’s absolutely no satisfactory substitute for nature’s own stimulants.

BIBLICAL VIEW

According to Christian/some non-Christian views, the bible is the oldest known written book. And we take note that all outstanding and notable men had a wife by their side. From Adam to Solomon to Paul, even Jesus had experienced the love, tenderness and perseverance of a lady in their lives, in the case of Jesus it was the love of his mother. All human lives start with the tenderness, and love of mothers. Even in the animal kingdom, we experience that even a dog surrogates cats, apes surrogates lion cups. When we look at the history of Rome, the myth of the twins (Rimus and Romulus), that found the city of Rome, were surrogated by a wolf. Although only a myth, we find the wonders of “Mother Nature”, where an animal mother cares for human kind.

When we read throughout the bible, we find successful and fallen heroes all had somewhere a lady involved in their success of failure.

Many wise-men from all times argued around the fluctuations of feelings and it’s trustworthiness versus the reasons and facts of reality. The other side of the coin is true, the world and the destiny of civilization is ruled and established by human emotion. Men’s actions are influenced by emotions.

In my own experience I can also recall of the times that I reached heights and low tides in my life, and most was involved a woman. I wrote when I was highly emotional, and when a love fail, or I failed a love/woman, which is the start of my downfall and low tide.

Abraham Lincoln was a notable and great leader, and I can make this statement, his greatness was a result of the stimulation of love experienced after his marriage with Anne Rutledge. Napoleon Bonaparte was unmistakably a remarkable leader, when inspired by his first wife Josephine, he was undefeatable. Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela, with Winnie Mandela in his mind he suffered prosecution and 27 years in prison on Robben Island, for the cause of freedom from apartheid for South Africans.

The other side of the coin, when a great man sets his wife of his youth aside, for younger blood, soon is his downfall, or defeat. Napoleon’s defeat and St Helena followed not long after he left Josephine. Great Church and Clergy man, Jimmy Swaggart. The once most loved and popular African leader, Robert Mugabe, is now hated and least wanted president in Africa. Bill Clinton, after his affair with Monica Lewinski.

Man’s greatest motivational force is his DESIRE to please a woman. Our grandfathers of yesterday did so, because of his desire to appear great in the eyes of woman. Since then a man’s greatness is measured by the materials he brought home. Times have changed, but not nature, we do not bring home skins of wild animals, but we indicate our desire for the favour of a woman by supplying fine clothes, nice cars, and great wealth. We have the same desire to please women than our grand fathers; even those lived before the dawn of civilization. We accumulate riches and fortunes, and attain to great heights of power and fame, all for the same basic reason: “to satisfy our desire to please woman”. Remove the woman out of his life, and to most men all these wealth, fortunes and riches would have no meaning, it would be useless.

 By Victor (The conqueror) 

What is that feeling? That need to have him, to feel him all over you. Why is it, that I don’t get it?

I used to. Not any more. I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years now and the magic has recently slipped away. I know that he still feels that way – he tells me, I can see it in his eyes, I can feel it in the way he touches me. I love him, so much, and I think he is attractive. Nothing has changed, our relationship has just been affected by the passage of time. We’re comfortable. I think it’s my downfall.

I miss the excitment, so much. I want to want him. I want to get wet, to not be able to resist him. 

Don’t let it happen to you girls! Keep things spontaenous and mysterious. Hold on to the feeling you get when you first meet him, and don’t let them go. Remember the rush, the nervousness and the newness of it all – it’s the worst feeling knowing that it is gone, and it will very difficult to get back – believe me, I’ve tried! 

Keep the desire.

Hamish Gaejam is 28 years old. He thinks that falling in love is all about the chemistry. He shares everything with her sweetie. He often leaves handwritten love notes for her. His friends say that he would walk a thousand miles just to see her. He tends to be relaxed and sleep well when falling in love. Every time he falls in love, it feels like the first time. This is exciting and exhilarating.  When he thinks of love, he thinks that it is a feeling of happy satisfaction and enjoyment.

Kissing is always a demonstration of affection, or desire … They are an essential part of an amorous encounter, and they differ in their intensity and intent, depth, sweetness, and areas in which we kiss.

The Kamasutra, the work devoted to erotic love most famous and ancient of mankind, is not concerned only transmit variant positions for sex, as is commonly believed, is much more profound and extensive. It’s sort of guide that there are alternatives to social issues related to the couple as carrying out secrets for a successful marriage, or applied to issues of sensuality, as knowing how to treat a “maiden” and lots of tips on how to hug, how to kiss, how to please a lover …

It was written in Sanskrit around the third century and it is estimated, in northern India, and became known in the West in the nineteenth century through the translation of Sir Richard Burton. As for kissing, in addition to its juicy chapter on how and where to bite, we recommend taking them for the whole body at all times, but without excess.

And here we go with some of the suggested:

Touch Kiss: The lover touches her lover’s lip with his tongue and puts his hands in those of his loved eyes closed. It’s a romantic kiss.

Live Kiss: The lips of the two are in direct contact with voluptuousness and suck like a fruit.

Indirect Kiss: When one of the two rubbing the other’s lips, gently, with his lower lip.

Snap Kiss: When one of the two subjects with their lips of her lover.

Pressure Kiss: the lips are pressed tightly with your mouth closed. It’s a quick kiss to start or to end the relationship.

Above Kiss: When one of the two teeth taken with the upper lip and the other returns the kiss, kissing the lower lip.

Throbbing kiss: When one of the two deposited on thousands of kissing lips very small traveling across the mouth and the corners.

Contact Kiss : When the tongue lightly touches the other’s mouth and barely makes contact with the lips.

To ignite the flame Kiss: The Kiss at the corners of the lips.

Nominal Kiss: When one is limited to sensually touch each other’s mouths, then kissing her with two fingers.

And now, we have to practice them, girls. And why not, to order them.

First Celery

Yes, celery is an aphrodisiac! Especially good for women. This is because it contains androsteron, which stimulates the sex fair sex. Celery tastes best when it is raw and sliced ​​into thin strips.

Second Raw oysters

It is the most classic aphrodisiac. Oysters contain zinc, which increases sperm and testosterone production. Even the very act of eating oysters is stimulating. Wash oysters and pour lemon. Try to feed each other – an excellent foreplay.

Third Bananas

Bananas work well for men. They are rich in vitamins and increase overall energy levels in the body. Slowly eat a banana for your guy. We guarantee that it will work on it immediately.

4th Almonds

Substances contained in almonds stimulate the production of male hormones. In addition, it is believed that the smell of almonds induces arousal in women. Eat a few almonds before the evening, to wake up in the energy. If you do not want to munch on them raw, you can be crushed and added to salads

5th Avocado

It was already used by the Aztecs. It contains many vitamins and raises great energy. Triggers sexual tension perfectly well in women as in men. Section of avocado in half, take a little bit on your fingers and let your woman, you eat with your hand.

6th Mango, peaches and strawberries

Is not it fun just now immersing the teeth in juicy fruit? Eat these fruits before the sex. Their shapes suggest sexuality and can be used to arouse a partner. Pouring the juice of these fruits can be a great erotic game and you will discover your body.

7th Eggs

Eggs contain high levels of vitamins and helps combat stress. These two factors make it very well affect our libido. Some people eat raw eggs before sex to enhance your sexuality and your energy level. Eat them before inebriating night. The best taste of caviar, accompanied by champagne.

8th Liver

Maybe the same appearance and taste are not very stimulating, but the liver contains glutamine. If you add it to your diet and your partner – your body will thank you. Fry the liver with onions and spices in olive oil.Then the taste will become more affordable.

9th Figs

Figs have a relatively high level of amino acids. It is very important for normal libido. Fresh figs are juicy and taste great, which further affects the human senses. Feed it to let the figs and their juices flowed freely over her body in the course, when you will be more and more wound.

10th Garlic

Yes, you’re right – the smell will make you will need an extra strong mints, but it is worth it! Garlic contains allicin, which increases the amount of blood flowing through the sexual organs. Garlic increases the potential for great sex, which is a great aphrodisiac. It is possible that you will not want to combine garlic with sex. Fortunately, allicin is also available in capsule form.

11th Chocolate

Chocolate improves mood, both great men and women. Induces an almost “feeling of falling in love.” This is because chocolate contains large amounts of phenylethylamine. Dark chocolate contains high amounts of antioxidants, which is good for our whole body. Each other, feed the chocolate or rozsmarujcie it after their bodies.

Good Luck!!!

Which brings me to my topic… Internet … the reflection of our psyche … I was looking for ideas on the World Wide Web and I ve typed:”what people are looking for on internet” … porn and sex is obviously more than 70%, not surprising since men think about sex over 19 times a day and women about 10 times a day. How to make money is a big one to. In fact a bunch of keywords that reflects our thought are searched every day……  and with more than 2 billion internet users scattered over all continents that s not a concidence…  so tell me what you are searching on google or yahoo and I will tell you who you are …

Now excuse me but I have to do some money and watch some porn…..

    I remember some 15 years back. I was riding in a car with my eldest brother, along the highway going out of my city. A reggae strain was streaming from the radio: it was Jimmy’s famous repertoire with the compelling refrain, “You can get it if you really want.”  At that point something was streaming inside me also, the infantile reverie of realizing big dreams and becoming famous. Yes, every young man dreams of fame until they realize that no one offers it to himself. Though such a dream can be an illusion, it has its place in opening our eyes and spurring us on. The reggae notes had always accompanied me.

    You can get it if you really want.

    You can get it if you really want.

    But you must try, try and try, try and try.

    You succeed at last!

    Yes, if you really try hard, you will succeed at last. The thing is within you. You may have to dig deep. You will know sweats and calloused palms. You’ll get blisters. You will feel like giving it all up when your strength ebbs and your limbs become numb. Yes, like all has been wasted time and energy. But, dear, you got to keep digging. Paolo Coelho says that it is often the last key that opens the door. If you wait for that key, you certainly will enter the treasure house.

     Remember that the most precious things in life are not hidden on the surface. They are kept deep down for those who have the nerve to dig long and deep. If you want to shape a character, or build a career, or play an instrument, it is important to know that great things never come easy. I have come to understand patience as invaluable to human growth. Sometimes the most beautiful thing is not attaining a goal, but the road it takes to reach that goal: the longer the journey, the greater the character that shapes within us.

To release the sexual sense, it would require good sexual action, romantic, and passionate.

However, for those with disabilities, disorders of muscle, and can not masturbate properly, then find a place to perform sexually.

To remove sexual desire, then in Japan there are services for people with disabilities, to meet the sexual needs.

Because people with disabilities, often overlooked amid the society, then the service is used as a solution, so that sexual desire can be met disabled people as normal.

Many people using this service, being able to meet the biological needs of various ages, and walks of life.

This movement is a movement of charity in 2008, but the effort is successful, and able to grow in Japan, and able to meet the desires of people with disabilities.