Life is designed to be lived so that we can experience all the wonders around us, and to learn how we can connect to the other elements of our surroundings. When we come to the understanding that our true identity is that of an eternal spiritual being that’s here to temporarily understand  the human experience that we share with other eternal spirits doing the same, then we can not only release the fear of all the worst things that can happen since this experience is like a grain of sand in the ocean of our existence, but we can also release any petty angers that we have toward others for whatever misjudgments they might make in their own personal temporary journey.   

People you know through this life must find different ways to sustain themselves and grow through whatever  career path they select, no matter if it’s a soldier, politician, policeman, engineer, construction worker, or installer of home security systems, they simply want to make the best life they can for themselves and those that are closest to them. Even if we don’t agree or like what it is they do for a living, we have to understand this: what they do for a living is NOT who they are, it’s just what they do, and who they actually are is closer to who you are than what you might think. Deep down we all just want to be happy, and even when we don’t agree with the methods that some people go through to find happiness, the end result is still the same since we share that exact same goals.

The next time you find yourself getting angry at someone, just remember that they might not be as far along on their spiritual journey as you are, and they need to sometimes learn through a few hard knocks that will most often come their way when they are displaying any type of selfishness, and since we know that no single person can exist in a vacuum, then those karmic hard knocks are inevitable.

The next time you find yourself feeling afraid of something, remember this: what’s the absolute worst thing that could come out of what you fear? Most people fear death the most since there’s that unknown factor that doesn’t become apparent until after we’ve passed from this existence, but understand that even science acknowledges the fact that energy never ceases to exist, it only changes form, and since we are all made up of pure energy then we can never die, we only move into our next state of realization.

Do they say that you demonstrate your cooperativeness on many occasions?
Do they say that sometimes you do not help others or do what they ask?
Do they say that you are always ready to fight?
Do they say that sometimes you do not show regard for others in manners, speech, behavior?
Do they say that you sometimes do not support a particular person or a belief?
Do they say that you are always  respectful and considerate of other people?
Do they say that you are always able to make decisions quickly and effectively?
Do they say that sometimes you show a feeling of hostility?
Do they say that you often have firmness of purpose?
Do they say that you sometimes show a very deep unfriendly feeling?
Do they say that you show intense enjoyment and interest?
Do they say that you sometimes do not show much emotion or interest ?
Do they say that you sometimes are indecisive, unsure?
Do  they say that you always do what is necessary?
Do they say that you always do what is convenient?
Do they say that you sometimes are indifferent?
Do they sometimes say that you are open, communicative, talkative, effusive?
Do they say that  sometimes you are extremely reserved?

Do they say that you always accept authority?
Do they say that you always show firm and constant support or allegiance to people?
Do they say that you are always very loving and  loyal?
Do they say that you sometimes show a desire to rebel?
Do they say that you always show affection?
Do they say that you sometimes are unfriendly or unenthusiastic?
Do they say that you sometimes are not friendly toward other people?
Do they say that you sometimes are ambitions towards achieving something?
Do they say that you are motivated or unmotivated?
Do they say that you are self-satisfied?
Do they say that you are free from prejudice?
Do they say that you are not influenced by others?
Do they say that you are very careful about showing your feelings?
Do they say that you are inclined to conceal feelings and intentions?
Do they say that you always pay serious attention and consideration to your actions and plans?
Do they say that you have an uncaring attitude toward your schoolwork or job?
Do they say that sometimes you show no sympathy for others?
Do they say that sometimes you are easily annoyed or angered?
Do they say that you show concern for the needs and  feelings of other people?
Do they say that sometimes you do not think about the rights and feelings of other people?

   Emotions, feelings, and attitudes. Everyone has them and they vary through out the day which make up we wear. Sometimes we have control and sometimes we don’t. I’m pretty sure we all wish we had the “Laugh Out Loud Button.” Where you could press it, and laugh out of control for about 15 minutes… How awesome would that be? Wow! I’m disappointed God didn’t consider that one. See I just changed my mood with a thought, and it wasn’t intentional.

   If you could get really good at knowing people’s moods, and know how to read what mood different people are in. Depending on what you would do with the skill you would be a likable person. Why? Think about it. No, we don’t have the “Laugh Out Loud button,” but what about that person that always know exactly what to say? What about that person that can make you laugh at will? Think about that, how do you feel about them? How do you feel about the people you don’t like? Why?

   When you talk, your tone, body language, and what you say could support a mood or change a mood. Most of the time multiple people at once are effected, and you don’t even have to be talking to the person. We have the power to control people in a way of manipulating there feelings. That’s why people in power are to never show emotion, because you know my moods and how to change my mood gives you some control over me. When you say something to anger me, I’m to hide my feelings in a high position so you don’t learn how to control or rub me. This is why kids have temper tantrums. 

   Now we are getting to the point, examine what you have said around people or to people for the last week or so. If you are talking to someone, what you say will support there mood or change it. We are always in a mood, there are lots of them, and different levels. Some people cannot socialize, cause they don’t know how to talk to people. Kids learn the basics from parents, and practice at school or where they communicate with friends or family. Some examples different feeling and moods are at the end of this article.

   First you have to decide are you going to be a person that cares about how others feel? Then your going to have to decide rather you care about how people feel about you? And to what degree you care about either? This is a guide to help you filter what you say, how you say it, and most important. THE MOTIVE….

Motive: An emotion, desire, physiological need, or similar impulse that acts as an incitement to action

   Your purpose should be good, cause sometimes we say the wrong things, for a good cause. Perfect example, when talking to dogs, cats, or kids… Even elders, you know who you had an outburst with, but you only say that stuff cause you care. If it was anyone else you wouldn’t say two words cause you don’t care. If it was an co-worker you got into it with, don’t say you didn’t care. Cause if you said something back in return you got full of your emotion, and you had to swing back in little or no control.

   Remember the words you say out your mouth are intended for the listeners who heard it. If you don’t care how they feel, then you said it for you. You said it for a selfish purpose. Why? Cause you told yourself in your head, and everyone else doesn’t need to know. Or if it’s intended for one person, deliver it for one person. Now someones child heard what you said, and the mood of the parent has changed. That was an example. This is even with strangers. Do you want the next person to have a good day? If you don’t your life need to take a turn for the best. I’m not saying go around praising people, but be aware of feelings. Do you want the next person to have bad day? Maybe die, huh? Come on…. It’s just becoming a better you. A peoples person….

  People that talk a lot are usually the one no one likes, and now it’s obvious why. Cause they are at a bigger risk of changing peoples moods often, hopefully for the good. Very good singers, and comedians change moods for the best. Even though it’s common comedians can offend people, but they come with an open mind so it’s not as bad. So be aware of how you effect people with your speech. Choose your words carefully, and become better at reading peoples emotions, and feelings even though some are obvious. And listen a little harder to what people say and watch how you feel about the things people say. Remember, what are to care what people say to a degree, and we are not to care what people say to a degree. Balance is not always easy but very necessary. Have A Great Day!!!

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“Emotions and feelings of trauma that do not handle well long may accumulate in the body and potentially cause illness” as said Irma Rahayu, Soul Healer of Emotional Healing Indonesia (Ehi) in the event at the hotel Sofyan Betawi. These are diseases that can arise due to bury emotions
1. Allergy, because the denial of the strengths and abilities
2. Arthritis, because feelings are not in love, feeling rejected and sacrificed
3. Fever, due to feelings of anger are not able to be expressed
4. Kidney, because of disappointment and feelings of failure and shame are pressed
5. gastric acid, for fear, anxiety feelings of dissatisfaction to yourself
6. Lung disease, despair, fatigue and emotional wounds
7. back pain due to fear of money, feel burdened
8. Waist pain, because the taste is not in love and in need of loving care
9. Heart, loneliness, feeling of worthlessness and anger fear of failure
10. cancer, because of the long-harbored hatred

   “People whose emotions calm, no matter what the see it clearly, if someone has an issue he plainly worship but your mind is not calm then all would be in vain” said Irma

According to Irma 5,000 people who’ve handled clients who have problems with emotions the best way to respond to emotion, especially emotion of anger is to remove it with a fine and decent or good talk with someone who has made us upset.

Emotions are excessive with the persons who are away from the parents or family or friends, who live alone, who brought up luxuriously and if they have to face difficulties, who face defeats, losses often and are not given justices, teenagers etc.,

Emotions hurt the mind. The mind will not be under one’s control.  To avoid these emotions,

1. we have to live as per our capacity and facilities we have.  We should limit our desires.  We have to put a brake to the endless ambitions.

2. Negative thinking weakens the mind. So think always positively.

3. Build up self confidence.  Do not have inferiority feeling.

4. Develop one or the other hobby like reading, writing, gardening, little social service or moving with the friends.

5. Should not live alone. Be with the relatives, going for the functions, meeting people, make good friendship, good movies will also help in this matter, listen to music is one of the best thing to be away from the lonelyness.

Emotions interfere with our work. They prevent us from taking rational decisions, and should never be permitted to encroach upon our professional lives, love, sadness, anger and fear are the predominant basic emotions.  The rest are derived from these.

The most thing is how we emotioally healthy means we must know what we are. One must examine the thoughts and feelings.

Leave all these bad emotions and think positive and live happily life. 

One of the greatest challenges most people face today is coming to terms with the fact that some times we all need a hand in life, especially when it comes to setting you on the right path to improving your personal life. There are many qualified people who can help you with this as long as you are willing to accept that these people can change the things you want changed in your life. 

Another challenge for most is discovering and coming to terms with the fact that, although there are things in your life that you can change, there are some things you just can’t change. The first step, however, to beginning your journey on the road to improving your personal life is finally accepting that you are who you are, regardless of what others may think of you. By accepting this you will find it easier to come to terms with many changes that will take place in your life as you begin to transform yourself for the better. You will discover you are off to a flying start of improving you personal life. 

One amazing ability you will discover as you begin to change your life for the better is that you will find laughter again, the same amazing quality of laughter you once had as a child, even when there is really nothing to be laughing at. Lets say you’re standing in the checkout on a hot summer’s day, the kids are screaming, you’re tired from shopping all day and all you want to do is get home and put your feet up. Suddenly, out of no where, some mindless fool in a hurry and not conscious of the fact that everyone else in the shop is in a hurry too, pushes you. How would you feel at that very moment? Angry? Frustrated at the mindless person? No, not when you have found the abilty to laugh again. You would simply stand back and laugh at the situation because you know, after working so hard on improving yourself, that this push from this stranger is not a threat against you personally, but merely a threat to your emotion. And by simply standing back and laughing at the situation you will suddenly find a way to gain control of the situation and accept it for what it is. Nothing at all really. Just one more moment in the precious and rare existence we call life.

When you can accept that things like the person pushing you in a hot checkout lane are things that happen in life; when you can accept there are others in this world just as impatient and hot; when you can accept yourself then, and only then, can you discover a way to take control. You can see with all entirely how you can improve your personal life when you are in control. You will learn quickly how to discover your true self when you learn to accept.

I want to ask you a question now. Do you believe that when you, or someone you know, acts in a certain way that is the same way you act all the time, is your true identity? If you answered “no” to that question then give yourself a pat on the back – you are 100% correct. If you answered “yes” that’s okay but right here right now you need to understand that the belief that when someone acts the same way at all times means that that is their true identity is basically politically incorrect! The subject “Individuality is Personal” is merely a conclusion that has been exaggerated by many philosophers. Our personality reflects everyday on many changes, and the truth is each new day brings many new and exciting things with it, which are new changes for us. The world is plagued with influences, both good and bad, and because we all have actions, behaviors, thoughts and even emotions, our personality will never remain the same at all times because it reflects on these changes. 

Take a look around yourself and you will see just how many influences are surrounding you. Take a really long hard look and you will discover there are millions of them, if not billions! There is the television, the media, house-holds, the government, the schools, just to name a few, and it is these influences that has created the world in which you live in that has desensitised you. Something you have to accept is that somewhere at some time someone is judging someone else. It is a sad occurance but you cannot change these peoples behaviours and way of thinking, only they can do that for themselves. But you can change your own behaviour and way of thinking. This is part of the journey to improving your personal life and a big part of learning and accepting. And once you have learned how to change yourself for the better then sharing what you have learned with ours is a sure-fire way to help them begin the road to self-improvment in their personal life. But you can only do this if you are truly happy with your own life first, because your journey will rely totally on sources that prove truthful with their actions, and there’s no point preaching something to another person if you yourself don’t truly believe it. Positive reflections are the key to happiness in your life and by reflecting this postiveness onto others is the key to their way of changing and accepting. 

So again I repeat from ealier in this article, once you learn to accept that you cannot purposely change the behaviour of others, then you will feel the eagerness to laugh at someone who has just pushed you in the checkout lane. You will see the humour in the actions of someone who has made you angry. And if you make a mistake, you will see the humour in that mistake as well and see that life is full of mistakes because that is the only way you can truly ever learn.

You will certainly begin to feel so much better inside once you begin to see humour in life. It is a sad truth that there are so many greedy people involved with us in this unruly world – greedy, envious, lustful souls they are almost like tigers hunting others as prey. But if you can learn how to get along with these people, learn how to work with them, accept them for who they are, you will find moving on is a lot eaiser and smoother. Once you’ve master how to change yourself for the better, you will be suprised by how many people will want to follow suit. 

There will be a new feeling growing inside you as you grow as well, and this new feeling will be hunger because as you advance down your path to improvement you will hunger to continue discovering new ways to better yourself and find amzingly new things about yourself. You will simply become more inspired when you begin to feel this hunger burning inside you, and all you will need to do is embrace it in order to achieve your goals.

I was just a clicking on Triond there you were your work

I commence to read captivated indeed…I read more

Couldn’t wait to hear what the rest of your lines have in store

By the time I finished your write my Emotional Fuel octane high

I gingerly pondered do I send a message? Comment for a response

Or just float on, so I just floated on, on my way until the very next day

I finally sent a comment keeping my humor intact

Trying to hide my silly humor the vice, yet, I’m trice as nice

My writes are very careful, yet carefree, they establish emotionally

A little bit of everything; to far, to short, sometimes incomplete

Some readers prefer high octane 92

Other readers prefer Mid-grade 89

Most readers Unleaded 87 will do…

However, I’m strictly. No. 2 Lead with eraser; yellow with an acute point

Primitive but still I get the job, the raise, the position, and the attentive fun

Zappy’s Clip Art Pencil Point 2011