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		<title>The Most Powerful Response May be Silence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jun 2012 01:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The impact of no response.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People will regale you with; &#8220;I should have said&#8230;&#8221;&nbsp; or recount their clever responses.&nbsp; Many people have their &#8216;denouement&#8217;, that is when then make all the statements, confessions, and revelations they may have waited a lifetime to expell.</p>
<p>Then, there are those who know the value of silence.</p>
<p>One of the most traumatic responses I have ever witnessed was when a Mother who had been pointedly ignored by her children, &#8216;disappeared&#8217;.&nbsp; The kids didn&#8217;t notice for awhile then when her phone was no longer in service and there was no response to emails, they called someone who knew someone who knew their mother.</p>
<p>Their mother had sold the house and moved.&nbsp; They weren&#8217;t exactly sure where she went.</p>
<p>The kids now became frantic and finally went to where their mother had lived to find out she had sold the house they coveted to a stranger.&nbsp;</p>
<p>As they had been so divorced from their mother they had difficulty in finding anyone who knew anything, and finally after weeks found someone who told them, with a shrug that she&#8217;d migrated to &#8230;.</p>
<p>After so many years of not returning phone calls, or telling her how &#8216;inconvenient&#8217; it would be for her to visit and other such clever ways to avoid her, they now didn&#8217;t have to; she was gone.&nbsp; Gone without a word.</p>
<p>In another case a man simply didn&#8217;t show up for work one day.&nbsp; His boss, one of those from Hell, ranted and raved and threatened in absentia.&nbsp;</p>
<p>After the next day when there were telephone calls to a dead number, the Boss sent someone to the address. The man had moved.&nbsp; No one was available to say where.</p>
<p>One of the co-workers ran into him a few months later, and he said; &#8220;I was going to tell the Boss exactly how I felt, in detail.&nbsp; Then thought, why bother?&#8221;</p>
<p>If you have a lot to say to say someone, write it down, but don&#8217;t send it.&nbsp; Silence can be more powerful</p>
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		<title>Thank You to ALL Military Heroes</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 16:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To all Military heroes and their families:

Thank you for:

Serving our country.]]></description>
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<p>Sacrificing time away from your family to protect them and my family</p>
<p>Defending your home turf, whether you agree with all the politics behind the decisions made or not</p>
<p>Putting your life in harm&rsquo;s way so that millions of people you do not  know and will never meet can sleep at night knowing they can wake up in  a freedom filled country worshipping who they please, working where  they wish and having the power to do and say what they would like every  day</p>
<p>Serving in spite of those who bath mouth our military for fighting in a war they do not agree with.</p>
<p>Proudly wearing the red, white and blue regardless of the consequences.</p>
<p>Paying the ultimate sacrifices so those who agree and disagree with  your service have the freedom to enjoy doing what they do can continue  to do so</p>
<p>All you do that most Americans will NEVER hear about</p>
<p>I salute each and every one of you and if I could meet you  personally, I would salute you with the highest amount of honor and  respect you deserve!</p>
<p>God Bless you and your family for the sacrifices you make every day!!</p>
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		<title>Ugh, Things I Hate : Pet Peeves</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 05:06:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, I don't hate these things but dang, they are annoying...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate the teen age years.&nbsp;I love my children, but can&#8217;t they somehow pass over the whole, &#8216;I know it all and Mom sucks&#8217; phase?</p>
<p>I hate being so skinny. I am fairly tall and weigh only 104 pounds. People always get tips on how to lose weight and look good, but what about me? There in no way to make a stick look nice.</p>
<p>I hate how people assume that I am ill because I am skinny, people have actually asked me if I make myself puke or if I starve myself! OOH, this is so irritating!&nbsp;I don&#8217;t ask obese people is they ate too much or sat around too much!</p>
<p>I hate how eveyone I know thinks that I am a geek. So what, I like to read, are they jealous or what?</p>
<p>I hate house breaking puppies. Actually, I hate when some one else steps in the doo doo because&nbsp;I am the only one who apparently can smell. And, I am the only that will clean it up and put the pup outdoors. I also hate how everyone acts like it is my job to clean up the accidents, even if they see the doo doo, they won&#8217;t clean it, they will yell &#8220;Mom, there&#8217;s doggie doo&#8230;.&#8221;</p>
<p>I hate how male cats like to pee on plastic. What the heck is the deal with that? Can&#8217;t they pee on a tree like dogs?</p>
<p>I hate how my cat leaves dead creatures with their guts hanging out, under my dining room table!</p>
<p>Ok, enough ranting this morning&#8230; if you can&#8217;t tell, this has not been one of my best mornings&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>What Should be The Age of Children to Start Study</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 20:07:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Children should activate their academic apprenticeship at a actual aboriginal age and should absorb a lot of of their time on academy studies. Others accept that adolescent accouchement should absorb a lot of of their time playing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People apprentice through their absolute lives. Curiosity was  consistently the basal appropriate of a animal being. We consistently  wish to breach banned and apprentice more. At this point some humans  anticipate that accouchement should activate their academic  apprenticeship at a actual aboriginal age and absorb a lot of of their  time on academy studies. This will advice them to accomplish in the  future. However, for several reasons, I  anticipate that accouchement should not abstraction at a actual  aboriginal age.</p>
<p>Of cause, accouchement who activate to abstraction at a actual  aboriginal age accept added affairs to accomplish in the future. They  accretion added adeptness and acquaintance which are priceless and  valuable. In addition, belief added now they will accord them the  befalling to absolute their adeptness in the approaching and become  bigger professionals.</p>
<p>However, I anticipate that every adolescent accept to accept his or her  childhood. Accouchement should apprentice through arena and advice with  their accompany and parents. I anticipate that such basal qualities as  kindness, aplomb and just a acceptable faculty of amusement can not be  acquired from studying. Accouchement should added time absorb with their  family, arena and acquirements with their parents. Imagine that a  adolescent instead of arena with his accompany does his appointment and  feel beat and tired. Another important aspect of this is that  accouchement at their aboriginal ages charge added exercise because at  this age the development of their physique is a actual capital aspect.  Accouchement aboriginal of all accept to be healthy.</p>
<p>To sum up, I anticipate that accouchement should accept their  absent-minded adolescence with no responsibilities. Moreover, I am  abiding that arena helps them advance not alone their basic and anatomy  but their adeptness to accomplish decisions, assay things, accomplish  conclusions, which is actual acceptable  for their future.</p>
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		<title>&gt;To Our Soldiers Who Died for Our Freedom&lt;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 19:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>In dedication to all the soldiers who died for our freedom. &nbsp;They are incredible.</p>
<p>And for those who resist their lives} &nbsp;Law enforcement, firefighters and etc..</p>
<p>for our safety and etc&#8230;</p>
<p>They are awesome as well. &nbsp;They deserve our recognition. &nbsp;</p>
<p>Please be sacred on this day. &nbsp;If possible hang your Countries flag out on</p>
<p>your front and back yard to demo your love for your Country, please.</p>
<p>Suggestion: &nbsp;show your family a lot of love and pride knowing you can</p>
<p>do this. &nbsp;Our troops made this day possible. &nbsp;</p>
<p>Please add a photo of a soldier.. on the comment section at the bottom</p>
<p>so we can honor them.. &nbsp;</p>
<p>If you have a Memorial Wall in your community.. suggestion: &nbsp;pay tribute</p>
<p>to it..&nbsp;</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 07:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>I see people, mostly women my age, worrying to the point of panicking when marital status is discussed. Marriage, it seems to them, is a sort of security and without a ring on their finger to signify they are &ldquo;taken&rdquo;, they are doomed! &nbsp;Not for me. &nbsp;I am at this stage where I am certain I love exactly where I am &#8212;this blissful stage of singleness. Do not get me wrong. Like every normal woman at her 20&#8217;s, I also take down mental notes on how I want my wedding to be; from the motif, entourage, reception, and of course the ultimate wedding gown! I also have a list of the possible names I would give my future mini-me&#8217;s. But that is just one of the many gifts of being single.</p>
<p>Preparation. This is what I sometimes refer to as my planting season. I believe this is where God is molding, fixing and honing me into the perfect partner and parent He intends me to be. This is when He teaches me to budget my resources, sort out my priorities, manage my tasks, balance my time and develop a sense of responsibility. A daily real-life learning process where I realize my values and obligations as an individual, and discover my skills and gifts that can bless others. He provides me with opportunities to choose my preferred way of living, ministry to serve, places to see and explore and meet people who can be potential future partners.</p>
<p>Since being single means having more than enough time for my Me-time, it brings me closer to the Original Author of Romance. Instead of going out on a date, I stay at home read the Bible or other inspirational reading materials, write on my journal, attend the Feast, meet my Caring Group siblings, or simply spend some quiet time with Him. Our relationship has grown deeper from Creator-creation, Master-steward to Father-Daughter and Best of friends. He allows me to have more time reflecting on and about life. Moreover, I am able to spend more quantity and quality time with my family and friends. Simply put, being single has blessed me in a way by being grateful and being a blessing myself to the people surrounding me. &nbsp;People who cares and accepts me. This is the perfect time for me to shower them with the gift of time and good memories.</p>
<p>Not having a partner&#8212;yet, is my Heavenly Father&#8217;s way of protecting me from heartbreak after heartbreak. He protects me from what He knows are not good for my being: chauvinists, liars, &#8220;jerks&#8221; and possible abusers. He really knows what&#8217;s best and prepares the perfect time to give it to me.</p>
<p>Being alone is not always akin to being lonely. More often than not, it is the exact opposite of it. It is an experience of exceptional freedom. A time to enjoy life at its fullest; without guilt or hesitations. The perfect opportunity for growth and choosing wisely for our future and those of our loved ones. Ali Smith wrote in her book that singleness brings protection, provision, proximity and preparation. I could not agree more.</p>
<p>Indeed, life is exuberantly joyful and fun when you are single, especially when you have a great God who guides your every step and never gets tired of being your Loyal Partner, come what may.</p></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 13:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the beginning of my ghost story. Jacob Downing is a paranormal investigator who has failed to find any evidence of the supernatural. Upon investigating a family's home he discovers the true of ghosts, and that there are a handful of people who have the power to stop them. Note: the story will be uploaded as written. Please comment and leave suggestions/tips.]]></description>
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<p>Jacob Downing sat at his desk by the glow of his computer reviewing the footage of his last paranormal investigation. He hoped that after the umpteenth time of watching it, he just might see a faint apparition, a cup move of its own accord, hear a bang from nowhere or something that could possibly be evidence of the paranormal!</p>
<p>Jacob&#8217;s thoughts were clear: Let&#8217;s face it; there has never been any evidence!</p>
<p>He held his head in his hands and rubbed his face from tiredness and exacerbation; running his hands over late night stubble reminding him he had been at this pointless task all night. Jacob had sent his two assistants home &#8211; glancing at his watch &#8211; five or six hours ago; he couldn&#8217;t remember. The task of reviewing the videotaped footage was beginning to become tedious, and all cases started to merge into one big waste of time. He was just too hopeful to find something ghostly to acknowledge it.</p>
<p>Hitting stop on the media player, Jacob watched the time slider move back to the start of the footage. He pressed play.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Here we go again!&#8217; he mumbled to himself.</p>
<p>Running his fingers through his short brown hair, leaning his head into his palm, he stared beyond the computer monitor knowing there was nothing to find. He lit another cigarette, inhaling a longer than usual, allowing a sigh to follow his exhale. Coffee would taste good about now, too.</p>
<p>Jacob watched the smoke from his cigarette drift slowly upwards, and flicked the ash into the ashtray. He didn&#8217;t really want it now. It tasted of defeat.</p>
<p>He stubbed it out half-way down.</p>
<p>He looked at his watch. The hands read 11.32p.m.</p>
<p>There were still two of the five digital recorders to go through &#8211; a couple of nights worth of white noise to listen to.</p>
<p>He could not wait for that!</p>
<p>The thermograph had captured nothing. Only the everyday lives of the family that reported the &#8220;haunting&#8221;. There was a bit of excitement when Day Two was played back, but it turned out to be the twelve year old son getting a glass of water in the middle of the night.</p>
<p>Yawn.</p>
<p>Sleep was catching up as much as Jacob fought it.</p>
<p>A few more minutes passed on the video, and Jacob decided it was enough for tonight. He closed the media player and shut down the computer. He unplugged the Digital Video Recorder from the USB port, switching that off too.</p>
<p>Turning the lights back on in his office, Jacob grabbed his coat, pack of Lambert &amp; Butler cigarettes, and his car keys. He opened the office door, flicking the light switch off. As the door closed he remembered his lighter. On with the lights again, he saw it lying on the desk near the keyboard. Jacob shoved the lighter and his cigarettes in his left trouser pocket, flung his black coat on, and turned the lights back off.</p>
<p>Wearily, he exited his office. He fumbled with the key in the lock, making him threaten it if it did not go in. It just fuelled his irritability.</p>
<p>Finally the door was locked.</p>
<p>He walked across the main room where his assistants worked in darkness, almost bumping into the television. The main table where they discussed their work was still slightly visible given its size. He opened the main door and headed for the university foyer down three flights of stairs.</p>
<p>Outside the building it was fairly quiet. No surprise really for the time of night. It was just like the tapes &#8211; video <u>and</u> audio &#8211; nothing.</p>
<p>Jacob approached his car &#8211; a black Ford Fiesta &#8211; pressed the button on his remote. The locks click open, and he climbed in. Before he even got his car keys ready to start the car, Jacob took out his cigarettes, lit one, actually enjoying it this time.</p>
<p>Ah, sweet nicotine!</p>
<p>He clamped the cigarette between his lips and turned the key in the ignition. The car came to life. Home was only a few short miles, a small flat in a block called Riverside, aptly named being next to a river &#8211; if you could call it that.</p>
<p>Entering his flat &#8211; all he could afford after that bitch took him for everything in the divorce &#8211; Jacob headed straight for the bedroom and collapsed onto the bed, exhausted.</p>
<p>Chapter 2</p>
<p>The alarm screeched in Jacob&#8217;s ears. He reached over and pressed the button to cease the infernal machine&#8217;s noise. The digital display, as always, read 07.00. Boy, he felt rough. He didn&#8217;t remember drinking alcohol last night, but his tiredness made him feel like he may as well have.</p>
<p>He went into the cupboard that want supposedly a bathroom, peed and flushed, showered quickly.</p>
<p>While drying off, Jacob hoped that he might get a phone call today with some real potential; a haunting worth investigating. Not another episode of Most Haunted where someone gets touched and it must be a ghost! A genuine, honest to God, ghost. Just one would be fine, thanks.</p>
<p>He brushed his teeth.</p>
<p>Finding a fresh shirt and trousers from the wardrobe, Jacob got dressed. He had considered just putting on yesterday&#8217;s clothes, but that would have been a bad idea after wearing them for fifteen hours.</p>
<p>Arriving at his offices in the university, the two assistants were already there going through some notes while they waited for him.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Mornin&#8217; Boss-man!&#8217; Steve said jovially. Far too happy for the early morning Jacob was experiencing. Steve sat at the large table wearing his usual black jeans and whatever metal band printed on his faded t-shirt.</p>
<p>Jessica turned and smiled her greeting, quickly turning back to her work, making her blonde pony- tail sway. Her attire was more comforting: a purple blouse that hugged her curves, and tight blue jeans that really showed how long her legs were. Quite why she was here was a mystery to Jacob. He saw her doing fashion or at least art. Not hanging around with a forty-two year old ghost hunter and a twenty-something who could not stop eye-balling her. Although Jacob had had his fair share of glances when she leaned over a desk or, the pattern of her bra showed through her blouse.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Shall we get finished on the Hutton&#8217;s case, Boss?&#8217;</p>
<p>Shut up, Steve!!! &lsquo;We can, but I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s anything there. I think that&#8217;s another dead end. Pardon the pun.&#8217;</p>
<p>Steve laughed trying to assure everyone he got the joke.</p>
<p>Who was he fooling?</p>
<p>Jacob laughed at him in his mind; smiled in reality to agree it was as funny as Steve thought.</p>
<p>Jessica was writing up her notes still, oblivious to the conversation. She was a hard worker and natural photographer. She&#8217;d learnt the video and camera equipment well. If Steve wasn&#8217;t such a dork, he would still be doing it, but his angles were crap, and batteries wouldn&#8217;t be charged, and DVR not backed up so the device could be used for the next case, and so on. Jacob gladly let him handle the digital audio recorders.</p>
<p>Jacob thought he would probably have different people working with him &#8211; maybe Jessica would still be here &#8211; but when he put the notice up for paranormal studies these were the only two that showed up. Unless he counted the girl who did one night of investigated and freaked out because she was petrified about seeing something &#8220;unnatural&#8221;. Students could come and help his research when they had free time or whenever they wanted, but no one was interested except Christina Aguilera and one third of the Three Stooges; possibly Larry &#8211; Curly on worse days.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Jessica?&#8217; She looked around to face Jacob. &lsquo;When you&#8217;re finished, could you make sure everything is backed up to the USB dongles, and to tape?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Yeah, I sure will, Doctor Downing.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Jacob is fine, please.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;OK.&#8217;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&lsquo;What shall I do?&#8217; Steve piped.</p>
<p>Jacob frowned. &lsquo;Help Jessica. Use your initiative.&#8217;</p>
<p>Jessica raised the corner of her mouth for a brief moment while she wrote her case notes.</p>
<p>Steve seemed disappointed, but Jacob was not about to let him at footage unsupervised.</p>
<p>Jacob unlocked his office and slumped into his chair.</p>
<p>A few moments later, Jessica knocked gently on the door. &lsquo;Can I just get a laptop and the footage from the Hutton&#8217;s case?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Yeah, help yourself. The DVR&#8217;s are here; the thermograph and recorders are in the cabinet.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Forgot to lock it last night, again?&#8217; she asked, looking at the padlock dangling freely from its hoop.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Must have. It was late when I left.&#8217;</p>
<p>Twitching her nose, Jacob realised she could smell the smoke in the air. Jacob knew one day he&#8217;d set the smoke alarms off, but wasn&#8217;t bothered too much. He ignored the thought while he watched Jessica retrieve the equipment, pretending to look over some files. It was only once in a blue moon he did it.</p>
<p>At one o&#8217;clock Jacob leaned back in his chair, his comfy leather chair, interlocking his fingers behind his head.</p>
<p>&lsquo;For fuck&#8217;s sake,&#8217; he whispered.</p>
<p>How much longer was he to wait for a true case to come his way? If there was nothing found soon the grant would be revoked. Hard as he tried there was just nothing to be found. He saw television programme after television programme finding some sort of evidence &#8211; even if it <u>was</u> a whisper on tape. Electronic Voice Phenomenon was everywhere, but the one&#8217;s Jacob and his team had heard could be considered background noise. The word futile sprang to mind.</p>
<p>Jacob was snapped out of his daydream by the telephone ringing. He tried hard not to get too excited at the claims someone was about to tell him. After all, it was going to be another set-up; another dead end.</p>
<p>He picked up the receiver.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Good afternoon, Doctor Downing speaking.&#8217; He attempting friendly, but it still sounded like sarcasm.</p>
<p>&lsquo;He &#8211; Hello? Are you the paranormal investigator?&#8217; asked a nervous woman.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Yes.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;A friend of mine said you could help me. I really hope you can, we&#8217;re at my wits end here.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;What appears to be the problem, Missis . . ?&#8217;</p>
<p>Jacob sounded bored already, knowing what was about to be said.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Parker. Patricia Parker. I can&#8217;t be certain, but I&#8217;m sure my family is being haunted by a poltergeist.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;OK, can you give me some details about the events that have transpired?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;I&#8217;m sorry?&#8217;</p>
<p>Jacob sighed.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Can you tell me what&#8217;s been happening?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Oh . . . oh, things have been difficult in our family for a while now and&nbsp; . . . &lsquo;</p>
<p>&lsquo;I meant with regards to the poltergeist, Missis Parker,&#8217; he interrupted.</p>
<p>&lsquo;But it&#8217;s all connected. We found another expert before you. He told us he could not help as it would endanger his life.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Who was this other &#8220;expert&#8221;?&#8217;</p>
<p>Jacob expected to hear the name, Peter Waters or even the Most Haunted crew &#8211; neither being &#8220;experts&#8221; in the field in his opinion &#8211; they both play along with the homeowners fears, then claim to clear the property of any spirit activity with use of a medium. Peter was the worst, someone Jacob had run into several times, and almost resulted in throwing a punch or two at him. He was the only one Jacob knew of to send a bill to the people he had so-called &#8220;helped&#8221;.</p>
<p>&lsquo;He was a very odd man, said he was from some spiritual group. I can&#8217;t remember the name of it.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Did he not leave a card or some means to contact him?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;No.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;How did you get in touch with him in the first place?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;We didn&#8217;t. He came to us.&#8217;</p>
<p>Jacob began to lose interest now; yet another crack-pot on the line.</p>
<p>&lsquo;How did he know you had a poltergeist?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;He said that he had &#8220;sensed the presence&#8221; or something. He had come to warn us to move house.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Move house? Why didn&#8217;t he help you?&#8217; Jacob asked curiously.</p>
<p>&lsquo;He told me he couldn&#8217;t. If he tried to send the poltergeist away, it would endanger his home by draining his energy or something or other.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Right,&#8217; he said thinking it was a psychic trying to get paid more likely. Jacob attempted to hold back the smile on his face, but it was too late.</p>
<p>There was a moment of silence.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Can you help us, Doctor?&#8217; Patricia pleaded.</p>
<p>&lsquo;My team and I can come and investigate your home; see what is actually causing the disturbance, yes.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;If that&#8217;s all you can do . . .&#8217; she said sounding disappointed.</p>
<p>&lsquo;That is what we do, Missis Parker.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;How soon can you come?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;We can be there tomorrow, if that suits you?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Yes please,&#8217; she replied with relief in her voice.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Say . . . about this time?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Yes, that&#8217;ll be ok.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Ok then, see you tomorrow afternoon, Missis Parker.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;See you then. Thank you.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Goodbye, Mrs Parker until tomorrow.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Yes, and thank you again.&#8217;</p>
<p>Jacob heard the phone hang up on her end, placing the receiver back on his phone.</p>
<p>He went out to Jessica and Steve.</p>
<p>&lsquo;Get all the equipment ready for tomorrow, please.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;We got another case, Boss?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Yep. Bit of an odd one, so be ready for another disappointment.&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;I&#8217;ll pack up the equipment then and . . .&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;No, Jessica will do that, Steve. I do <u>not</u> want a repeat of the Child&#8217;s case. You can get the audio recorders ready. Jessica, can you make sure we have everything, please?&#8217;</p>
<p>&lsquo;Trust me, mate, I can do it. I have learned a lot since then,&#8217; Steve stated eagerly.</p>
<p>&lsquo;No! And that&#8217;s final!&#8217;</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>The Cherokees and Native Americans are often viewed as heathens by people in the south along the Bible Belt and the Appalachian Region. However, it is important for individuals to realize that Christianity played a vital role for the Cherokees. The Cherokees in particular were spiritual in their beliefs and they also prayed in their own ways, they accepted the Europeans beliefs because of their openness within several organizations. Overtime several different denominations began to enter into Cherokee lands and slowly began to preach, settle, and eventually convert numerous Cherokees into Christianity.</p>
<p>The Native American culture, having been commonly viewed as heathens by Christians, had their own sets of beliefs prior to the Christianization efforts. Christians did not and some still do not realize that their forms of worship and their beliefs are not that different from Cherokee traditions. The Cherokees believed in a Supreme Being, who was the Creator of all. The term spiritual for the Cherokee culture meant an &ldquo;active and alive flow of energy that connects us all to the Universal Spirit.&rdquo; <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn1" target="_blank">[1]</a> Garrett also describes that to a Cherokee being spiritual is similar to holding on to something that we value, such as a lesson in life that we are taught. That is directly related to the way in which we are brought up as children, and how each family teaches and stresses different moral and traditional values to their offspring. While the term spiritual is interchangeable between a way of life for the Cherokees or a religious belief, the spiritual paths of the Cherokees were not taken away by the Europeans who tried to Christianize them. In fact it seemed that the Cherokees wanted to fit into the European culture and by converting to Christianity they were able to fit in and for them that meant become a more civilized culture as a whole.</p>
<p>Prayer is also another term that people associate with Christianity and modern religions. However, the basis of the term was set years ago by the Native Americans. Prayers for them were often in the form of chants or ceremonies. During a prayer the Cherokees did not ask for anything but guidance, but more commonly prayers were believed to be used to give thanks. &ldquo;The process of praying for Native Americans is fairly open, but subtle; we use certain hand movements&hellip;the same is true [for Native Americans] with pointing the open palm(s) toward the sky in ceremonies, which signifies giving thanks to the Universal Spirit and the Great One.&rdquo; <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn2" target="_blank">[2]</a> A prayer may be sent by the offering of tobacco much as the tithes that are paid to a church today.</p>
<p>The Cherokee beliefs were generally polytheistic and the belief in multiple gods existed, but one was held to a higher stature than the others. For instance, they believed that the setting Sun was the holder of evil gods, the reason most of their dwellings had openings that only pointed to the east toward the rising sun. Most believed in some form of afterlife and believed that during the afterlife there would either be punishments or rewards meted out by the Great Spirit. One Cherokee after the conversion to Christianity described his belief prior as: &ldquo;To reverence the great and Supreme Being, love my friends deeply and to take vengeance on my enemies [and after converting to Christianity] In the Indian devotion there is nothing like pure religion. Tho&rsquo; they have faint ideas of Deity, yet they are far from loving him with all the heart.&rdquo; <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn3" target="_blank">[3]</a> The Christian Cherokee reported his findings in 1823; nearly 25 years after the missionaries began entering the Cherokee country. &nbsp;</p>
<p>The process of Christianizing the Cherokees was a long process that took place over the course of several years. Upon initial arrival the problem amongst the missionaries was the language barrier. The Cherokee syllabary was created around 1821. With the use of the syllabary Cherokees could now learn to write their language on paper. In 1824, John Arch a full blooded convert became inspired to translate a section of the Gospel according to St. John into Cherokee. This invention facilitated the transformation of the Cherokees. <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn4" target="_blank">[4]</a> Then by 1828, Samuel Worcester, the editor for the Cherokee Phoenix<a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn5" target="_blank">[5]</a>, translated the Lord&rsquo;s Prayer.<a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn6" target="_blank">[6]</a></p>
<p>Missionaries began coming into America as early as 1566 with a Catholic Priest by the name of Father Rogers. Rogers upon contact with the Native Americans was uncertain and was unable to communicate with them. Rogers was not able to provide much teaching to the Cherokees, but he was the first recorded missionary. <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn7" target="_blank">[7]</a> Rogers was not the only missionary to enter and not be able to communicate with the Native Americans. In 1758, a Presbyterian missionary by the name of John Martin began trying to devise a plan to convert Cherokees into Christianity, and in 1799 Moravians entered the Cherokee land and was taken aback at how they were unable to communicate with them.</p>
<p>In the early 1800&rsquo;s, missions into the Cherokee lands began to increase. At first the Cherokees was not officially opposed to the preaching of Christianity, but they did not want churches built. Cherokees instead wanted their children to be able to attend a school and learn reading, writing, and arithmetic so that their children would be able to communicate with the increase number of Europeans. The Cherokees wanted their children learn all that they could so that they would not be as illiterate and ignorant as they considered themselves to be. The same concepts exist today with the parents of children wanting their children to go beyond what they have been able to accomplish.</p>
<p>Gideon Blackburn, a Presbyterian who was contacted by John Martin after he had visited the Cherokee country, began asking for a government grant in order to educate the Indians. The process was slow and the two began talking in 1758, but it was 1803 before Blackburn received a grant of two hundred dollars in order for him to create a school. Blackburn received the Cherokees approval and was able to construct and establish his first school, one year after receiving his grant. Two years later, in 1806, Blackburn was able to create his second school by using left over funds from the first, and by the success of his first school.</p>
<p>The same year that Blackburn established his school, John Gambold a Moravian missionary was also looking into the Christianization of the Cherokees. Gambold came into the Cherokee country in 1804 and began trying to educate and preach to the Natives. Gambold found out that the Cherokees wanted schools and not churches just as Blackburn had discovered and in 1805 established the Spring Place Missionary School. The missionary school began with mostly young children but later branched out to have some adults in attendance as well, hoping to learn English. In 1819 Spring Place had 2 to 14 children in regular attendance and by 1830 they had 32 adults and 31 children. <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn8" target="_blank">[8]</a></p>
<p>Cyrus Kingsbury was the next large player in Christianizing the Cherokees. Kingsbury saw the success of Blackburn and Gambold&rsquo;s missionary schools and decided to create some of his own. In 1816 Kingsbury, created the Chickamauga Missions School on a 25 acre plantation. The Chickamauga school was a small portion of Kingsbury&rsquo;s plans to aid in the education of the Cherokees. Kingsbury created what became known as the Brainerd Missions. Brainerd held numerous schools of different branches. Taloney was created in 1819; Creek Path in 1820; Hightower, Willstown, and Haweis in 1823; Candy&rsquo;s Creek in 1824; New Echota in 1827; Amohee in 1831; and finally Redclay and Running Waters were created in 1835. All of the schools worked together but separately to educate Native Americans living in different parts of Cherokee country during the time period.</p>
<p>In addition to the Moravians and Presbyterian, there were also the Baptists and the Methodists that came to the Cherokee country. The Baptist associations came into Cherokee country from Georgia around 1816. The Baptists and Methodists did not set up any schools; however, they did preach and teach to the Cherokees. The Methodists came into the Cherokee country from Tennessee. The Methodists was under the Conference of Tennessee, directed by William M. Mahan. They set up four schools and had all of them established by 1828. The Baptists and the Methodists found the aid of the Cherokee Phoenix to be very helpful because they could distribute scriptures as well as hymns in both English and Cherokee. <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn9" target="_blank">[9]</a></p>
<p>The missionary efforts were great by 1829, it is recorded that there were 1,028 Methodist Converts. The Methodists were the most effect in reaching out the Cherokees first. By 1831, it has been recorded that there were 192 communicants, 120 Baptists, and 74 Moravian converts.<a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn10" target="_blank">[10]</a> According to Gulick in 1960, &ldquo;There are as far as we know 17 churches.&rdquo; 11 Baptists, 1 Episcopal, 3 Holiness, 2 Methodists, and the Roman Catholic and Mormon services are held in a community building, all of which would not have been made possible had it not been for the early missionaries that began working toward Christianizing the Cherokees in the early 1800s. Four of the 11 churches that Gulick found still offered church services in the native Cherokee Language. <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn11" target="_blank">[11]</a></p>
<p>For the most part, Eastern Cherokee churches preach of the sinfulness and evilness of mankind along with the necessity of the belief in Christ so that the Native American can be saved and escape hells fire. With non-Indian church goers there is an intense emotion. The Native Americans, on the other hand, remain impassive and their social behavior does not typically express emotions during church services. However, they are accepting of the emotional responses of the non-Indian church goers and have grown to expect the outburst. The texts are sometimes sung in the Cherokee language, but they are sung to tunes derived from non-Indian backgrounds. <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn12" target="_blank">[12]</a></p>
<p>In conclusion, the Cherokees may have been unwilling to accept Christianity and churches at the beginning, but they finally allowed missionaries to begin creating schools in 1799. To the Cherokees the schools were a necessity for their children to be able to live a civilized life amongst the Europeans. It was easier for them to realize the benefits of education than it was for them to see the benefits of Christianity. However, through the blending of Christianity and education the missionaries were able to accomplish both the education of Native Americans and the converting of Cherokees to Christianity. After 1816, missionaries built a network of boarding schools which catered primarily to the highly acculturated Cherokee leadership of the early 19th century. <a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftn13" target="_blank">[13]</a>The progress was great, acceptance was wide spread, and children as well as adults began to attend. The converting of Christianity grew and exists today in the Cherokee Nation. Today many people still view the Native Americans as being uncivilized and heathen, but in reality they have been quick to accept Christianity and are no different than the non-Indian American&rsquo;s. &nbsp;</p>
<p> Bibliography</p>
<p>Baird, W. David. &#8220;Cherokees and MIssionaries,   1789-1839.&#8221; <i>The Western Historical Quarterly </i>(Western Historical   Quarterly, Utah State University ) 16, no. 2 (1985): 191.</p>
<p>Collins, Linton. &#8220;The Activities of the   Missionaries Among the Cherokees .&#8221; <i>The Georgia Historical Quarterly </i>(Georgia   Historical Society ) 6, no. 4 (1922): 285-322.</p>
<p>Corman, Catherine. &#8220;Writing Indians: Literacy,   Christianity, and Native Community in Early America .&#8221; <i>The William   and Mary Quarterly</i> (Omohundro Institute of Early American History and   Culture ) 58, no. 3 (2001): 742-745.</p>
<p>Garrett, J.T. and Garret, Michael. <i>Medicine of   the Cherokee: The Way of Right Relationship .</i> Santa Fe, New Mexico : Bear   and Company Publishing , 1996.</p>
<p>Gulick, John. <i>Cherokees at the Crossroads .</i> Chapel Hill , North Carolina : University of North Carolina , 1960.</p>
<p>Kilpatrick, Alan. &#8220;A Note on Cherokee   Theological Concepts .&#8221; <i>American Indian Quarterly </i>(University of   Nebraska Press) 19, no. 3 (1995): 385-405.</p>
<p>Malone, Henry. <i>Chrokees of the Old South .</i> Atlanta , Georgia : The University of Georgia Press, 1956.</p>
<p>McNally, Michael. &#8220;The Practice of Native   American Christianity .&#8221; <i>Church History </i>(Cambridge University   Press) 69, no. 4 (2000): 834-859.</p>
<p>Perdue, Theda. &#8220;Cherokees and Missionaries,   1789-1839.&#8221; <i>American Indian Quarterly</i> (University of Nebraska   Press ) 9, no. 2 (1985): 188-191.</p>
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<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref1" target="_blank">[1]</a> Garrett, <i>Medicine of the Cherokee</i>, page 110.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref2" target="_blank">[2]</a> Garrett, <i>Medicine of the Cherokee</i>, Page 116.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref3" target="_blank">[3]</a> Malone, <i>Cherokees of the Old South: A People in Transition</i>, Page 91.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref4" target="_blank">[4]</a> From <i>a Note on Cherokee Theological Concepts</i>, the article points out how without a written language the Europeans had great difficulties in communicating with the Native Americans who spoke mostly in their own language.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref5" target="_blank">[5]</a> The Cherokee Phoenix was originally called the Cherokee Press at New Echota and that led to the Phoenix which became a National Newspaper by 1828.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref6" target="_blank">[6]</a> Malone, <i>Cherokees of the Old South: A people in Transition</i>, page 114.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref7" target="_blank">[7]</a> Extracted from a journal Article, <i>A Note on Cherokee Theological Concepts</i>.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref8" target="_blank">[8]</a> Malone, <i>Cherokees of the Old South: A people in transition</i>, page 95.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref9" target="_blank">[9]</a> Collins, <i>Activities of the Missionaries among the Cherokee</i>, page 18.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref10" target="_blank">[10]</a> Malone, <i>Cherokees of the Old South: A people in transition</i>, Page 117.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref11" target="_blank">[11]</a> Gulick<i>, Cherokees at the Crossroads</i>, page 36.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref12" target="_blank">[12]</a> Gulick, <i>Cherokees at the Crossroads</i>, pages 118-119 goes into great detail describing the non-Indian verses the Indian churches.</p>
<p><a href="/Users/Jimmy/Documents/ETSU/HIST%204167%20History%20of%20South%20Appalachian/Research%20paper%20info/Cherokees%20and%20Christianity%20%20Final.docx#_ftnref13" target="_blank">[13]</a> Perdue, <i>Cherokees and Missionaries</i>.&nbsp;</p></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I sorta half-way watch most TV.&nbsp; It&#8217;s a way to be with my husband who is bonded to the set.&nbsp; Personally, I can&#8217;t sit doing nothing, so I am either on my computer at the same time or playing solitaire.&nbsp; However, one TV program I practically refuse to miss is <i>Blue Bloods</i>.&nbsp; The story line follows a family entrenched in the NYPD.&nbsp; Yeah, it&#8217;s another cop show, but one with a difference.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The great grandfather is the retired police commissioner of New York City.&nbsp; The grandfather is current commissioner.&nbsp; Two sons are in the department; one an officer the other a detective.&nbsp; The daughter is assistant District Attorney.&nbsp; There are grandchildren as well.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The closeness of the family is what mainly draws me, that and the fact there isn&#8217;t the gore and violence most crime shows feature.&nbsp; Each episode of the program has Sunday dinner at Grandpa&#8217;s house.&nbsp; All four generations are expected to be there and partake in the family conversations.&nbsp; of course, Tom Selleck in the role of commissioner is a plus.</p>
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		<title>Mom, Dad, I Want a Pet!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 07:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mom, Dad, I want a pet!</strong></p>
<p>Sooner or later, comes the moment in the life of every family when the child asks for a pet. Parents are often the first thing a cry or react firmly rejected, however, it is worth considering how much good a pet can bring to the child. Of course, the first and indisputable criterion is whether any of the family is allergic to animal hair in particular was a child.</p>
<p>If there is a free way to ensure that the child has the opportunity to learn something of value in pet. First of all, the child learns to be responsible for another, a living being, because the responsibilities of pet ownership, such as feeding, walking the walk or take care of its purity. But not only obligations because the dog, cat or another ward learns of love, joy, and you can give him learn and have fun.</p>
<p>If your home may not be any animal&rsquo;s suited solution would be an aquarium. Here, too, the child learns responsibility, except that the fish he&#8217;ll have to feed them, share them with water (with parents). Looking at the fish floating peacefully in the countryside also calms. If you are only on the conditions at home is really worth to agree that the child can look after a pet.</p>
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