Anyhow, feeling satisfied that she was now as good as new, I got in the driving seat and noticed a young man who had been watching me and as I started the engine he put up his thumb in a ‘complimentary’ way, as if to say, “You did a good job!”.   I reciprocated to say thank you and we smiled at each other as I drove past him whilst I tapped the horn a couple of times, sharing a brief moment in time together.

And that was all that was necessary to “make my day”!    So why don’t we do that more often I am now wondering?   I mean – when a complete stranger shows respect, admiration or just a few seconds of acknowledgement for your existence, it really does make a difference!

I once read somewhere that a survey had been done in a City Library and if the person who was on reception where you checked out your chosen book simply touched your hand as they handed it to you, you walked out with a smile on your face, obviously feeling good.

Indeed, I still remember – although it is many years ago now, when I stopped at a striped road crossing to let a very good-looking young, black man cross the road and he appraised my car, smiled at me and ‘mouthed’ “ouuff” …. and I laughed but mouthed the same back at HIM so we both had fun which was innocent, quite lovely and I am sure we both felt a happy lift from it.

On the reverse side of this, I recall a time when I was in a Supermarket, quite recently actually, and a couple of young women were chatting, blocking the isle and I simply put my hand gently on the shoulder of the woman nearest to me, to ask if she could let me through but she spun round and I really thought she was going to hit me, there was such fury in her face as I had TOUCHED her!!!!!!   All right, our reactions are immediate sometimes and of necessity if we are in danger – but I do think we have possibly lost any feelings of inter-social behavior now.   And also, of course, I suppose different countries have different ‘customs’ and ‘habits’ of behavior as certainly, in Spain, everybody touches, slaps, hugs and certainly speaks to each other.   Indeed, it is an insult not to say at least “Hola” when entering a shop, Bank or whatever to acknowledge the presence of people – and upon leaving, “Hasta Luego” or “Adios” is expected.   It is also the practice in France, I believe, as “Bonjour” is usually said to other people when entering or leaving an establishment.    England and the United States are somewhat different as depending on where one is in either country, a friendly “Good morning/afternoon/evening” can sometimes be uttered but then again, I must confess to sometimes feeling hostility rather than acceptance on occasion there!   Ergo, like the young woman in the shop I mentioned…..

But would we feel better if we allowed ourselves to be a bit more “sociable”, generally I wonder?    Yes, life is on a much faster pace now;  we don’t seem to have TIME to slow down, ironically, and rush from one thing to the other ………….. but, what are we missing in the process?

You know, in my view, it really doesn’t matter whether you are in New York, Madrid or London ….. whether one is 21 years old, 45 or 74;  male or female – but I DO think it matters that we reach out and connect with each other occasionally!   And not just as in “Have a Nice Day” said without any sincerety whatsoever ….. but I suppose it is better than nothing?

However, think about it – you DO remember when somebody tells you they like your hat/shirt/shoes/sunglasses/hairstyle/car and so when was the last time you told a complete stranger that you thought they looked GOOD ….. in a polite, non-intrusive way, of course – otherwise you could just get your face rearranged, these days!

The current generation or the age of machines is veraciously called so, although they have a heart that beats only on the vibration of success and it thumps on the sound of failure and still they say that they have a very large heart while proposing a girl…!!

I have just one simple question that is the heart a normal human heart or is it some kind of storage device with just storing memory with nil feelings…???

Rakhi Sharma and Awadhesh Kishore*

Institute for Development of Technology for Rural Advancement, Mathura-281004 (INDIA)

*Sarvoday Mahavidyalaya, Chaumuhan-281406, Mathura (INDIA)

Summary:

A Kiss is to touch or caress with the lips. The romantic kiss is second date kiss. Bend forward in to kiss, and slowly lock your lips one time they touch the lips of your girlfriend. It develops relationship and emotional feelings and is best way to express love, hot and sex desires.

Keywords:

Date, Emotions, Feelings, Girlfriend, Kiss, Lips, Love, Relationship, Romantic kiss, Sex.

A Kiss is defined as to touch or caress with the lips, as in affection or greeting. A kiss is proved to be more efficient that can be a lot more. A kiss has an competence to express and arouse so plenty of different emotions and feelings. A kiss never gets uninteresting. There’s so plenty of different ways to vary a simple kiss that will keep you occupied for hours. The kiss is an important expression of affection and erotic emotions. The world of kissing has an immense collection of different types of kisses to jump. Start your kissing creativity, You may develop a different way of kissing. The Kiss is an exultant message of the longing of affection, love eternally young, the burning prayer of hot desire, which is born on the lips.

The Romantic Kiss:

You are meeting your girlfriend at various locations. At the time of your meeting, make her feel comfortable and experience the pleasure using a weapon of romantic kisses. The romantic kiss is rich in promise, bestows an intoxicating feeling of boundless happiness, bravery, and youth, and therefore surpasses all other earthly joys in sublimity. The power of a romantic kiss cannot be underestimated. The importance of the romantic kiss may even be significant because everyone craves for it as his noblest reward. A romantic kiss has always different meanings and values for different persons.

How to romantic kiss:

The romantic kiss is well recognized as a great second date kiss for the reason that it is slow and deepens the connection between you and your girlfriend. To feel joy of the romantic kiss, project your lips slightly, open your mouth a small bit, and tilt your head to side (usually being the right towards your girlfriend). Bend forward in to kiss, and slowly lock your lips one time they touch the lips of your girlfriend. Kiss your girlfriend’s upper or lower lip gently, then pull away slightly. Put about an inch or 3 cm between you and your girlfriend’s lips.

Be positive to keep your lips soft and gentle in lieu of hard and stiff because soft and gentle lips make the kiss much more romantic and tender. Romantic kiss is destined to be slow and soft. If in case, it is performed fast, it will be looked like appear sloppy and non romantic. Also, moist lips are necessarily must for perfectly enjoying this kiss. Dry and cracked lips feel rough and can smash the mood of kissing.

Why to prefer a romantic kiss:

-          It is helping you instant romantic relationship together with your girlfriend.

-          It does not matter in case you are married, single & dating, living together or in case you are male or female, a romantic kiss works.

-          It is helping in developing all types of romantic relationships.

-          It is helping you to bring romance back to your relationship.

All of us require that special moment when someone turns to  be comforted, both emotionally & physically, conversed with, have fun with, get indulged by, & experience warm companionship with your girlfriend.

While men tend to be more select harbored feelings and cover up his emotions. Even if eventually want to talk about problems, usually only to certain people or burden on his heart was too heavy and should be removed. What makes a man to hide his feelings? These three reasons, as reported by Your Tango.

1. Reveal Feelings Make Men Feel Not Macho
As a child, he saw his father and other men in their work and perform activities that are masculine. While women in their families show more drama and emotion. When the man fell or failed to do something, they will be told to immediately get up, be strong and try again. While their sisters will be stroked or gently advised if you’re in trouble. So growing up, ’scene’ in childhood is embedded in his mind and finally make the stigma that men will be impressed if the vent all the mushy problem.

2. Many acts, Little Talk
The way men and women express their feelings quite different. Women tend to talk more, while men choose to express feelings through actions.

In his mind, he wanted to show how much love and attention to his beloved. For example, give a special gift, stroking her hair, took long walks together or take the time to eat in fancy restaurants. Verbal language to be selected to last a man, because of the way it’s less natural for them.

3. At certain points, Men Feel Safe with Himself
By gender, men are required to look strong, competent and can be everything. They may be afraid to show his feelings, the people would label him weak. From the first, he ‘created’ to be the backbone of the family, relatives take care of family, strong and able to protect.

Sobbed streteotipe considered incompatible with the man they hold so far. Men also fear that if his heart hurt, so it will be easier to prevent pain that comes when they are feeling pressure from the start.

Bromance is a healthy relationship between hetero-sexual males .They are usually single but such relationships may even develop among men in relationships . They enjoy spending time together . They admire each other’s activities and interests . They take pleasure in discussing business , trades , investments and even women , anything that’s considered suitable for discussion among men . 

The word bromance originates from the combination of the two words ‘bros‘ meaning male friends or brothers and ‘romance‘ . While talking about bromance people usually refer to the phrase “I love you man !” while some refer it as ‘man crush’ as the level of bonding is unusual for they feel happy to hang out together for hours . They enjoy participating in sports activities or delving into important issues while gulping bottles after bottles of beer .

There have been several films and television series focussing on this subject . This can be considered as one of the finest form of relationships as individuals of similar interests and thinking find it easier to share and express with each other . They can relate to each other’s emotions and thoughts . They can help each other more and sometimes they find more close bonding with each other which may surpass their relationship with the women folks .

Women may sometimes find it abnormal as they may miss their male partners who are involved in such relationships but it has been seen that such relationships make men more happy , strong and mature . They are glad discussing with male friends issues that are akin to them as they feel more comfortable with them than discussing it with their ladies . They find solutions and get ideas to live a better life as singles as well as with partners of opposite sex . So girls don’t doubt them rather leave them for sometime while you enjoy your time with your own friends .

Some recent films and television series have celebrated this concept of bromance and bromantic activities and made it more acceptable in the society . It’s no more considered an abnormal behaviour but a meaningful and expressive bonding of friendship between men .

When you feel sad, she could easily shed tears. Or in times of hurt, they do not hesitate to confide in and talk at length with his friends.

While men tend to be more select harbored feelings and cover up his emotions. Even if eventually want to talk about problems, usually only to certain people or burden on his heart was too heavy and should be removed. What makes a man to hide his feelings? These three reasons, as reported by Your Tango.

1. Reveal Feelings Not Make Men Feel Cool
As a child, he saw his father and other men in their work and perform activities that are masculine. While women in their families show more drama and emotion. When the man fell or failed to do something, they will be told to immediately get up, be strong and try again. While their sisters will be stroked or gently advised if you’re in trouble. So growing up, ’scene’ in childhood is embedded in his mind and finally make the stigma that men will be impressed if the vent all the mushy problem.

2. Many acts, Little Talk
The way men and women express their feelings quite different. Women tend to talk more, while men choose to express feelings through actions.

In his mind, he wanted to show how much love and attention to his beloved. For example, give a special gift, stroking her hair, took long walks together or take the time to eat in fancy restaurants. Verbal language to be selected to last a man, because of the way it’s less natural for them.

3. At certain points, Men Feel Safe with Himself
By gender, men are required to look strong, competent and can be everything. They may be afraid to show his feelings, the people would label him weak. From the first, he ‘created’ to be the backbone of the family, relatives take care of family, strong and able to protect.

Sobbed stereotype considered incompatible with the man they hold so far. Men also fear that if his heart hurt, so it will be easier to prevent pain that comes when they are feeling pressure from the start.

“It is nothing to die; it is frightful not to live.” – Victor Hugo

          This quote is what apathy is all about. By this, Hugo is trying to tell us that dieing and not living are not the same thing. When one dies, he ceases to breathe, and his heart stops beating. His brain stops sending signals to the rest of his body, hs organs shut down, and, in essence, his body becomes broken. When one does not live, however, they can lose interest in life. They do not die, but they can develop depression, lack of interest, suicidal thoughts, they may stop communicating with others, among many other possible side-effects. Essentially, they lose their connection with the rest of the world. They simply stop caring, either due to events that have happened in their life, such as the death of a family member, or the loss of their home. Apathy is often caused by a feeling of helplessness, a feeling that no matter what they do, they can’t change their situation, no matter how bad it is. One example 1is when can be the risk of losing your job. When, for example, a company is bought out by another company, the company that was bought out will have to make lay-offs to their employees. When somebody who works at that company does not have a sense of job security, they may develop worker’s apathy. In their mind, if the company doesn’t care about them, why should they do any work? Either they’re going to lay me off, or they’re going to keep me on, and until then, nothing I do matters, because it’s not going to change their mind.1 Synonyms of apathy include dispassion, halfheartedness, insensitivity, disconcern, disinterest, emotionlessness, and stoicism. However, nothing quite somes up the the above situation quite like apathy. Apathy, in short, is the lack of caring, or interest in the outside world. Apathy, while not technically a disease, is a very serious condition, because, as I mentioned before, it can lead to other conditions, such as depression, suicidal thoughts, disconnection with the rest of the world, and ultimately, if these conditions are not recognized and dealt with in time, death. One who feels apathy is not likely to mention it to other people, for a variety of reasons. For one, they may not know how to talk about what they’re going through, or they may not want to talk about it, because they feel like nobody can help them. They also may not want to talk about it because they feel it is something they can deal with on their own. However, another, and perhaps the most common, reason that people don’t talk about apathy is because they don’t realize that what they are feeling is apathy. They don’t realize how destructive their behavior is, and they don’t see it as a serious condition that needs to be dealt with. Apathy is very sad, because it is not often caught until it has developed further, and oftentimes it is too late once that has happened. Therapists can help people deal with apathy, but, the majority of the time, the one thing that can help an apathetic person is a feeling of power and control. If they feel in control of their own destiny, if they feel that what they do has an effect on them and on the people around them, they will start to reconnect with life, and eventually, their apathy may go away. In short, an apathetic person needs to feel that they pilot their own life, that they are their own captain. This is not to say that when dealing with an apathetic person, we should just leave them alone and let them work it out. No, when you meet an apathetic person, the best thing you can do is to help them by giving them a feeling of control. Only then can they truly start to feel that they matter.

1 = www.personaldevelopment.com/chuck/apathy.htm

The brain assists not only in identifying between various elements but also in keeping in them in mind. Memory thus, shapes a significant part of the brain.

Nevertheless, since there are a lot of stuffs to remember, it is normal to overlook many of them. Therefore, the saying “utilize it or mislay it” relates to the brains as well.

This implies that if you work out the brain, your memory will be better and you will be able to retain stuffs in memory quite well. There are diverse memory methods for those who are desirous to increase their learning functionality. They are described as follows.

Using Mnemonics

In the Mnemonics strategy complex details are instructed in a simpler form thus making it effortless to keep in thoughts. In this strategy, the details to be recalled are crashed down and protected as easy-to-retain details.

Whereas it may be challenging to remember elements otherwise, on the other hand mnemonics allows keeping in thoughts and remembering details. Normally students use mnemonics to keep in thoughts history times and other details.

They link the date with something that is recognizable and enables them to keep in thoughts the times or incidents effortlessly. Connection, visualization and place are the basic concepts to be used when crafting mnemonics.

Working out the Brain

Work out the brain similarly as the body requires work out to be fit and active, so does the mind require work out to stay sharp and targeted. Carrying out workouts for the thoughts is a sure way to maintain it functioning.

Dealing with crossword questions, number questions and other brain-teasing workouts creates the mind; function and assist remember elements in a better way and for years. When the concentration of the thoughts perks up, the learning functionality boosts up.

Have a sound sleep

Relax is an essential factor of memory. A brain that does not get full relax is unable to focus or stay targeted. This paved way to the details not being understood fully leading to it being overlooked very soon.

Hence, it is imperative that a person relax well to provide respite to the thoughts. A targeted thought is able to maintain elements for years.

Utilize Brain Fully to Retain Information

At times crafting mnemonics or making an effort to retain information in mind, you must use the whole brain. This implies that you should instruct challenging details by using pictures, colors, signs, vibrancy with movement and even spontaneity. Employing these aspects requires the whole brain and allows you remember elements better.

By Muhammad Irfan Zafar

Content Writer

Not all scars shows. Not all wounds heal. Sometimes you can’t see, the pain someone feels. We can’t compare someone else sufferings and experiences. We can only incorporate and commend particularly their endeavor and conviction to rise up after the fall. We may not always end up where we thought we were going; still we will always end up where we were meant to be.

Our destiny is never tied to anyone. Just because it’s not what you were expecting, doesn’t mean it’s not everything you’ve been waiting for…. It just means that there will come a time when you have to choose between turning the page and closing the book. Everything you want comes after you stop looking for it. Yet, we‘re all given the choice and will to merge the game of life and play our cards right.

What is thing called infatuation, what does it mean? Infatuation is the focus of a persons physcical qualites (nice eyes, cute body, etc.) Whereas love is the feeling or is based on your knowledge of a persons strengths or weaknesses.

So ask yourself….is it love or infatuation?

Love can overcome obstacles, whereas infatuation tends to end as soon as there is a sign of trouble…love takes time to grow…but attraction takes only seconds (big difference). We often get into situations where we wish we could turn back the hands of time…because we were only looking at the outside person, not the inside.

So ladies….so before you say that this guy is the one…evaluate your situation, is it real love? or is it a physical attraction or infatuation? You will know if it’s true love….because he puts your intrest FIRST ALL THE TIME, not just when he thinks he getting ready to score

                                                                                                              Jamell L.Williams-2012