Ebony Ebodarbla is 21 years old. For her, it is not love without an unusual, exciting, and daring experience. She would not mind if her sweetie needed to be completely sure before falling for her. It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is amusing and enjoyable. Her seduction method expresses strong emotions. Her ideal date is an exciting and romantic evening together.

Favel  Freflagolhai is 26 years old. She thinks that it is not love without starting out as friends first. She would not mind if her sweetie expected complete loyalty from her. It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is beautiful, smart, and elegant. Her seduction method is amusingly unconventional, and never exactly the same. Her ideal date is a a long walk to an isolated, particular place to have a picnic.

Bahjibaji Bahjoy is 24 years old. For her, it is not love without flirting. She would not mind if her sweetie always had to get the last word in.  It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is philosophical and independent. Her seduction method is a superb ability to be able to change readily to meet new circumstances. Her ideal date is an intense exchange of thoughts, opinions, and feelings in a small restaurant, eating light meals. 

Calca Calaussta is 23 years old. For her, it is not love without romance. She would not mind if her sweetie needed to be the center of attention. It is rather difficult  for her to resist someone who is friendly, pleasant, affable, and  fashionably elegant. Her seduction method is to be able to ask the right questions. Her ideal date is a long walk in a wonderful mountain landscape.

I have been writing online for only a short while now and have come across two nasty incidents of negative commenting and behaviour from fellow writers or readers. The first was here on Triond and the second on Hubpages where I write about my spiritual knowledge. These two occasions have made me feel heartsick that people are so judgmental and down right nasty.

When I wrote the article “Alcoholics and the Things They Do” I received two comments from people telling me what I have the right to say and not to say. I have lived my life with a severe alcoholic and have had to take more than my fair share of Ship High In Transit (if you get what I mean?) Finally one day I had had all that I could take and writing about what these people do to other people was the only route I had left. So I did just that. I was then called a “bored and bitter housewife”(which I am not) just to quote one insult and was also told that I need to “back off before I hurt myself and others”(what’s that suppose to mean? The truth needs to said. No more beating around the bush and or placating). Okay great, no consideration for what I have been through for the last thirty years having to put up with a mean and down right cruel alcoholic.

Well I went about my writing and ignored the fact that the commenters are obviously some kind of addicts themselves and feel that the world owes them(it does not). No, my view has not changed about addictions and it will not anytime sooner or later. I stand by what I wrote.

I started writing on Hubpages just shortly after Triond and found that what I had to say on the subjects I publish there get a few hits and some nice comments. Until today. I final found my way into the Q&A section and was wanting to answer a few questions and help out some one who had been threatened with nasty spiritual behaviour. I wrote my answer and support to this question and was quickly voted down by other members only to have a long-term member write almost exactly what I had said and even in the same order I stated it in. Don’t want to accuse anyone here but the circumstances are suspicious. When you are voted down on this site your answer is no longer displayed due to negative reaction. I then wrote an article about today being Ground Hog Day and Imbolic, which is the middle of winter and the last remaining days before the rebirth of the earth in spring. I was quickly voted down. I feel attacked and by people that are not supposed to be like that. People that claim they believe that you get back three times what you put out there. So if you put out negative energy you receive three times that bad stuff back. I don’t get it? It makes me sad and I hope that some day these people will read this and know how they have made someone else feel.

Happy Ground Hog Day!!!

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Authorities Border Patrol and Immigration Services (migration) are different from whites and Mexican Americans. For those who do not know, is Spanish in this poem is read as “sources of fresh water here, here, here” The poet in the most basic level that does not require translation dictionary to understand. The purpose of using the Spanish word is to strengthen the feeling of many women who have deep roots with dessert. The short lines of poetry is always a good medium. That affect the heart and fits easily into the reader’s mind. As in the poem, two characters speak – short lines present the dialogue between them, even if it precedes the other. “Oh, and a gun” symbolically show that the INS has authority of a State to take illegal immigrants across the border and expressing power and tells another character that can kill too. “We heard the song and laughed with the wind, fresh water sources here, here, here, but they can not speak Spanish, do not understand. Preparation The last line expresses the woman accused the desert and says she is fully aware of the desert – who knows his wind and how the desert can be changed in a couple of hours, but (migration) are not familiar with the desert in spite of all resources, but do not understand language in the desert (known in Spanish). You do not know where the water is – you think mirage – the water, but it is nothing but Don”t Don”t know how to speak Spanish. Get ready way, they can escape or you must be prepared to die in the desert. The poem is largely with human emotions, and do not reflect the whole truth about the issue of immigration from the border and that this problem has many dimensions. From the perspective of poetry It’s a good attempt to show human feelings from a different point of view, but as a whole – does not cover the case and does not give the whole scene of this human problem.

Source: # Http: / / www.shvoong.com/humanities/arts/1722494-let-play-la-migra/ ixzz1ijwcIiQx

     The topic we have at this moment is intended for ladies. However, it is also a good way for men to evaluate the veracity of this article.  What turns men off?  Here are some ideas I picked up from the mind of an author named Tina Jones.   In a conversation between a man and a woman, it is important to maintain feelings of interest in both parties; otherwise, the sweet  exchange of words will end up sooner than expected.

    According to the mentioned author, there are topics in a conversation that men do not want to focus on; specially, if they are talking to a woman they like secretly. First is the topic regarding money; to be specific, their income. Men, in general, are very protective in this aspect; many of them are afraid that if their real financial status is revealed, then they could not live up to the woman’s expectations and as a result,  would finally be rejected. Second is, the topic of emotions.  Men are known to be experts in keeping their feelings locked up inside; they don’t want to show it right away.  Third is, the topic of a woman’s  present or past relationship. Men don’t want to hear it; for instance, the admirable qualities of the woman’s ex-lover; their happy moments together and much more the words “ I miss him badly” or “ I wish we did not part ways”.

    The last is, any topic that hurts other people; gossip is the best word to describe it. If a man find’s out that a woman is fond of destroying other personalities through backbiting, then for sure it can turn him off. Well, I guess the idea presented is not only applicable for women, but it is also applicable for men or vice versa.  Meaning, for the men out there, don’t bring the topics we just discuss in front of women, it can turn them of too. 

Such type of approach requires sympathetic consideration on another’s points of views. These people are sensible enough that they learn from their fights and do their best avoiding them in future. However, acknowledging the reason is one of the most important parts in the reconstruction of a broken relationship. Understanding each other’s feeling is the beauty in a healthy relationship. It includes the things that were right in the relationship and while considering what went wrong, it is important to understand the feelings of both the parties. Once you become conscious enough to start recognizing the reason for the misunderstanding, you will also be able to understand the expectations of both the parties that they need to fulfill for future betterment.

Another aspect to consider in the process of reconstruction is the agreements and decisions that have been taken by both sides. Not only considering but also honoring their decisions and agreements is also equally important.

Avoid making half promises. Promises are meant to be honored and kept at all costs. Once you have reached to the agreements and decisions, sticking by them are equally important from both sides. By keeping the same values, you will find it quite easy maintaining a healthy relationship in future.

One of the major tips in the reconstruction of the relationship process is not using sex as the basis of reconstruction process. Since it could form a habit and you could start seeing it as a solution after every fight that could have psychological effects. Though sex has the potential of increasing intimacy in your broken relationships but it could not minimizes the risk of future fights. Therefore, it is important to have communication going for creating better understanding and mental harmony between two parties. This type of approach not only minimizes the risk of future disagreements but also be fruitful in the long run.

As you know slowly and steady wins the race, hence it is essential taking step-by-step approach in the reconstruction of the relationship. If there is still a little chance or glow present in the relationship, it is essential to cool mindedly examine various aspects of the relationship and should work for regaining the trust and love that was present before. Don’t expect results suddenly, it requires a lot of communication and time for one or both the parties figuring out their weaknesses and then overcoming them. By doing so both will be able to achieve better perspective and at length succeed maintaining a healthy relationship. Disagreements and quarrels are not as bad as thought, but virtually they gives us chance to make our relationships even better than before.

By Muhammad Irfan Zafar

Content Writer

The ingredients for happiness are simple. Happiness is a state of mind. It cannot be found in the material things about us, such as wealth, power or fame. Those who spend a lifetime harvesting and accumulating more wealth than they need will be disillusioned and disappointed when they discover, only too late, that all the money in the world cannot buy a grain of happiness. The search for pleasure must not be confused with the search for happiness. Pleasure is a passing show and does not offer lasting happiness. Pleasure can be bought, but not happiness. Happiness comes from within, based on the foundation of simple goodness and clear conscience.

No one is happy unless he is contented with himself. The quest for mental tranquility is only possible through mental culture or meditation. There is so much to do, and so little is done. Only through self analysis and purification will our latent seeds of virtues be able to sprout to reveal our divine and human nature. It is not an easy task. It requires perseverance, determination and effort. 

(Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself) 

Happy New Year!!!!!!

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