We can already juice I changed
the memories of which was soluble
I was sprawl apparent truce
trying to understand what life is all for

I made this land for a laugh
Strut stand at my feet
the land has created the heavens unfold
trying to understand what life is all for

I do feel proud
I will be happy
if I can figure out this life
if i can get everything I want

all for try to understand what I was looking in my life

I want to get everything

I am… me

Men and women are different: Masculine erogenous zone is basically limited to his penis. Feminine erogenous zone is basically the whole body. Yes, my friends, the body of a woman is like a powerful magnet for pleasure. Not realizing this, most men limits themselves to boringly kiss the well-known spots: The lips, the nipples, the other lips, the clitoris.  But you are missing wonderful and unexplored spots to kiss. Do these ones and you will become your lady’s hero:

1. Knee Pits: These shallow depressions behind the knees, whose scientific name is poplytea phosae are very very sensible. Most probably your woman herself does not know how pleasant is to be kissed or caressed there. Believe me she will love it and will be eternally thankful if you do it.
2. Feet: Feet fetishists are right. This is not only a beautiful part of women bodies but very sensible too. Do them and she will laugh in a very sexy way.
3. Back: Use her back to draw your passion with the tip of your tongue. Do it until she get geese bumps.
4. Anus: Last but not least, kiss and lick her in her anus. Don’t be shy, do it and she will scream with pleasure. The black kiss, as it is  called is one of the most persuasive ways of getting her very excited. Unfortunately – or fortunately – most of men and women has too many misjudging about this. Much better, you will be the first to do it to her and she will remember you forever.

Body parts all have different representations in dreams. Your body is your physical identity in the conscious world, and your sense of self worth and self esteem in your dream world. In some cases however, dreaming of a certain body part may indicate that there is a health concern in that particular area. This can occur when there is a physical health concern already apparent, or when you are anxious or concerned about your health in other non-apparent ways.

Ankle – Indicates seeking support and direction in life. To sprain your ankle suggest you may be experiencing some obstacles of difficulties in asking for assistance

Arm – The right arm symbolises masculine energy and action. The left arm symbolises feminine energy and nurturing. An injured right arm signifies feelings of inability to take action, and a left, in caring for yourself and others

Back – Represents your attitudes, strengths and weaknesses. It may also refer to pressure that you feel is being put on you. The phrase ‘watch your back’ should be considered, especially if you see someone turn their back on you

Blood – Women often dream of blood shortly before or during their periods, and when they are pregnant. However, it can also signify, exhaustion or that you feel emotionally, drained

Breasts – Symbolise primal nourishment and a need to be nursed or cared for. Breasts represent motherhood, nurturance and infantile dependency, and also sexual arousal

Ears – Represent a need to listen more closely to advice from others. There may be something you are refusing to hear, or ‘turning a deaf ear’ to. You may also feel you or someone else is being too stubborn

Eyes – The right eye represents the Sun and the left eye represents the Moon. The eyes are symbolic of ‘insight’ and ‘enlightenment’, and often refer to trusting your intuition, or what you ‘see’

Face – Refers to the persona you present to the world. A flawed face symbolises erupting emotions. To see yourself cleaning your face suggests you may be considering coming ‘clean’ about something

Feet – Symbolises your foundation and stability. It can suggest being more practical or sensible; ‘keeping both feet on the ground’. It may also be suggesting you have ‘put your foot in your mouth’, by saying something you wish you hadn’t

Fingers – Represent dexterity, manipulation and non-verbal communication. If your fingers are injured or fall off, it indicates you may feel you may literally be losing your ‘grip on life’

Hand – Refers to your communication with those around you. You may need to give ‘a helping hand’. To dream that your hands are itchy refers to money. If the left hand is itchy it signifies money being received; the right, money being given

Head – Signifies intellect, rationality, self image, accomplishments and your perception of the world. It may also refer to feeling that you need to ‘get ahead’ in the world. You may also be considering that ‘two heads are better than one’

Heart – Denotes truth and courage. It represents how you deal with your feelings and express your emotions. You may need to get to ‘the heart of the matter’ of a situation before proceeding

Knee – Symbolises the level of support you may be receiving. A focus on knees often indicates feelings of inadequacy and issues of power and control. To be kneeling indicates looking to others for support

Legs – Refer to progress and the ability to navigate through life. If you are walking steadfastly it indicates confidence. If they are weak it indicates you may be feeling emotionally vulnerable and uncertain

Lips – Represent sensuality, sex, love and romance, especially if they are pursed. They are also seen as a means of communication as in the familiar phrase ‘read my lips’

Mouth – Signifies the need to express yourself or talk about an issue which is bothering you. Alternatively the dream suggests you may have said too much and need to keep quiet

Nose – Symbolises wisdom and the need to know more about something. It may also refer to being ‘nosey’. You may feel you, or someone else, is interfering in something which they shouldn’t be

Stomach – Represents new changes in your life and how you cope with them. The stomach symbolises the centre of emotions and refers to how you process your emotions; how you are able to ‘stomach’ them

Teeth – Refers to health and business. To dream of loose teeth can signify concerns about bad news in health or business. To see yourself brushing your teeth denotes struggles in maintaining health or financial matter

Toes – Symbolise the way you move and walk through life, either with grace and poise, or with the lack of. It also signifies your path in life, although they represent the minor details and how you deal with them

Tongue – Represents the things you say and express, and indicates you may have said too much or perhaps need to express yourself more. A sore tongue suggests you are speaking negatively about someone or something

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Chinese Foot binding – Torture or Tolerable?

Different cultures at different periods had their unique perspectives of beauty. One Chinese practice to achieve beauty however, was a well known controversy known as foot binding. Foot binding was a custom practiced by Chinese women for the past thousand years until 1911 when it was banned by the new Republic.

Foot binding involved the feet tarsals and metatarsals of young girls at around the age of 3 to be crushed and bent inwards to achieve a small feet for beauty. The arch of the feet is broken then bent; all toes are curled inside the sole except for the big toe. The bound feet are then wrapped with a cloth tightly to prevent it all the injuries from recovering and the feet to enlarge. This process had to be performed every 2 days for several years. Without small feet, it was difficult for girls to get married, since small feet were preferred to men at that time since it was thought to be erotic. Although men from the past thought bound feet were beautiful, this process was extremely cruel and barbaric, and disabled the women permanently.

The process of foot binding was very unhygienic. All injuries including infections, broken bones, and wounds were left to heal by themselves. There was no proper medical care. Fungal infections often occurred, along with wounds caused by ingrown toenails. Also, the process of foot binding permanently disabled the women, causing difficulties in daily activities such as defecating, squatting, walking, etc. Studies also showed that women with bound feet had a lower spine and pelvic bone density by 4.9% than women with normal feet, further showing the harms foot binding can bring. Lastly, foot binding involved a lot of pain simply to achieve beauty. No anesthetics were used in the process, and the young girls often repeatedly pass out due to the intense pain. As in a Chinese ditty, “A pair of tiny feet, two jugs of tears.”

To achieve beauty was to go through pain, disabilities, infections, and other risks. Foot binding disabled the women permanently, affecting their ability to perform simple daily tasks. Through the examples above, foot binding was a gruesome and barbaric act as thought from today, and should not been practiced.

An image of the “3-inch golden lily” shoes worn by women with bound feet.

How do i give her an erotic massage ?

The Head

Ask your lucky lady to lie down on her back with her head on a cushion. Kneel behind her and star with her forehead and stroke from the nose up to hairline and back down, alternatng your hands, this is great for releiving the tension and sresses of the day before you move on to her more exciting body parts.

The Back

To give her a sexy back massage, lie her down on her stomach and position yourself towards her head, with your hands flat on her back. Slide your hands from the top of her neck to the start of her bum, as if your stretching her skin, slide your hands up the sides of her back and finish with a slight squeeze of her shoulders. Repeat until she is relaxed, but not too relaxed, you dont want her falling asleep yet !

The Chest

Position yourself to the right of her, in line with her hips. Place one hand on her breasts and make circular movements, making sure to avoid her nipples….. for now ! Still making the circular movements bring her breasts towards each other and gently squeeze, then bring them apart. Slide your fingers from the nipple area towards the outside of her breast, then make a gantle kneading type movement.

The Bum – My personal fave !

 Lie her down on her stomach and straddle her thighs. Place your palms flat on her bum and massage in circular movements getting bigger as you go. Use your thumbs to creat a roll of skin and push up towards the talbone.

The feet

Lay her on her back with  a small cushion under her knees. Sitting at her feet pour some oil onto your palms and warm. Takeher foot on both hands and make gentle clockwork movements around her ankle with your thumbs. Use the same technique on her soles , apllying slightly more pessure.

by now she should be relaxed and open to suggestions on what to do next !

She comes through the door, throws down her purse and kicks off her high heels with a sigh, now is your time to give her the perfect foot massage to rub away the days stress.

Step 1.

Start by soaking her tired feet in a relaxing bowl of warm soapy water, gently pour the water over her feet and ankles using your cupped hands and run your warm wet hands over the tops of both feet while casually chattin to her about her day at the job. Rub the soles and heels of her feet using your thumbs. 

Step 2.

Gently dry both her feet using a pre warmed soft towel and apply liberal amounts of her favourite moisturising lotion.

Step 2.

Ask her to lay on the sofa or bed or even the floor with a cushion if she prefers and place her feet in your lap atop a warmed towel.

Step 3.

Start with the balls of her feet, pace your thumbs on the balls and your fingers across the tops of her feet . using circular motions and slight pressure, need the ball of her foot from the centre and upwards and outwards  for quite some time. She should be feeling so much more relaxed already.

Step 4.

Repeat step 3 wit the other foot.

Step 5.

Gentley rub both her big toes using your thumb and forefingers, and work down the toes until all her toes have been done.

Step 6.

Using the same techniques as with the balls of her feet, massage her heels and ankles.

Step 7.

Starting from the ankle gently squeeze and slide your hands up to her mid calf and back down.

Step 8.

Using all the above, repeat untill either of you gets bored.

Step 9.

By now she should feel as relaxed as she is ever going to get, why not complete with a kiss on her forhead while you go make her a cup of tea !

Northern Europe is covered in snow, both pedestrians and motorists know that it sure is slippy out there.
We usually compare the season winter to Christmas, snow and cold, it’s also getting darker more quickly.

This is based from my point of view;

Pedestrians: When we walk out of our home, we make sure we wear our down jacket, a warm hat, gloves and an extra pair of socks. But there is one thing we forget, or just don’t give a damn to bring with us. What could it be? It’s the Reflector/s.

Do you know, that if you’re wearing dark clothes outside without a reflector, motorists (with dimmers lit) will see you from a distance of approximately 100 feet, and will not be able to stop the car before an accident have accured.
But if you do wear dark clothes and wear a reflector, motorists (with dimmers lit) will be able to see you from a distance of approximately 410 feet, and will then be able to stop the car in a safe distance if needed.
As a pedestrian you think for yourself that motorists will see you, because you can see them coming towards you. But what if there’s a blizzard outside? I tell you, you can be lucky if you wear some kind of reflector to give the motorist information that there’s something in front of him. I feel safer when I wear a reflector!

Always wear the reflector in knee-height, make sure to put a reflector at the back of your jacket to notify motorists from behind too.

Motorists: When we drive our car, let’s put ourself into the scenario that we’re crusing around the city one friday night. A motorist have “more” responsibility because we drive a vehicle. A motorist needs to check speed, signs, crossroads, traffic, particulary everything in the environment. During the winter, we also need to keep ourselves more concentrated on the pavement. A standard speed limit in urban areas here in Sweden, is 50km/h (30 mph).

The stopping distance of 50 km/h (30 mph) is about 30 metres (100 feet) in dry conditions.
In wet conditions the stopping distance might be four times greater, which means 120 metres (400 feet).
EVERYTHING DEPENDS ON VELOCITY, DRIVER’S CONDITION, STATE OF THE ROAD, THE CAR’S WEIGHT AND BRAKES, TIRES ETC.

Bear that in mind next time you walk outside your front door without a reflector or with a small sence of common sanity.

As a motorist you should always bring following things with you;
Shovel, extra pair of warm clothes, jumper cables, tow rope, an extra warning triangle.

Make sure you got plenty of time for your trip, drive carefully, it is not wrong to drive a little bit slower than the speed limit.

But there are some general tips of good and bad body language in workplaces. Here I will discuss some standing postures in workplaces.

Good Standing Stances at Workplace.

1. Feet about shoulder width apart. Body straight and relaxed, hands lightly clasped in front. This is the power pose and depicts balanced personality and hands showing emphatic gesture.

2. Half perched on table or desk, one leg bent with one cheek on table keeping arms loose on lap. This is a half sitting position showing an active and dominating attention, but possessing relaxed mood.

Bad Standing Stances at Workplace.

1. Legs are splayed too wide and arms folded on chest. This is a sign of aggressive signal, like a bodyguard of a politician.

2. Legs crossed while standing- this is a passive scissor pose.

3. Feet are slightly apart with toes pointed to each other and ankles directing outward. This is a passive, childish stance depicting compliance.

4. Standing with legs almost together and arms straight down by sides. This is an unnatural stance.

5. Standing with a Slumped Posture. It expresses weak and low energy.

6. Standing with legs apart and hands clasped behind back. This stance, generally displayed by men, shows air of enforced authority.

7. Standing holding coffee cup above chest level and near chin. It shows that the individual wants to stay alone.

8. Standing legs slightly splayed and hands covering crotch. This is a defensive pose as if the person is feeling under attack.

Body talk varies culture to culture and society to society. But the above good and bad standing styles we can remember, while we are in our workplace.

In our professional arenas, our maximum communications take place to convince others or to bring people to an agreement in our favor. Bringing other people in agreement needs specialized skill in logical, sequential and informative communication. As a participant in this type of communications, we all need to understand the nonverbal signals of audiences for assessing their mental state.

How to understand that the listeners want to reach an agreement or they are getting convinced? There are some nonverbal signals by the audiences which discloses their positive attitudes toward an agreement. These are:

1. Audience will Mirror the Speaker. The audience wanting to come to an agreement will mirror the body signals of the speaker. Like bodied usually signals like minded.

2. Open Gestures. The audience will display open gestures. They will not keep their hands concealed. Hidden or concealed hand depicts hidden thoughts.

3. Tend to Lean Forward. Leaning forward gesture is the sign of agreement and cooperation. Body proximity is generally a sign of mental alignment.

4. Mirroring Facial Expressions. This is a very strong sign of agreement.

5. Relaxed Breathing Pattern. Disagreed person cannot display relaxed breathing.

6. Feet Pointed to Speaker. Feet directing to the speaker is a gesture of showing desired direction. If the audiences are sitting keeping their feet pointing the speaker, that depicts their agreement to the speaker’s points and logic. During difficult communications, the feet will tend to be pointing to door or to the exit route.

7. Relaxed Lips. Convinced audiences will keep their lips relaxed. If someone is not convinced, he or she will keep his or her lips closed or sucked in.

8. Raised Eyebrows. Slight arching eyebrows are the sign of ‘seems interesting, tell me more”.

9. Maintains Eye Contact. Convinced and agreed audiences will maintain eye contact, once the speaker continues. A disagreed audience will look toward roof or toward door.

10. Empathetic nodding, during the speech.

11. Palms Turned Out or Upward. It is a sign of openness and welcome. Audiences show this sign when they are near to agreement.

12. The convinced audiences will keep their torso turned toward the speaker.

All communications are meant for convincing others. With the above guiding points we can get a primary idea to spot the sign of agreement. If we can understand the body signals of the audiences or the people whom we are communicating that will invariably be a great help for us.

Reference:

James, Judi. (2009). The Body Language Rules. Illinois. Sourcebooks Inc.