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		<title>Birds of a Feather Flock Together</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Birds of a feather do flock together. People seek out others with similarities because it is comfortable for them. Thoughts, like people, create similar thoughts that are comfortable and consistent to alleviate fear of the unknown. Challenge yourself to stop negative processes and develop positive processes that seek growth and expansion.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The title of this article is a <i>figure of speech</i>, or technically, an <i>idiom</i>. A figure of speech is <i>any expressive use of language (metaphor, simile, personification, or antithesis) in which words are used in other than their literal sense in order to suggest a picture or image or for other special effect (dictionary.com)</i>. An idiom takes this one step further. It is <i>an expression whose meaning is not predictable from the usual meanings of its constituent elements and that is not a constituent of a larger expression of like characteristics (dictionary.com)</i>. Idioms can be geographically specific as well.</p>
<p>Birds of a feather are people with interests, opinions, or backgrounds in common. They can also be any thoughts or thought-forms that are similar in creative or manifested nature. What the idiom <i>birds of a feather flock together</i> basically means is that people are attracted to others who are like themselves. Furthermore, thoughts that are negative or positive in nature attract similar thoughts and subsequently create and manifest similar thought-forms. This principle is the basis for the Law of Attraction.</p>
<p>States of happiness occur generally when people or thoughts are in agreement. Happiness is a state of contentment and joy accompanied by a feeling of being favored or blessed. It is usually followed by an exaggerated <i>exhale</i> moment where a person feels relief from the stress of not having what they felt would make them happy. An agreement is an arrangement or understanding that is accepted by people, your thoughts and your subsequent thought-forms. States of sadness occur generally when people or thoughts are not aligned or not in agreement with each other. Sadness is a state of grief and sorrow accompanied by a feeling of being rejected or let down. It is usually followed by an exaggerated <i>inhale </i>moment where a person feels the stress of not having what they felt would make them happy.</p>
<p>The daily thoughts that you hold to and identify with in your consciousness are creating and attracting similar thoughts and subsequently, thought-forms. Thoughts are the result of chemical interactions in your brain. The interaction of the chemicals create electrical signals that stimulate neurons to either input (sensory information from the environment) or output (motor responses to move the body) action. Similar patterns of electron movement create <i>pathways</i> of movement that the body becomes adjusted to and comfortable with; resulting in established patterns of behavior. Our <i>comfort zone</i> is a result of the <i>warm fuzzy feelings</i> we receive from traversing a <i>known</i> path. This is why it is difficult for most people to adopt new pathways of programming and interaction. It is challenging to forge new pathways that are uncomfortable or difficult. The natural response is to fear what is unknown, new or different.</p>
<p>Any electrical movement in a direction generates a magnetic field. Similar particles fall in line with the force of the magnetic field. This is why specific thoughts automatically accept similar thoughts. Birds of a feather <i>do</i> flock together. Ultimately, holding onto these similar and comfortable thoughts create similar and comfortable thought-forms. If you experience frustration, doubt, worry and fear, these negative emotions are sending you a message. They are telling you that you are NOT in alignment with your inner being and the purpose for which you were created. If you experience cooperation, certainty, assuredness and faith, these positive emotions are sending you a message as well. They are telling you that you are in alignment with your inner being and the purpose for which you were created.</p>
<p>The processes involved are a procession from <i>sensing</i>, to <i>thinking</i>, to <i>knowing</i>, to <i>being</i> and then starting all over again. Those who don&#8217;t identify with their purpose and <i>react</i> to their environment with no understanding of their ability to control their environment, proceed from <i>sensing</i> to <i>being</i> day after day. Who they are is a result of what their environment <i>tells</i> them they are. Those who identify with their purpose and <i>pro-act</i> in their environment with an understanding of their ability to control their environment; proceed from <i>being</i> to <i>sensing</i> each day. It&#8217;s the same wheel, but you proceed in a different direction.</p>
<p>Reacting to your environment is like rowing upstream. You daily fight the current and use your will to push forward. Life is a struggle and justifiably so. Pro-acting in your environment is like <i>stow the oars</i> and allowing the current of life to move you in the direction you need to go. It&#8217;s the choice of being stressed or being relieved of stress. It&#8217;s a choice each one of us must make every day.</p>
<p><i>Thought-types</i> are either negative or positive in nature. <i>Thought-processes</i> are ways in which we utilize our thoughts for a purpose. Concentration is the process where we focus on one thought and absorb the subsequent feeling from that thought. Contemplation is the process where we move that thought around into different scenarios to see what reactions it will produce and the feelings we will receive from those reactions; testing the waters, so to speak. Meditation is the process by which we <i>stow the oars </i>and let the current of life create thoughts on the stage of our minds. We let go of these thoughts to flow in the stream of life and absorb the feelings of contentment, peace and oneness with God.</p>
<p>After utilizing <i>thought-processes</i> we can begin to employ <i>thought-decisions</i>. Prayer is a decision we make to pro-act where we recognize the divineness of God and we ask for what we feel we need, want, desire or expect in our lives. It is associated with <i>concentration</i>. Meditation is a decision we make to pro-act where we <i>stop driving</i> and simply <i>let go</i> of our thoughts. Service is a decision we make where we take our thoughts and create beneficial situations for ourselves <i>and </i>others; and make the subsequent steps to physically create these situations. It is associated with <i>contemplation</i> and <i>movement in a direction</i>.</p>
<p>Similar thoughts create similar realities. It is our choice to choose which thoughts to <i>hold on to</i> or <i>discard</i>. When the onslaught of negative emotion occurs we must simply change our direction on the wheel of existence. Stop allowing your reactions to control you and choose to pro-act with the confidence that God didn&#8217;t make a mistake when He created you. He gave you the gifts, talents and abilities to achieve the desires of your heart. His view of this universe (multiverse) is much greater than ours. We are in the valley and we cannot see the other mountains surrounding us. Only when we reach the vista of our personal mountain can we see the other mountains left to climb. Trust in the oneness and indivisibility of God and not the perceived dualistic environment that our senses reveal. It is an illusion that daily fools us into thinking that it is reality. Stop. Turn around. Ride the wheel of existence to the accomplishment of your deepest desires.</p>
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		<title>Silence is Golden</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Sep 2007 07:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Silence is golden. Silence allows you to hear more; see more.</p>
<p>It is important to take some time everyday to sit in silence. It is important to sit back, turn off your television set, turn off your radio, and just sit back and listen to the natural sounds in the world. Listen to the wind blowing through the trees. Take time to stroll along the beach and let the soft crash of the oceans&#8217; waves caress your soul, soothe your spirit.</p>
<p>While stopped at a traffic light, look up into the sky. Watch a flock of birds flutter to and fro. If you watch closely enough you will start to see the patterns they create while in flight. I have witnessed star and heart shapes in their formation among many other beautiful shapes. All this observing is healing and comforting to the soul.</p>
<p>Find music that is purely instrumental. Let the vibrations and chorus patterns wash over your mind, body and spirit. Let the beautiful harmonies clean away all the worries and stress in your mind. Let them bring heaven and serenity to your spirit.</p>
<p>Bring a camera with you where ever you go. You will be surprised at all the moments in life that you can capture. You will be surprised at how creative you can be. You can experiment with angles, with shades, and with subject matter. Who knows maybe you will discover a new hobby, passion or career path by such an endeavor.</p>
<p>Take time to start a new creative venture. Learn how to draw, paint or sculpt. We are all capable of creating new works of art every single day. Draw your inspiration from your heart, from the quiet moments in your day that allow you to really get in touch with the beauty that lies within your spirit. Take an art class. Create and express yourself in a positive manner. It will help you feel more positive and help you add beauty and joy to your life and the life of others.</p>
<p>Furthermore, when you take the time to bring such positive moments and images into your world, you are metaphorically giving your spirit a massage; massaging away any negative energy that may have fallen within your day.</p>
<p>So take the step toward awakening the creative energy within your soul. Your life will be limitlessly brightened and positively magnified when you do so.</p>
<p>Joie Schmidt &copy; Copyright 2007 All Rights Reserved.</p>
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