SOME QUOTATIONS ON FORGIVENESS

Forgiveness is clemency and pardon. It is act of pardoning someone for a mistake or wrongdoing. It also means exoneration, amnesty, absolution, pardon. Many people today find it hard to forgive those who offend them. They forget that there are consequences of bearing grudges. They forget that bearing grudges has some side effect on our health.  It will be proper you take to heart some of these quotations on forgiveness as its application into your life will lead to living happily.

Here are some quotations on forgiveness.

1. He who forgives ends the quarrel. – African Proverb

2. Every person should have a special cemetery lot in which to bury the faults of friends and loved ones. – Anonymous

3. The best way to get even is to forget. – Anonymous

4. The habit of judging and condemning others is usually a great deal more serious blemish than are the things we so glibly point out as flaws or faults. – Anonymous

5. They, who forgive most, shall be most forgiven. – Bailey

6. “I can forgive, but I cannot forget,” is only another way of saying, “I cannot forgive.” – Beecher

7. Life has taught me to forgive much, but to seek forgiveness still more. – Bismarck

8.  Good, to forget; Best to forgive. – Browning

9. Never does the human soul appear so strong and noble as when it foregoes revenge, and dares to forgive an injury. – Chapin

10. Little vicious minds abound with anger and revenge, and are incapable of feeling the pleasure of forgiving their enemies. – Lord Chesterfield

11. They never pardon who commit the wrong. – Dryden

12. His heart was as great as the world, but there was no room in it to hold the memory of a wrong. – Emerson

13. The noblest revenge is to forgive. – Fuller

14. He who cannot forgive others breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven; for everyone has need to be forgiven. – Herbert

15. In the sphere of forgiveness, too many hatchets are buried alive. – Hubbard

16. Forgiving the unrepentant is like drawing pictures on the water. – Japanese proverb

17. A wise man will make haste to forgive, because he knows the true value of time, and will not suffer it to pass away in unnecessary pain. – Johnson

18.  We pardon in the degree that we love. – La Rochefoucauld

19. He who has not forgiven an enemy has never yet tasted one of the most sublime enjoyments of life. – Lavater

20. Doing an injury puts you below your enemy; revenging one, makes you even with him; forgiving it sets you above him. – Nylic Review

21. It is only one step from toleration to forgiveness. – Pinero

22. To love is human; it is also human to forgive. – Plautus

23. Good nature and good sense must ever join; to err is human, to forgive, divine. – Plautus

 24. A brave man thinks no one his superior who does him an injury; for he has it then in his power to make himself superior to the other by forgiving it. – Pope

25. We win by tenderness; we conquer by forgiveness. – Robertson

26. The narrow soul knows not the Godlike quality of forgiving. – Rowe

27. There is a noble forgetfulness-that which does not remember injuries. – Simmons

28. Pass smoothly over the perverseness of those you have to do with, and go straightforward.  It is abundantly sufficient that you have the testimony of a good conscience toward God. – Wesley

29. It is manlike to punish but godlike to forgive. – Winter

30. A heart that refuses to forgive robes it of peace. – Morgan Uzoma

31. Forgiveness is fundamental to bliss in marriage. – Morgan Uzoma

32. Forgiveness is a healing balm for the person offended than the offender. – Morgan Uzoma

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: This is to all the single Men and Women out there. Whatever you fail to address during dating and courtship will definitely keep you depressed and disoriented the rest of your life. Has he ever slapped you? Beaten you blue black? Turned you into a punching bag? It is not just a mistake as he said, that is precisely who he is… Has she held you by the scruff of your… shirt or by your tie and stopped you from going to work? Or called you all sorts of name? She will do worse things when you get married? How does she talk to you now? He will go deeper when you get married. What are the things you don’t like about that person you are in love with? I want you to address those issues now and tell yourself the truth should you move on into marriage with him or her despite your shortcomings? What are your reasons for holding onto that which is killing you and taking away your joy? Are you going on because you don’t want friends and relations to laugh at your broken courtship? Are you there because of what religion will say? Are you there because you don’t want to hurt him or her? Are you in that relationship where you are constantly sad just because you are too desperate for marriage? Are you there because people must not hear that this very one didn’t work out? It’s your Life. You can either make yourself happy by ignoring people’s opinion or make people happy at the expense of your future happiness. It’s your call!!

   – Victor Samson

ANSWER 1:

Good talk. Walk the talk and know for sure it’s ur hide and heart, also ur life and joy at stake. Take a deep breath before you launch into it. All the oceans of this world cannot wash away the stain. It’s for life. The joy is also permanent. Wish you the best of luck.

ANSWER 2:

Many questions asked, many issues raised… but few answers. The thing is, you are never going to be able to work all the issues out – no be curse! what you want to realize before you get too deep into it – before you get into it at all – is that you guys ar going to hurt each other because neither of you are perfect. What gives is this: LOVE.
Listen good and understand this: Love trusts all things, hopes all things, BELIEVES all things, and FORGIVES all things. Love ain’t because of whom the person is or what they have done, or can do, for you; love is IN SPITE of however bad they may hurt you.
So, here’s how it goes – work everything out that you can before the relationship goes on for too long, then the other things you can’t work out (and there will be several of them), pray god for grace to be able to handle them because now they have become your cross, and you will carry them to your dying day (for richer or poorer, sickness or health, better or worse, ’till death do you part!)

ANSWER 3:

What do YOU think is the real solution to the situation? Why don’t YOU provide your answer in the comments section below?

To hold him over and satisfy, ’til I warm up the roast, for dinner!

Jay, Today it’s my turn to send you some flowers! I’m so happy about the beautiful life the Lord has given us to share. And, what is so great about it, you can be flawed and no matter what it is, I can forgive you, and go on. I can be flawed and no matter what it is, you can forgive me, and go on. No sin or shortcoming can outweigh the love of God in us. There’s not one thing we can say or do, that will hinder his genuine compassion and true love. That’s the only real security in this world! I am learning how to forgive and the release I feel, can’t even be put into words. I’m becoming free and the pain I have inside is going away. I’m beginning to enjoy life again! Only God can perform a miracle and that is exactly what I need. Outside of a ‘wonder’ that big, there’s no hope and I’m thankful that God still loves me. Jay, thankyou for sharing your life with me. Together, we can face anything, if we continue to put God first!

                                                                        Love, Kharla

God is great, God is good, Thank Him for this Chinese food!

Sweet and sour on top of rice, will fill you up and taste real nice.

Cheese on crackers, some Pringles for you, followed by vanilla yoplait, too.

Enjoy your lunch, today have fun, Giving glory to the Lord for ALL that he has done!

When Jay worked at a building center, our notes shared were quite often e-mails and here’s one of them. 

Animals need a doctor, when they aren’t feeling good,

People call their doctor, when they don’t feel as they should.

When your vehicle makes strange noises or it won’t take you far,

It’s time to call the doctor, who will overhaul your car.

When a building needs repairing, we’d fix it if we could,

But, instead we call the doctor, who’s specialty is WOOD!

Nate (oldest child), called our house regularly, every Saturday just to say, ‘I miss you, Grammy!’ That was a heart warmer, if there ever was one. Taylor (second oldest), sent me a paper doll, which I had to carry wherever I went, for a solid week. Also, I had to write a journal of everything that occurred in our life together! This dolls name was, ‘Flat Taylor.’ Actually, I completely enjoyed this constant companion at my side, because I knew that my precious granddaughter fashioned it, with her own, precious little hands! This thrilled my heart, knowing that she chose me, to participate in one of her classroom projects, for an entire week. After it was over, I had to mail everything back to Taylor’s teacher, along with ‘Flat Taylor’ and our week-long journal neatly written out. It was a joyful experience, I will never forget. Zachary (number three), was the quiet one, who acted like he didn’t have any needs, didn’t demand things and he never said a whole lot. But, when Grandpa and Grandma took him with us, alone in the backseat of our car he chittered non-stop, knowing that he had our undivided attention, all to himself! Zachary wasn’t a born squeaky wheel, so he just laid back and watched everyone else grab and scramble for what they wanted or thought they needed. Kaitlyn, (number four) was adorable and quite verbal. Whenever she needed something, everyone heard about it! Her cute face and natural, bubbly personality, won my heart over in about five minutes. Spending time with her, was a lot of fun!

MariLyn and I had a disagreement, not a fight mind you, just a few short sentences. To keep from flaring up at each other (which we never do), we parted ways and didn’t communicate for a couple months. Why didn’t I contact her? Because after time passes by, it’s very hard to remember what was actually said or done. I honestly didn’t remember, because I love my daughter very much. Not hearing her voice or seeing her face, was extremely hard. I consider her one of my best friends, regardless of who was right or wrong, or who said what. I was definitely wrong, that’s one thing I did know. My attitudes were far from being right. 

Today, she sent me a text message and neither one of us even mentioned our discord. It’s such a blessing to be communicating with her again, hearing that she misses me! We shared a few short texts and both were assured that everything is back in place again. Only God can mend hurt feelings and that’s exactly what he has done. I’m so glad, that his ways are so much higher than our ways and the Lord has a perfect plan, knowing just exactly what it takes to heal our hearts. I’m so thankful for his infinite wisdom, his forgiveness and also, for his complete understanding!

Having mastered those two little detail, let us now explore two other things you can go that can ensure your GOING HOME WITH YOUR MAN each time, every time… and making it last.

Rule #3: Understand Love

Love is when a guy cares for you and you care for him back; love is when you can’t wait from the instant you part until you can see each other again. Love is when you can’t keep your hands (or mouths) off of each other; or when you can’t stop exchanging gifts, because you care that much for each other. Right?

WRONG!!!

Love is a decision, a choice… and the actions you take because of it. Too often you find an average woman thinking or believing that love has anything to do with how you feel about the other guy. But this is a hugely dangerous premise because if love were a feeling, it would be doomed to fail – just like all those other human feelings and emotions that change with the circumstance, or that get sated. Hunger, anger, fear, pleasure… all these are fleeting human stimuli that are no more than mere secretion of chemicals in the body. The emotions are gone the instant the chemicals stop flowing. It would be such a shame basing an entire life on a choice that was made based on a fluid that flowed for a brief and passing moment in the human body. Love is supposed to last forever has got to be a lot more than that.

Love is when you consider all the pluses and minuses to be had in your man, and you DECIDE that you are going to be with him whether they add up or not. Love is when everything adds up wrong and you CHOOSE to still be in that relationship/marriage irrespective of the science behind it. Love is going the distance despite the hurts or challenges you may encounter along the way. Love is knowing that the same man who makes you most happy and so starry-eyed today WILL one day hurt you so badly you’d could kill him and then yourself; love is knowing that when that day comes you will still OPT to go on with it. Love is committing that you are going to be by his side through thick and thin, and you are going to help him be all that he can be!

It’s heavy, I know, but its truth. Love is courage; love is faith; love is IN SPITE OF, not BECAUSE OF; love is strength. This is why genuine love cannot fail, because it looks out for the bad times and the failures and deals with them when they occur, not quitting.

You do not have to “give it up” to every guy you spend the time of day with, but you need to at least love them a little. The average person on the street will consider it giving too much of yourself, but I call it stooping to conquer, since you are stronger and better because of it… And when you do decide to be with that someone, your marriage/relationship is going to be that much stronger because of it.

Rule #4: Learn To Forgive

You know, when you don’t forgive someone, you aren’t hurting them; you’re hurting you. Really, they go around not knowing that you’re having such misgivings about them, sometimes not even knowing that you still exist at all. Sometimes, such folks actually know that they have hurt you and go around proud or unhappy about it, but the sad part is that you actually still use up all of your energy holding on to all that negative emotion, hurting the people around you because you have chosen not to forgive. And so you find it impossible to learn how to trust again. It drains you – unforgiveness; it makes you bitter and difficult to be or have around. But if instead you understand that the other person is human and they are bound to make mistakes at some point – just as you are human also and bound to make your own mistakes as well – you’ll be able to let go of all ills, big or small. This way, your relationships will not have to hit the rocks every time one of you hurts the other. Simple, controversial… but true.

There are a truckload of other dos and don’ts anyone can come up with, but I’d be surprised if any of them trump these simple truths. The problem is we keep trying to be smart and independent, moral and upright; but if humanity has proven anything about these things over the course of history, it’s that smart and moral tend to fail, but sacrificial doesn’t.

I am a guy; and possibly my views may not be views you readily agree with, but if you gave them a try they just might work for you as they have for my wife and I. I used them with her and they worked; I USE them with her and they work! And I guarantee that if you are sincere about bearing these words in mind with a view to doing the right thing, you will end up GOING HOME WITH YOUR MAN each time, every time!

Rule No. 1

First of all always be hopeful. Despair is a sin and it embarrasses the person more. Therefore, try to look at the bright side of every matter and be hopeful for success. If you are not succeeding in any matter, then be satisfied in the God’s will for He may want to give you something better than this one.

Rule No. 2

The second important rule is to keep smiling every time. Think how many people will smile seeing your smile. Smiling opens the gates of spirit. When a little child smiles, you can see smile on everybody’s face and you feel unique internal gladness that cannot be given any name. Smile also keeps the body healthy and you know soul cannot be separated from body except after death. Therefore, smile and let others smile as well.

Rule No. 3

The third rule is never breaking anybody’s heart because if you break other’s heart, you will also feel pain. It is said that there is a reaction of every action. When you curse others, you also feel recklessness internally. This recklessness serves the purpose of dam in front of your happiness. Always remember, who do not respect others, people do not respect him too. Therefore, be obliged to other’s people love and faithfulness. Forgive others’ short-comings whole heartedly. Remember, forgiving whole heartedly means, forgetting displeasure incidents in a way as they never occurred before. It is difficult but not impossible.

Rule No. 4

Fourth rule is passing your time with your friends and relatives. Meet each other and share gifts, but remember always admiring other’s gifts, because the love of giver is also included in it and people who reject other’s love remain emptied from love themselves.

Rule No. 5

Fifth rule is describing your happiness. If you get any success or any of your desire fulfills, express it with an open heart, but not in a way that other’s feel jealousy. Thank your God and if anybody else has got any happiness, pray that God may prolong his happiness. When anybody prays for others, the same pray become blessing in his favor as well.

Rule No. 6

Sixth rule is your relation with your Creator and that is very much important one. Strengthen your relation with your God.  Worship Him and share all of your heart feelings with Him. It is only God, in front of whom; we can open our heart’s secrets without any fear. Do virtuous deeds and also invite others. Your virtuous deeds should be of a kind that can benefit majority of people.

Rule No. 7

Seventh rule is learning from your environment because knowledge is that treasure that keeps on increasing and it does not get any harm from the ups and downs of the circumstances. It is not necessary that you always use books for gaining knowledge. Learn from Newspapers, Magazines, T.V. Internet and from incident that are taking place around you. Try to learn from the experience of elders, since they have already seen and understood the world more than us.

Rule No. 8

Eighth rule is helping others. Believe me, you will feel happiness that can neither be expressed in words nor can be valued. Helping some blind person cross the road, leading to the right path, helping the poor, guiding the sinful person will surely give you happiness.

Rule No. 9

Ninth rule is very important. Choose words sensibly in your speech because the wavering of tongue is more dangerous than the wavering of feet. Making the cheek red by slapping will disappear after sometime, but the slap on the heart sometimes cost much. Therefore, choose words thoughtfully in your talks. Whatever difficulties and problems we are facing in the world now most of them are the result of this tongue alone. Speak politely, you will receive politeness in return and if you speak bitter, the opponent will also utter bitterness.

Rule No.10

Tenth rule is giving room to truth in your life. Speak truth and support truth. If you want to punish anybody, keep speaking truth with him. Don’t find faults or criticize others because when you criticize, you yourself give an opportunity to others to raise finger on you. Remember, when you raise you finger on anybody, the remaining four fingers points towards you.

Rule No. 11

Eleventh rule is taking care of your health. Do light exercises daily. Your most of the brain and body tension is released by exercising and you will feel relaxed.

Happiness is present inside a person. Setting of few rules can make your life simple and more attractive. Before applying these rules, remember, come what may, you have to adopt these rules and then success will be yours destiny.

By Muhammad Irfan Zafar

Content Writer

Beyond popular belief, forgiveness is not something that we do. It is a state of being that we live in. I know, because I live in the state of forgiveness everyday. Well of course I do — I am the Queen of Forgiveness.

Here is my definition of forgiveness. It comes for “The Queen of Forgiveness Dictionary.” Let’s begin with the root.

Forgive: 1To release the feelings of hurt, anger and resentment in relation to a person, place, situation or thing. 2To free others to do the same.

Forgiveness: To allow people to be who they are and do what they do and allow situations to happen as they are happening with pure and total detachment.

I know that sometimes this level of forgiving can seem daunting. However, everything seems daunting when we have not experienced it. When you begin to practice forgiving, then forgiveness is the state that follows.

So next time you hear the word Forgiveness, you know that it is not something that you do, but a something that you are. More love.

-Anasha Kundalini Shakti

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1. Talk!  – If you dont talk, how in the world will you be a relationship?
2. Love – If you are in the relationship to love than love! Do not waste your energy on fights!
3. Forgive – People say things and do things they don’t mean, so forgive. (Unless its cheating, etc. )
4. Time – Give that special person some of your time. Do not just wait for the last moment to talk to them or hang out with them.

Forgiveness is not allowing people to walk all over you. It is possible to forgive someone, yet still take steps to make sure they don’t hurt you again. If for example your son is an addict and habitually steals from you , you might forgive him but still lock away your purse.

Forgiveness means that we let go of resentment and bitterness toward that person. we dump bad thoughts. This benefits us much more than it benefits them.

Racism against black people proves the human absurdity and cruelty. Human beings are not really ‘human’.

I continued the dangerous research of the psychiatrist Carl Jung into the known region of the human psyche through dream interpretation. This research was very dangerous because there is craziness in the human mind. Jung discovered that this content is inherited, but he didn’t know where exactly it was. I discovered that all the human absurdity comes from our wild conscience; the anti-conscience.

We are in fact under-developed primates. The biggest part of our brain belongs to our wild, primitive, violent, immoral, evil, and cruel conscience. I named this terrible part of our brain ‘anti-conscience’ because it works against our conscience.

This is why our civilization is so barbarous. Discrimination against blacks proves that human beings are in fact wild monsters.

If you are a victim of racism and you are revolted for being in such position you are right for feeling disgusted, but you must calm down and understand that your enemies are crazy animals. They don’t know what they are doing. They are not sensible and sensitive human beings. You should feel sorry for them.

There are some racists in Brazil, but I believe that most people are not racist in my country. Black people are loved and respected in Brazil because of their extraordinary talents. I love black people and I have many black friends.

There are many other people that love blacks too. Not everyone is so crazy in our world. Fortunately, there are a few real human beings among all the monsters, even though the monsters prevail.

Carl Jung’s brilliant discoveries and my discoveries after continuing his mission prove to the world that everyone can be cured from any mental illness through dream therapy. When everyone will respect the meaning of dreams, discrimination against blacks and many other absurd reactions won’t characterize our population.

Write down all your dreams in a dream journal and follow the unconscious guidance. Dream interpretation will open your third eye. You will attain a higher level of knowledge and learn many things that will surpass the limited (and false) knowledge of your historical time.

Forgive those who are controlled by their anti-conscience, and help the world find peace. Your example will help humanity understand the power of goodness and wisdom. Through dream therapy you will become a superior person, besides becoming a genius. Everyone will admire your extraordinary personality because you won’t be an indifferent hypocrite. You’ll be a wise, humble, sensitive, and generous human being.

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung’s research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to accurately translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.

Learn more at:

http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com

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