You do really dig her, though, and you want to impress her, and give her something really cool, something that might even make her squeal with delight, because hey, it is Valentine’s Day and romance can be pretty damned cool, and she’s cute when she squeals with delight. So what can you do that’s the right amount of “You’re pretty wonderful” and “It’s not a ring, stop visualizing bridesmaid dresses” , you’re wondering?

Now, you could, if you have a chance, sneak around in her home dressed all in black like a ninja, doing things such as, say, checking out perfume bottles, sizes of lingerie and shoes, jotting down the names from the sides of saved shopping bags out of the closet and so forth… but, these things take time, not to mention they are very risky activities that one cannot partake in during the fragile beginnings of a relationship, lest one be branded a dangerous stalker. And once you are branded a Dangerous Stalker, well, it makes it harder to get reservations for that Valentine’s Night dinner. Something about “Two for Dangerous Stalker” is off-putting to most fine dining establishments, though no one quite knows why.

So to save you this trauma, I am here to help. Let’s begin, shall we?

♥Buy her costume jewelry. Something cute and sweet. But be sure to include some chocolates. For balance. Cause that way it will take her mind off the fact that she didn’t just get a diamond.

♥You don’t know her sizes, but you want to get her lingerie. Is she tall, petite? Slender, curvy? Stacked, not so stacked? Tell the salesperson. If her breasts can fit in the palm of your hand, she’s probably an A cup. If she overflows just a bit, probably a B. If she’s a good handful, she’s a C. And if you have to spread your fingers to hang on and you still don’t have full coverage, that’s a D. (If anyone can explain this in a more efficient way, feel free to write in and correct me. I figured that you’d enjoy visualizing this more than fruit, however.) I have to say, though, as with most other things on the list, the path of least resistance is the ever popular gift card. Get her one from Amazon and she can choose from tons of different lingerie retailers. But make sure you mark down that the gift card is for lingerie, lest it be spent on 

♥With stockings, generally petite through 5′9″ is one size. 5′10″ and up is Tall.  5′7″ or so and 190lbs or more is Queen (or roundabouts there I think, I’m taking a guess, I know it’s a lot larger and goes up higher, that number is a low point).

♥Perfume: A few perfumes that you cannot go wrong with – Most women will adore the smell of Issey Miyake’s L’eau D’Issey Eau D’Parfum. It has a nice blend of florals along with an undertone of light woods. It is beautiful and smells very elegant and luxurious. She will feel like a princess. Issey Miyake makes a Florale one also that is wonderful. Either of these will make your gal feel incredibly special. If she is in her early twenties or so, Juicy Couture’s original fragrance is a great choice as well. Another favorite of the young set is Davidoff’s Cool Water for women. And if you really want to be romantic, you can get her Creed’s Love in Black, which was originally developed exclusively for Jackie Onassis. (But you have to be sure to tell her the tale – and why not get her a Chanel suit and pillbox hat while you’re at it?

♥Shoes: Never try to guess a lady’s shoe size. Shoes run so differently, and an ill-fitting shoe can cause serious foot problems down the road. Better: Give your gal a beautiful box of handmade chocolates (check Etsy for some amazing sellers – some may be able to overnight their wares!) or in a pinch some Godiva or Ghiradelli from the mall, and tuck a gift card to DSW in the box. She can pick out her own shoes, and try them on first to make sure they are a perfect fit. And you know the old saying, “Give a woman shoes, and you have a friend for life.” Wait, that’s not an old saying? Well, it certainly should be.

♥Other gifts of luxury: Consider things like spa days, day cruises, mani-pedi gift certificates, his & hers massage dates, hair salon gift cards (careful with that one – don’t give her just a hair cut or “get your roots done” card, or your gift may backfire on your and you’ll have a mighty offended girl on your hands – and the amount of offense increases exponentially with the amount of candy that the holiday is associated with, so yep, that’s a lot of offense. Walk softly and carry a well-stocked gift card. Again, tucked inside a gift box of (her favorite kind) of chocolates would be really good. (Does she like milk chocolate? Have you heard her wax rhapsodic about white chocolate? When she gets it for herself, what does she get? Assuming you’ve seen her do this. Just a simple thing like knowing what kind of chocolate is her favorite can score major “This guy is incredible and deserves (fill in the naughty blank)” points. Though of course that’s not why you’re giving gifts. But you wouldn’t cry, would you?

Hopefully this has given you some ideas you wouldn’t have had otherwise, and you’ve got enough love ammo to cook up an idyllic day of gift-giving that will enhance your budding relationship with that special female with whom Cupid has graced you.

Happy Valentine’s Day! ♥

     Pornography is said to be a healthy masturbatory aid. But in reality, porn is a very addictive mental drug. It can be more addictive than smoking or drinking for some people. The only way your going to stop is with help from the outside. There are only a few people in the world that have forced them selves out just by saying no. But this is not the case for most people. There are many solutions. To name a few: Give you self a positive attitude. Think about your family or friends. When you watch porn, you are betraying them. When you wake in the morning, say to yourself ” Okay, its a new day and there is no way I am going to let porn destroy my life. Another way that helps to get out of the addiction is tell someone. Your close friend or partner is likely to understand. Tell them when hey are in a good mood and make a plan to how your going to stop. The first thing you can do is to have someone set a password on the computer and not tell you so that when your alone, your not tempted. Speaking of which, try to never be alone in the computer room. Take notice that you usually start getting cravings when you alone. Do you best to avoid this situation and it will help you allot. The last way that I am going to share is get rid of the source. If its the computer, get programs that block bad sites, or even batter, get rid of the computer entirely. If its magazines, burn them. If its tapes, burn them and smash them with joy. If its anything else, obliterate it. There are different methods for getting out, but remember this: its either NOW or never. I wish the best of luck to all of you that have fallen into the trap.

Ebony Ebodarbla is 21 years old. For her, it is not love without an unusual, exciting, and daring experience. She would not mind if her sweetie needed to be completely sure before falling for her. It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is amusing and enjoyable. Her seduction method expresses strong emotions. Her ideal date is an exciting and romantic evening together.

Favel  Freflagolhai is 26 years old. She thinks that it is not love without starting out as friends first. She would not mind if her sweetie expected complete loyalty from her. It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is beautiful, smart, and elegant. Her seduction method is amusingly unconventional, and never exactly the same. Her ideal date is a a long walk to an isolated, particular place to have a picnic.

Bahjibaji Bahjoy is 24 years old. For her, it is not love without flirting. She would not mind if her sweetie always had to get the last word in.  It is  rather difficult for her to resist someone who is philosophical and independent. Her seduction method is a superb ability to be able to change readily to meet new circumstances. Her ideal date is an intense exchange of thoughts, opinions, and feelings in a small restaurant, eating light meals. 

Calca Calaussta is 23 years old. For her, it is not love without romance. She would not mind if her sweetie needed to be the center of attention. It is rather difficult  for her to resist someone who is friendly, pleasant, affable, and  fashionably elegant. Her seduction method is to be able to ask the right questions. Her ideal date is a long walk in a wonderful mountain landscape.

First off, everyone has to steel themselves and realize that everything that happens, happens for a reason. I am well aware that many people think it’s just a stupid thing thought up by older folks, but being 16 and realizing this fact has helped me a lot personally. So my first advice would be : Don’t beat yourself up for it. Don’t start blaming yourself OR even the other person for it. Most people rush to the conclusion that it was their fault and start a depressed and unhealthy life. Other people blame the ex about the break up and start making their lives miserable when they don’t even know the reason behind the break up.

Secondly, do not lose your cool. I’m aware it’s easier said than done, but you have to have inner strength if you want to live a happy life again. Keep yourself calm and try to find out the reason behind the break up without getting over stressed about it. At this point, your emotions might overcome you but as I stated before, you must have inner strength. The moment you lose to your emotions that’s the moment you step into the path of destruction.

I’d like to add that if you want to get back with him/her, that depends on whether there was the “spark” between you both. If not, MOVE ON!

Thirdly, do not be a drama queen. Quit whining about it all the time, nobody likes a whiner! Keep your mind focused on your life.The longer you keep whining about it the harder it’s going to be for you to get over it. Try living life like a normal person and get interested in your hobbies or whatever you prefer.

Fourth and final for this release, stop reminiscing about the past. If you’re not confident that you can fix things with him/her, FORGET ABOUT HIM/HER! Stop daydreaming about him/her all the time and think about other things, be it useless or productive.

If your case is extremely serious and you can’t get over her, get a dog or a cat! OR try to fix it!

Hope this helps all the poor souls. Leave a comment on how you feel about these advices!

Good luck!

Adamantite

Yahsarah Hebyalifsarpri is 23 years old. She does not  believe in the concept of soulmates. She thinks that love at first sight does not happen. She believes that it is impossible to love someone unconditionally. It takes her a while to show enthusiasm, affection, kindness to someone she is dating. She has had a wide range of love experiences. She believes in love, but she knows it does not come easily. She speaks about “love at first sight” and “soulmates” in a scornfully derisive way.

Zandra Heldefmansan is 22 years old. She needs her space in a relationship. She things that in a relationship it is unhealthy to spend every night together. There are some things she really enjoys about being single. She often feels trapped and oppressed in relationships. She has had only one relationship. She still has a lot to learn, and a lot to try! She does not need to be in love, and sometimes she does not even want love. She says that having her own life is very important for her.

Wanda Wenslanoreasger is 30 years old. She has had at least two boyfriends. She has dated someone for over a year. Unfortunately she has had her heart broken. Also she has broken someone’s heart. It’s hard for her to imagine being with one person at time. She has loved, lost, and loved again. She has had a wide range of love experiences. It is hard for her to stay devoted for too long. All her relationships have been very similar.

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The model came from a hard day, where gossip television programs had been criticized because of his statements against the Spanish Pamela Nydia Diaz or Fabregat, with which it competes in Dance Fever. And in the way the private channel was wrong, according to witnesses recount. She was accompanied by his agent and his partner, stockbroker Jorge Parodi. And once in his dressing room began to mourn, because I knew that bullying against him would, as in the set should face Fabregat.
Barrientos has resisted attacks, mockery, that in Argentina called “cat” or “transvestite”. They even dragged across the floor and tried to leave without clothes. But to go against their own country hurts, say its close.
“Nobody could comfort because I felt that the program they were going to do another trap,” says a source Chilevisión. “Adriana cried and cried. He complained that no one supported or advised. Even thought about leaving and not being aired, but had already signed a contract,” says the same person, who prefers to keep his name confidential.
At one point, also threw the dressing room to your representative. “I was very heartfelt,” adds the source. He also preferred that your partner be left alone. Until it came time to enter the scene.
In the study, Francisca Garcia-Huidobro cheerleader asked what happened in the backstage and Barrientos said, “I’m going to break. I’m half sensible … That heavy that six people in the audience, I blunder. In Argentina okay, but when you’re in the house … “
“I feel little support from my team, for people who are close to me. It is difficult when decisions are clearly erroneous and are working, going to places where they clearly play cards and the next day I have a media funa of terror … Here too I visit, when he came over here I learned that Nydia would be in the program, “explained the 31-year Puntarenas.

Paige  Amepagkni is 27 years old. She is usually attracted to people who share her goals, ambitions, aspirations, hopes,  plans, and values. She thinks that the most important thing in a relationship is to become romantically involved with her sweetie. When he looks at another girl she feels slightly irritated and sometimes she behaves in an eccentric manner. In the evening she loves to stay at home with her sweetie.
 
Raah  Greshesav is 25 years old. She is usually attracted to people who are her physical type. She believes that the most important things in a relationship are love, communication, honesty, communication, support, respect, mutual understanding. When her sweetie looks at another girl she has  a feeling of physical pain or discomfort: she is jealous, and a little confused. In the evening she likes to  visit a hot new place with him.