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		<title>How to Rebuild Your Self-confidence After Failure</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 01:37:04 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After facing failure you simply want to die. You have no courage or energy for anything.</p>
<p>You need a miracle.</p>
<p>Therefore, you must believe in miracles. This is the first rule you have to obey if you want to have the courage to go ahead and triumph. This is very difficult because you cannot believe in anything.</p>
<p>However, I can prove to the world that miracles happen because I found salvation from despair when I was totally lost, depressed, and always angry. I was saved by a miracle.</p>
<p>This is why I&rsquo;m telling you that you must believe in miracles. Your faith won&rsquo;t be based on your imagination.</p>
<p>The unconscious mind that produces your dreams is God&rsquo;s mind. God exists, and He is as saintly and as wise as described by all religions. He helps us in all ways when we obey His guidance in the dream messages. Carl Jung discovered this truth, but he acted like a scientist, and not like a sinner. I, who was a terrible sinner, could easily understand that I was receiving divine grace without deserving it. Thus, I had a religious attitude.</p>
<p>This story looks like a fairy tale, but there is also a tragic part in it, which proves that it is not an invention. There is always something bad in our reality when we discover the truth. This is why we never doubt that there is something bad behind the scenes, or that something bad could happen in the future. However, we are always afraid to trust someone. We cannot believe that we will find something good in the dark future ahead.</p>
<p>The divine unconscious mind is very generous and sends us precious messages in dreams because we are basically demons. We need guidance in order to eliminate all the evilness, the absurdity, the indifference, and the cruelty we have inherited into the biggest part of our brain.</p>
<p>In other words, we are immensely helped in all ways when we learn the dream language and we understand the unconscious guidance in dreams. However, we receive this generous help because we are too far from balance and we cannot find peace without guidance. This is the tragic part of the story.</p>
<p>Dreams are mysterious because the unconscious mind must hide the information it sends to our conscience from our anti-conscience, which is the primitive side of our conscience that didn&rsquo;t evolve like our human side. We have to study the dream language in order to understand the meaning of dreams.</p>
<p>The anti-conscience will be able to understand the meaning of our dreams when our human conscience will understand their meaning by studying the dream language. However, the anti-conscience won&rsquo;t be able to distort the meaning of the dream messages because it will learn this meaning after our human conscience does.</p>
<p>On the other hand, the anti-conscience is idiotic. Its intelligence cannot be compared to the intelligence of our human conscience. Our conscience can study and learn many things, while the anti-conscience refuses studying and learning whatever. It is a self-destructive animal.</p>
<p>Therefore, the reason why our dreams are so confusing is the necessity to hide the unconscious messages from our anti-conscience, which would distort their meaning if it could learn it before our conscience would understand these messages and follow the unconscious guidance.</p>
<p>You only have to learn the dream logic and the meaning of the most important dream symbols in order to understand how the dream images are connected. The dream images follow the unconscious logic.</p>
<p>Thus, miracles can happen because God exists and He helps us in all ways by sending us precious guidance in dreams.</p>
<p>You will be immensely helped by following the unconscious guidance, and successfully solve all problems. This guarantee is given to you thanks to my work, after continuing Jung&rsquo;s research, and discovering the unconscious sanctity.</p>
<p>The unconscious mind will show you how to achieve your goals by giving you many clues, like a good teacher. You have to participate of your psychotherapy and put all the clues together, making your conclusions.</p>
<p>In the end, you&rsquo;ll become a doctor too. You&rsquo;ll understand all the process of your psychotherapy and how someone can be cure through dream translation. The unconscious mind gives you many lessons and explanations in dreams.</p>
<p>The unconscious messages will help you believe in salvation because you will see how your problems can be solved. You will feel that you have the privilege to understand many things about yourself and about the world thanks to the unconscious guidance.</p>
<p>The second rule you must respect in order to have the courage to go ahead after facing failure is the fact that you have to accept failure as if it was not the end of the world. Of course, a failure is the end of the world for you. However, the truth is that the world will keep working even after your big failure. The sun will shine again. The birds will sing with all their energy, as if nothing bad had happened to you.</p>
<p>A failure is not the end of the world, even though it seems to be a tragic end. Each failure is another lesson and another step in your journey.</p>
<p>The third rule is related to the second one. You must always stand up after falling, and keep walking. If you&rsquo;ll keep walking, someday you&rsquo;ll arrive.</p>
<p>The unconscious mind will help you arrive faster, and without making useless attempts. You will be guided.</p>
<p>You will surely find the courage you need to go ahead and triumph thanks to dream translation. Now that I transformed Carl Jung&rsquo;s complicated and time consuming method of dream interpretation into a fast method of instant translation, you are able to immediately understand the unconscious guidance, and immediately solve your problems.</p>
<p>Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung&#8217;s research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to accurately translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.</p>
<p>Learn more at:</p>
<p><u><a href="http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com/" target="_blank">http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com</a></u></p>
<p><u><a href="http://www.booksirecommend.com/" target="_blank">http://www.booksirecommend.com</a></u></p>
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		<title>Persistence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 01:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Persistence</p>
<p>Persistence according to chambers dictionary means &ldquo;keep on doing something in spite of opposition or difficulty&rdquo;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; According to oxford dictionary to continue to do what you do despite difficulties or opposition, in a way that seem unreasonable</p>
<p>To continue to try despite difficulties especially when people are against you and think that you are unreasonable</p>
<p>To continue for a long period of time without interruption or repeated frequently especially in a way that is annoying and cannot be stopped</p>
<p>The one big thing all big achievers of all time have is to be persistent, about their goals dreams and ambitions, despite numerous critics, oppositions, trials, failures and many more, they still pushed and pressed on hoping, believing and knowing that success was just a reach away, so they never asked themselves this question should I quit now when success is just a reach away?</p>
<p>We young people have one thing at our disposal and that&rsquo;s time, we can use are time for so many things, but for those that use their time to think have dreams, they like to achieve at particular time and sect of their lives, they dream of so many things, some of them are unrealistic while others tend to be achievable, if this young person is actually reasonable enough he/she gets a paper and pen, takes note and beginning&rsquo;s research finds out if the dreams are men flying with &nbsp;capes in the sky or&nbsp; men flying in the sky in metallic objects, from there they now become goals from dreams, taking note of the time when these goals are achievable , he/she beginning&rsquo;s to attain these goals, noticing all the things that have to be done, sacrifices that have to be made, and all kinds of training to be done and many more to be successful.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&ldquo;Zeal without knowledge is useless&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp; You need to be knowledgeable about what you are doing.</p>
<p>Getting Counsel about your goals is important, it sets you on the right path in order to avoid mistakes, the wrong choices to be made are drastically cut down due to counseling, you get a little know-how, the work that has to be done is reduced, materials are usually provided or you are told the ones to get.</p>
<p>In the beginning of the pursuit of these dreams of yours, you might begin to face difficulties but do not stop, if you fail get up; the greatness of a man is not only in the things he has achieved but the number of times he fell down and got up to be a better person. The way you carried out the job must had made you fail the first time, that means you have to change motive and plans in approach towards your goals, you must always change motive and notice the result , to avoid problems in the next trail.</p>
<p>You have to be highly disciplined, in order to be successful, you begin to reduce the time and attention you give irrelevant things like, T.V, play time with friends, the time spent on the internet, and many other things&nbsp; that take our time and add nothing to us, be on the watch out!!</p>
<p>On the road to be a great person, there bound to be oppositions, people telling what you are about to do can&rsquo;t be done that you should quit, and focus on some more important, they will laugh, discourage and actually stand in your way, just because they can&rsquo;t stand you at all, or they do not like what you are doing at all, do not listen to them do not let them get into your mind, do not think about what they are saying, always be busy all the time in other to avoid them and the things they say, you might try and convince some of them, but please do not they use your whole time trying to explain your goals to them as this saying goes &ldquo;you cannot explain how light is to a blind man there is no word that can describe it &rdquo;.</p>
<p>DO NOT CALM DOWN TO THINK ABOUT THE NEGATIVITY OR LIST ALL THE DISADVATAGES YOU WILL FACE, NO DON&rsquo;T!!! ACT FAST AS FAR AS THE DREAMS ARE REALISTIC.</p>
<p>Acknowledge the one who gave you the ideas, ability to attain them and many more, always pray for guidance, He knows everything so ask NOW!!! (Pro 16 vs. 3)</p>
<p>In the name of the pursuit of your ambitions, do not become unrealistic towards your parents, guardians, teachers, coordinators and so on, they know best, they may believe that some things are meant for a particular time, they may think you are not old enough or ready, they may think you are not carrying out the task the right way, their suggestion a times seem unreasonable, always chill and calm down and listen to them. When you disobey them GOD will no longer be for you and you are bound to have problems. Calm down, be patient and never be rude to them they know best a Yoruba proverb says &ldquo;you can never have enough rags as an old person&rdquo; that means you can never have enough experience as the older people have they know best and GOD knows why He put them above you, PLEASE ALWAYS LISTEN!!!!!!!</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&ldquo;SO ALWAYS KEEP AT IT NO MATTER THE OPPOSITION&rdquo;</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; <em>Your Dream. Your Motive.</em>&nbsp;<strong><em> Definition of Dream:</em></strong> <u><em>an experience of waking life having the characteristics of a dream or a series of thoughts, images, or emotions occurring during sleep&#8230;.</em></u> Dreams are very simple to create. This&nbsp;is my point, don&#8217;t put this word dream on a pedestal. You make the dream for yourself unachievable with the power in the word &#8220;DREAM.&#8221;&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp; <strong>Example:</strong> <em>My Dream. My Motive. My dream is&nbsp;to be a well known Performing Artist. Motive: Your hobby is not an career until you get paid for it. I wanna make money for something I love to do. In your one life don&#8217;t waste time being unhappy at a job. Don&#8217;t watch your life go down the drain. I love to sing and perform, that&#8217;s what is going to make me the best. <strong>MOTIVE&#8230;</strong></em></p>
<p>&nbsp; So a hobby is something you like to do, so what if you got paid for something you like to do? I call these kind of goals, <em>dreams</em>. Cause if I have the power to go up inside my head and image myself doing this, I just created a dream. Your hobby is&nbsp;something you do for free, until you actually start to get paid, and that makes it a <strike>job</strike> or career. So how much more would you do it if you were paid for it? <em>Hmmmm???? Think about that one. ALL THE TIME!!!</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Now, psychologically, we put a weight on our minds with the word <em>&#8220;Dream.</em>&#8221; It sounds way more bigger then it actually is. Imagine me telling you: &#8220;I want you to help me lift my <em>&#8220;757 Jumbo Jet,&#8221;</em>&nbsp;2&#8243; inches&nbsp;off the ground. I know my jet is 60 lbs., but&nbsp;you don&#8217;t know&nbsp;it&#8217;s a model jet inside my apartment. See how the description of what I needed help with seemed bigger then we could lift, until I told you it was a model jet. This is the same way we look at the word &#8220;<em>Dream.&#8221; </em>Also keep in mind, that this is a sub-conscious&nbsp;decision to look at the word negatively. It&#8217;s not a conscious decision.&nbsp;The weight of the word &#8220;Dream&#8221;&nbsp;directly impacts our effort mentally and physically. And effort is the only way you can get results from anything. <em>&#8220;Ohhh, he&#8217;s following his dream.&#8221; &#8220;Ohhh, he&#8217;s living his childhood dream.&#8221;</em> Look at the definition of dream again. It&#8217;s not that hard to create a dream and live it. <strong>The point:</strong> <em>Don&#8217;t over think the term, &#8220;Follow Your <strong>&#8220;Dreams</strong>!&#8221;</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; What is your motive? You know my motive. <em>I have to create a living for my family and myself. My hobby is singing, and I love to do it. Not only do I sing, but&nbsp;I&#8217;m above average. It&#8217;s my opinion, that life is too short to be stuck at a job, not having control over your schedule or your life. Plus, what&#8217;s the chances of you hating your job? I want to be happy, and travel the world.&nbsp;&nbsp;We only have one life to live. So my motive is to create a living doing what I love. Singing&#8230;..&nbsp;Following my dream, accomplishing my dream, and have fun doing it is my goal or intention. </em></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; So find out what your motive is, and really bring your motive to the&nbsp;light. <em><strong>&#8220;Huh, bring my motive to the light?&#8221;</strong></em> Yes, understand your purpose for wanting this dream. Your motive is what makes you stay up late when your tired. Your motive push you to make the necessary sacrifices.</p>
<p><strong>Example:</strong>&nbsp;<em>Your car&nbsp;represents your dream, and your motive&nbsp;represents your gasoline. Your Jet&nbsp;represents your dream, and your jet fuel&nbsp;represents your motive. Don&#8217;t allow yourself to forget why your following your dream. Cause if your car runs out of gas, or your jet is low on fuel, or if you forget why your following a dream can you&nbsp;imagine the circumstances or the&nbsp;consequences. Forgetting your motive or not having one is similar to&nbsp;the example of running out of the key elements in this example. (Fuel, Gas, Motive, Drive, Effort, Passion, Determination) Don&#8217;t ever run out or Don&#8217;t ever forget the cause. Stay around positive influences!</em></p>
<p><em>&nbsp; Do not&nbsp;listen to people that don&#8217;t agree with what you believe in, it&#8217;s up to you to prove it to yourself. Everyone has their own theory or opinion. It&#8217;s okay to listen, but be careful because it can create doubts, sub-consciously.&nbsp;Just as the word &#8220;Dream&#8221; use to carry weight, peoples opinion could cause you to lack the confidence you need to push through the rough times. I&#8217;m going to be honest, it&#8217;s not going to be easy. Hey, life ain&#8217;t easy, why would accomplishing your goals or dreams be easy? Also visa versa, support from positive people, role models, and/or mentors is&nbsp;just as influencing. Get good people in your corner, get rid of people that means you no good. Your peace&nbsp;and success is at stake.&nbsp;Including family, sorry sometimes family members tend to have bad motives. </em></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Next, your life&nbsp;dreams, cannot be a dream, if you have not dreamed it yet.&nbsp;Tongue twister, right? Read it again if necessary.&nbsp;Remember the definition of dream? If you haven&#8217;t dreamed your dream yet, this is&nbsp;simple to fix. Creating dreams is fun &amp;&nbsp;simple.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Example:</strong><em> My dream is to be a famous singer. I watch movies such as, The Five Heartbeats, The Movie RAY, and many others.&nbsp;I go on YouTube and watch famous singers in concert. I also watch a lot of the interviews with performing&nbsp;artist to learn from them.&nbsp;I listen to there experiences, and there stories. I learn pitfalls to avoid, and this is why interviews exist. Remember when I mentioned peoples influences, and&nbsp;role models?&nbsp;You can create those positive influences, and role models through these interviews. You don&#8217;t have to have them as a mentor, and you don&#8217;t have to&nbsp;know them to get the power of influence working at your advantage. Just continue to learn and study everything that has involvement with your dream.&nbsp;I daydream some of those concerts I seen on youtube&nbsp;and image myself in their shoes, like a glimpse. I build my images of the lifestyle in my daydreams,&nbsp;through their videos, and put exactly how I want my reality to be when I accomplish my dream.&nbsp;&nbsp;Before I go to sleep, I&#8217;m living that lifestyle in my head, so I cannot wait to go to sleep at night cause before I fall asleep, I&#8217;m imaging me before a show, things I&#8217;m going to do during my show. I can see what outfit I have on, everything. I live this in my head every chance I get, I call it brainwashing, or&nbsp;programming myself. It&#8217;s fun imaging my huge screaming crowd. </em></p>
<p><em>&nbsp;&#8221;You have to dream it, to believe it. You have to believe to achieve it. &#8220;</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Basically I&#8217;m painting my own image of what it&#8217;s going to be like. Sometimes when I fall asleep, my sub-conscious mind take the dream to new heights. I focus my mind on my dream and what I want in my dream. I sit and daydream it as much as I can, because I&#8217;m that person in my head. So when I am famous it won&#8217;t be nothing new to me, because I can tell that&nbsp;artist, &#8220;Hey, you know I lived this life through you?&#8221; So when I get on stage in front of thousands for the first time, it won&#8217;t be the first time. Many artist are not worried or afraid the first time and we know why now.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Understand this, you don&#8217;t have to really dream the dream sub-consciously. If you do, and&nbsp;when you do, that&#8217;s good, but you don&#8217;t try to create that it&#8217;ll just happens. But you do want to create &amp; live the dream in your dream for a while before it can&nbsp;come to reality. Remember, whatever you focus on expands.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Last but not least, chasing dreams&#8230; Chasing dreams is, in&nbsp;some cases, a sacrifice. Cause you still have to create a living, but you have got to have a plan. <strong>What is a plan exactly?</strong> <u><em>Scheme or method of action or arrangement, developed in advance&#8230;</em></u> A plan is a step-by-step process to achieve a scheme, goal or intention. Step-by-step means you cannot go to step 5 without completing steps 1-4 in chronological&nbsp;order. If you start now, you will have about 300 steps, so a way to eliminate that is to&nbsp;know the&nbsp;different types of goals or plans. Short Term, Mid Term, and of course Long Term&#8230; This process will reduce the amount of steps you&#8217;ll have to take. After planning properly, you&#8217;ll physically know exactly how to achieve the attended goal and you&#8217;ll know how much time it will take. You also should know the advantages and the disadvantages, plus the pitfalls&nbsp;to avoid.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8220;<strong><em>I&#8217;m so confident you will achieve your dream in life now. Why?&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Recap:</strong></p>
<p>1.)You clearly know what a dream is, and how to create one.</p>
<p>2.)The word &#8220;Dream&#8221; alone no longer impacts you&nbsp;negatively. Also the word &#8220;Dream&#8221; no longer attach&nbsp;mental and physical failure to your effort to accomplish your dream.</p>
<p>3.)You understand the importance of &#8220;Motive&#8221; and how it directly effects your effort to get results.</p>
<p>4.)You know &#8220;The Power of Influence.&#8221; By friends, family, role models, mentors, etc&#8230;.</p>
<p>5.)You know how to daydream and live the lifestyle or dream in your head first, to make it a reality, along&nbsp;with your efforts.</p>
<p>6.)Plus you know exactly how to plan your way to success, and the motto is: &#8220;You failing to plan is planning to fail.&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; And personally, I feel your 400 times more confident to succeed at accomplishing your dream, because you have understanding and control. So you will be successful if you want to be&#8230;. Remember have fun&#8230; Subscribe to my profile for more articles with&nbsp;similar information. Also support my singing career and&nbsp;add me on facebook.&nbsp; Search:&nbsp;&nbsp; Rodric Dennis King&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8220;What Does Your Numbers Say?&#8221; Is a term I use to motivate people to play there role better. Why? Cause your numbers, profit, progress, losses, your amount of recruits, succesful students, won games, successful business day&#8217;s, closed cases, new&nbsp;customers, etc&#8230; This is your report card for your position, for your title, for your role you play, for your duty. You need to find out where you are if you don&#8217;t already know, and then put together a plan of action with steps to fix whatever is wrong with your progress.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Your number&#8217;s tell&#8217;s all the negatives, who left early, who took more breaks, who didn&#8217;t work hard, and who didn&#8217;t learn anything, who quit for the day, who&#8217;s being a student, who&#8217;s still learning, who&#8217;s growing, who doing their homework. All the excuses you make why something didn&#8217;t happen is your fault. No more excuses, you have to hold yourself accountable.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Also the numbers tell you who stayed later, who does their homework, who takes more time to learn, who has new material, whose asking for help to get better, who doesn&#8217;t take breaks, who is first to arrive and last to leave, who is on time everyday. All the positive things you have to say about yourself at playing your position, you don&#8217;t have to, cause your numbers tells everyone that.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; So let&#8217;s get to the point. If you missed your sons football game three times in a row, your work should say that not your mouth. If a person is lazy, selfish, and always late, you don&#8217;t have to say nothing their numbers say it all.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; With that said,&nbsp;your job is to progress in your position every new day.&nbsp;You have to always be learning more. Always working for the next position, or taking it to the next level. In other words, if your a sales manager, and your sales is going up and down and it&#8217;s not a trend that your business is in. Something is wrong and you have to fix it, but don&#8217;t always think you can do this on your own. Find more experienced people and run it by them and see what they would do. Go online and research different material on the subject, build a plan, and then put it into action. Monitor your results, see what you can do to take sells through the roof. Your goal is to break records. Set individual goals for your teams. Or do competitions to make your employee&#8217;s&nbsp;compete with one another. You have to get the entire store on fire about your goals. No matter what it takes get the ball rolling in your direction. You shouldn&#8217;t be going to work trying to survive another day, push people.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; With any title, business owner, managers,&nbsp;or any&nbsp;position out there. You have to know where you are, what you got, and where your going. Set production goals. We are here now, and this is where I want to be by next month. Here is the way we&#8217;re going to get there. You have to know where the progress is, so you can find out what you want to push it too. If you flip burgers, learn more about your job, then the manager knows. Then start working on the next position, and be super good at that. Learn how to multi-task, practice it.. Make yourself irreplaceable. Make someone say, you could never replace who we lost. When you get a promotion, now you duplicate yourself. If a person cannot be trained to work that position like you did or better. You DON&#8217;T need them. You should have this attitude in any and every career. Definitely business owners or entrepreneur&#8217;s.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Whatever position or title you hold, be the best, and set the example. What does set the example means? This means when I have a job, I&#8217;m going to learn as much as I can, I&#8217;m going to remain learning. I&#8217;m going to be there first, and leave last. Friendly as ever, and know how to re-train a person to be as good as I am or better. If I leave that position and I don&#8217;t re-train that person to do what I did, they would have to hire two people for the one position. Cause I raised the bar on the standards for that position. That&#8217;s setting the pace or being the example everyday. Not on and off, everyday.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; So always be a student, take less breaks, learn from everyone, out work everyone, and arrive on time everyday. Also your uniform or attire should be on point every time, hair, shoes, facial groomed neatly, shirt, pants, and&nbsp;shoes should always look like it just came out of the store. No matter what position, this is professionalism. Dress for the position you want, not the one you have. Remember always&nbsp;set goals, and continue to push yourself to know more and be more. If you sell $300 a day, tomorrow work harder and push for $350. After a consistent&nbsp;week of $350, push for $400, and never doubt yourself. Always push for the next level, everyday. And know what you have to do to get your promotion.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Then, &#8220;Your Number&#8217;s Would Say A Lot.&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Also don&#8217;t forget why you go to work. To make money. Why do you need or have a career? To make money &amp; a living. So go to work with the&nbsp;intent to do a double in 8 hours. Don&#8217;t forget why you are there. Always learn your position with the expectation of working the position until your promotion. Never go to work to do your job and that&#8217;s it. You always could use more money right? Right, but if I&#8217;m looking for a reason to fire you, do you think I&#8217;m going to give you a raise, better yet a promotion? Image if one of you co-worker&#8217;s reading this now. They are&nbsp;coming to work tomorrow to take your job.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I was a salesman for three years, and I was so&nbsp;good at&nbsp;my job. I had customers asking to borrow money for gas to get home. I did my job, and I worked harder, and it was because I went to work with a goal in mind.&nbsp;Perform better then I was yesterday, and I left that salesman job and now I&#8217;m a performing artist, and I give a show always looking at how I can be better. So&nbsp;my&nbsp;numbers&nbsp;said&nbsp;a lot&#8230;. &#8220;What Does Your Numbers Say?&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 22:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Make up your mind on a goal today or convince yourself this is the standard. Your not going for anything less then the goal or&nbsp;standard you set for yourself&nbsp;today. If your mind is made up of that being your standard, the results are already there, it&#8217;s just not tangible yet. But the process in between to make that happen is that changing point of the intended results you want. Sound confusing? I&#8217;ll give you my formula then&#8230;.</p>
<p><strong><em>The Goal + ???? = The Result&nbsp;&nbsp; </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>The Goal is the beginning.&nbsp;&nbsp; (PLUS+)&nbsp; &nbsp;The ???? is the process or effort required for. (Equals=) The Results.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; That should help you paint the image a little better. If the goal, plan, or dream is set, then the results are there already. WHY? Cause you planned it. WHY? Cause it&#8217;s the goal or finish line. So the goal and the results are already there, the only thing miss is the process. THE EFFORT YOU HAVE TO PUT INTO YOUR DREAM, YOUR GOAL, YOUR PLANS&#8230;.. </em></strong></p>
<p><em><strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </strong>When you set a goal and your mind is made up, your goal is already met, and already achieved, it&#8217;s just not tangible yet. What makes it tangible? The process in between the beginning and the end is what changes the results at the end.</em></p>
<p><strong>GOAL + ???? = The Results&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Or&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The Beginning&nbsp; +&nbsp; ????? = The End</strong></p>
<p><em>If the goal is the&nbsp;beginning and the result is the end. What goes where the question mark is? <strong><u>Effort</u></strong></em></p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Have you ever had something stolen from you? Ever&nbsp;allowed someone to borrow&nbsp;some money and it was hard to get it back, if you got it back and it ticked you off? Makes you very upset, right? Ever thought about why it makes you upset? <em><strong>Cause it&#8217;s not about the money, it&#8217;s the principal. What is the principal? </strong><u>What you had to do to get your money or property back. What you had to put up with to buy you property, or earn you money. What you had to go through to earn your money. </u>This is all effort you put in, to make the money. This is the effort you put in to make the money to buy your stolen property. You can&#8217;t get that effort back, and that&#8217;s the real source of your anger.</em></p>
<p><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; So planning is definitely a good thing, but effort is everything. And remember in between the beginning of your plans to the end result, the effort you put in changes the results. </em></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 21:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you setting goals for yourself but not hitting bullseye? Have you figured out why yet? Well, with this information this will give you an foundation why.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Setting goals is always important for projects, children, business, teamwork or team effort, or for anything. The purpose of setting goals is to give an sense of direction or pathway to success. A more positive direction of a task, thing, group, project, etc&#8230; Setting goals can be very simple. If done properly, but we going to focus on one topic of the goal setting process today.</p>
<p><strong><em>Effort- E</em></strong><strong><em>xertion of physical or mental power: It <a href="http://www.triond.com/browse/will" target="_blank"><u>will</u></a>&nbsp;take great effort to achieve victory. </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; A</em></strong><strong><em>n earnest or strenuous attempt: an effort to keep to the schedule. </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; S</em></strong><strong><em>omething done by exertion or hard work: I thought it would be easy, but it was an effort. </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em></em></strong><strong><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; An achievement, as in literature or </em></strong><a href="http://www.triond.com/browse/art" target="_blank"><strong><em><u>art</u></em></strong></a><strong><em>: The painting is one of his finest efforts.</em></strong><strong><em></em></strong><em><strong>&nbsp;&nbsp; </strong>The effort is what makes the difference, and this is what makes effort such a substantive and&nbsp;authentic joy. The dreams, and goals set the direction but effort is the vehicle that makes it all&nbsp;happen. </em><em><strong>So for an example: </strong>So let&#8217;s play with the idea and make it a little more clear. If you have a dream to go to&nbsp;the Bahamas that is&nbsp;across the ocean in your own sailboat. That&#8217;s the dream or goal you want to accomplish. Next is the plan, buy a sail boat and learn how to sail, then sail across the ocean. So you really got to learn how to sail. This will take some time &amp; effort, and this doesn&#8217;t directly effect the goal, but it is vital to the plan to accomplish the dream. </em><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</em><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; After you have finally went through all that training you put in the effort to save money for a sail boat, which you have now. You have even put the time aside to make the sail possible. Now you fight the winds, the nature of the ocean, went through heavy&nbsp;rain, but you finally reach your destination safely. Not only did you accomplish your dream, but you have a new sailboat which is an asset, and you are experienced at sailing.</em><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </em><strong>So it&#8217;s very important to set goals, and to have dreams. But just as important if not more important is the effort you have to invest. </strong><em><strong>One more simple example: </strong>At a track meet, before you run. There is a starting point and the finishing point.</em> (Relate this directly to the point of goal setting.) What is the goal? Win the race. Inbetween the start and the finishing point is all effort. The longer the goal, the more effort is required. 1/4 Mile is a shorter goal&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; V.S.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5 <em>1/2</em> Mile goal&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; So, &#8220;<strong>S<em>hort Term Goals&#8221;</em></strong> take short amount of time&nbsp;&amp;&nbsp;effort.&nbsp;And <strong><em>&#8220;Mid Term Goals</em></strong>&#8221; &nbsp;and so on and so forth. Once the race start towards your goals or dream, always remember that effort you put in is everything. Focus you attention on investing effort in your goals, and dreams. Look at it like a bank, if you invest $5 in your account on Monday, on Friday you cannot expect to pull out $35 dollars cause you really need it.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; And this is why so many people fail after they set a goal or create a dream. Somewhere in the race they quit, give up or slow down. It&#8217;s so easy to create goals, and dreams, but the process of putting the required effort into the mission, is the missing piece of the puzzle. &nbsp;&nbsp; So if your not going to find the effort and hold yourself accountable for your actions, don&#8217;t waste <strong><em>time</em></strong> out of your one life for no reason at one. Time&#8230; You don&#8217;t get it back and it is very precious, so don&#8217;t waste what time you do have. Also, vica versa, create goals&nbsp;&amp; dreams for yourself time is limited and very short. Make your life worth something more everyday. Create a goal, accomplish it and move on. Create a dream, accomplish it and move on. Before you know it you&#8217;ll have three books to write, then sell because of your accomplishments. That&#8217;s that type of people that does that, right.&nbsp;&nbsp; Remember, no effort, no result&#8230; The value of any acheivement cannot be separated from the <em><u>process of achievement. </u></em><em></em></p>
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		<title>Year 2012. a Fresh Start-Make Your Goals!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 01:07:37 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>A</em> new year and another chapter of your <strong>life</strong>. Time to erase old clutter,refocus and dream . Write things down and believe in your self. Life is a gift and time is your road you travel. Think long term and don&#8217;t be enslaved to your past. Listen to new music, read new things, Start your own health program ( diet,exercise,mind breaks and meditation.) Invent a way to relax and work each day into your goals and dreams. Just do it and readjust your course as time ticks away. Don&#8217;t let the forces of doubt detour you. You are your own captain and remember you co create your Universe with God ( nature, supernatural forces, the human spirit) . Remember health,family and friends are a gift. Each day is a gift so people of World please don&#8217;t get caught in the many traps of life. Television s cultural wasteland. Read more! Start a hobby . Learn to play the guitar ( I can&nbsp;teach and you will learn fast and almost painless . My online lessons will be up soon!). Create some form of art! Music, paintings, find a way to be creative!!! Don&#8217;t forget fitness-do something cool like kung-fu or martial arts. Create the person you want to become! Be you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!&nbsp; Thats magic when you become your self! So many people I know claim they are not the one &nbsp;who they are. Layers of stress distort who you ( they) really are. Make an art of peeling away layers of stress and distractions that cause you to not to be you. Now thats a worthy goal!!&nbsp; 2012 the best year yet!!!</p>
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		<title>Dear Nicole</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 01:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, this time it is my fault.&nbsp; I realize that I have been remiss in corresponding with you and I am extremely sorry for that.&nbsp; (Do you like my big fancy words?&nbsp; You know that I don&#8217;t talk like this much less write like this.)&nbsp;&nbsp; I have tried a couple of times to sit down and write and I have actually started, but then something calls me away.&nbsp; Usually the kids; and then I get side-tracked.&nbsp;</p>
<p>The holidays were better for us this year than in previous years.&nbsp; Not just because we had some money to spend, but because I wasn&#8217;t as stressed as I usually get, especially with all the family get-togethers.&nbsp; I wish I knew why I put so much pressure on myself to perform a certain way or do so much, maybe it has to do with wanting to be a superwoman.&nbsp; But thinking about it, there really is no superwoman, it is all in our minds.&nbsp; Even our mothers couldn&#8217;t do everything.&nbsp;&nbsp;Things did suffer, we just didn&#8217;t see it or we didn&#8217;t pay attention.&nbsp;</p>
<p>So I think that my goal this year, at least one of my goals, will be to just relax.&nbsp; To not get so wrapped up in how I should or should not perform.&nbsp; To enjoy the moment.&nbsp; To pray more.&nbsp; To teach more.&nbsp; To be me more.</p>
<p>XXOO</p>
<p>Cyndi</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 04:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p><strong><em><br />I&#8217;ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>I&#8217;ve lost almost 300 games.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>26 times, I&#8217;ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>I&#8217;ve failed over and over and over again in my life.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>And that is why I succeed.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>~ Michael Jordan</em></strong></p>
<p><em><strong>T</strong>he desire and the effort will turn a thought into success. &nbsp;Having a big enough why, a large enough vision and a dream that is vivid makes all the difference.</em></p>
<p><em>From the start I brought to your attention the importance of having a new years need instead of calling it a new years resolution.</em></p>
<p><em>To me a resolution has room for failure and often the resolve is not strong enough to see it through.</em></p>
<p><em>But call this plan, this object that you want to see through a need. &nbsp;Well a need is no longer a want its a must.</em></p>
<p><em>Tie in with your need the thought of the pain you would feel if you failed, the regret and the raw emotion can boil over to the point of making this need come true.</em></p>
<p><em>Break down your &#8216;need&#8217; into small steps, small victories that you can look back at the dots you connected and realize that your on the path to success.</em></p>
<p><em>Don&#8217;t give up&#8230; Don&#8217;t ever give up. &nbsp;Words that Jimmy V. of college basket ball fame spoke in the video that follows.</em></p>
<p><em>Don&#8217;t ever give up&#8230;&#8230;. Enjoy your day and keep smiling</em></p>
<p><em><strong>Video of the Day</strong></em></p>
<p><strong><i><a href="http://youtu.be/HuoVM9nm42E" target="_blank">Jimmy V&#8217;s Speech &#8216;Don&#8217;t Ever Give UP&#8217;</a></i></strong></p>
<p><strong><i>Scripture of the Day&nbsp;</i></strong></p>
<p><strong><i><br /></i></strong><strong><i>For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you, plans to give you hope and a future.</i></strong></p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;Jeremiah 29:11</strong></p>
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		<title>Can I Make Another 30 Cents?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2011 19:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><a target="_blank" href="http://www.triond.com/users/Val+Mills">Val Mills</a></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Help, I need an extra 30 cents in my Triond account!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy New Year to you all. New Zealand welcomed in 2012 eight hours ago and I actually woke, after two hours sleep, in time to imagine the world had slipped from one year to another. I didn&#8217;t feel a thing. But here I am in January.</p>
<p>Now last month, December, I did set some writing goals and I achieved them about a week ago. However, I&#8217;m greedy. I also love thinking I&#8217;ve got there but knowing as far as the northern world is concerned I still have a few hours to go to achieve whatever I can.</p>
<p>For a relatively cluttered person, I like rounded numbers in my bank balance. At the moment my monthly earnings show X dollars and 70 cents. So, I have set myself a goal for today. Can I squeeze another 30 cents out of Triond? With your help I can.</p>
<p>Instead of sunshine pouring down on me as it should be, the skies have been dark and emptying their buckets upon us for two days now. Its a great day for writing. A great day for achieving two goals &#8211; my first piece of writing for 2012 in my real New Zealand world and my last day for publishing something in 2011 in my escapist world of Triond. That&#8217;s not bad, two for the price of one. But I doubt I&#8217;ll get paid twice though.</p>
<p>Well, now that I&#8217;ve spilled all that out into the world, I have the task of deciding what is an appropriate thing to write about. What title will capture the fancy of the internet users of the world? What will drag northern hemisphere revellers away from their partying long enough to read a few insignificant words? Because, I have to face it, most of my readers are in the northern hemisphere.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s no time to be lost. I need to write. I need to re-tweet old articles. I need to read in order to attract new readers. I have 15 hours to achieve my goal. I want to earn another 30 cents today.</p>
<p><strong>Join the Triond writing community: </strong>If you enjoy writing and have knowledge or experiences you&rsquo;d like to share, why not <a href="http://www.triond.com/rw/149797" target="_blank">click this link</a> to publish here in the Triond writing community. You even earn a little cash for your efforts.</p>
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