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Finding Affordable Headstones

Fri, 19 Aug 2011 21:54:33 +0000

Evidence of markers being used to signify where an individual was put to rest has been a tradition for thousands of years. Numerous names can be used for these markers such as gravestones, headstones, and tombstones. They’re placed to pay tribute for the deceased but they’re also used by genealogists in an effort to help track genealogy.

In early times people usually buried family members in a small area close to the family home.The markers were typically made from wood or rock and listed their name, birthday and date of death. As time advanced cemeteries became an ordinary in most areas. In addition to a common burial area they symbolized an added income source for churches and villages.

As the idea of public cemeteries became common the gravestones became far more elaborate. They progressed from the simple rock to slate, marble, granite and bronze. They became bigger and were inscribed with far more detail about the deceased and their life. Many fascinating history training could be discovered by studying these inscriptions.

Through the Victorian age cemeteries observed elaborate marble carved statues utilized to honor family members. Many were synonymous with religious beliefs and gave the residual family members a sense of peace in honoring their deceased. The most typical included angels, cherubs, and crosses.

There is a wide array of supplies that memorial headstones can be created from. But the most popular are granite and bronze. They are very durable and have a nice tasteful look. Many people decide to just leave them alone and allow weather age them normally. Others like to regularly take care of them to maintain the look as new and fresh as possible. It is a nice way of continuing to show respect and love for a cherished one.

Marble is very durable and no amount of scrubbing will harm it. The weather can cause calcium deposits to buildup. A combination of detergent and water can be used with a scouring pad to get rid of the accumulation. A material such as bronze requires a bit more care. The best method would be to clean it as you would granite and then apply a unique wax every 3 to 6 months. This will help significantly to keep the lacquer coating in good shape.

Historians and genealogists love the insightful knowledge that can be obtained by reading the inscriptions on gravestones. Numerous clues as to what a person’s life was about and how they died can be found. Perhaps a complete family is buried in a plot but a family member is found across town or in another state. That opens up questions as to the reasons and what actually transpired that alienated the individual.

Using the age of the web even cemetery information can be found online. Some genealogy associates and volunteers really go to cemeteries and take photos of the inscription details and post it for all to see. Sites for example FindAGrave are choices for people to explore Information can be easily filtered to find specifics of areas and families. If you need help looking for a headstone visit www.affordable-markers.com.

Which is The True Meaning of The Greek Inscription on Jim Morrison’s Gravestone?

Sat, 22 Aug 2009 20:05:45 +0000

Jim Morrison’s grave became one of the city’s most visited tourist attractions almost immediately after his death. The shield which placed initially by French officials on the grave, was stolen in 1973. In 1981, a bust created by the Croatian sculptor Mladen Mikulin was placed along with a new grave stone. Cemetery vandals defaced the bust, which finally been stolen (once again) in 1988. In 1990, Morrison’s father visited his son’s grave and placed the flat stone which remains until today on Jim Morrison’s tomb.

Any attempt to translate the Greek inscription which is written on the gravestone literally, will lead us in a completely wrong path. “According to his own daimon”, sounds as a decent translation, but such a straight approach could easily make us turn in a wrong direction.

Stoicism:

The name derives from the word “stoa” which means portico. Porticoes in ancient times were used as a promenade or meeting place. Zeno of Citium founded this philosophy in an Athens’s portico, in the early third century BC, which soon became popular throughout Greece and the Roman Empire. That until 529 AD, when Justinian I, ordered all the schools of philosophy to close as he perceived their pagan character to be at odds with his Christian faith. Except Zeno, the Greek philosopher Cleanthes, and later Roman thinkers such as Cato the Younger, Seneca the Younger, Marcus Aurelius, and Epictetus, are associated with Stoicism.

Stoics believe that developing self-control by mastering passions and emotions; it is possible to find equilibrium in oneself and in the world. Some basic tenets of Stoicism are:

“Every soul has Free Will to act and that the action of the soul is opinion.”
“Spiritual growth comes from seeking the good.”
“The Cardinal Virtues are Prudence, Justice, Fortitude, and Temperance.”
“The path to personal happiness and inner peace is through the extinguishing of all desire to have or to affect things beyond ones control and through living for the present without hope for or fear of the future; beyond the power of opinion.”
“Everyone has an individual connection to All.”
“One to live in accord with worldly and human nature.”
“It is irrational to want that which is not God’s will, so attune thyself with thy inner Nature and live happily.”
“Live according to YOUR own Nature.”

Finally, according to Epictetus’s philosophy: “……Each man has within him a guardian spirit, a god within him, who never sleeps; so that even in darkness and solitude we are never alone, because God is within, our guardian spirit.” The spirit on which Epictetus refers, is obviously similar to what Christians call our guardian angel. (If we study deeper Stoicism and Christianity have many common aspects on many fields, but this is not the main subject of the article.)

Daimon in ancient Greek means spirit, rather than daimon and contains no negative or pejorative qualities. It derives from the word “daiein” (=to distribute). In ancient times, deities who distributed the fate and believed to be life changers were called daimones (daimons). The protector deity that lived inside the man from his birth till death, and took care of the personal evolution and prosperity (something like the guardian angel) was called “daimon eaytoy”.

Now we can understand the true meaning of the phrase “KATA TON DAIMONA EAYTOY” as “KATA” means according. According to what conscience suggests being right, and maybe not caring about what others might say; or in other words we might say “True to his own spirit”. An idea Stoics embraced, and most probably Jim Morrison’s relatives wanted to convey through his gravestone: Throughout his short life, James acted obeying to his personal God and not to the society rules.

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