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		<title>Cyber Bullying, on Triond?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 17:16:50 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been informed, there&#8217;s &#8216;Cyber Bullying&#8217; going on,&nbsp;here&nbsp;at Triond. Who has ever had this happen to them? In the past year being actively involved on this website, it hasn&#8217;t happened to me yet. Have there been a lot&nbsp;hurdles to jump over? Probably every day there&#8217;s a new one to deal with. Has anything been faced alone, without anyone to&nbsp;ask or seek some insight from? By my own choice, I&#8217;ve come up against a lot of things that almost bowled me over backward. Once the issue of pride was dealt with, I got back up off the floor and looked for somebody who could help me. It&#8217;s a humbling experience, being sixty plus years old, still looking for someone to take my hand and&nbsp;teach me how to do&nbsp;something the&nbsp;right way. Shouldn&#8217;t I instead be the one who&#8217;s&nbsp;teaching? One who everybody else comes running to for help? Sad but true, there&#8217;s a lot of things that I&#8217;m still in&nbsp;need of an instructor.&nbsp;When it comes to doing and understanding the &#8216;hows&#8217; and &#8216;whys&#8217; of the Internet, my head goes into a spin, like the ole &#8216;Linda Blair.&#8217; There&#8217;s not a whole&nbsp;lot that I can tell anyone, about computers or with&nbsp;linking this to that, for more clicks. So instead, I have to run to someone who knows what they&#8217;re doing.</p>
<p>Back to the issue at hand, &#8216;Cyber Bullying&#8217;. That&#8217;s something we expect from kids, but not from mature, grownups. Especially when we all willingly joined this website, for pretty much the same exact reasons. Hurting our close&nbsp;friends with harsh behavior, wasn&#8217;t a motive that any one came on here for. So, lets get back to business, treating all others the exact same way that&nbsp;we desire for&nbsp;them&nbsp;to treat us. With kindness, respect, courteously, using tender loving care and most of all, thinking a long time, before we flip out those harsh words we can never&nbsp;take back, with our key-board. Let&#8217;s not hurt each other, O.K.? I&#8217;ve already hurt too many people in my life. It&#8217;s time for me to change. How about you?</p>
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		<title>Why People Don&#8217;t Help?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 12:56:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever thought what wrong with people nowadays, why they don't want to help others? if no, then check out few of the great reasons.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You must have thought about this question.</p>
<p>Did you get the answer?</p>
<p>If no then now you will get the answer.</p>
<p>There are several reasons which are as follows:</p>
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<li>Some people are shy in nature so they don&#8217;t come in front to help others. </li>
<li>Some people may feel that the other person might take the wrong meaning of their help. </li>
<li>Some are coward. </li>
<li>Some people enjoy seeing others in problem. A very rare feeling developing in any person, if this feeling develops in you then you really need a psychiatrist. </li>
<li>They want to take the revenge from the victim. This reason is quite uncommon, as people generally don&#8217;t like to come face to face with their enemies. </li>
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<p>But, first two points are the most common reasons of why people don&#8217;t help others. So, if we are able to solve first two problems then we can surely see a significant increase in help from others.</p>
<p>How to solve first two problems?</p>
<p>This can be solved if people become little adventurous, i.e., if helping others is taken as a challenge whose outcome is unknown. Since, human nature is most unpredictable thing in this world, so the outcome will always be unpredictable.</p>
<p><strong>For more related and much better articles, you can refer following links:</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp; 1) <a href="http://www.socyberty.com/Society/Characteristics-of-Good-People.89910" target="_blank"><strong><u>Characteristics of Good People</u></strong></a>: <strong>My best article.</strong> Must read article for everyone. It tells the most important ways of finding that whether a person is good or bad since all that glitters is not gold.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; 2) <a href="http://www.socyberty.com/Relationships/How-to-Know-Someone-Using-a-Single-Question.119998" target="_blank"><strong><u>How to Know Someone Using a Single Question</u></strong></a>:&nbsp;A must topic for everyone. in today&#8217;s time when we don&#8217;t much time it is necessary to analyze a person as quickly as possible to prevent any kind back stabbing from that person.</p>
<p>&nbsp; 3) <a href="http://www.authspot.com/Journals/Why-Good-People-Always-Suffer.94503" target="_blank"><strong><u>Why Good People Always Suffer</u></strong></a>: Why is it that all of God&#8217;s havoc is borne by good people?&nbsp;A mentality which is normally seen among good people need to be changed for good. Here,&nbsp;I give some very strong reasons of why&nbsp;to change this attitude.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp; 4) <a href="http://www.socyberty.com/Activism/Literate-vs-Illiterate.282823" target="_blank"><strong><u>Literate vs Illiterate</u></strong></a>: Who is more intelligent and who is more beneficial for society. This article answers all such and similar questions.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;5) <a href="http://www.socyberty.com/Advice/How-to-Make-Your-Problems-Easy.66380" target="_blank"><strong><u>How to Make Your Problems Easy?</u></strong></a>: A very simple&nbsp;but an effective way of reducing your problem is told here. To make this idea easier to understand, I have made it very funny so you won&#8217;t be bored while reading.</p>
<p>&nbsp; 6) <a href="http://www.authspot.com/Biographies/How-to-Make-an-Enemy-Your-Friend.74776" target="_blank"><strong><u>How to Make an Enemy Your Friend</u></strong></a>:&nbsp;A must article for everyone. It tells the important way to solve the problem of generating enemies, especially if you are a good person.</p>
<p>&nbsp; 7) <a href="http://www.socyberty.com/People/Who-is-More-Dangerous.102846" target="_blank"><strong><u>Who is More Dangerous?</u></strong></a>: What will you&nbsp;do when you have to choose between a good person and bad person? Sometimes the truth is not what it appears to be.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;8) <a href="http://www.authspot.com/Journals/How-It-Feels-When-You-are-Cheated.101829" target="_blank"><strong><u>How It Feels When You are Cheated?</u></strong></a>: A situation which&nbsp;is a nightmare for&nbsp;all people. It tells a way to come over with such a trauma.</p>
<p>&nbsp; 9) <a href="http://www.socyberty.com/Philosophy/Are-Scholars-Really-Scholars.68883" target="_blank"><strong><u>Are Scholars Really Scholars?</u></strong></a>&nbsp;: The question which always haunt an intelligent student with bad luck, a reason why some times good people turn bad.</p>
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