Humans are adaptable creatures. We adapt to any condition we are subjected to over a period of time. We have learnt to survive in the cold, high altitudes, low altitudes, in the dessert, you name it we have adapted for it. Man is capable of every kind of evil with the need of a supernatural force (the devil). We are also capable of every kind of good without the need for divinity. So then why do we allow these people (churches, life coaches, etc) to control and dictate our lives ? Simple, Our lifestyle. In the past churches have put the fear of hell into people to control them. Hell, if you scare someone enough you can get them to do anything you want. Other make you feel incapable, insufficient, undeserving, worthless, selfish and dependent. They inject this into you and this is how people can control you. Once you develop dependency on someone you feel lost without them.

If I’m right then why do people think life coaches actually helped them? Well once you get some to tell you , “You did Well”, “Good Job”, “You have won”, “You Free Now”, you get a sense on success. Quite frankly this is all that people need, a sense of self esteem. People need to understand some one dont have to tell you, you did well for it to actually be so. You have to believe in your self, you have to become self aware, independent and understand you are you and no one else is you. This is what life coaching does to you the only difference is you depend on other rather than your self to see it. Which in my book is worse.

People need to understand that the only person that needs you is you, everyone else needs you for what you can do for them. Other peoples opinion of you doesnt matter as the sole nature of humans is to bring down other and to make others feel that they are better than them. Dont get caught in the cycle of dependency, Don’t get attached, believe you are you and no matter what you did you always did it to your best ability. You yourself will be your own success. Expect everyone to hurt you, that way when they do it wont bother you as much. Good Luck and Remember you are a success

PS.. I’ll be writing more articles soon on this and other topics, If you enjoyed this you will enjoy the rest. I do hope I have been able to teach you something.