Now, ask the hormone sector of the male species. And you’ll find words like good looking, beautiful. And then you find those that goes into a well educated female with goals. Believe all women are educated. Men gets blinded by those with degrees. Women have more survival instinct then men could ever imagine.

And, don’t read magazines, with those degree people because they saying things for trhe article. Which is created around some truth. But have a lot of dishonesty within the comments. Remember, we all have a certain style of taste. And if raised a little right with common sense we address truth with truth. Many of us knows our sexual appetite and the things that turns us on. But, you’ll never have a man speaking of a woman he seeks having a high intimate passionate drive. Things, we say around certain friend with honesty. Gets edited down around others.

Women are more down to earth. While some men are complete dreamers. When it seems like their dreams isn’t in reality. In terms, of fame we know that many women get rich not because of their error of love. But because many male athletes gets marry. Obviously, if some have stayed single they wouldn’t be crying when the spouse leaves with half of their money. Notice, how their oney(they marry) all of sudden becomes his wealth.

If you rich and wants to be broke just commit adultery. It’s a money killer in rich people relationship. Johnny Taylor stated truth when he said “It’s Cheaper To Keep Her” because together life isn’t so bad as we think.

Figure 1 shows the four friends gathered around the table at the diner.  The teenagers are dressed in a hoodie, vest, leather jacket, and track jacket.  Figure 2 shows the teenager sitting on the bench.  gets on the bus forgetting her purse. The teenager runs around the corner, and appears to have evaded the police. It then shows the woman exiting the bus and the teenager handing her the purse. This is another stereotype because people think that teenagers steal all the time.  The police call the teenager over and give him a donut as a reward.  The police having donuts in with them are another stereotype against the police. These two advertisements show that teenagers do drugs and steal which is a stereotype within itself because they steal in order to get money to do drugs.  In the Above the Influence commercial, the logos appeal is that most teenagers are susceptible to peer pressure and often times make poor decisions.  The teenager in the video got rewarded, but at an expense to the diner.  The Honesty commercial pathos appeal was surprise when the teenager stole the purse, then confusion due to so many logical fallacies.

To read the full article, please go to the author’s website.  This article has been moved do to copyright concerns.

Figure 1 shows the four friends gathered around the table at the diner.  The teenagers are dressed in a hoodie, vest, leather jacket, and track jacket.  Figure 2 shows the teenager sitting on the bench.  gets on the bus forgetting her purse. The teenager runs around the corner, and appears to have evaded the police. It then shows the woman exiting the bus and the teenager handing her the purse. This is another stereotype because people think that teenagers steal all the time.  The police call the teenager over and give him a donut as a reward.  The police having donuts in with them are another stereotype against the police. These two advertisements show that teenagers do drugs and steal which is a stereotype within itself because they steal in order to get money to do drugs.  In the Above the Influence commercial, the logos appeal is that most teenagers are susceptible to peer pressure and often times make poor decisions.  The teenager in the video got rewarded, but at an expense to the diner.  The Honesty commercial pathos appeal was surprise when the teenager stole the purse, then confusion due to so many logical fallacies.

To read the full article, please go to the author’s website.  This article has been moved do to copyright concerns.

          My senior year through graduation I tried everything to find something I could put my trust in.  I tried friends, substances, art, and finally I found myself lost in my hometown and ready to move to a place that no one knew my name.  I left Tennessee and moved to Oklahoma.  That is where I met my husband.  My entire life I was taught how I was to think and believe.  I lived my life accordingly even though I doubted most of those things.  My husband was someone I could be honest with about my true thoughts without judgement or isolation.  He made me feel like it was okay to have a different view or opinion than my family.  When I finally declared my independence I lost a lot of people.  They didn’t stop talking to me or disown me, but they immediately decided I was troubled and my kids were at risk. 

          Its a scary, lonely world out there when your faith isn’t where the majority of your peers find it to be.  Just being a good person wasn’t and still isn’t ever enough.  No one sees that.  Once you say you don’t believe in a god or supernatural being you are labeled as someone without a conscience.  People find it hard to believe you can be a good person without religion.  I’m here to tell you that isn’t true.  Everyone with a mentally stable mind knows what is right and what is wrong.  When you get into specifics there are many different views, but everyone should work that out on their own turf and live life accordingly. 

          I’ve lost hope in many things, life has gotten me down to the point of giving up.  Once I found myself being true to my own feelings, I found a freedom regardless of the outside opinion.  It meant letting go of how others perceived me and taking hold of my right to individuality. 

          People have asked me how I could be happy or positive when I believed in nothing.  Every time I am questioned this way, I must correct them for they have it all wrong.  Maybe I don’t have faith an a physical or spiritual thing, but I have faith in myself.  I have faith in who I am and hope in what I can be and do.  My life has its ups and downs, and I don’t always make the right choices, but I know that I can. 

          Its very hard to only have yourself to rely on.  Never could I say it was easy.  Its very hard.  One thing I have found to be certain is that when you are the only person to let yourself down its much easier to digest so you can get back up and try again with the knowledge of what failure has given you.  I haven’t accomplished much of anything I have set forth, yet.  But, once I do make it to the finish line I will be able to say I did this on my own and my self worth doesn’t depend on my surroundings.  With this honesty I have motivation.  I only need to prove to myself what I am capable of.  I only have me to impress. 

          Everyone who has something to live for is a winner in my book.  No matter what it is, as long as you are honest with yourself you can make your life whatever you want it to be.  I don’t believe in limitations.  Your only as good as what you accomplish.  I have nothing but respect for those people.  The only thing I desire is the same respect.  That may never happen.  However, those people who I allowed to let me down will no longer have that power over me.  Freedom came when I was honest and success will come when I make it happen.

(1) Honesty: Lack of trust is that the chief think about relationship failures. you’ve got to be honest together with your partner in everything. Right from the day to day activities like house keeping, groceries etc. to a lot of complicated problems like mortgage and loans etc. typically the reality might hurt however it’s far better than losing the love. Being honest would guarantee there’s no stress on you to continuously come back up with new lies to hide up the previous ones.

(2) Dependence: Being dependable will mean plenty of things. ranging from reaching on appointments on time to keeping together with your guarantees. this might show that you simply price their time and respect their life. It’s far better to provide the rationale and apologize instead of giving excuses or blaming others.

(3) Encouragement: Love isn’t simply caring for every different it additionally involves appreciating the interests and talents of every different. Never miss an opportunity to go with your partner for one thing they achieved and mean it once you compliment them. It helps greatly to win back your love if you’ll be able to settle for their aspirations and be a support to them in each occasion they have it.

(4) Communication: typically all of your partner desires from you could be a listening ear. we tend to get therefore busy with our own problems that we tend to tend to miss out on the occasions when our partner desires us the foremost. Communicating isn’t solely regarding expressing clearly however additionally regarding the willingness to pay attention to the others. once you hear you simply perceive the words however if you listen you get the messages hidden within the pitch and tone of the words spoken. the number of data you’ll be able to gather would astound you.

(5) Action: Never is it a lot of necessary than when the connection goes through a coffee phrase. It’s foolish to take a seat and anticipate things to boost. It’s far better to be proactive. obtaining answers to the robust queries and then acting upon them would be the thanks to show your partner that you simply wish to win back your love.

To put it briefly the primary concern you must got to win back lost love is to seem for things that you simply have an impact over and wish to be modified. Then the items that aren’t in your management and the way you’ll be able to amendment yourself to suit those things. Act accordingly using these helpful recipes to win back your love.

It’s okay to have a few secrets

There’s nothing wrong with having secrets. Your fantasies may be better left unexplored. Once revealed they may cause jealousy. Locked away they can’t do any harm. But too many secrets may create walls that block the feelings you may you meant to share. The trick is deciding what to reveal and what to keep behind the evil.

Have you given you lover an all-access pass to your past? Or are there areas remain off-limits?

If a revelation will, make you uncomfortable, then your partner may feel the same. Since you don’t want to cause pain, maybe that secret should remain hidden. This is particularly true when it comes to information about former partners. What you did in private with anyone else probably should remain private. Jealousy can be a hard beast to master, but particularly so when it’s being well-fed-by images dragged up from the past.

But if you’re hiding information to maintain control, then your love, too, is being held back. You want your partner to know who is he or she loves. If you keep almost everything about your past and many things about your present, too, off-limits, then you’re asking someone to love only your shadow and not the real you.

The dividing line can be gloomy and deciding what to reveal difficult. Look into your heart to find the answer. Then make sure you follow its directions.

TIPS:

Before you reveal a secret, put yourself in the place of the person to whom you are about to offer it. See if you can feel how they will react. If you think that person will be hurt, then stop those words right in their tracks.

This path is about knowing who you are and what you want and being able to express that clearly.  Know that it is okay to be who you are and do what you desire.  There is no one to disappoint.  There is no one to receive validation from.  The “validator” is you.  Being honest will not quick fix all your problems, but it will be a good clean start to better relationships.  

The first person you must be completely honest with is yourself.  Sadly, we lie to ourselves all the time.  We tell ourselves that it is okay to keep doing these things that we hate doing.  We feel that we must suppressing doing things that we desire to do, because we have to be normal and live our lives like everyone else.  These are self-lies.

Self-honesty is of the utmost importance, if we ever expect to be completely honest with our lovers.  You will find as you go on this journey to self-honesty, you will become more open and honest with your lover and others.  Somehow your honesty and openness will free others to be more honest with you.

From this paradigm of honesty, you only do things that you want to do.  This one comes with a little bit of ‘uncommon sense.’  There is a great difference between ‘not liking’ and ‘not wanting.’  You may not like going to work, but you want to take care of your home and bills.  So you go to work.  See the difference?

It is okay to do what you want to do.  Until you believe that it is okay for you to do what you want, you will indulge in ‘guilty pleasures.’  Hence, you will feel guilty.  

Not only will you feel guilty, but you will make everyone else feel guilty about doing what they want to do.  You will make your lover feel bad for doing what he or she wants, because you feel that you can not do what you want.  Though, this ‘jail’ is self inflicted; you continue to live as if the walls are real, and even inflicted by others.

You can free yourself from suppression by being honest. Many walk through life suppressing their desires and not following the paths that they truly want to follow.  The general census is that we chose our lover and we have to compromise all of our life decisions for them.  Relationships do come with compromise, but compromise does not just come from one lover, but both.

Sometimes being authentic and honest comes with making hard decisions.  We must decide now to live our best lives.  To be the most loving to our lovers, we must do what is best for us and give our best love to them by being authentic.

First, be honest with yourself in every area of your life.  Go ahead sit down with a pen and pad and write out what you want.  If you’re not prone to writing turn on a recorder or do a video series for yourself.  Get totally real with who you are.  Put that honesty into practice with yourself and others.  Start doing some things that you want to do.  See your life with your lover change for the better.  

Sometimes the hurtful environment and society challenges are combined with human nature, and  allows questions for the good intentions of people throughout their lives.

Integrity is often the priceless trade for the many scams and selfish motivations of the  people in this world.

To trust someone or something,  you must believe or rely on that person, or thing,  sometimes you find it difficult to act out both, it  is extremely difficult and can be possible at times,  especially , for someone who has developed trust issues.

The wise words of a relationship having trust or there is nothing in it, a truth in many cases.  However, it is unfortunate for many people who don’t realize the importance of honesty, and reliability, until it is too late.  Loved  ones are hurt the most, either purposely or not.

Some people agree that they can sense a lack of integrity in an individual, like there is a little voice telling them not to trust a specific person

If someone is dealing with trust issues that voice goes into a roar, everyone gets accused in this person’s life, without a valid basis for that of fear.

Cheating and getting divorced and hearing this from a friend, also the gossip of the incident for their personal gain. For whatever the reason,  the hurt can ruin ones life.

You no longer want to have relationships  nothing to you is good enough anymore from losing trust in a  particular person.

Start To Get Over Trust Issues

How can such an emotional violation be overcome?

Remembering it won’t be an easy process, if you are the one  fighting through the incident, you can be discouraged and feel re-injured.

When supporting one through the process you will feel anger and sadness.

To rebuild trust it will take much more time than tearing it down,  the ability to give the person the benefit of the doubt should be a first action taken.

A difficult situation as you need to release emotions which you have been holding on to for a while

You should remind yourself, the world is not out to get you, and  note that  n ot veryone wants to take advantage of your good nature.

Show care for those who have trust issues

Don’t push too hard, you will scare the person away, and don’t make them feel threatened.

Be a good listener not an active listener

Time  and experience will do the rest

If you have violated someone’s trust ask yourself if you are a trustworthy individual.

You may feel guilty,  or shameful, from the past incident, but don’t be hard on yourself, you can only be forgiven if you forgive yourself.

Another issue, if you are still involved with the person you hurt, be responsible for your actions, and practice honesty whenever  there  is an opportunity.

It usually takes a person a while to trust, and sometimes one will never trust again, you got to work hard to gain trust from the other person.

Dealing with Trust Issues

Professional help is available so don’t despair.  If you have been cheated on in the past and you are a cheater,  talk  therapy it is beneficial.

Discuss your feelings with someone, a family or friend, you will feel good and will have  new perspective of the picture.

There is no motivation to defend the trust violator, but  an insight can be provided by a  psychologist to go forward.

While I was searching what to write for my next article the word HONESTY came to my mind as we all know with times changing new scientific technologies being introduced every second day world over have we ever given it a thought that is it best to be honest to oneself and then to others ?
if we take out the average maybe a handful of people will pass the test of being honest to the core so much so that by being honest the said person can land into a hot soup if given a second chance no will be that honest that risking ones image /reputation can be put on the line.

But to come to think of it is it worth being honest in this wide wild world where lies are flying on ones head like a flock of birds does honesty pay you back in great feeling after you have faced the music / or due to your honesty your best friend/ lover/ spouse/ sibling gets into trouble because after being honest you will be sure to lose a relation for good because honesty is that knife which has razor sharp teeth which cuts good and deep within.

While I am at it a question arises in my mind “why don’t people be honest”?
There are people who just do not want to be honest at all because in order to be honest one has to be honest to oneself first and in order to do that you have to feel comfortable by being honest inside out by this I mean that one should feel at ease after being honest if you crib and grumble after being honest to oneself first and then to others there should be no guilt in being honest what is done is done and be proud of the consequences in the end.

A time will come when maybe you will not be liked by other on a large scale but do not feel lonely and never regret because of being honest nowadays being honest is a rare trait and trust me if you possess it you are a unique person all together sooner or later you will come to be by someone who appreciates the quality of being honest. In the field of honesty you also should be honest to the ones you love never hide what ever you do reveal the darkest of secret to one of your parent, never think about hiding from your lover spouse or fiancé the foundation of love is based on trust and honesty if even one pillar is missing the building of relationship is sure to fall down.

There may be hardships in being honest but never change oneself for the pleasure of others because what ever is fake is sold easy but never durable while what is real and pure is expensive but long lasting.  Its not difficult to be honest just make your motto to be honest rain come shine who appreciates this trait of yours will cling too you while others will avoid you and never want to be associated with you.

We all know that lies can and have ruined people’s lives. At times it’s hard for people to understand why people lie about certain things. No matter how honest we claim to be, we all have lied in our lives at some point or another. There are a variety of different things a person can lie about. It’s possible a partner or spouse could be lying about infidelity. A job applicant could lie on an application. A child lying to his or her parents about an incident at school is all too common. No matter how petty or severe a lie is, a lie is still a lie. There are times where we may want an honest opinion about something dear to us. How would you react if the answer you received was something you don’t want to hear? Can you really get angry or upset at someone for telling you the truth in that situation? I would think not.

We have all seen instances of a marriage or relationship where one or both of the parties were clearly being unfaithful. Some people notice and recognize all the signs and ignore them. They know deep down inside that something isn’t right, but they don’t want confirmation of the truth. Why is this the case in some instances? It’s simple, because they know the truth in that situation will hurt deeply. There is a saying that goes, “No news is good news”. Is that really the truth when it comes to personal matters? Whether a person agrees that we as humans are deserving of the truth or not, it’s no secret that the truth can cut like a knife in some instances. If we as a people say we want the truth, we have to be willing to accept the outcome, good or bad. Whether it’s for the better or worse, the truth always gives us a clear outlook. Yes it may not always be want we personally want, but KNOWING puts our minds at ease What do you think? Thanks for reading.