Cue the candy, the cards, the flowers, the chocolate — but wait, is that really what women want on Valentine’s Day? And how about men — are they just doing it to please us, or are they into the holiday hoopla, too? There’s no question that Valentine’s Day has become pressure-filled for both couples and singles alike, says Logan Levkoff, MS, a sexologist and relationship expert. “Those red heart and chocolate gift boxes do make us anxious to find romance—even when we’re content with being single.”

It’s an all-out scramble for Valentine’s Day plans — lest we feel like being the sole lame duck sitting home dateless on the national night of romance (thanks, Hallmark!). Single girls go out in groups; guys even meet up with friends for drinks to avoid the “solo on Valentine’s Day” stigma. But according to Levkoff, spending the night with pals is actually a healthy way for singles to respond to the pressure. “Hanging out with friends is always better than being on a date with someone you aren’t interested in,” she says.

Fair enough. But how do couples get sucked into the stress, as well, when they already have somebody special? For women, it’s simple: “We spend so much time taking care of everyone else’s needs. Valentine’s Day is the one day where we know it’s just about us,” says Levkoff. Plus, the real world is romance-starved; even basic common courtesy and chivalry can seem like endangered species in modern society. Many women are still raised on fairytales that lead us to believe that there are princes out there who are supposed to treat us like princesses, but most men aren’t exactly riding around on white horses ready to sweep us off our feet — even if they have already put a ring on our finger.

So, does that mean men dread Valentine’s Day? Far from it! “Some surveys are showing that men are making a bigger deal out of it these days. Think about it, it’s the one opportunity for them to be romantic and affectionate. Women understand that we don’t need one day to do that,” explains Levkoff. So — surprise! Most guys really do enjoy showering you with gifts and expressing their innermost emotions (but unfortunately many need a holiday to get it out of them).

So if you’re a woman who wants flowers on your desk and teddy bears at your door, you probably love Valentine’s Day, and your guy probably loves knowing exactly what to do to please you (if only for 24 hours!). But if money’s tight, the babysitter’s busy or you both just feel overwhelmed, remember: “It’s the little things that count,” says Levkoff. “Remember how we used to make mix tapes for our boyfriends or girlfriends when we were teens?” suggests Levkoff, “Imagine how delighted you would be if your guy took the time to make a CD or an iPod playlist just for you!” When it comes to pleasing him on Valentine’s Day, Levkoff firmly believes that what most men really want is a little extra kindness to reinforce your bond. “Men like thoughtful gifts, too” she says, “But of course, a little sex doesn’t hurt.”

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Here are some tips to help and avoid those situations.  The child who left home happy, ready for a new day to go to school, see friends, learn new things and challenge themselves to new opportunities does not return in the same mood or with the same attitude.  We have all had those days but as adults we can analyze then and deal with them, but children do not understand why they are feeling so blue and down and upset and angry.  If your child did not get enough sleep the night before school or a weekend activity, he or she will no doubt have a tough day at hand to deal with everyday routines and most likely will be in “meltdown mood.”

Set an after-school time line – Then stick to the routine. If your child knows exactly what to expect and knows the routine of the household, and when to expect it, he is less apt to be surprised and spout off.Keeping a consistent routine is also a key part of children learning boundaries and limits.

Get some food into him -immediately -  If your child is already exhausted no doubt he probably has low blood sugar adding to the mix of being tired and cranky.  This would be the perfect recipe for a disaster and meltdown, so make sure you prepare a small snack and a glass of milk as soon as possible to give him that much needed energy boost.  It does work wonders…

Defuse homework tantrums – Do not wait too long to do homework. Give your child a bite to eat, a little playtime, and then get right to it. If his tired brain can’t deal, calm him by saying you had to go through this as well when you were a child and then help him with the assignment as best as possible and perhaps breaking it down into segments. Make certain to give your child praise while doing his homework so that he is encouraged to continue on and make progress to the completion.

Tackle the tough stuff first -  Instead of spending an hour trying to get your kid to brush his teeth and put on pajamas and have him do it right after dinner; before any fun pre-bed activities and after his shower or bath time.

Do something really mellow right before bed

Try turning off the lights and making shadows on the wall with a flashlight. Reading a books in bed will also calm the child down and prepare him for sleep.  Many times children have favorite books and if your child has had a difficult day, grab that favorite book and share the reading together as it will be very soothing and makes for sweet dreams. 

It: The third-person singular personal pronoun used to refer to an inanimate object.

Irony: A statement that, when taken in context, may actually mean something different from, or the opposite of what is written literally; the use of words expressing something other than their literal intention, notably as a form of humor.

In: Contained by something.

Interesting: An intellectual curiosity.

Incest: Sexual relations between close relatives.

Infinity:Limitlessness, something which is growing without limits or bounds.

Incarnation: Embodied in flesh; given a bodily, especially a human, form; personified.

Insanity: Exhibiting unsoundness and disorder of the mind.

Implode: To collapse or burst inward violently.

Idea: A conception in the mind of something to be done.

Random fact about the letter “I”: The small dot on top of a lowercase “i” is called a tittle. The tittle first appeared in Latin manuscripts in the 11th century, to distinguish the letter i from strokes of nearby letters. Although originally a larger mark, it was reduced to a dot when Roman-style typefaces were introduced.

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I: First person singular pronoun, referring to the speaker

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George Washington and Simon Bolivar are both very unique people who greatly influenced the revolutions they where part of. One major effect on both of them was the pressure the Europeans pushed on them and forced them toward revolution. These two have many similarities, Bolivar even considered the South American George Washington. But with all similarities there are differences that can influences a person and how they revolt. Overall both where extremely important to the revolution they where part of.(1)

Like all revolutions the ones in the Americas had a spark that started it all. In Latin America Bolivar had been limited his entire life due to where he was born. This feeling was throughout he people of Latin America due to the social system the Europeans placed(4). This same limitation system was in the Colonies and was an overall dislike. Another factor that lead to the revolution for Latin America was the Napoleonic Wars that focused Euro powers to look homeward. For the Americas just a pure pressure and limitations the British put on them was enough to push them to the edge with some encouragement from people such a Thomas Paine. In America George Washington had a great impact by singly starting the French Indian war. The war forced Britain to buckle down on America and this didn’t hep the dislike toward them. Bolivar personally had control of the army and worked to start a revolution. Without these people the revolutions in the Americas might not have had the same effects.(2)

Washington and Bolivar had many similarities that showed how great mind think alike. With Bolivar being called the George Washington of South America then there is no need for explanation. Both leaders where born in the Americas, as well as had their parents die at a young age, leaving them to friend that were very wealthy.Well at a young age both became very well versed in the sport of horseback riding. Once the revolution started both found that they where leading the underdog army. With their army both fought for independence from their controlling power. Once the revolution was over both assumed the position of leader the very first of each of their country’s. As with all similarities there are differences, and these two where very different in some aspects.

Bolivar may be the Southern George Washington but that doesn’t mean he is the same in every way. One of the major differences was that Washington owned slaves and Bolivar didn’t. One thing that influenced Bolivar was that was taught in Europe well Washington never left the colonies.(3) Once the revolution had ended Washington was elected by the people to server as their leader while Bolivar wasn’t. After eight years Washington gives up power and is loved by the people. Bolivar on the other hand was forced into exile from his home country. Their differences my be what separates them but it truly binds them closer together as similar people.

Works Cited
1: “George Washington.” Supercomputing ‘94. Web. 08 Nov. 2011. <http://sc94.ameslab.gov/tour/gwash.html>.
2: “George Washington.” Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia. Web. 08 Nov. 2011. <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Washington>.
3: Hamre, Bonnie. “Simon Bolivar, El Libertador.” South America Travel Guide – Travel in South America. Web. 08 Nov. 2011. <http://gosouthamerica.about.com/cs/southamerica/a/VenBolivar.htm>.
4: “History of Simon Bolivar.” Welcome to Bolivar Missouri – Local Interests, Business, Schools, and News! Web. 08 Nov. 2011. <http://www.bolivarmo.com/history.htm>.

What if…

The world really were flat?

*What would happen? Would we not have enough space to live, what with the rapidly growing population?

You were never born?

*Where would your parents be? What would your friends be like? Would you siblings be any different?

North America was never found?

*What would happen? Would we still be subject to England’s rule?

The South won the Civil War?

*Would slaves still be around today? Who do you know that would not be alive because of it?

We had time machines?

What do you think you would go back and do? Would the world be changing every second, but we just don’t remember how it used to be?
Your favorite movie/book/series character came to life?

*Would you become best friends, worst enemies, how would life be? Would it change everything in your small town?

School didn’t exist?

*How uneducated would the youth, and adults, of america be?

Pollutants didn’t exist?

*What if we(humans) had never found, or invented things that were pollutants? How different would the world be, for both industrialism and for the earth?

Christmas was in the spring?

*What is Jesus was born in the spring? Would it be any different? What would happen to spring break? No more white christmasses?

everyone had superpowers?

*in your opinion, what would happen? If everyone’s super, then nobody is.

Number 10 – Xbox 360 with Kinect
The great thing about Xbox 360 and Kinect is that you are the controller! That’s what the new Xbox 360 with Kinect is providing the gamers with. The all new and revolutionary Kinect sensors transport the gamer into the television itself with your avatar doing exactly what you do in front of the sensors. And with Kinect Adventures bundle you’re sure to come across adventures that you always wished you could partake in.

Number 9 – 3D LCD/LED Televisions
This could well support the above gift or be a perfect standalone gift, if you have a big budget. Gaming like above can really come alive if played on a 3D television. Normal LCD/LED television and great, but for those who are in love with new technology this could be the ultimate gift. Sunday night football will be changed forever with this great gift, or any other action displayed on this great TV. It’s a fantastic gift to give to your family or to friends this Christmas season!

Number 8 – Amazon Kindle
 This gift will keep any bookworm entertained for many many hours. Whether you’re looking for a gift for your mom, wife, girlfriend, sister, your favorite aunt, or a friend who loves to read; Amazon kindle is the thing for you to give that is sure to make your loved ones happy. It can store up to 3500 eBooks and will please both casual and avid readers alike. Having 50% more contrast, the stuff in it can be read clearly in sunlight. No more annoying glare off the glass cover. Great gift for readers.

Number 7 – Espresso Coffee Machine
In the midst of the chill of the winter that runs during the Christmas season, and after being tired from setting all the decorations, guests & gifts handling; there’s nothing like a piping hot cup of fine espresso coffee to send your tired senses into a state of ecstasy and infuse back into you the spirit of the season. Gift an espresso coffee machine from a reputed brand to your near and dear ones and allow them them to savor every sip of that freshly brewed coffee without giving up on the excellent taste and quality and without having to run to Starbucks every time there’s a craving.

Number 6 – Sports/Concert Tickets
All will agree that the hectic schedule of festivity before and after Christmas can take a lot out of us. At this time, many of us wish to get away to spend some time doing things we love all year round (festivity or no festivity). And if at such a time, somebody gifts us with exactly what we’re wishing to do and get away from the routine of the season, the joy of the season is sure to get multiplied. Even if you can’t get away from the routine in a way you like, you surely aid your loved one in getting away with it: by gifting tickets of a sports event or concert that’s in town. It’s a gift whose memory will be cherished for a long time to come.

Number 5 – Golf Clubs
Christmas isn’t just for the young bloods with all the cravings for latest technologies. Sweetest pleasures are also derived from the simplest of things. The gift number 5 is exactly that: simplest pleasure derived out of just clubbing a golf ball into the hole with finesse while playing with your golf buddies. Yes, a set of golf clubs can make for the loveliest and most adored gift to your golfing father or uncle.

Number 4 – Clothes
Be it 30 years before or the present year, new clothes just can’t be out of demand or love. Doesn’t matter what month or season of the year it is, clothes are one of the most loved gifts to give and receive. You can either choose to take your loved one shopping or shop on your own and bring home the clothes neatly wrapped up as gifts. Although some people would prefer other items, getting clothes for Chirstmas is a great thing. We use clothing everyday to stay in style, and not to mention keep warm throughout winter.

Number 3 – Foot Massager
The gift number 3 will have the users release a sigh of relief and bless you every time they put their feet on it. Foot massagers from numerous brands are gaining a huge fan base among the gifting community. The Christmas season brings in a time of peace and solitude, away from daily traveling from home to office and back. It’s a time to relax and to let go of all the cares of non-festive routine. And foot massager is surely a way to go about, or shall we say – gift about. Not only these massagers are reasonably priced, the ease with which they drive the pain and stiffness out of the feet is remarkable. Just put your foot down for this gift and let the feet of your near and dear ones relax.

Number 2 – Pet
For those born with maternal instincts, there’s nothing more pleasurable than having to take care of someone. Keeping this in mind, gifting a pet is surely not a bad option. On the contrary, it will definitely be a gift that will be cherished with utmost love and care, reminding the recipient of the thought behind it. If you have someone in the family or friends who’s an animal lover and a caretaker by heart, a pet will make up as the best gift that they could’ve ever gotten. Added joy to the spirit of Christmas season!

Number 1 – Apple iPad 2
PCs and laptops are soon becoming things of the past. It’s the new generation of Tablet computing: the generation of Apple iPad. Loaded with extraordinary features, the new Apple iPad is smart computing right in your hands: thinner, lighter, and full of ideas. With 10 hour of battery backup, it’s even giving laptops and netbooks a run for their money. With dual core A5 chips (does twice the work at same time), it’s got superfast graphics, LED backlit display, Wi-Fi & 3G, two cameras front and back, multi-touch functionality, and whole lot more; no recipient of this gift from the present generation will be able to thank you as much he/she would like to.

Additionally telling people not to do things is oppressive, particularly if you do not offer them an optional thing to do.

I would rather say to people that they should try to pick free range eggs, rather than just telling them not to buy battery hen eggs. Instead of telling people not to shop at the big box stores and chain stores, it is better to suggest they shop at locally owned businesses or farmers markets.

Most people do not like being told what to do, but they really detest being told what not to do. If you think about being a parent you know that telling a kid not to do something is likely to only make them do it more just to get a reaction, it is far better to get them to stop doing something by offering them an alternative. The same goes for pet owners, yelling at the dog to stop chewing your shoes does not work but getting it to chew something else typically does even if only for a few minutes.

People do not like being told not to do things. They feel like their freedoms are limited. Instead:  Give them ideas of things they can do and they feel liberated.

The irony of me telling you not to do something such as telling people not to do something is not lost, but I temper it by offering another, better, way of getting your message across. If you have a point to get across I encourage you to change your message from one of negativity to one of positivity, instead of telling people what not to do, off them suggestions of what to do.

You know, I’m kind of genius, I’ve red and understood Nietzsche when i was 15! But on the other side, Graduation is not about ‘being genius’, it’s all about being ready and prepared. So, it can be little problem, cause I’m probably laziest person on the world! Every single day I struggle with procrastionation.. I’m even so lazy that I can’t force my big lazy butt to make me some food! Gob bless my girlfriend! I love her! She cooks me, she loves me. She is my only hope, to push me to learn something! I just want to make some money god damn it! I love money! I love sex! I love donuts! I have to make this enought long so I can publish it, cause I need money! You know, I can use the old good blah blah blah method, but I rather write down my own feeling and ideas, because I can train my english by this.. Guess what. I’m not natve speaker! Suprised? I guess you are!

A story about a kid who was aborted, but he lived.

“Happy Birthday? Hardly.”

Dagans

A boy named Dakota has to fight off monstrous dragon-rhinos called Dagans in a world he’s not used to. Loosely based off of a dream I had and the story of Samson.

“None of them were a pretty color like you hear about in fairy tales, either. They were all gray. Gray scales, gray skin, gray eyes. Ugly. Horrifying.
    Monstrous.”

If You Were the Last Person on Earth

A boy and a girl that would have NEVER dated under ordinary circumstances due to immaturity, the opinions of close friends, and numerous other deterrents find themselves stranded together somewhere and grow to appreciate each other more and more.

“It’s funny how much closer you feel to a person once you know what their snoring sounds like.”

37 Secrets I Can’t Tell [Name]

The diary of a hopeless romantic teenage girl. Obviously, she lists 37 secrets, some normal and some just plain odd, that she refuses to or is unable to tell the “love of her life”.

“17. Last year, I carved the words “I love you, Moron” into your desk. It’s still there. I checked.”

Schrodinger’s Box

The story of the Quote Book, and the lives behind the nicknames and innuendos.

As Junior would say, “You’re trying too hard!”

Second Chance

Reincarnation ftw. If I could be five again, with all the knowledge I have now, what would I do with it?

“Nap-time is when I do my people watching. Johnny picks his nose. Jessie rolls around so much that she never stays on her mat. She must be stressed about problems at home. Or on too much caffeine…”

Eyes With Pride

The epic tale of the mediocre marching band.

“One more time!”

If any of these sound appealing to you, let me know. Chances are, I’ll start trying to write one, give up, and write something else completely random like I did last year.