Socyberty » improve intimacy http://socyberty.com Sat, 02 Jun 2012 20:58:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 How to Improve Intimacy with Your Spouse http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse/ http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse/#comments Wed, 09 Mar 2011 09:30:57 +0000 H. Miller http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse/ Intimacy is a very important part of a marriage. Sadly enough, there are way too many couples who aren’t experiencing happiness in this area. So what should you do? How can you start experiencing the type of intimacy with your spouse that you once experienced win the marriage still had that new smell? Well the first thing you can do is start being open and honest with each other. If you are not sexual satisfied, you should communicate that with your spouse.

Please be aware that this is a very sensitive subject for everyone involved. You never, and I repeat NEVER, want to make your spouse feel inadequate in any way. And as my mother use to always tell us. Its not what you say, its how you say it. So although this is a very sensitive subject, you can still discuss it without driving a wedge between you and your spouse.

A simple way to do it is to purchase a book or even videos that provide new ideas that you can try in the bedroom. You and your spouse can read the book or watch the video together and get ideas. This is a very subtle way of bring up the subject. If there is something new you want to try, it is important that you tell your spouse.

Another thing you should do is start doing the things you did in the beginning of your relationship. It seems as though when couples get married they cut out all the date nights and walks in the park. So go back to what was working. For a woman, sex starts outside of the bedroom. The alone time, the talking and sharing makes her want to share herself with you. When you tell her that she is beautiful, that makes her want to open up to you.

When it boils down to it, communication is the key that unlocks the door to sexual satisfaction. Don’t be afraid to talk to your spouse about your desires or the new things you would like to try in the bedroom. Truth be told, your spouse is probably waiting for you to make that move. They probably want to have that talk but just don’t know where to start. So be the initiator.

If you need to, watch “In The bedroom” with Dr Laura Berman together so you can get information and ideas that can help you on your journey to sexual satisfaction.

For more tips and information on how you can improve intimacy with your spouse visit Amazing Sex 4 Couples.

]]> http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse/feed/ 0 How to Improve Intimacy with Your Spouse – Three Mistakes to Avoid http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid-2/ http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid-2/#comments Mon, 07 Feb 2011 08:26:09 +0000 H. Miller http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid-2/ There are many couples who have a desire to improve their intimacy. However, most of them never accomplish that goal. More often then not they end up making their experience less fulfilling then it already was. This usually happens because of 3 simple mistakes that couples seem to make over and over again. With this article I want to point out those mistakes and show you how to avoid them.

MISTAKE #1 – Not Taking The Time To Talk To Your Spouse About Sex

It amazes me how many couples avoid talking to their spouse about sex. If you are not fulfilled, it is important that you sit down and talk to your spouse about it. If you have an idea or you want to try something new in the bedroom, share it with your spouse.

Believe it or not, most of the time your spouse would LOVE to change things up a bit. But just like you, they are too afraid or too embarrassed to bring it up. And don’t worry, you don’t have to go overboard and pull out the whips and chains to spice up your sex life. Just try a new position or try having sex in a new location and you would be surprised how that will bring a new excitement to the moment.

MISTAKE #2 – Trying To Convince Your Spouse To Have Sex

This is such a bad idea and it hardly ever works. If your spouse it too tired or just doesn’t feel like having sex, you can either fall back or work a little magic to get them in the mood. You see, when you take the time to get your spouse sexually aroused, you will no longer have to try and convince them to have sex with you. They will gladly do it because they will be turned on just like you are.

So here is how you can arouse your spouse and get them in the mood. First up lets talk to the ladies. Ladies, if you want to get your man in the mood you should either go down on him or give him a really good hand job. The ideal time to do this is in the morning between 9 and 10. That is the time when his testosterone levels are very high so it will be easy to get him in the mood.

Now lets talk to the fellas. Its not as hard as you might think to get your wife in the mood for sex. All you need to do is take the time to kiss her. Not just any old kiss, but a nice, deep, passionate kiss. Women love to be kissed. So take your time and kiss her and caress her all over. Nibble on her ear and on her neck. She will love it and before you know it you will be having some great sex.

MISTAKE #3- Neglecting Foreplay

Married couples, especially the men, tend to skip over foreplay and head right into the intercourse. This is not a good idea. Foreplay is the key to improving intimacy and having mind blowing sex. Foreplay is a proven way to intensify orgasms for both men and women. So slow down. Spend more time kissing and touching each other.

Tease your partner in a playful way. Play a fun sex game. Just take your time. Don’t go too far. Build up the anticipation. When you do, the lovemaking will be very intense and exciting.

For more great tips and information about how you can improve intimacy with your spouse and start having better sex visit http://www.AmazingSex4Couples.info/blog

]]> http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid-2/feed/ 0 How to Improve Intimacy with Your Spouse – Three Mistakes to Avoid http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid/ http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid/#comments Mon, 07 Feb 2011 07:41:20 +0000 H. Miller http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid/ There are many couples who have a desire to improve their intimacy. However, most of them never accomplish that goal. More often then not they end up making their experience less fulfilling then it already was. This usually happens because of 3 simple mistakes that couples seem to make over and over again. With this article I want to point out those mistakes and show you how to avoid them.

MISTAKE #1 – Not Taking The Time To Talk To Your Spouse About Sex

It amazes me how many couples avoid talking to their spouse about sex. If you are not fulfilled, it is important that you sit down and talk to your spouse about it. If you have an idea or you want to try something new in the bedroom, share it with your spouse.

Believe it or not, most of the time your spouse would LOVE to change things up a bit. But just like you, they are too afraid or too embarrassed to bring it up. And don’t worry, you don’t have to go overboard and pull out the whips and chains to spice up your sex life. Just try a new position or try having sex in a new location and you would be surprised how that will bring a new excitement to the moment.

MISTAKE #2 – Trying To Convince Your Spouse To Have Sex

This is such a bad idea and it hardly ever works. If your spouse it too tired or just doesn’t feel like having sex, you can either fall back or work a little magic to get them in the mood. You see, when you take the time to get your spouse sexually aroused, you will no longer have to try and convince them to have sex with you. They will gladly do it because they will be turned on just like you are.

So here is how you can arouse your spouse and get them in the mood. First up lets talk to the ladies. Ladies, if you want to get your man in the mood you should either go down on him or give him a really good hand job. The ideal time to do this is in the morning between 9 and 10. That is the time when his testosterone levels are very high so it will be easy to get him in the mood.

Now lets talk to the fellas. Its not as hard as you might think to get your wife in the mood for sex. All you need to do is take the time to kiss her. Not just any old kiss, but a nice, deep, passionate kiss. Women love to be kissed. So take your time and kiss her and caress her all over. Nibble on her ear and on her neck. She will love it and before you know it you will be having some great sex.

<b>MISTAKE #3- Neglecting Foreplay</b>

Married couples, especially the men, tend to skip over foreplay and head right into the intercourse. This is not a good idea. Foreplay is the key to improving intimacy and having mind blowing sex. Foreplay is a proven way to intensify orgasms for both men and women. So slow down. Spend more time kissing and touching each other.

Tease your partner in a playful way. Play a fun sex game. Just take your time. Don’t go too far. Build up the anticipation. When you do, the lovemaking will be very intense and exciting.

For more great tips and information about how you can improve intimacy with your spouse and start having better sex visit http://www.AmazingSex4Couples.info/blog

]]> http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-improve-intimacy-with-your-spouse-three-mistakes-to-avoid/feed/ 0 Three Ways to Rekindle the Magic in Your Relationship http://socyberty.com/relationships/three-ways-to-rekindle-the-magic-in-your-relationship/ http://socyberty.com/relationships/three-ways-to-rekindle-the-magic-in-your-relationship/#comments Sun, 31 Aug 2008 14:49:08 +0000 H. Miller http://socyberty.com/relationships/three-ways-to-rekindle-the-magic-in-your-relationship/ Has your relationship become stale and boring? Are things just not as exciting as they use to be? Well guess what? You’re not alone. When you live with the same partner for a long time things can quickly become routine and very predictable. But don’t worry; it’s not as hard as you might think to bring the spark and excitement back into your relationship. Just open your mind and try a few of these tips.

Act like kids again 

When people settle into their adult lives they forget how much fun it was to be a kid. They become way too serious. Sometimes you just have to let it all go and act like a kid again. Go swing on the swings. Slide down the slide.  Play hide and go seek. Just have some fun. This will cause you to touch and flirt with each other. This type of interaction is good and will more than likely follow you into the bedroom.

Bring back childhood memories 

Contact your husband of wife’s family and ask if there is anything that they always wanted as a child.  Go out and get it, wrap it up all nice and present it to them. This will make your partner feel extremely special.  The fact that you took the time to find out something that they really wanted will touch their heart. You will get you a lot of brownie points and if you’re lucky some good loving later on that night.

Spice up things in the bedroom

One of the best ways to bring the magic back into your relationship is by spicing up your lovemaking. Try a new position. Make love in a different location.  Maybe in the kitchen or on the table in the living room.  Just do something different. Many people underestimate the power of good passionate lovemaking. Make having sex exciting again.  Having good passionate sex has a way of connecting people in a very meaningful, unexplainable way.

]]> http://socyberty.com/relationships/three-ways-to-rekindle-the-magic-in-your-relationship/feed/ 0 How to Find the G-spot http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-find-the-g-spot/ http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-find-the-g-spot/#comments Sun, 31 Aug 2008 09:31:27 +0000 H. Miller http://socyberty.com/sexuality/how-to-find-the-g-spot/ Did you know that there  are not one, not two, but several different types of orgasms a women can have?  I am sure you know that the ultimate orgasm for a woman is achieved when you reach her G-spot but the problem is that most men do not know how to find the G-spot.  So allow me to give you a little insight into where the G-spot is.

First let me clear something up. The G-spot is not a “spot” it is more of a zone.  Now, the zone or G-spot, whatever you prefer to call it, is located just about 2 inches or so inside the vagina on the underside of a woman’s stomach. (Or the topside of her vagina)

Once you have found it you will know it because it feels like a ribbed bump.  Place your tongue on the roof of your mouth right behind your teeth. You see how that feels? You feel the little ribs? That’s how the G-spot feels.

Now men, I know you’re not going to like this but the easiest way to help your woman orgasm is with your fingers.  Most women will need to have their clitoris stimulated before you stimulate their G-spot.  Keep in mind that the G-spot is a little different from the clitoris. So in most cases you will need to stroke the G-spot a little harder than you would stroke the clitoris.  Start by massaging it ever so lightly and then work your work up from there increasing the intensity as you go.

When stimulating the G-spot you will want to use the “come over here” motion with your fingers.

Now, I’m sure you are wondering what the best positions for ultimate G-spot stimulation are. I’m glad you asked. The first way is to have your lady lay on her back with you lying on the side of her.  Use your stronger arm to work your magic. This will give you easy access.  The second way is to have your woman sit doggy style while you sit and give her pleasure from behind.

Did you find this information useful? If so sign up  for our free eCourse “5 days to better sex” to learn more ways you can increase the pleasure in your bedroom. You will receive a special gift just for signing up.  You can also visit here to find more tips, articles and information about improving intimacy.

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