God has given us life, and He intends for us to live it to the full. But being able to do so depends on the choices we make everyday.

Allow me to offer a few ideas. This is just a partial list of things I have learned in my own lifetime:

1.      Smile And Say Thank You All The Time.

And smile while saying it. A “thank you” without a smile is like a gift without a wrapper. Sometimes the wrapper is more attractive than the gift. Any and all compliments can be handled by simply saying, “Why, thank you!”

2.      Be Happy With Who Are You.

Some people are working backstage, some are in the orchestra, some are on stage singing, some are in the audience as critics, and some are there to applaud. Know who and where you are.

3.      Stop Doing Business With Anyone Who Is Rude To The Waiters.

And while we are on the subject, I have warned my children never to marry anyone who is rude to the waiters, and who doesn’t like dogs and cats.

4.      Have The Courage And Humility To Say: “I Apologize” And “You Are Right.”

These are the most important words for maintaining vital relationships.

5.      People Change All The Time, So Change For The Better.

I have learned to live the fact that people do change. The People I used to respect , admire and love have turned against me and tried to hurt my family – and that is all right. I just have to make sure I turn out better and I never be like them.

6.      When You’ve Made Mistake, Make Amends Immediately.

It is not true that the wrong will work itself out. You need to repair damages.

7.      Learn to Pick Your Battles.

Ask yourself this crucial question. “Will this matter one year from now?. How about one month? One week? One day?”

Love God. Love your family. Be excellent at work, and be good to your friends.

You never know when you are going to need them to empty your bedpan.

Normally we may not want to bring attention to ourselves and when we do it can be embarrassing. Have you ever thought about doing something like this deliberately? It can be a great laugh doing something out of the social norms just to get the reaction of strangers, mostly to amuse of course, if they have such a sense of humor.

1) Though there are many people who do this already, talking loudly to oneself in public can have a grand effect. This is not to make fun of others who do this but only to amuse the perfect stranger. It can spread some laughs and laughter is the best medicine.

2) Hopping or jumping down the street can have a similar effect. To get very far you need to be in decent shape but you certainly don’t need to be an athlete to do so.

3) You can also simply greet someone as if you know them even if you don’t have a clue who they are. This can have a mixed reaction but if they don’t laugh, you probably will.

4) Start up karaoke without the backup music in a random place. This doesn’t work so well if you can actually sing but it can peak the corners of the lips on passing people if you can’t. You kind of need to shed your pride a little more for this one.

These are only four ways of amusing the perfect stranger. They work best if adults do them as many times we expect it of children. Believe it or not but by making these people laugh, you can also feel better. Even if they don’t laugh, chances are, you will anyway. Just don’t go too far with being in a person’s personal space… there are times that this really doesn’t end well!!

For more articles that can spread a few laughs, check out:

http://authspot.com/thoughts/the-best-way-to-make-someone-pee-themselves/

http://purpleslinky.com/humor/11-great-ways-to-make-someone-smile/

http://purpleslinky.com/humor/11-great-ways-to-annoy-someone/

For this movie, the author or TwisterNederland8 user on Youtube looked at over 1,700 videos, of which they chose the hottest:

This compilation is uploaded here because my main channel is having some issues right now. Until that is solved I will upload every new compilation video on this channel. If you follow my twitter of facebook you will eventually find the latest compilations.

The best fails of 2011 in one compilation. Over 12 minutes of fail and pain. Tried to make this video around 10 minutes but I took some videoclips to the knee. This is a personal selection of my own. Maybe I forgot to place some fails. Forgive me for it since I have watched 1727 videos to make this compilation. I hope you enjoy the video.

I do not know if you find it funny to you …. My opinion is that these are sitatii even finfioratoare .. and blows even stronger … awkward title of this video ..

Taylor was a freshman in college at Illinois State Universery. He wanted to be a Doctor. In his spare time, he would paint pictures.

“He was very strange.” His roomate stated. ” He would talk to himself and laugh for no reason.” His roomate went on.

“He would stand naked in front of the mirror for hours and stare at himself.” Another man in the dorm told police.

Taylor was also known to steal wigs from JCPenny, stand in the hallway naked and sniff his underwear.

He had a fetish for naked old women and he would paint pictures of them often.

He would stand in his umderwear and open and close his door for periods of time.

“It’s like the dude was in his own world. He could not communicate properly with other people at all.” Another student said.

Taylor was rushed to the morgue. His cremation is being planned.

 Also, these days a lot of communication is through the internet, but through the internet your unable to see the persons expression or body language. Therefore this will help when doing so.

Type of laugh: Normal/strange: When to use:

HEHEHEHEHEHEHE. Somewhat normal. When you are teasing someone and don’t want to offend them and to let them know you are joking.

HOHOHOHOHOHOHO. Strange. When it’s Christmas.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Very normal.  Generally, when you are joking or laughing at someone Else’s joke.

PPFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF! Both. When you are trying to to laugh but you can’t help it.

RSRSRSRSRSRSRSRS. Very strange. Don’t.

On March 11 2011 Japan was hit hard by an major Earthquake, Tsunami, and a series of aftershocks and thus the world is thrown into another feeding frenzy of fear and descents into COTMAD, Cause of The Moment Affective Disorder. Guess what people? Right now the people of Japan and those living there do not need us to get all crazy. They do not need our pity. They do need our compassion. Part of that compassion needs to be a generating of positive energy that can only be achieved by continuing on with our lives and enjoying all the good things that come our way. For example, if it is a nice day outside enjoy it guilt free and without reference to this tragedy.

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I am not suggesting by any means that we need to ignore what is going on in Japan. I, for one, can not as my son is stationed there at Yokosuka-shi where he is in The United States Navy. When I first heard about this earthquake I was concerned (really scared) and went to Facebook to see if my son was okay. I guess Facebook is of some good after all. He was okay and had posted a few things on there about the earthquakes. Where he is stationed was not affected as much by the Tsunami and his duties remain the same as before the tragedy.

Is he going off to help out with the clean up and find survivors? No he is not as the Navy has him doing something else very important. He is simply continuing in his job and living as before this happened as best as he can. If he was not then he would not being doing the job in the same manner as before this happened which is what he needs to be doing now. His job needs to be done even if a major tragedy happens. He is not one of the people who is rushing off to help the victims out as that has been assigned to others. He is simply doing his job as if nothing happened with acceptance that something did happen.

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Like my son we should all just keep on doing what we would normally do in life and part of that is just being happy when good things happen. By all means send Good Thoughts, Positive Energy, Prayers, and Material Support to those in need in Japan, but do not get so caught up in it all that you fail to do what needs to be done the most, which is to just keep on Living, Loving, and Laughing. Yes I know that sounds so trite and “Life Laugh Love” is plastered over millions of gift shop products world wide. In spite of that, tsunamis, and earthquakes Living, Laughing, and Loving still needs to be done. It needs to be done perhaps now more than ever.

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You might have come across that a smile is the most common language of all the races of this planet ( I am not sure about aliens, hope they also laugh). Laughing has got many benefits. A few of them are stated below:

1. Laughing releases endorphins (a neurochemical occurring naturally in the brain and having analgesic properties which has role in mood state) and that relieves stress and promotes a mental happiness.

2. It relieves anxiety and sorrow. In fact this also occurs due to the release of endorphins.

3. Laughing reduces depressions and helps in recovering psychosis Disorders.

4. It is a good exercise of face muscles and regular laughing keeps you looking young.

5. Modern research finding about laughing is very encouraging. It says that laughing increases our immune system by increasing the number of antibody-producing T-cells. It lowers the levels of at least four hormones which are associated with stress.

6. Most amazing finding about laughing is that laughing causes the inner walls of the arteries to expand which increases the blood flow and this effect lasts for 30-45 minutes. With laugh, the blood flow increases and the blood pressure rises; but when you stop laughing, blood pressure drops back to its baseline. This generates deeper breathing, which in turn sends more oxygenated blood through the body. This total effect helps in reducing the risk of heart attack.

7. Above everything, laughing helps us to remain emotionally healthy.

There are many more benefits of laughing. Dear friends, start the habit of laughing. It will keep you healthy, you will be accepted more in the society and you remain happy.

If you are interested, then you can have a glance on my article “How Much A Smile Can Pay?”

Mentally, whilst relaxing, imagine the type of person you would like to be with. See in your mind’s eye what they may look like, what colour hair, body shape, eye colour, how they would sound when they talk & laugh & any other physical trait that you can think of that would be your ideal soul mate!

Now picture the personality traits that you desire your perfect partner to possess, such as, their kindness towards you, there empathy, their consideration, the amount of physical & emotional love you would like to have from them & even the sexual aspect you would require for your relationship to run as you would like it.

Now picture yourself & your imagined partner ‘interacting together’ & having fun in a loving way, in any way you please. Feel this emotion of joy & keep this thought in your imagination any quiet moment you have to yourself.

How might this concept work you may ask? Your thoughts create a magnetic force & they will draw, or even repel, whatever it is you focus on towards you, or away from you. So the more you put your mental ability to use, in such a way, to attract your partner towards yourself, the better & quicker the results will be.

But be wary, the mind is a powerful receptor indeed, if you have not sorted out your past doings & in the back of your mind, you are not true to yourself, even if you don’t fully realize this, this will also manifest in your desired target relationship too, & you will also feel the repercussions later on so please read the information & practice the concepts from my other article first.

Let me know what you think. Please leave a comment. Thank you. Dale

But if you are stuck let me give you some ideas incorporating some tips which I sincerely hope you will find very effective & useful.

First & foremost, rule number 1: stay safe! If you are meeting someone new for the very first time, & you don’t know too much about this person let a friend or family member know where & when you are going & with whom you’re meeting with, or better still, let them covertly come on the date whereas they would not be discovered by your potential, & they could secretly keep their eyes on things.

1: In my point of view I would suggest meeting for your first Date in a safe environment where as there are plenty of other folk around, especially if you are meeting for the very first time. Obviously, this is for safety reasons & especially if safety is a big agenda on your cards & which it should be if you don’t really know too much about each other. This arrangement should cover the two of you so just make sure you stay safe.

2: Usually, the idea of meeting your potential Date is to give you both the opportunity to get to know each other. To see if your compatible & there is a mutual attraction, & want to take things to the next level of a relationship! So I would strongly recommend your first meeting at a quieter kind of environment. Yes I know I mentioned meeting where there are plenty of folk present but you can still go somewhere not too rowdy or loud, this way, you should be able to communicate comfortably without too much disturbance from loud music, loud noise or the like.

3: Then this begs the age old question of who should pay for what & when?

Well I believe your Dating arrangement isn’t about spending copious amounts of money trying to impress your Date because He or She should want to get to know you as a person, & not your money making abilities! This rule should strongly apply, especially on your first Date. If you decide to splash your cash right up front & spoil your Date then he or she decides they don’t want to see you ever again this means you may have overspent because your intentions were maybe to meet them again.

PLUS you may even give out the wrong impression. If you start this right now, then you continue dating each other it may become expected that you should always pay for things, remember, a relationship is all about sharing, & this should strongly also apply to your first date.

When you are free with your cash, you must be made of money! Well, in the eyes of your Date anyway. But will this make you more attractive you may ask? Maybe, or maybe not. Are you trying to buy their affection with cash? It is best to keep your wallet or purse opened only slightly if you intend to spend a little cash on your first Dating experience.

But don’t get me wrong, if you want to spend money as such, & this is the way you operate there is nothing wrong with this at all, the choice is always yours to make & this article is just a pointer offering advice to the majority..

Now, I know guys to follow this very rule & they usually like to meet whereas they can buy a few teas or coffees & have a chat or maybe choose a quiet pub with cost price food on the menu or even do some activity such as walking through their local town centre taking in the sites & stopping for a snack with their potential date etc; but on asking some ladies their opinion some of them still have the old fashioned adage that a guy should spend more or less, quite highly, on the first date. I also know of ladies who splash out & spoil guys on the first date to become later disappointed because things never worked out between them both. My advice is, don’t do it, spend small, & choose to get to know the person through talking, not buying! Don’t give them the wrong impression because maybe their intentions are more money motivated than ‘attraction for you’ motivated.

Unless you are made of money of course, & your intention is to overspend & spoil your Date but for the majority of folk wanting to get to know each other’s personality money shouldn’t come into the equation of creating self induced attraction of ‘buying your date.’.

Let me know what you think? Do you agree or disagree with my points of view?

But all in all, happy Dating Folks!

2.) Smile a lot- Smiling makes you seem more approachable, as long as you don’t do it alone, in a creepy way.  Plus smiling actually makes you happier subconsciously.

3.) Pretend you will never see these people again- Your confidence will show if you don’t take your conversations too seriously.  Being open and goofy, as long as it’s not gotten to the point of downright creepiness, will be appreciated in the right setting.

4.) Don’t apologize too much- If you say something that you think might have been weird, don’t apologize or get awkward.  Just move on and act as though it didn’t happen.  Only apologize if you think you may have offended someone.

5.) Don’t talk about your own kids too much- Your kids fascinate you but they don’t fascinate anyone else.  Don’t talk about your daughter’s preschool graduation unless it involves a truly hilarious story.